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hey i'm courtney! :)i'm nineteen and i live in ohio. i am currently not going to college, and just working fulltime.. i'm single and not really looking but,i love to go tanning, shopping, and seeing friends. i am very social, and love to listen to problems and help the best way i know how. i am a very happy person, and willing to be there for people who need me most, and i care for most in life. that's a bit about me heh.
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I got a bank teller job and you have to dress up, what are some good ideas? and I have long thick hair whats some good ways to do my hair that look professional?
having it down is AWLAYS professional. straight or curly. Or try an updo. maybe with a classy headband in too.
what does it mean when a girl says she's "spotting"? and how does that connect to thinking you're pregnant?
When a girl says she's spotting, it means that she has a tiny bit of blood spots showing up every so often in the day. often times when woman are pregnant a first sign is spotting b/c their period will stop.
15/f
i live in ohio, where like nobody seems to know fashion, i mean they do, and like i live in a very wealthy town, that everyone wants to live in, but like, for people who live in like new york, or california, whats super in for the summer? ya'll are always ahead of us in fashion.
kthankyou.
Red and leopard prints are in. Wedges on shoes are in. and always designer sunglasses.
okay so i'm like 5'5 i'd say but i'm not 100% sure, i could be shorter, but i'm 120. and i wanna be down to at least 110. it seems like impossible! i think i have love handles & i wanna get rid of them. umm if i run almost everyday & drink water & watch what i eat do you think i can do it in like a month? what else can i do, like excercises. and please don't answer unless you've done something like this before and it worked. no offense but i need answers not suggestions. thank you
After a month you might start to see an increase, not fully losing the weight. You know what you need to do. Just stick with it.
Everyone says i need to change how i look to get a guy. But i dont know how....Even my family says that and i cant really change becuz i have no money. So i dont know what to do..... Can anyone like put some kewt outfits together and show me them or sumthing....because i want to find a new bf....But i dont know how to get a guy to like me without changing!
Use yourself. You and confident not concieted... CONFIDENCE are the keys to getting guys. They like a girl who is strong AND who knows what she wants. You don't need to change. Just put youself out there more, and not be so shy.
I'll admit this straight up, I get jealous; I'm human. It was never a huge problem because I'm happy with who I am, until I got my recent boyfriend whose known as a flirt. We've been dating for about 9 months now, and we're doing great. But I still get jealous because he'll go to movies alone with one other girl, and right now he's in Italy on a group trip with a girl who is totally in love with him. I trust him for the most part, but some nights when I sit and think about him I worry about what he might be doing. He won't be home from his trip for a few more weeks. So what can I do to stop myself from dying in jealousy, also for the future? Thank you.
I am a jealous girl too. But most of the time, it's because my head is trying to look out for my heart. you know what I mean?? You are just trying to prepare in a way for the worst. No problem there. Try and think of the things thst makes you care so much about this guy. It'll put you in a good mood and make you smile. Remember good times and stay optimistic. =]
does anyone know of a free online spanish program that helps you learn? I am on level 2 or 3 if that helps... I googled it but I need advice to know that they dont have virus or anything. Preferrably one that is fun and easy to use, but anything really.
go to... www.freetranslations.com
Can you swim with contacts in??? because im going swimming tomorrow.. and i really dont want to not be able to see anything.. because ill be hanging out with my friends. and i want to be abloe to see clearly. thanks in advance!
You can yes. but I dont think you should open your eyes underwater. The chlorine in the water will burn like hell. Trust me, I found out the hard way. Your welcome =]
i just turned 21 and i have never drank before. im 5'4 and 120 pounds. how many beers would it take to get me drunk? how many shots of vodka? how many glassses of wine? i want to go out adn drink but not get completely wasted so i want to know an average amount of each that would get you drunk
well, from an experienced drinker it takes me about two shots of vodka and I weigh about the same. I don't drink beer, but the achohol content is lower than it is in vodka, so probably three or three and a half. And wine it just depends probably four or three glasses.
hi...do all girls play hard to get couse theres this girl and i dont no if she likes me or not she knows i like her but shes like ok then he likes me or is she jus playing hard to get and if a girl is playing hard to get what do you do.
Well either she's flirting or really isn't interested. You should try and play hard to get, see if she runs after you. Ifso, she wants you.
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I have tan skin, brown eyes, and brown hair. also, my face is shaped sort of squarish. any good makeup ideas?
thanks
wear some pastels (bright colors). it will bring out your olive skin complection. =] I am tan like you too and i like purples and blues. good luck!
Does anyone know what food/fruit go to thighs people say icecream make your thighs go big ? anyone know and how do we lost the fat in thighs
Weight is different for everyone. It just depends on your body. To lose weight in your thighs walk a little each day around the block. Run. Ride bikes. swim. anything really.
This question is for the girls out there... My stepmom says that bras with underwires are really bad for you. Does anyone know why?
The only thing that could be bad is if you'd think it's uncomfortable. Other than that nothing.
i wear them all the time.
Has anyone ever been truely used by a boy/girl? I feel like my boyfriend is using me and i want to know what are some signs of being used/what should i look for?..this is so upseting =[..id die for this boy and i dont deserve being treated like thiss..
Some signs...
- he makes you do things you don't want to.
- he disrespects you.
- he does WHATEVER he wants.
- he hurts you in any way.
- he doesn't try to workwith you on anything. it's all about him.
If he is, lose him. he doesn't deserve you. you're better than him. believe me hon.
what are college interviews like?
- are the interviewers generally nice?
- what questions do they ask?
They make you nervous.But are fine. They might ask what you like about the college? Why it's right for you? Tell them what good things you can bring to their school. Make sure you smile and always have eye contact. Good luck!
Ok so me and this guy were together for about 2 months but it was a kinda weird open relationship. i loved him alot...and he said he felt the same.We had never met and we had this function to go to and then when we meet it's for about 1 minute and I'm not really good with new people (shy) and i like him, to make matters seem worst. Well that week we didn't talk and now we're not together or anything. We're barely friends and it's puzzling cause i really still like him.
what should i do, if anything? should i ask him why he 'broke' up with me? how do i become friends again?
He might not be sure too. Maybe he's scared like you. Ask him. Or, he might not like you anymore, he might have met someone new. which is rough, but you will too. You could stay friends ifso though.
OK, this is very weird & sorry, I had no idea what to put it under. Anyway, for some reason, when I eat a meal, I never ever eat the last bite. I mean I'm sure I could if I really tried, but, it usually just happens that there is that little last piece that I feel I can't eat! Everyones is like, "oh, you can't eat that last little bit?" But, I just don't do it. Any ideas on why this is so normal for me?
maybe you're full?
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i'm 14/f. I am really mad now because whenever i talk to my mom about boys, she says i can't date for another 3 more years, (so that's when i would be 17) but i REALLY don't want to wait that long. All of my friends already have boyfriends and I really don't want to wait until 17 when i get my first kiss. that would be so akward. I've already had my 1st boyfriend (only lasted for a week) and I really liked having a guy around me saying that he cares about me and having someone hold hands with me... etc.
is there anyway i can change my mom's mind? How am i supposed to act if a guy asks me out and my mom doesn't approve? aghh i really need help
Have you tried to calmly explain to your mom that you are curious about boys? She was your age once and is just trying to do what she thinks is best for you. Maybe try and work out a deal with her. Ask her if you and a boy can go see a movie and she can suprivise. With in reason. Trust me that sounds lame but it's a start. You might think it's all b/c of you. But your mom might not want to accept that you're growing up into a young lady. Hope I helped.
So I've just overcome an eating disorder I nearly started out of desperation to lose weight.
If I was to eat healthily, walk 20 minutes a day (Up really steep hills and stuff) and do about 50 sits ups a day do you think that would help me lose weight?
Any type of exercise would help lose weight. Don't do anything extensive until it becomes a daily or weekly routine. Make sure you eat healthy. It's okay to eat some junk food but make sure whatever you do it isn't hurting yourself mentally or physically.
Okay so if you had a boyfriend for 3 months.. but he treated you like crap and dumped you for an ex about 8 months ago.and I mean he tried getting back with you.. but you declined him over and over again.. and then he gave up and you got a boyfriend and he got back with his g/f again.But you haven't talked to him in months and you are considering calling him and asking how he is and what he's going to do with his life.. (going to college and whatever) do you think that would be bad.I mean it's possible that would be ASKiNG for trouble,But I mean his birthdays in August and I want to know when it is.And just how he is.I'm not asking for sympathy or tell him I love him and how much I miss him.. no.Would that be wrong and just maybe too much right now or what?If you could help that would be helpful.
Hon, if you miss this ex and want to call him; then it's posible that you aren't over him. Maybe you should reconsider what you want or whom. It also may cause drama with his girlfriend when he tells her (you know he will). Just for a future reference. Good luck.