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I have 3 friends, REALLLY good friends, and we all go to the same skool and in the same class. were besties. anyway, those 3 friends live pretty close to each other, and i live a little farther away, so they r always doing things without me (shopping, movies, hanging out ect.) and leaving me out. I know theyre not doing it on purpouse, but it still REALLY hurts becuase they talk about it infront of my face. Ive tried to talk to them about it, but they just get REALLY mad. what should i do?
I know exactly what you're talking about. I have a group of friends, there's five of us, and we all go to the same school, except I don't live in the same town, I live about 20 minutes away. I used to get really jealous when they'd all hang out. But, I turned the situation around. When they were all hanging out together and I couldn't get a ride or whatever, I would invite someone else to hang out. Just some random friend that maybe I normally wouldn't hang out with. We'd catch a movie, or they'd stay the night. It turned out well, because you end up with a lot of friends, and you have something to talk about when your friend are talking about what they did together. It shows them that you don't NEED them.
Plus, assuming that you don't have your drivers license yet, Trust me, It will get better when you get one. I've had mine for 4 months, and now I can always be included, since I have a way of getting there. =)
ok.to put pictures as a caption underneath your other pictures you use < img src = url > yes.i understand that but my url doesnt fit in the url space towards where i have enough room to put the code < img src = > im so confused.
You have to make you URL smaller. You could host your pictures on Tiny Pic, those urls are always small. If you would rather do photobucket (which is what I use), you need to make the url smaller. That probably means you need to rename your Picture. Just click edit, and a new screen will pop up with the picture and all of its info, where it lets you change your picture name. I use numbers. Like one picture name will be 34. That will shorten you URL a lot. If you need more help or dont understand how to do this, let me know, and I can try and explain it more.
Good luck!
Hi, well, I guess I'll start off with that I'm 16 years old and a junior in high school. There's this boy who told me about two months ago that he liked me. Two weeks later, he asked me out and I agreed. The relationship had only lasted a week because he sensed that I wasn't very open with him and almost scared to be in a relationship. Even after it ended, we both still had feelings for each other but just remained friends. Last month, during our homecoming dance, it was very obvious he wanted to get back with me and my friends have even told me that he was trying to kiss me. And since then, I haven't shown any hints that I wanted to get back with him because I am a very shy person when it comes to boys. Yesterday there had been a party we were both invited to. We talked, as usual, but towards the end of the party as he was about to leave, he got up from his seat next to me and hugged one other girl he had shown up with and told her, "I'll talk to you later, like online or something." Of course, this hurt me and got my mind working overtime. Am I overreacting? I know I can't stop him from liking other girls, but I don't want him to think that I don't mind getting back with him. I really want to know what his feelings for me are at this point, but I know because of my shyness there is no chance I'm able to ask him myself. But I've been kicking myself around to be more comfortable about him and I'm slowly making progess. Sooo.. my question is: What's the best why I can find out what his feelings are for me (considering I'm shy)? And how can I send subtle hints that I am still interested in him? Sorry for this long post, I'm pretty bad at this sort of stuff :/ Much thanks!
Well. I really think, since you already know he likes you, that you should just tell him. You can't be rejected, since you know how he feels.
But if you can't do that, than maybe get your friends to drop hints to him. Have one of them say- "So do you still like *your name*? You know, she really likes you, she's just really shy"
When you two do talk about your relationship, whether he or you bring it up, you need to explain to him that you do really like him, but its hard for you to open up because you're shy, but you will work on it, you just need some time. He will understand, but you really do need to work on opening up, or it will never work.
Good Luck!
ok, so i've been into rock lately, and i have a lot of rock songs right now, but i was wondering if there's any really really good rock songs that ya'll like. what i'm looking for the most are the songs that aren't all that famous, but are still "good quality". i'm mostly into punk, emo, alternative, and a little of gothic. i'm open to hearing everything. i would really love it if you can give me songs and their artists, if you can.
These are all artists:
10 Years
30 Seconds to mars*
311
A Perfect Circle
A Static Lullaby
Acceptance**
AFI
Aiden
Alexisonfire
All American Rejects
Amber Pacific
Anberlin
And Then I Turned Seven
Angels and Airwaves
Arctic Monkeys
Atreyu
Augustana*
Avenged Sevenfold
The Blood Brothers
Boys Like Girls**
Brand New**
Breaking Benjamin
Cartel
Coheed and Cambria*
Crossfade
Cute is what we aim for*
Daphne Loves Derby
Dashboard Confessional
Emery
Fall Out Boy
Family Force 5
Flyleaf*
From First To Last
Goo Goo Dolls**
Greeley Estates
Halifax
Hellogoodbye
Hinder
Hot Hot Heat
Incubus
Jacks Mannequin
Kids In The Way
Lacuna Coil
Lorene Drive
LoveHateHero
Mae*
Mindless Self Indulgence
My Chemical Romance
Norma Jean
Pink Spiders**
Plain White Ts**
Postal Service
Red Hot Chilli Peppers**
Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
Rise Against
Rock Kills Kid
Saosin*
Say Anything
Scary Kids Scaring Kids
Secondhand Serenade
Senses Fail
Shinedown
The Shins*
Shiny Toy Guns
Showbread
Snow Patrol**
Spill Canvas**
Stone Sour
Sublime
Sugarcult
Taking Back Sunday**
Thursday
Underoath
Unwritten Law
Yeah Yeah Yeahs
2 stars for my absolute favorites, 1 for good, but not quite as good as the two stars. The stared ones are mostly alternative. Good luck!
I was thinking about getting a digital camera for my boyfriend for christmas but i'm not sure what kind to get, do you have any ideas on what ones are good?? Thanks!
Sony Cybershot. They come in many different models that range in price. I've had 2 different cybershots, and they were both really good.
I have to tell you guys something. It's really frigging important. If you see a guy around and think he's hot (or even hott, whatever the fuck that means), you don't love him. If you talk to a girl and think shes way pretty and you had fleeting thoughts of marrying her, you don't love her. Even if you want to date her. Trust me on this. And if you've been going out with a boy for a month, unless you know him in and out, acknowledge his faults (that means accept them and know that they're faults and love him anyway, not saying "well gee, he's so cute that they aren't faults lol"), would willingly and happily die for them, you are not in love. If you'd rather fall asleep in his arms than have sex. If you want the absolute best for them, even if that best doesn't include you. If you'd rather get a soft, innocent peck on the lips than full frontal snogging, partially naked, and if you'd rather slow dance than screw, you're getting there. Lots of other crap too.
The word love is far too overused these days. Back in my day (seriously!), "I love you" was something to be cherished, not something you say three days into the relationship.
For example, I love Nevada. I would gladly die for it. In Heaven (or Hell, wherever I go) I would have no regrets. The faults I acknowledge are some of the residents and the city of Las Vegas. (I'm only half kidding) I'd battle for it and show the scars proudly. (I would also rather sleep with it than have sex with it, but that's because, well, you know. cactus. sharp rocks. mountains. coyotes.) If for some reason, Nevada would be better off without short fat chicks, I'd move to Wyoming or some Nevada-like state in a heartbeat. I'd even move to Maine if I had to.
But anyway. Crush =/= love. Like =/=love. Infatuation =/= love.
Anyone else irritated by this?
Amen, sister.
No one really knows what true love is anymore. That's why we have such a high divorce rate. "love" is thrown around so much that it's lost a lot of its meaning. It's not fair. I agree with you 100 percent.
In english class we are reading Macbeth and our teacher gave us this assignment to draw pictures of two of the charaters and list 3 words that capture the character's personality. I chose the King and the Captain but am having a hard time with the 3 words does anyone know of some i can put down?? Thanks!
By the king, do you mean duncan? If so you can put down Benevolent, Trusting, and Virtuous. I don't really remember about the capitan (even though my class is reading it right now too lol)
Good luck =)
I didn't know what subject to put this under so yeah. I have to go to the ob-gyn and i shave already down there but I don't know if i should shave or not before I go to see her. I don't want to look stupid or for her to be like eww you're hairy or dang you shaved too much. I know she's mature about it and won't say anything, but I don't want her to be thinking this.
No matter what you do, I promise she's seen much, much worse. It's really up to you. Do what you want, it honestly doesn't matter to her.
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16/f
well me and my mom were talking yesterday and shes like i think i might know something else to get you for christmas! and im like what? and shes like have you ever heard of the CHI straightener? and im like yea the one that costs like $200. i heard its suppose to be good but for anyone that uses it does it really work good or what because i will feel bad to have her like spend so much and have me not like it!! well thank you.
Yes, they work really good, but unless you have horribly uncooperative hair, you can get away with a cheaper one. Ask your hair stylist (if you have one) for suggestions. This website also has a lot of information on hair straighteners. You can also order directly from that site if you want to. http://www.folica.com/flat_irons.htm
=)
Well, for starters, I'm a freshman in high school (15/f). I like this guy in one of my classes, and he's really nice and we talk and all, but my problem is that he's a junior. I'm not worried about him using me or anything bad like that. I just don't know if he would consider going out with a freshman. Should I still go for him, or give up before I start? I'm probably going to go for him anyway, I just wanted to see what others think.
Older guys and younger girls is more common (at my school anyways) than dating someone your own age. 2 years is not a big deal. Go for it!
Does anyone know any rap song (english) that isn't inapropreate and has no swearing? I need it by tommorrow
Ooh Ahh by grits or Here we go by Grits. Actually, All of their stuff is clean, those are just the best songs. Anything by prodigal is clean too. =)
Hey well I'm 14/f and in drama class, we have to pick a character that we want to be and have to act it out. It can be any character from young pregnant teens to psycho-mental people, and even to little, annoying girls! It can be anything, so can you guys PLEASE give me ideas??? Thanks :)
Emo kid, airhead prep, dumb jock, gangster kid, mother in law from hell, Adult who tries to be cool and use slang, little kid throwing a temper tantrum, typical woman on one of those "whose your baby daddy" episodes of maury, insanely strict teacher, someone who is afraid to breathe air, typical girl off of laguna beach (kind of like airhead prep), umm... I'll stop there, thats just to give you an idea. Good luck!
me and my boyfriend play this game where he asks a question then i ask a question and we keep going. it can be about anything like about our relationship, sexual stuff, or about each other in general. weve asked each other so much im running out of questions. any good ideas?
What's your earliest memory?
Whats the best present you've ever gotten?
What kind of shampoo do you use?
How do you feel about president bush?
How many pairs of boxers do you own?
What was your first grade teacher like?
What song makes you think of me and why?
When was the last time you cried?
What do you want to be?
What college do you want to go to?
How many kids do you want?
What do you want to name them?
Whats your favorite kool aid flavor?
Do you like ice cream or popsicles better?
What was your first screen name?
Who was your first best friend?
Any questions like those. Throw some random silly ones in every once in awhile. They don't all have to be serious =)
do they sell ipod videos in different colors like pink, green, and blue? can you buy them on ebay?
No, the videos don't.
The nano's do though.
You can probably get any ipod there is on ebay.
Hey all! I try to wear nice clothes, but I always feel like a two-by four dressed up like a person. I have no shape whatsoever. It's not like I'm anorexic or anything, I'm just skinny. Its not an option to go out and buy a lot of expensive clothes right now... how can I look a little more shapely without going broke?
Usually magazines such as Seventeen, teen people, and cosmo girl have great articles about this. Look around in those, you don't even have to buy them, go to you local supermarket or walmart and look around in them.
Some tips-
Layer your tops to add dimension while still showing off your shape.
Slip on a poufy skirt- it will gife the illlusion of curvier hips.
Wear boot cut pants, Skinny jeans make you look thinner.
Carry a small handbag, which will look perfect against your small frame.
(those came straight from the november issue of Seventeen)
Good luck =)
Does anyone know when "The Illusionist" will come out on DVD (release date)?
January 9, 2007 =)
this is for a project. what music videos take place in a hospital?
Like a surgeon- Weird al
Toy Soldiers- Eminem
Stupid Girl- Pink
Hi, im 15 years old and i want to start becoming sexually active. I know im ready and everything, but im just very self concious about my vagina.
My clitoris looks very weird to me, one side is
bigger than the other. Is there something wrong?
How can i make them even?
Thankyou so much.
As long as there's no pain and It's always been that way, you should be fine. Don't be self concious, seriously. That's a small detail, and no one else will even notice. You'll be fine =)
i am a 13/f im bout 5 ft 5in and 175lbs. is this really bad....???
Well. Your BMI(body mass index) is 29.1. That is considered overweight. 29.9 is considered obese, so if you gain about 5 more pounds, you will be considered obese. So, It probably wouldn't hurt your health to lose a few pounds. You may not look bad, but for your health, you should weigh less. 149 pounds is the highest weight for your height that is considered "normal". You may not need to lose that much though, But you should probably talk to your doctor about a plan that will help you take off a few pounds to keep you healthy =)
http://www.nhlbisupport.com/bmi/
^^BMI calculator
Is it normal when your trying to take your tampon out at first adn it feels like it's stuck & won't come out?
Yes. You have to use some force when you are taking them out, because they form to the shape of your body, so it'll be a tight squeeze. Don't be afraid to pull =)