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What makes a loser?


Question Posted Thursday January 25 2007, 8:50 pm

I would just like to know what are traits you personally think make a person a loser?

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eternitysofbliss answered Friday January 26 2007, 6:07 pm:
a "loser" comes from the insecurity of another person admiting onto another.

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kiran answered Friday January 26 2007, 3:47 pm:
What I think a loser is when you think you are terrible and think that you can't do anything and also thinks nothing about their future. And when someone fall and won't get back up. And if someone calls you a loser and you believe them it makes you one.

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caramella answered Friday January 26 2007, 4:01 am:
In my opinion what makes a loser is if he doesnt care about his or her future,like he fails school knowing hes gonna end up unsuccessfull and still doesnt care.A loser aslo talks alot about his dreams and takes no actions in making them come true.A loser does things before thinking about the consenquences or does things he knows will get him in trouble and doesnt care.A loser is influenced by peers when they offer him drugs or has sex because everyone eles does.A loser does things that he doesnt like JUST to be accepted by others.A loser never stands his ground or defends himself from bullies but picks on the little kids.Most of all a loser is someone that has it in his hands to have a great future but doesnt do anything to build on it!

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rick505 answered Thursday January 25 2007, 10:04 pm:
This is really cliche but loser is an internal thing. Just because someone calls you a loser doesn;t make it so unless you believe them.

Loser is a sefl-esteem issue.

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more_than_a_feeling answered Thursday January 25 2007, 10:03 pm:
Creepy, spends most of their time playing video games or watching TV, hardly leaves the house.

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Brandi_S answered Thursday January 25 2007, 9:59 pm:
I think what makes a person a loser is when:

They try to pretend to be something or somebody they aren't.

They are followers in order to pretend as stated above.

They are disrespectful/inconsiderate of others and their feelings.

They are disrespectful/inconsiderate of themselves.

They believe peer pressure is a good thing.

They belittle others in order to feel better about themselves or to feel empowerment over others.

They think they are above others.

This list can go on forever.

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KisaKiss19 answered Thursday January 25 2007, 9:58 pm:
none. i guess being a "loser" is defined by the people around you,no matter how cruel it is. i guess the label it generally quiet,shy,smart,big glasses,zits,snorts,and you know what? thats just from movies. its not even real. and now a days,everyones a loser. hah, i call it to my friends sometimes,when they act so rediculous. a "loser" might be a hated person. or a person with no friends,i tihnk thats really sad. people are bitches,to kick someone while they're down,especially if they did nothing to you. ugh. hah anyways a losers=friends. no,to me,to but i dont understand,if there are no losers(label) how could there be traits to it?

-stuck up
-jerky
-fake
-brand named
-puppet
-betrayer.
that makes a total "loser" in my world.
wow im really mixed up today. sorry if i gave you the wrong advice,well i tryed (;. good luck!

xkisakissx

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