A couple weeks ago I posted how my brother was spying on my room from his closet and i didn't know what to do. Since I posted this alot has happened. I tried to close the hole with a poster. A few days later, I walked into my room and it was pitch black (the lights were off and the shades were closed) except for a thin beam of light coming from my brother's clost through the well disguised hole my brother put in the poster. That's when I decided to do something. I wrote him a note telling him I know about the hole and he better stop. I wrote that I don't want to discuss it with him ever and that if he doesn't stop, I'll tell our dad. I put up a different poster, and the little perv did it again. He put a hole in it. I was so pissed, I showed my dad. Sure enough my dad, after hearing my brother's "side of it" (he tried to deny knowing anything but the chair and he tissues sorta gave it away) did what I knew he would do. He made my brother strip naked and then beat the crap out of him with his belt. He didn't just hit his bottom. My brother kept moving around and the belt hit him in his belly and even "down there" a few times. My brother shrieked and screamed so much he lost his voice and he's still hoarse. This all happened on a Friday night so by Monday he was able to go to school, but he was in alot of pain. A teacher saw him walking really funny and asked him what happened and my brother told her the whole story. The school called the police and my dad was arrested for child abuse. He's out of the house. My mom and brother blame me for everything. He told my mom about me having guys over, and now my mom thinks I'm a whore. I don't know what's worse, being spied on or this..
Oh wow. sounds like a lot to deal with. For your mother to turn against you like this is actually pretty bad. For your brother, its understandable. He needs to know that it is his fault all of this happened because if he didnt act like such a perv this wouldn't have happened. Your dad is pretty harsh with punishment and I think this is something he has to deal with, there's nothing you can do. For now, just make sure you stop sneaking guys into the house and make sure your brother doesn't peak at you again. Next time theres a hole, spray perfume in it lol. okay dont do that but still. try to get him to stop.
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Which episode is it where Sailor moon and Tuxedo Mask find out about theit identities?
Like Tuxedo Mask finds out Sailor moon is Sarina
Sailor moon finds out tuxedo Mask is Darian
Thanks(:
It's Episode 30. A Crystal Clear Destiny.
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15/f
It's really annoying me how my parents seem to think of me as a little girl.
In certain ways they don't - they know that I drink and do drugs and party, they let me stay out as late as I want to and I can go practically anywhere I want, but the way they speak to me is like I'm a little girl.
Also, certain things they do make me think the same thing. For example, the other night, my grandad gave me a lift to the train station, but I had missed the train and my friends had all left. So I was waiting for the next train. My mum called and was like, "Why did your grandad not stay with you? It's late at night and it's dark and cold and you're just a little girl!" I had to remind her that I'm 15.
Then today my dad was passing by the library so I asked him to grab me some books he thought I'd like, and most of them are shallow girly books about kissing aimed at 12-year-olds.
Also today, my mum actually said she still thinks of me as a little girl.
It's really annoying, how can I show them that I'm mature?
New: you cant expect for someone NOT to assume stuff about you like that when most people dont drink and do drugs "for fun."
Um, being 15 and doing all of those things is probably why your parents are treating you like a little girl. Trust me, once you're past 15, you'd think most 15 year old girls are young. When I was 15, i thought i was so old and mature, that once i grew past that, I say to myself, "what was I thinking?" you're in a rebellious stage right now. Why dont you try talking to your parents about the way you feel? Honestly, if you don't tell them they would never know and they would never stop. Or maybe they are just trying to teach you a lesson not to drink and do drugs at 15. That right there is no where near being mature. Sorry to say. Drugs and alchohol are for people that can't face their problems because they are not "mature" for someone to take on their issues themselves.
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What's a good free photo shopping program? I really want to be a photographer and I need a good photo shop program. Thanks!
picnik.com is pretty good.
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Ok, Im a sixteen year old male.
Me and my girl friend decided it would be romantic to lose our virginity on valentines day- I don't want any lectures about underage sex and what not. We did use a condom.
But she has been complaining about her chest and lower stomach hurting...I'm not wanting to think about it but could she be pregnant? There wasn't a break in the condom so I have no idea...
But I really hope not, I'm not saying that to be mean...But my parents told me if this happened I would be kicked out of my house...HELP.
Nah, she's probably not pregnant. It's the side effects of her first time. And yeah, I understand the pressure it puts on yor for living in your house. That must really suck. In any case, tell her to monitor herself for her periods. If anything is of concern to her, she should seek a doctor immediately.
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Can anyone tell me how to tell if a guy friend is a boyfriend or just a friend? Or...if he's neither or a little bit of both, what do you call that?
A guy friend is a guy you can hang out with without having feelings for one another. In this case, you dont constantantly think about them like you would with a boyfriend but they have a similar appeal to a friend that's a girl.
A boyfriend on the other hand is a guy who knows much more about you than a guyfriend. Both of you share a special relationship that you do not share with anyone of your other friends. You know how to keep each other in good company as well.
I guess one that you would say is both is a friends with benefits type of situation.
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so my younger sister never spends any time (out of school) with her friends. she is in 8th grade, and i would think that at least some girls her age are hanging out on weekends, i mean i remember having sleepovers with my friends when i was that age. anyways, i was wondering if this was normal? the last time she did anything with her friends was when she went to the movies one time in the summer...
she's not in fights with any of them either...
That's totally normal because I'm kind of the same way. One doesn't need to constantly hang out with people to show that she has good friends, its normal. Some girls would rather hang out in school. They probably have much more in common there than anywhere else.
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What is one major conflict that happens in the book, I cant rememberrrrrr !
Conflict of Bella's love for Jacob over Bella's love for Edward. :D
bestest book of the series!
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back in december, me and my boyfriend ray broke up. it was totally my fault. i got really really fucked up. i ended up cheating on him with one of his old friends. i felt so bad i had to tell him. he says that we can still be friends cause we were best friends before we started dating. but then he tells everyone else he hates me and shit. im ok with that, i understand how he feels. i would be the same way. he talks so much shit about me. but i understand. i was going to break up with him anyway but i wasnt in the right. well ray has this friend nick, whose been one of my boys for a while. well me and nick have been hanging out for a little bit and i am really starting to get feelings for him. and he's the same way. but idk what to do because of ray. if he ever found out he would flip. and nick doesnt want to ruin his friendship with ray.
Well, I'm assuming if you're over Ray then I don't see why you have to hide your relationship from him. He needs to be understanding that you two aren't in a relationship anymore. If you're truly sincere about your apology for cheating on him and he still doesn't want to talk to you, then that's his loss, hun. Follow your heart and do what you think is right!
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Okay...
Basically I'm 18 & have been in a 2 year relationship with my partner.
I DO NOT want any advice saying ''Your not old enough, Your not ready etc etc.''
Because in my eyes, your never ready to become a parent until it happens.
We have decided we would like a child, I'm coming on 19, and I have very supportive and some what well off parents who would be there for me in any situation.
What I am actually asking for is some advice and some signs of pregnancy, coming from someone who has experienced it.
I have joined up to a website that tells me basic dates that are best for falling pregnant, according to my menstrual period, however is there any particular things that may ''encourage'' pregnancy??
Sorry if this is too graphic but..
I had sexual intercourse with my partner on 25th/26th & 27th (today) December, and on the 25th I felt something almost instantly, and that feeling I have carried with me for the last 2 days, its like a heavy feeling in my stomach, and like a constant bloated feeling, is this my mind playing tricks because I'm so desperate for a baby?? Or is it a tell tale sign??
I don't think my chances of falling pregnant just at the minute are very high because I only stopped taking the pill 3 days ago, however I had forgotten to take it here and there beforehand, so the chances of me being completely protected are very little.
I haven't ever felt this heavy bloated feeling (along with the weird pains and noises) before ...
Can anyone help me and suggest things to encourage and recognise pregnancy?
Thank You!
Well, if you're sure you are able enough to handle a child and the baby's surrounding is secure then hey, go ahead! Personally I feel you should wait and get a career going but I'm not here to answer that question. I have read some articles on the internet regarding your question and I saw that it is infact kind of hard to get pregnant especally when you want to. Why don't you consult a doctor? They would tell your when your chances of fertility are best and tell them about your signs too. I think your mind is playing tricks on you because you're nervous about the situation. [not in a bad way though]
Summarized, talk to a clinical doctor. A walk-in clinic :]
They'll keep your infornation private.
Hope your pregnancy goes safe and well :] and hope the baby is as cute as ever.
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so, i, like many people my age, must get out of my hometown for college. i've lived here all of my life and it is a lovely place, really, but quite frankly i'm getting restless and a little claustrophobic in a city that is literally half my cousins and that anything exciting rarely happens in. not that big of a problem, if one at all. this has been a dream all my life. i live in the southwest and i'm dying to go to the East coast, particularly NYC or Boston. i know it will be difficult and expensive, but this is what i've always wanted to do.
well, lately, my family (again, half the city) has taken it upon themselves to outline everything wrong with my dreams. EVERYTHING. starting with the fact that i am much too soft and not "street smart" enough for NYC. i am also, it turns out, too sickly to go anywhere, going to be discriminated against (i'm hispanic)and just "trying to move far away from" my mom, sister, dad, grandparents, everyone involved in this major guilt trip. it hasn't helped that most of my friends with big city dreams like me have changed their plans to all going to the same in state school.
i have tried to talk to them, to explain m dream and and my reasonings, etc. etc. but they don't seem to hear me. how do i get through and fulfill this dream without leaving behind resentment in those who supported me before? help!
It is going to be hard for you to make your decision. You must decipher whether your family's happiness means more than yours because surely one day, they all aren't going to be around. Then what? Will you lament because you listened to them? If that is the life you want and you're sure you can handle it, you should definitely go for it. Your family needs to take the time to get to know you better, know your hopes, goals, and dreams. They are being protective of you, incase you haven't noticed. You need to show them that you're strong by proving to them that you can make decisions for yourself. Before all of that, you must first ask youself if you're well adept to handle that life away from your family and friends. Of course you are going to feel homesick but make sure you are well prepared to make that transition.
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I want to buy nair - is it effective "down there" ? thanks
On the bottle, it says not to use it for that because it will cause discomfort. Trust me, I know of a girl who tried that. Plus if the hair is too thick, it wont work. Sorry dear. :[
Try getting it waxed, I read about it somewhere. Shaving is the best though.
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I'm going to try very hard to exsplain this clearly. I have always been sort of a loner and I've never had many friends. I have been out of High School for almost 5 years now. Even nowadays whenever I see pictures of someone I went to High School with I still think to myself "She's so much prettier than me, I'm not good enough to be friends with that person, or I'm not even worth her/his time to even talk too." I think to myself...I'm just a loner, I'm fat, I'm ugly, and I'm just not cool enough or my all time thinking He/She will be quick to judge me. At times I've tried to build my confidence to talk to someone however once I spot a second of awkwardness I think to myself "Omg, I choked they don't like me...or I feel like such an outsider" Ugh, It's got to be so bad I don't even want to socialize and I'm turning into a Hermit.
Please Help
Hm... well I wasn't much of a loner but I do know of some girls that kept to themselves a lot because of them being so self conscious. You should keep talking to people but try not to think of yourself as being awkward around them. Just mind what you say and do not be offensive. Just be yourself, you'll surely find someone out there that will accept you for who you are. Try getting a complete makeover in a way that would make you feel more confident about your looks. Just do not cover up too much with make up. The more natural one looks, the better and surely more attractive. Socialization is a part of a person's self-building. You should be around, in your years of college. Try talking to a few more people and try NOT to think negative about yourself. If they ask to meet you again, then you know your chat with them was successsful :] Hope that helped!
Let me know how it works out, I'm interested!
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Is it ok to be a virgin at an age of 17?
It's completely fine. Why shouldn't it be? I know lots of girls who are virgins and they are in their 20's. As long as you are comfortable with your life, it is completely okay. :D
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17/f-- I have acne on my shoulders and chest. What are some products that you have tried that worked? There dosn't seem to be as many prodcuts for body acne than face acne, and they are not really advertised, so I have no idea what to go for. I use Neutrogena for my face and it really works, Its not perfect but its a big improvement, so I tried the Neutrogena body acne wash, and it helped only a little bit. But its normal to have a little acne on your face (for a teenager), plus you can cover that with makeup, but the amount I have on my shoulders is embarrasing. Plus on my face, I have like small pimples/blackheads, but on my chest it is like fairly large pimples which is just discusting. So, what products?? (besides Neutrogena- tried it.)
.. it depends if your skin is oily cuz that's the situation with me. try using a mask. proactiv has a refining mask, just order that and place it on the pimples over night they will become smaller and keep applying it after your shower and soon they will disappear! trust me, it workss.
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my boyfriend broke up with me bc he said im 2 down on my self he was like were done. he also said i put 2 much emotional baggage on him.. i am rlly saddd.. but is it right for a guy to break up bc of me being too down on myself..im really sad
If you made him feel down and depressed then I can see why he would break up with you in the relationship. Honestly speaking, relationships are supposed to make each partner happy. If one partner feels even more distressed before the relationship, the thing they turn to is release from the stress.. which is, your boyfriend breaking up with you. Let's say you were a "happy" person and not too much worries in life, would you want your boyfriend always bringing down your day. I think you should work on your depression before getting into other relationships. If you need advice on your depression issues, you can contact me.
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new aim
i had the old aim then updated it too the new aim and all of a sudden it says "connection failed" i just had it working untill i downloaded the new version. i already tried to restart my computer, what should i do?
i had the same problem. Check your computer clock. If its the wrong date and time, it wont work, trust me. If that's not the problem, you may need to report it to the AOL company.
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im so stressed out, first off. last year i went through extreme depression, and i got grounded, so i was captive in my house. if anyone has been depressed, when youcant do anything its hell. This year, i am better.. but, my mom all the sudden has been up my ass. She doesnt let me go out, do anything, where ever i go she wants to talk to parents, drop me off, i cant drive.. im 17. All my friends go out, her best friends kids go out, im very mature for my age... and my boyfriend goes to parties, and hes 18 and i dont wanna hold him back i mean hes allowed to, but my mom is nuts, it makes me depressed, wanna fuckin do shit to myself when im upset sitting home everyone is out. I dont get it either, my brother went out at 17 had parties at my house... im very mature for my age, have college friends, i have 2 jobs, i have 90 grades. i do everything for myself pay for everything.. what should i do?
Your mom is scared to let you out of your "cage" again because I'm guessing she fears that it will happen to you again. She might feel that if you stay at home, you cannot possibly get into trouble anywhere else. She's trying to be extra careful with you because she doesn't want anything bad happening to you. After all, you're her daughter and I'm sure she loves you. I know you're missing out on social time with your friends and it does hurt to know that you social life is injured. You see, it depends on what got you depressed that's holding your mom back from "a life." Getting to know the parents of your friends, isn't a bad thing, really. It can actually make you and your friend closer because your parents have instilled a trust in each other. Talk to your mom and tell her how you feel. Try not to yell. Show her you're mature when you're talking to her and she will take you serious. Hope I've helped.. even a little :]
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I feel so sad, sometimes I am in bed and I just start crying. I feel like the only thing I have to look forward to is my boyfriend. My dad left us a year ago and now he still tries to contact me and come back but I don't need no more drama in my life its best if he stays away! My sister is moving out. Me and my mom are not financially stable. I hate my job. I am trying to apply to school but there are some things in my way. I need to know how to fix this feeling. How do i wake up and feel good. I wake up with no motivation, no happiness. I wake up and I think "Great I have to go to work again and I wont be seeing my bf for another 3 days" What do I do, please help me I don't want to feel depressed!
I know how you feel because my friend is going through something similar to your situation and being a close friend its hard to see her like this. In school, she would have crying spasms and seperate herself from the rest of the crowd. Her boyfriend was one of the only things she found to be a comfort in her life. The reason why you feel you have to look forward to your boyfriend is that he's the only one there that can comfort you throughout a time like this. You don't have a strong parental figure in your life. Maybe you should try to seek a counselor who can actively help you. School is definitely something you should be thinking about. You cannot get a stable job without an education. There are a lot of questions I wish I could ask you when dealing with this. Is it possible for you to reconnect with your dad? Maybe it might help you feel a little better knowing that you have a father figure to look up to. But see, I don't know what happened between you two. Get rid of the things in your way to start school. You'll meet new people and get different perspectives from them. Hope I've somewhat helped. I'm open if you'd like to share more. I'd be glad to give you further advice.
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If Krishna is black, (black/the dark one, usually painted with dark blue or black skin, made from a black hair) why then does he support the mistreatment and opression of the sudras (blacks in india)? I know the rig veda is supposed to be one of the oldest books of hinduism, but there are many verses that support the killing of black/dark skinned people...i understand that this may have been a part of their culture at the time...but if krishna came out of this...and he is black, why would he hate or think low of his own kind? There are scriptures in some books that say killing on of the sudras is nothing more than killing a little bird or a frog...How can a religion that promotes enlightenment and peace with people, promote the opression and disrespect of another race? Would someone with some real facts and experience please explain this to me. I came accross this info in my studies of buddhism and the history of india and things like that...Thank you.
What you should do is ask a respected Priest [pundit], a very knowlegable one. I don't think you're going to find an answer here. Personally, I feel that when they said Krishna opressed dark skinned people, I think they meant demons. Most demonds depicted were dark in color.
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