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i have a boyfriend but he dont give it up to my satisfaction but there is this other guy and he is so georgous i mean drop dead georgous he has a girlfriend but she is a flake she is my boyfriend's daughter got it so far ok i would love nothing more than to have a fling with the mr drop dead georgous one i no i probably should not but i can hardly contain myself when he is around which is often my current relationship is not going anywhere in the sex department i dont think the drop dead guy has an interest in me at all how can i let him know that if he wants to have a fling it is ok maybe some of you are thinking this is wrong but if it wrong i dont wanna be right
Umm
I think that if all that matters to you is sex, and not your partner's feelings then sure, break his heart or whatever. You don't sound very commited to him.
If, however, you do want to maybe make things better between your lover and yourself, then you need to sit down together like adults and talk about your problems.
If this other guy is dateing your partner's daughter, would that make him yournger to you? If so, I suppose it is natural for some women to want a toy boy, but I still think you need to talk to your partner about how you feel before just gong off and 'having a fling'
Is there a proper way to have the first intials of your name engraved on the bracelet. My intials are
P A C I will have them done in interlocking script. I would appreciate any advice on this. Thank You
diamonds@lycos.com
How exactly do you mean, proper? I would have said in most people's case that they would have the first name, the middle intials, and then the surname either as a full name, or also intitaled. Most people would probably separate the letters wth a period [.] eg:
Anna N. Other
I hope this answers your query
Adendium: Ah! I see what you mean now. I would have said that usually you have the names in this order: First, Middle/second, Sur. Using my previouse example, it would be ANO [Anna Nicole Other]. Does that help?
what does "sex symbol" mean when somebody says u're such an sex symbol?
That usually many people view you as sexually attractive and would probably like to have sex with you.
how can you tell when a guy erects?
or when he talks with u, why does he touch his dick?
can boys erect when there siting and talkin to you?
And why do they erect!
Also when they erect when standing would they quickly sit down on the chair?
And why do they lift their eyebrows up when there talkin to u and always looking at your eyes and lips?
-There is usually a bulge arounf his crotch area.
-Guys like to itch themselfs and mostly arn't picky about if they are in mixed company. Also he may be re-adjusting himself.
-Some guys do, if they are thinking about something vaguly sitimulating.
-Becuse they are horny and the body interprets this as 'we are getting ready to fuck' and thus hardens them up.
-Possibly
-this just sounds like your guy's particular habits.
Is it healthy for a guy to want to have sex like 3/4 times a day? Is there a healthy average amount for a couple to do...both aged 37?
Just curious. He says I don't fulfill his needs.
Is it heathly? There isn't really any 'rules' when it comes to sex, but that is quite a large amount, and maybe slightly OTT.
I would have said that an 'average' amount would have been maybe once or twice a week, but that is not taking in to account free time, energy levels, or the libido of the participants.
I think maybe you need to sit down and talk to your partner about this inssecant need for sex, and maybe work out a compromise of some form that you are both able to manage and feel comfortable with. If he can't comprimise, then I would get rid of him if i were you.
Can anyone give me a free reading or know anyone who can, I want to know things.
There are loads of sites that 'say' they can do readings. I did find a really good site that did a 5 card reading, but I'm afraid I can't remember the URL
my mom has babysat for her friends for over a year or 2 and this one of them has hardly paid her for it and still owes her like $300. one night i babysat for her and was supposed to get $10 for it. but i never did. how can i get the money without being rude or asking for it?
I don't think you can't not ask for it, but just be really polite about it, and maybe next time ask for the money or half the money up front.
But like I said, be really polite and curtiouse:
'Exscue me *person*, but do you remember I babysat your kids on *date*? You never actually gave me the money for it, so I was wondering if you had it, or if you can tell me when you will have it? Thank you'
I have a webpage question. I want to put my livejournal into my webpage with an iframe like before, but now I want it to be specifically positioned. Like, first I want it to be 164 pixels from the left and have the actual iframe be 400(wide)by 331(high). My question is... how do I do this, or can I, even?
I've never used iFrames, but I know that in CSS you can use 'position:absolute' to place a div box where you want. It would look like this:
#name{position:absolute;
margin-left:164px;
width:400px;
height:331px;
}
Try that.
i have been friends with these 2 for 5 years. he finally ask me out a couple months ago but broke up with me like every month and i kept going back out with him. well this time he said that hes not gonna break up with me again and that hes really dumb for breaking up with me. and now shes pissed off at me because she doesnt want me to cry over him again. which i havnt the last 2 times. why would i start now? shes also mad because i dont stand up for her when her brother(my bf) picks on her. all i do is laugh. i wanna say something but yet i dont. how can i get her not mad at me but stay with him. she wants me to break up with him but i dont want to. and also. when i go over to thier house to spend the night i always slept in her room. but now that shes mad at me i probably wont get to. i cant sleep in garys room cuz his dad would freak. how can i stay over there? ok this is 2 long. thanks everyone! bye
Umm, that was qute confusing. Who is 'she'? I think what you maybe need to do is maybe stick up for 'she' and repair you frendship[?] with 'her'. As for the guy, I think he sounds a bit confused about his feelings, and maybe you should break up with him untill he has got his head sorted. I'm just wondering, but how old are you?
Trichotillomania, a disorder where one pulls out their hair. I havent officially been told that i have it. But i also have never admitted to anyone besides my mom, dad and sister that i have a problem. It started when i was in elementry when i knotted up my bangs and tore away the knots. Now i just pull and pull, usually during class sometimes when im online, just when im bored. Trich is not about self injury, its something someone notices they do or they can do it without being aware. I pull my hair without the knowledge that im doing it. Its a very hard thing to deal with, its more of hiding it untill the hair grows back in the balding spots. I feel so ashamed that im not good enough to get over it, ive read that people go through their whole lives with it, i worry, i dont want to be plaqued with this curse for my whole life.
My habit seemed to have died when school started up this year but then recently it returned. It began all in one class period. I must have sat there the whole class and pulled and pulled untill the hair was very thin on one side. When it comes back it gets worse, because my self esteem becomes very low and that doesnt help the stress, if thats what triggers it.
I am considering going to a counsellor, but im not sure. I dont know anything about if they put that kind of stuff on a record when you want to join a college or get a job. If so will they turn you down because you have a disorder? Will they put me on anti-depressants? I dont want to be put on meds, i just want someone to talk to, maybe even ways to prevent doing it. Any help on how to prevent me pulling my hair out and what happens when you confront a counsellor about a disorder would being very nice.
Well I would go and see a counceller of some kind, they are there so you can talk to them. As for putting it on some record, i don't. In the UK an emplyer is not alowed to turn someone away becuse of a mental disorder or other dissability. You can ask the counceller if they do that though. Also the counceller will be able to help you identify the root [no pun intended] of the problem, that makes you pull at your hair.
As for tips on how to stop, maybe get another hobby that involves your hands, like a squeesy stress ball or those chiniese meditation balls. Every time you feel yourself wanting to pull your hair, squeeze the ball insead.
I hope some of these ramblings have helped, and good luck :)
My cousin lives far away and I get to see her like maybe two months a year well the last time I saw her she said that she has done to many things for God to love her and so she has became an atheist. I don't know what to do except pray but I feel like I need to do more for her. Every time I ask a question on this website no one gives me good answers that I can relate to so please don't let me down!
I don't think it is your place to try and force her to belive in somthing that to her doesn't exist. If you feel you need to pray for her or whatever, go ahead, but not at the expense of your frendship with your cousin.
Hi, im the guy thats 13 and has a 2.5 inch boner, but now it shrunk to 1 inch, now will u suck it?
I think for one you are a moron for assuming that all on this site is female, for two you are a moron for wanting to start having any form of sexual intercourse bfore the age of consent, and three your just a jackass full stop.
Go get a life instead of being a troll.
I was the one who wrote about being out on strike. I had to pick a different category because I was afraid it would erase my question. Anyway, I got a job at a pizza restauraunt, and I like it. The people are nice, and the job seems fairly easy. The problem is, I have to take a bus there, and some of my family are worried about me. I wouldn't take one after dark, and it's only a fifteen-minute ride, so I don't know what the big deal is. They think that I should go back to the store, since the strike is being settled. I'm supposed to vote on what they settle on, but I don't see the point if I'm not going back. I was unhappy there for 6 years, and was not being promoted. I don't think that the company is going to give us a fair deal, and even though I get insurance from my husband's job, and it doesn't affect me, I still feel I don't want to work for such an unethical company. My sister understands, and says I don't have to go back. I will apply at a drug store as soon as it's finished being built that is close to my home. This job is only temporary, and I really like it. I think I should stick with it. What do you think?
I'm a little confused at what you want to know, but I would stick to the job you like best.
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I want a dog, but my 'rents say i cant...WHY NOT
There may be many resosn: they think you are to young to care for it; its too expesive; they don't want one messing up the house; they think its just a 'phase', and you won't want it after a while; someone in the house is allergic to them etc.
There are a thousand and diffrent resons, and you really need to talk to your 'rents about why exactly they don't want you to have one.
i have this friend... let's call him Duckie. well he recently began to date my other friend, (we'll just call her Juicyfruit). as foolish as it sounds, i would do anything to make someone else happy. and so i helped them set things straight and get going on a healthy relationship. but Duckie is my best guy friend in the whole world and i hug him every day when i see him between classes.
Juicyfruit is a jealous girl. she sent her other friend to set some "ground rules" for me. it was stated that i am not allowed to hug Duckie anymore unless Juicyfruit gives her consent. so i did what i thought was right and i confronted her. she said that she was sorry for losing her temper, and just to forget that she even cared about the hugging thing. in other words, she was pissed.
Juicyfruit is a sort of a player and Duckie might be able to make her stick with him so she can actually feel love. and jealousy would interfere with their own joy. i wrote a letter to Duckie telling him he was not to hug me, speak to me, or even look at me because i only cause trouble.
so i did what probably makes them happy. but after losing my best friend and having Juicyfruit's popular little friends look down on me with scorn, what do i do when i have made two people happy... but I'M not in the same bliss?
someone help me. i don't want to be selfish. all i ever wanted to do was make people happy. but i'm too STUPID to know if this has gone too far.
To be honset it sounds like Duckie is far more suted to you that this other girl. She is the one being stupid for getting jealous over a simple little hug. Maybe you should try talking to duckie about how you feel, and maybe he could reach some form of comprimise with JuicyFruit.
Its doesn't even sound like you are that greater mates with this JuicyFruit. You shouldn't allow her to have so much control over you. I say, go hug your man-mate, and don't feel bad about it. You are deserving of his platonic affections just as much as she :)
have question.
Is it wrong to expect a B-day party?
I am not someone that is selfish or anything of the sort but I dont know. on tuesday i will be turning 14 and i won't even be getting a cake let alone gifts. now my mother is poor and we don't have alot of money so this is the reason im feeling selfish thinking this. i have a cousin that turned 8 today and the had this HUGE bash infact they have had a big bash everyyear of her life but its like im to "OLD" now and no one thinks of me. i feel like im being selfish but yet i really would like to have something to look back on. turning 14 is something big for me cause turning 14 means being "more" of an adult now. another thing that is this i big to me is because i have never had a b=day party in my life. yeah if you count my aunt, grandmother, and 1 of my 2 sisters. my mom says oh, just wait till your sweet sixteen. yeah well she told me that when i turned 12 that i could have a big party when i turn 13 or 14, well i just feel like a big baby that wants gifts. i don't even care about the gifts its just that i feel as if no one even thinks about me. i just would like to have one day to myself for me instead always being the one everyone turns to. i have had 1 person send me a b-day card. i know i sound like a big selfish baby but i guess i need some advice.
sincerely
B-day party blues
I don't think you are too old for a party, you are never too old for a party, its just that the type of party changes.
Maybe you are being a little selfish in just 'expecting' one, especially if your family is poor, but I don't think its selfish to expect someone to pay you notice, or show that they care. That is a human need. *hug*
You could always have a DIY party: go to a diner or something and invite your closest mates. Buy yourself a bunch of party hats and wazzos [they are those things that make funny noises] and at the end of the meal get a big cake and all eat it together. Just being with your mates I would have thought was the best present you can get :)
there is this guy at work we have been talking for a while now. we always laugh and joke around. he says things to me like"you are really funny" "i like this girl" and a whole lot of things that helps me to understand that he likes me. well i guess what im trying to ask is how do i approach the relationship i want to give him my number but i dont know how i dont want to sound to blunt but i want to get this thing going please help me to figure out what to do. Also could you give me someadvice on how to tell if someone is truelly interested in you
Flirt back and say things like, 'yeah you're cool too' or 'you crack me up sometimes!'. As for the getting things going, ask him out for a drink after work or somthing and proggress it from there. As for the last part of your question, I don't think there is a definitive answer. if you've been seeing eachother for a while and you still arn't sure, then just ask him .
Good luck :)
Hi,
I'm writing regarding a job offer I received to have a second paid internship at a financial management house as a signal processing system developer. I am an electrical engineering student with a 3.8GPA in Canada and simply wondering if at this point in my education if I should try to diversify my work experience by sticking out the competitive job market, or get solid in-depth knowledge in a position i enjoy and that provides ample respect and compensation.
Thanks
I think you just answered your own question. Go for the specialisation, unless you think it it will hamper your efforts to get jobs in the future.