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ok so this girl we will call her k. k has this friend lets call her H and H's bf lets call him J. k thinks J is useing H to get in H's pants and beacause she has a nice butt. but H thinks K is jeolus of her and J. J was k's first but H says he wasnt when he was, so k still has feelings for J but J dont like K any more so K is heart broken and as if not haveing J was enough her best friend H was dateing J and rubbing J in K's face on the bus by higging and kissing J in front of her so K is crying and H is happy. so will somone plz give K advice?
ok i think i got this H was trying to make K jealous by showing off with J....and K dont want H to get hurt and H wont listen to K and thinks she's jealous of her and J...well I say K should forget about because H wont listen and girls should out friends in front of boyfriends..and H shouldnt have been going out with J in the first place...not inless H isnt a true friend to K...in that case i dk
im not sure if that was right, can you please re state that all please with less confussion and put it in my inbox and ill try and re answer that
Is it wrong to cry if your dog died and you've known her since you were a toddler? My friends would think it's silly, and when you think about it, it kind of is. Does anybody else think it's silly?
OMG no! your dog is like ur best friend to u, who u can tell anything to and know she wont say anything lol! but anyways the dog i have no i had since 99 and i know when i lose her im gonna feel like my whole life has changed bc she is soo gr8...so no its not silly, just remember she is past God's Gates now and she knows shes still loved on earth
-God Bless-
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How can i convince my mom to let me go over my boyfriends house? Im 14 and hes 16 i guess she somewhat doesnt approve of that. Its imbarresing for him to come here because I live in a small apartment and my mom would have to sit with us omg that would be so bad. I dont kow why but even if he was my age she still wouldnt let me go over a guys house.Does she not trust me?
she most likely doesnt trust him. im 14 n so is my guy friend...and my guy friend asked me to come over to hang out one night, who she knows and she kept asking if his mom was gonna b there bc she doesnt trust him though he goes to a private school and i go to a public one...i know its kind of an embrassing, but like most mom's its hard to lose their little baby girl...i know its something that takes along time to approve on...just give her some time n she'll let you
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okay my best friend has this guy friend and i like him and she likes him...err i really dont kno what to do...i mean i dont think she will get mad at me if i asked him out...even though deep down inside i think that she will...what should i do should i ask him out or should i not...im so confused.
ok here...boyfriends come and go....but friends always last longer then boyfriends...if ur a good friend to her then u should make the call over what to do...i rather lose a boy then my best friend
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i just got a car so i am about to get a job because now that i have a car, i seem to have no money....
does anyone know any good jobs that pays well with flexible hours because i also have school. I have experience being a cashier at a restuarant. There is a lot of stuff around here, but does anyone have any suggestions?
try wal*mart, my sister goes to school and she needs to pay for her car so she works night hours from like 5-10PM.
How do you get rid of styes in your eye? I have one in each eye right now and they hurt so bad and it hurts to blink. You can't see them but they hurt like heck. How do you get rid of them and what are they? How do they form and what are some ways to prevent them?? Thanks.
i had them be4, wut u do is make some tea and then put the warm tea bag on your eye and it should be gone in a few days. dont worry it works if it isnt gone by a week or 2 i suggest you to the doctor.
EDIT: wtf is with the 4? it should be more like a 5 @least i was honest not like some ppl, i have had them be4 and they she be gone in a few days, if not you should go to the doctor. I had to go then it turned out to be pink eye instead of a sty but suit ur self.
I need the font French Script MT. Does anyone know of a place where I can get it free?
try searching around on google for free fronts? i know that wasnt the best sry.
my mom is sick n its getting really bad n shes in the hospital...
ive been told by my sundai school teacher to keep on praying no matter wut n its been a long time since i started n...nothings happening...
im getting really impatient n starting to think that God doesnt love me.
wut should i do?
^$SiCknSaD$^
like many say God DOES love you and everyone else in this world. Just keep praying thats all. My friend just recently lost his father marking 2 weeks from 2morrow. I know it could be hard to lose someone you love. Everyone loses their parents sooner or l8r, I wish it would just be the l8r part not the sooner part of life. If she happens to pass, I'll tell you I told my friend, She's proud of you and she loves you very much. If she does happen to pass, just remember to keep her more proud and happy in heaven then down on earth. She'll always love you no matter what. Death is just a natural part of life, everyone goes threw with it sooner or l8r. It just has to get some use to the fact that they are gone, it doesnt mean they are gone forever youll see her again in a better place. Just keep in mind that in heaven your life is perfect, and you have to sickness or bad health. Your perfect, its just like reliving your life again. I guess thats why they call it the after life.
Just keep praying please and dont give up.
Your mom, you and your family are in my prayers.
- God Bless -
(need anything more? feel free to drop one. i'll be well happy to help you again.)
id he cant trust me and hes already in love with this girl.
wuts the question?!
hey! i really want to get highlights in my hair. but i dont know what colors to get. can anyone help me? i have dark brown hair, fair skin, and hazel eyes. thanx!
Are you gonna be doing these highlights yourself, or going to a salon? If your going to a salon they should know what color would look good with your tone. I prefer to go to the salon
they know the best and its also gives you less paniac if it will come out wrong. I suggest maybe blonde? or a purple/red? im not very sure. sry I know it wasnt much help
i skate and have just gotten to the part where you are required to lift your legs high up to the side . ( you stick your arms out so you are in a T-shape , and you lift your leg up so that one of your hands are holding your feet , while keeping the leg you are lifting straight ) i can't lift my leg high enough . does anyone know any excercises that can help this ?
um not sure do stretching, or ask your coach or someone who skates as well. maybe try doing spilts? sry i know that wasnt much help
Hey it's me again the 14/f that is pregnate..For those of you that don't remember or know me, I had a boyfriend in jail and the side relationship where I got pregnate and found out from a test. Pierre is his name..not mike..but anyway pierre wants this baby aborted..he said he's not going to lose his football career over me or the baby..i`m already 6 weeks and I love this baby more than anything now. Telling my boyfriend was hard.. even harder then telling my father! My boyfriend was really mad since he just got out of jail and everything and wanted to kill the crap out of pierre..well my boyfriend really loves me and you can tell..since he said he'll be the father since pierre won't....but what should i do..should i still consider abortion? because I really want this child...
DONT YOU DARE GET AN ABORTION!! how would you feel if you're mother had an abortion on you?...i love it how your 14 and you're willing to take a very hard decision, many girls our age dont want to keep the baby..nor do their mother's agree on helping them. From what I see Pierre is basically a selfish lil bastard (sry if that offended you in anyways) but it showing he rather take his football career over you and his child..thats just wrong...keep me posted with the 411 I would love to hear what you name the child and all whether you decide to keep it or not.
i like a boy whose a senior and im a freshman.. ha if my mom knew we ever did anything shed kill me.. what do i do?.. continue to do what ive done the past 2 weeks behind her back.. or drop him?
what have u been doing? you didnt state what uve been doing.
ok when you see people on tv they always have like glowing faces... like in the movie mean girls... i was wandering... where can you get stuff that looks like that shimmery or whatever? any suggestions? thanx
--i rate high--
they have alot of lights on them too so idk....look on-line i guess...i really dont know sry
theres this random guy that hates me for no reason...he says im annoying but i dont talk to him...and yesterday he threw an egg or something at my window...what can i do to get him back so that i wont get in (much) trouble?
I agree with bAhAmAmA0250's answer...Egg him back with more eggs and more people :)
lol
the other day, my boyfriend came over and we were sitting on the couch. then we started kissing. he slipped his tounge into my mouth and i did the same. (we were kissing for like 10-15 seconds) is that considered just french kissing or making out?
its the same thing lol
so...i was giving this 1 guy head...and when i was he started pushing down on my head...why did he do that and what does it mean?! Thanx so much!
he wanted you to go deeper. if you dont like it just tell him that you dont like it.
hey..k i have this problem since like my freshman year of highschool, and now im a junior..every where i go, i feel like i ALWAYS gotta be on the look out for ppl who are gunna try n start shit and gunna fight me...yeah i do got beef wit ppl but not so much that i haveto be on guard 24/7...i feel like im always looking for a fight..i dont start shit with ppl but im ALWAYS ready to fight ne second, wherever i go..please dont say like..u shuoldnt even be fighting, u shuold talk things out, etcetc..but see thats my prob, i like cant, i always end up fighting n uses my hands, etc its so hard, ive been to anger management class like twice but they dont help that much..whenever i get mad, i just explode and dont think of anything else but that person and what they did to me and i explode.thats what my prob is...i hate this...help
I do the same thing..and I wound up in 3 fist fights durin 8th grade on the bus..ha yeah...well we didnt even get in trouble or anything for it but yeah..anywayz..I didnt even want to even fight..I usually just walk away..but the kid but he was a jackass and had smack me for no reason..anywayz I usually throw a stuffed animal or pillow across the room..I wouldnt hit a wall or anything..cuz either my dad or my sister did that..one of those 2...maybe both..I think..Idk and I drc..anyways a hole wounded up in the wall..and another back of my parents bedroom door... :X so yeah..I find stuff animals or pillows (ones in ur room..not in the couch ones..I found out that was a no no for me lol) are the best way to throw out angry and all - hope I helped
Every morning at basketball practice, we run about 10 laps? (6 minutes) and today we did 22 laps in a college sized gym. Do you know the equivalent in miles to that? (6 and 22 laps)
um well im not sure...but my track..if u ran it in middle school it was 1 lap was 1/2 mile..which was the outline of the whole courtyard..which was pretty damn big..but if u ran it in junior high...1 lap was 1/4th of a mile..
if you run a distance of a mile..and u know its an exact mile..time your self..on how long it took you to run the mile..or so..then..after you catch your breath and all..and you have enough of energy to run..remember your time in your head..or use a stop watch..and run as many laps as you can in the same speed of when you 1st did it..and you should be able to know.. or ask your coach or the head of the college campus??
hey well im the same person who was asking about my friend john well today i told him i liked him, i also told him that i did not want anything to change between us, since we already have a good friendship and all. and so i think we will just remain friends for now! i guess thats a good thing! well i have to go! thanks for your advice!
hey...np you did the right thing..to stay friends w/ him for now..thats what I was gonna do if my friend ever asked me out..if we could remain friends..bc a relation like we have between the both of friends..is too rare now to risk goin out with them and having somethings screwed up..and come to the point where we lost them as friends..which we both dont want to happen..neither do the 2 of the guys.. well I g2g for now as well..the darn time is 10:30 PM..*growls*..lol..well keep me posted...and i'll keep respondin lol..np 4 the advice..im always open for any kind of problems..