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Okay, my friend...Let's call her Jill, is really in love with this guy...Let's call him Jack. She's liked him since 6th grade. Well, Jill is one of my best friends and Jack, he's in my 2nd period and hes been flirting with me alot the past few months, and i'm sorry to say I've flirted back.
Well, this morning, he gave me a note and explained to me that he liked me. And then I heard him talking to his friend about me.
I really like this guy and I want to go out with him but I still want to be friends with Jill.
-I know that I should talk to her about it, and everyones telling me that if she's a good friend she'll support Jack and I's relationship, but i know deep down that there will be some sort of awkwardness around Jill.
So the question here is: How can I have a relationship with Jack, without ruining my friendship with Jill?
ahh..the ol' love triangle. t ell jack you just want to be friends with him, and tell jill that he said he liked you but you dont want to do anything to hurt jill. anyways, do you think the relationship b/w jack and jill is gonna work out? i mean he has feelings for you and its gonna hurt him if you tell him you dont wanna be friends with him. just tell him that jill likes him, but not for him to tell neone!! no no lieing is bad. but just remember...jack and jill::went up the hill. but then........they came tumbling down.
how symbolic.
Alright, I was up at a skating rink I always go to and I was skating, I saw this guy who was skating backwards. Im one of those who just doesnt let a guy get to me. For some out of the blue reason, he started talkin to me. I was so stunned by him, thers no way anyone could understand how shocked I was to see him. I didnt even know him. So about a week later hes down here again at this rink. We talk and I find out hes from Brewton, AL. Its only about 50 min. away from Milton. Im a Sophmore and hes a Senior, theres something about him that strikes me (in a good way) We start goin out about half a month later, Things were so good between me and him for weeks and I liked him a lot, I even lost my virginity to him. I dont why but I coudlnt resist him. It felt like something told me it was okay, so weeks later Im starting to feel like he doesnt like me, because hes not comeing down to see me. (Plus he had a good reason he had wrecked his car a couple weeks back because he was driving home from my house at like 3 in the morning and hit a deer.) For three weeks I keep my calm, and listen to his reasons for not comeing.. Finally on the 4th week I call him for 3 days in a row.. not getting an answer, I finally leave a message. Saying that " We cant be together and I dont think its gonna work and that if he wants to talk give me a call" A week goes by and I decide to call him, We talk and I ask him why he never returned my call.. he says he was too mad that I had ended it. I asked him if thats the way he wanted things to be, he sed "No,not at the time, but it would have ended that way eventually" Thats about all was said.. So here it is a month later. And my friend sees him down at Opps Alley a place down here close to Milton, She talks to him about us breaking up, and if thats what he wants. He tells her no,but now it doesnt matter anymore. I really have feelings for this guy, and he doesnt know it. I know, that to call him wouldnt make a difference, because its just not gonna work. But I think about it and what if Im suppose to call him? If something wasnt meant for me and him at all..Why'd God put him there that one night at the skating rink,when he lives miles away? And why was it me he noticed, and what made me notice him ? You think theres was anything there..or am I just tryin to make myself believe something might actually be between us ? And before you answer I've had lots of quick relationships,except for 1 that lasted about 6 months. So Im not falling for him cause hes like my first boyfriend or nothing, I've had experience.
forget him, a guy that acts like that isnt worth your time. i know, ive gotten the same exact saying from someone, it was "i didnt end it, i belive you did, my dear". it made me very angry and sad, and it was some time last year and im still having a hard time getting over it. but those people are in my past now. just end your relationship with him before you become even more hurt. good luck.
I rate high....
Well me and this guy are friends I like him and stuff well he wants to go to the movies this weekend but my mom said I cant date until im 17. I told her its just as friends but she still says no. Just because she iddnt start dating until she was 17 doesnt mean she had to do that to me. What should I do? I really realllly wanna go with him.
tell her youre going tro a friends house or your taking your dog camping or something. jsut call your best friend and tell her to have her mom (if her mom is cool) tell your mom that you guys are there, and if your mom wants to talk to you just have her mom tell your mom you guys went out to eat, or whatever. wow that confused me. okay well anyways just lie to her!! first try getting her to let you go and then say "Fine il just sit at my friends house all day and watch movies with HER since you wont let me go and see a movie at the TTHEATRE!!" wow that was gay and wont help. sorry about the bad advice, all i can say is make sure whatever you tell her..is...good?? i dont know..does he drive? you can sneak out or something. good luck.
For once I dont have alot of hw but my little bro can't say the same. He has a month worths of hw (that is already overdue) to do in one night! He has to read 10 books and do 4 book reports! (Did I mention he's 6 and easily destracted!)I have until 8:00 and my dad says he'll take me to
the library. But he gets home at like 6:30!!!!!
HELP ME OUT HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I NEED ANSWERS FAST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I RATE YOU 5 AS LONG AS U GIVE ME USEFUL INFO!!
go do some of his homework!!!!!!and slap him if he doesnt listen to you..im serious thats what i do. make up the book reports if you have to, try looking on sparknotes or whatever its called. good luck with the..homework.
My friend has gone crazy! We used to be really close. Then, we got in a fight because she thought I was "copying" her (whatever that means" but about a month later, she called to apologize to me and said that "she was stupid" and blah blah blah. Whatever. Well, a month after that, (a couple weeks ago) we were talking on te internet (MSN messanger) and I said, "I have to go because my mom is taking me to KOHL's because they have a sale and I need another pair of pants." She got mad because SHE shops there and now, she thinks I'm copying her. I want to be her friend but what's a friend if you can't trust her? There's no point for friendship if it is going to work out that way! I need to know if I should just apologize for something that is totally stupid and pointless, or wait for her to calm down and call me so she can realize how dumb she's been? I have no earthly idea what has gotten into her. Like, we used to go shopping together for matching clothes and shoes but I never thought it bothered her. It never bothered me when she did something exactly like me! And yes, she has done many things like me just to be like me. We called each other all these REALLY mean names but I don't want to be her friend if I can't even go to the same store as her! By the way, she informed me about that store and it was on T.V but their clothes are really expensive but they are so adorable. By the way, I'm 13 years old and I rate 5's to whoever on this earth can help me! What should I do???
thats fucking gay. youre friend needs to grow up, although i myself get pretty angry when someone copies off me. its stupid but its just the way i am. you should try writing her a note!!!!!! because you can put alot of stuff into it and tell her everything n crap. anyways i dont think the both of you are really the great friends that you said u were before, because a friend wouldnt do that. tell her to put herself in your situation. also, ask her what the fuck she says to the some 900000 shoppers that buy clothes from there. just because she goes there doesnt mean you cant so just tell her to fucking grow up and get over that. i have no idea why you want to be friends with someone like that.
ok..well i have been dating my boyfriend for about 2 months and all we have done is hugged and held hands and talk on the phone 24/7...i really wanna kiss him!!....i just get really nervous!!...I dont know y ive kissed a lot of guys but i dont know y im so nervous with him...i love him more than anything!...what can make me not so scared???...
wel wait til hes ungrounded ..like you said, and since you only see him in school, of youre badass then skip some classes with him and go somewhere like the bathroom or somewhere to make out. if you dont feel comfortable youre not ready yet. its scary sometimes, i know....maybe try talking about it to him. or sneak out and go out drinking with him and then you both can make out or possible have sex!!!!!!!or not. okay well just start slow, like hugging and cuddling n shit, then slowly move to kissin. its akward the first time but youl feel really happy you did it because that way you wont have to worry about making the first move or being nervous. you can always try saying "honey, do you still love me" i mean you never want to kiss me and i was just wondering if youre still..interested in me" lol or something work off of that.good luck in your relationship!
my sister and i have always gotten along great...until last week when she came home...shes 21 & im 14 btw..anyways, she became the first to find out about some "not so good" stuff ive been doing and told me i had to tell mom..I DONT WANNA! she said if i by next week shes going to!im so mad @ her! PLEASE HELP! i dont want my mom knowing and i dont want to loose the awesome relationship w/ my sister either!
Omg that sounds like exactly what happened btw me, my sister and my mmom, same things happening and like (almost) same age diference. okay well...shes your sister..and your moms your mom. well...duh. if theyre really the great poeple you say, then they'll understand. they might get mad, but after that theyl do anything to help. and make sure when youre talking to your mom you say things like i love you, i came to you because___, im sorry, i want you to trust me, etc. make a list, lol thats what i did. but i didnt even use the list because..well...i forgot. eh..good luck to ya kid.
Alright,lets start out wit that I have a b/f back where I used to live and I go back there each weekend to see muh friends and him. We have only been together for like 3 weeks but yeah..Anyways, Theres this guy that I used to have some really strong feelings for like in middle school up until like 9th grade and then I moved so I never spoken or seen him so the feelings kinda faded. So last weekend me and 2 of muh friend go to 7*11 n him and 2 friend come in and ask if we wanna drink wit them. SO lata we all get together and ride around and drink and me and him were in the back of the van and I was layin on his lap and we kept lookin at eachother in the eyes for a long time and he kissed me finally after a while..and we juss did a lil makin out and he kiised muh neck..and he said WoW I cant believe it took us this long to hangout. He said this b/c we always have wanted to but are friend werent the same and all that stuff. So yeah we I guess u can say hooked up.But the thing is earlier that night muh "friend" said she was gonna talk to him aout whats up wit me n him and well when she was wit him she kissed him n shit..and i found that out earlier and called him and asked what the was bout and he told me..But my friend is always doin shit like that and always kissin up on guys that DO NOT WANT HER..shes nasty and a whore..SERIOUSLY!!! So im confused b/c I mean that was I guess weird for both of us and when they dropped us off I landed on the drive way and started cryin my eyes out. I waited for that moment FOREVER and I got it..but all those feelings came running back AND I cheated on someone for the FIRST TIME! I juss dont know whats up..I wanna chill wit him again but I dont wanna come off so forward to him and act like im obsessed or somethin cuz I was like that in middle school and I dont wanna be that Kinda person.I dont know how he feels bout it or even if he does..but hes a guy soo yeah know how that goes. I know I have a b/f but muh feelings arent strong like this to him as they are to the other guy.I dont know how to get by wit this or talk to him bout it or anything..I need all the adivce I can get. NOt negative advice but some good stuff..THANKYOU! PLEASE GET BACK TO ME SOON!!
ash~
if you want to be wit this guy make sure he wants to be with you, because it seems to me that he just likes to kiss people, since he also kissed your friend. also, think about it for a long time and make sure hes the right guy that you want. maybe the kiss didnt mean anything to him, for all you know he just thinks your friends with benefits, or whatever. maybe hes just a player. sorry im not too good on this one, i didnt understand well cuz i kept gettin confused!but thats just me. okay anywho tell your whore friend that she should go fuck herself if she likes fooling around, or just tell her how you feel or whatnot. just sit and think and think and sit..yeah good luck to you. -cOnnie
ok I am a 16/f and there is this kid that I am close to being able to say like I love him but not quite. And I introduced my cousin to him, which was a big mistake. Because shes now dating him or whatever, which is total bullshit. Because she knows what was going on between him and I and how I felt. I confronted her about some shit but she just doesn't understand and doesn't see what shes done she thinks shes miss innocent does no wrong. What do I do? The guy was one of my best friends on top of it and now doesn't even call me anymore, like its all screwed up. Can someone help me please I would really appreciate it. Thanks
hmmmm........tell her how you feel..in a note.
my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me
just do everything else besides sex then.
My xboyfriend just asked me out and told me he loves me still and it was very stupid of him to break up with me. i've found some one else, his best friend, but i dont want to hurt him.
tell him its not a good idea, but do it gently...write him a note or somehing, and ask yourself whyd u guys break up last time?? just tell him you dont wanna change..or maybe even ruin the friendship you guys have now. or something like that.
ohkay, my boyfriend, Chris tried making out with me but then i pulled back. He said he's planning on doing it again. But i love him so much and i feel so bad, so i plan on making the move, so guys, how would you want a girl to "make the move"?
get into the mood lol, just sit and cuddle for a while i guess, or try at the movies, thats always a place for everyone. hehe. just give him the look and do what feels right, just kiss him! hell be so happy that youre making out that he wont realize what "move" you made!! making out is fun (and gross) so good luck!!
HELP!im 14/f..here it goes..in like october i started kinda fooling around with an eating disorder but didnt really realize i was. since then ive collapsed twice..im really getting scard somethings really wrong with me bc of this! my sister knows & she thinks i told my mom and that im all good now. i feel guilty that im basicly lying to my sister when she asks me how its going and im scard ive done some kinda permanent damage to my body! i really dont want to be known as that girl with an eating disorder but its hard not to be!
tell them, its the best thing you can do. first it might be the anger of you lieing but then after that things will get better because theyll be helping you and finding ways for you to get better!!hopeiHelp.
-cOnnie
ok im new to this here, but i am getting frustrated with getting only crap for advice. im 24 and i dont really have much of a drive. i mean i have my times but you might as well put it on the calander, its not that often. anyway my bf- fiance thinks that hes not doing it for me, but i tell him its cuz he beats me to it. when i am in the mood its great, and even when im not, he still makes it wonderful. i dont know what to do.. please i need real people to help with this.
first get reeeeely hornie by like watching porn or reading something, or have him touch you- whoo hoo!! just do things to get you stimilated first! good luck and dont lose the passion!
I've had my cat for about ten years now, and lately my parents have said she has been acting strange. This morning I saw her eating out of a Chinese food bag that had been in the garbage, so I calmly said "no", and threw it away. Then I tried to pet her and she moved away. I tried a few more times, she kept walking away. She wouldn't come sit on my lap, though she did come when I moved wiggled my fingers. But she doesn't like it when I touch her at all. We think it's just because she's very old, but we can't really take her to the vet because we don't have a lot of money. However, my parents are thinking about putting her down soon because we don't want to see her in pain and my mother said that she was considering taking her to the vet to see what was wrong. What is wrong with her? Is it really just that she's old? What should I do? (Besides going to the vet, I mean) Thanks a lot : )
lol i think i love your cat. Ookay anywho, if you sense and/or feel that something is wrong with your kitty, take her to the vet! i mean, its better to take something to the vet and find out theyres nothing wrong then to not take it to the vet and have it be in pain!! spend time with it, maybe the chinese food made her sick or something. good luck!!!!
im 13/f and ive had my period since january. im a 34a cup and my boobs are kinda pointy, like underneath theyrnt rounded yet cuz im still growing and i may not be fully developed until im 17 because my whole family has really big boobs. my question is, will guys be weirded out if they see ur boobs an they rnt fully developed yet, or should i wait to show anyone them until im fully developed? d guys still think they're hot, or wil they only be sexy if theyre rounded?
thanx
knala
dont matter...as long as their boobs. guys love boobs in all different shapes and sizes....big small round little pointy inverted square..etc. good luck with teh pointiness.
ok i was on vacation at this place my grandparents take us to with all our family, sorta like a camp, and i was singing at the dance one night, and it was sorta like the kick off of the weekend, and they were gonna pay me 200 dollars for each song depending on how good i did, and i really needed the money because my grandmother wanted a new camper, and i wanted to help out. but my x boyfriend showed up in the middle of my song and i choked and skipped a few notes when i saw him, because i really did still love him and we broke up because we moved. anyway i told the person that sold us the camper i would have the 600 dollars the next day, and since i choked i came up 100 dollars short, and i dont wanna tell my grandmother because i feel as if i let her down, and i dont want her to think i did. i dont know how to get the other 100 dollars.
shes grammy, shel understand. just tell her you did it cuz you love her. or if ur bad just steal teh money, but i recomend talking it out. ps good job on the kareeyokie thing!
i suffer from Acid reflux and irritable bowel and im only 13..i take prilosec for my reflux and fiber for my irritable bowel..my question is if i eat something like pizza which i havent had pizza in almost a year..will it hurt? cause i get indigestion soo freekin bad and feels like a heartattack...i have lost about 30lbs because i hardly eat anything..and i feel kind of weak..i eat alot of meat and stuff but no greasy, spicy, or fried stuff...another question is..is it possible that i could go annerexic if i hardly eat anything?
i used to have acid reflux and it SUCKED! i had it both in my stomach and my throat. it hurt really bad, i couldnt drink pop or anything with caffiene and i couldnt hardly eat anything but like...sandwiches haha. okay well eventually itl go away like i did. i think the medicine will help you from hurting if you eat pizza. you could eventually go anorexic if you dont eat anyything for a really long time like 7 months or whatnot, just if youre going to eat something like that its good to eat bread cuz it absorbs the acid or whatever. you could have a snack like that once in a while but only have a little. be patient though, your acid reflux could go away anytime soon! i dont know about teh bowel thing though. good things come to those who wait! good luck, dear.
i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
a lot of people have teh same question. look at how it was 30 years ago, there was no half naked girls shakin their asses in videos or kids havin sex before they even hit puberty! kids these days do it to either be cool, for pleasure, or fear of being rejected. media also has a big role in it too, all songs are ever about anymore is sex and on tv, too. umm, condoms help prevent babies but not std's though, and i think thats scary. i think its great that youre still a virgin because its one of those things you cant change, and when you do have sex youl be happy you waited. but yeah i hope theyre smart enough to wear some sort of protection. good luck to you and your abstinince!
im having the worst problem..ok me n my bf well we had sex and i mean i love him with my whole entire heart and we went out for a year and hes my world..and well im not tryin to be mean at all here but he got with this extremely ugly girl thats like 5 inches taller than him..and he tells her all this stuff and they had sex on vday and shes denyin it all and i mean atleast he had enough man in him that he could tell me bout her n all this and i forgave him and now hes telln me he still loves me and he wants me back and i just never thought id ever forgive him but i have no idea what to do i mean today he came over and we messed around which i shouldnt have and his other girl has no idea ..but shes always with other guys too and he just doesnt care and he still likes her but he tells me he loves me and i mean i know its kinda like well hes just wantin some more but its just not like that and i have no clue what to do and im not easy its just that i think im so inlove with him. just i want someone elses advice on this ..im 14 female
i dont think its a good idea for you to be messing around and worring about these people, you should just tell him you dont want to be friends or anything with him anymore so you dont have to deal with this stuff. get a new boyfriend, but this time try not to make the mistakes you did with the guy in your story. btw the story was confusing bc it said that you and your bf had sex and now ur bf is going out with a ugly girl?? do you mean your ex boyfriend? okay well anywho long story short, enough with the guy. hope this helps somehow~