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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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where's somewhere i can find a good layout for this thing? and where would i put it?
haha sorry, im new to this kinda thing. =)

Go to this site. There is tons of cute ones!! http://www.xanga.com/groups/group.aspx?id=1426647 && put it in the look and feel.

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hey...if you have blonde hair thats pretty bright and hazel eyes, what color eyeliner is better, black or brown? i have heard brown is better, but im just checking! oh and mascara too! thanks!

I think both will bring out your eyes because they both are very dark.. everyone is saying black but I personally would go with dark brown!

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does anyone know a good way to give a hand job..like things that guys like? help me please..! thanks if you can..i'll rate high!

I answerd a question like this but I'll answer again. First off, you want to make sure you are comfortable with the guy you plan to do it with.It's not confusing at all, I think the only reason it seems confusing is because you wonder how to do it, all you do is rub the shaft (you can also touch his balls but lightly because they are sensitive), and the guy you do it to will tell you if it feels good, and you could even ask him what would make it better.Another thing that may help (if you are ready) is to let him show you his penis,if you see what it looks like you may be more comfortable with touching it, you know? Anyway, just make sure you relax and that you want to do it for yourself. Hope this helps and good luck!! =)

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ok so i foun this duh itz layout this and how do u get those onto yours?

If it has a code then when you are on your site then go to look and feel and paste the code there.

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Hey All!
Homecoming is a way away, but I am currious. I have never gone to a dance before. My boyfriend and I are going to most of the dances at both of our schools this year, because it is his senior year. I already have a dress for Prom. and it is floor length. I wore it in a wedding.

So, is homecoming like prom at all? Do you get an almost to the floor dress? a knee length? what? What are good colors?

Is it a huge deal? How much should one spend on a homecoming dress.

What about shoes?

its in September or October. (I cannot remember!)

thanks so much in advance.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-SLeK-

Honestlly I have never been to a homecomming because I'm not in high school yet but I know people who have and what you wear. You can wear a formal dress.. and you just dress up. Its fun! I would rather wear a dress that is knee lenght then a really long one. For shoes you can wear heels but you will end up taking them off from all the dancing! lol.. You can get your hair done in a cute bun or just leave it down straight or curly! Black is always a cute color for a dress expecilly for a event like that. You dont have to over due. You can also add cute colorful accesories to your outfit. Like if you are wearing a black dress pick another color to match your outfit.. maybe like silver? You can always find cute silver heels, a cute bag, jewerly! You dont have to spend a lot on your dress. You can get it at like JC Penny or Charlotte Rousse. Like $40 which is perfect for a short black dress or whatever color!

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hey,
i got a quetion. I'm a real big bully and i dono how to stop bulling. When ever i see someone ugly i make fun of them and i dont see why it hurts them but it really does.please tell me how i can stop and i will give you a high rating! :)

Bullying is your issue and you are the only one that can help yourself stop it. It isnt always nice to tell people that they are ugly and things but sometimes you cant help it. I've done it before. You say that because it kind of makes you feel better about YOURSELF and think that because they are emotionly weaker then you that you can put them down like that. It hurts them because they really cant help with their physical apperance most of the time && they are happy with who they are. I dont know how you can stop being a bully but instead of making fun of those people maybe you should just eather stay away from them or try to get to know them. Im sure you wouldnt like to be bullyed eather so just put yourself if other peoples shoes and just if you pretend to care about anyone else but yourself.. maybe you would know how they feel.

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Hey- Im about 5'4 and i weigh about 175 lbs. i need to lose 20 pounds by september 1st. Is there anyway i can without taking pills or anything..or can i just lose it by running for 30 mins everynight?

If you want to loose weight you have to diet and exersise. Everybody knows that.. start by cutting sugars and sweets out of your diets. Instead of eating a huge full mean break it off into 3 meals during that day. Dont eat fried foods with lots of oils and fats. Make sure you keep track of how many calories you eat. Do about 300 crunches or situps a day.. ahh I know you might think its just imposibble && too much but trust me it isnt. Do about 150 during the day and 150 at night. Do all those exersies and trust me they wont be hard. Eat fruits && veggies!!! No-one likes to hear that but then the results you get you will be really happy! You dont have to eat it just plain.. but make yourself a salad with fat free dressing same with fruits. Go to these 2 websites.. they might help you out! http://www.toneteen.com! That one will tell you what kind of exersises you can do for each body part. Also healthy diets and nutrition things. Also.. http://www.am-i-fat.com! Put your weight in there and it will tell you how much unhealthy weight you have on your body that you need to loose. If you stick to your diet and exersise you will be thrilled when its all over! You will have to do it for a few months and when you loose the weight you wanted you will be happy and just feel much better about yourself!! Good luck!

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how do u give a handjob?

First off, you want to make sure you are comfortable with the guy you plan to do it with.It's not confusing at all, I think the only reason it seems confusing is because you wonder how to do it, all you do is rub the shaft (you can also touch his balls but lightly because they are sensitive), and the guy you do it to will tell you if it feels good, and you could even ask him what would make it better.Another thing that may help (if you are ready) is to let him show you his penis,if you see what it looks like you may be more comfortable with touching it, you know? Anyway, just make sure you relax and that you want to do it for yourself. Hope this helps and good luck!! =)

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I'm looking to get the song "End of the World" by the cure for my buddy4u profile. Does anyone know where I can get music, like the whole songs, to put in a profile?

Thanks

-twistedsister17

You can go to www.videocodes4u.com and find the song and copy the code into your profile.

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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx

Yes its just that your developed faster then most other girls. Most guys love bigger breasts but I dont think that it really matter. I mean I`m 34C && I hate it but oh well! You're normal!

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i know that so many people have probably asked this question but do you have to pay to use this? because i havent?? thanx lucee xXx

No you dont have to pay for it because its free. But you can.. you have a little more privlages if you have a paid account. You can go here and see. http://www.advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php

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ok im 14/m and i like this 15/f. We have so much incommen and i think i might actually love her. The thing is we live about an hour or a little less away from each other. I met her through baseball.(her bro was on my team) And how can i tell her? my dad talkes to hers but, i cant just call because that would be oqward. and IMing would work because i dont have her sn.. What can i do?

Calling her wouldnt be really akward.. If you talk to her brother ask him if he has her screen name and if you called just ask for her screen name. You dont always have to call her just maybe that one time. If she giggles a lot when she talks to you then it means she has a crush on you so Im just letting you know. Just call her!! If you're a hottie trust me she will want you even more && your personality seems good so she might really like you too!

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13-f
i have flour tortilla's , penut butter, juice, and regular butter please give me ideas im starving and im low on food!

Warm up the tortilla's and then you could eat some penut butter after.

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Hey, I'm Rae! Well, I recently got into the band HAWTHORNE HEIGHTS! I really love that band! I became an instant fan after hearing one song! Lol! Well, I wanted to know what other bands are like Hawthorne Heights? I really love Hawthorne Heights and want to know other bands like them! Thanks so much! - Rae.

So basiclly you want more punk/rock bands?

-Fall Out Boy
-My Chemical Romance
-Armor For Sleep
-Sences Fail
-The Killers
-The Format
-Simple Plan
-Linkin Park
-Incubus
-Green Day
-Papa Roach
-Head Automatica
-TBS
-Matchbook Romance
-The Used
-All-American Rejects
-Dashboard Confessional
-Oasis
-Swichfoot
-Goo Goo Dolls
-Good Charlotte
-Three Days Grace
-New Found Glory
-Relient K

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my hair is SOOOOO frizzy, i cant stand it anymore. how can i get it to stop frizzing so much? is there a good shampoo/conditioner etc.?

will rate high!!
~thanx

Get John Frieda Frizz-Ease ! It will help a lot.

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I was just wondering if you reformat your computer, does it get rid of any registry problems you might have?

Yeah just get rid of things on your hard drive. Like if you had a viris it would get rid of it but if you dont want something to delete I would suggest saving it on a disk.

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i bought a really cute sweatshirt at aeropostale but when i tried on at home it was too small. i bought it at an outlet mall in st. augustine but i'm not there anymore. can i return it at a normal aeropostale store??

No I dont think so. But you never know it just depends on the store at your mall but you should ask. At our mall we cant do that so I dont know.

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which out of all of these broadway shows are the best and which one should i get tickets to??

-avenue Q
-hairspray
-wicked

Hairspray.

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ok so i know that supposivly all the big stars have a myspace like lindsay lohan and stuff do you think that it is really them ? or no? and how can you tell?
thanks in advance ~ i rate

I dont belive its acually them people there is soo many posers and fakes on that site. Even on xanga! Its just some fans pretending to be them. Some celebs dont even have the time for that stuff. They are usually fake but you can tell if the pictures are usually the ones you can get of google or the original site.

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okay so this guy and i have been hanging out a lot. he tells me he likes me, and says he wants to ask me out, but he still hasnt, he told me he was waiting for he right time...well i think he likes his ex gf, bc i was lookin at his phone and he had text messages for her...adn he said she just got a bf, and even tho he doesnt have feelings for her, its ripping him apart. ive already done a lot with him, which is pretty unusual for me, bc i have such a hard time trustung guys...yesterday he expected me to do tuff with him, and when i told him i didnt want to he figured something was wrong...i really like him... more then anyother guy ive ever liked... but i have no idea what to do about him... any ideas?? please help!!

Why dont you ask him if he has those feelings for his ex still. If you trust him then belive him but it does take some time to get over your ex. Even if he isnt you need to tell him that she moved on and that he needs to also. If he doesnt start dating other people he will just be upset. Just confort him && ask him whatever you want to know. If he hasnt asked you out yet then I guess he is still waiting for the right time.

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