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Question Posted Tuesday July 26 2005, 12:46 pm

ok im 14/m and i like this 15/f. We have so much incommen and i think i might actually love her. The thing is we live about an hour or a little less away from each other. I met her through baseball.(her bro was on my team) And how can i tell her? my dad talkes to hers but, i cant just call because that would be oqward. and IMing would work because i dont have her sn.. What can i do?

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***DORK*** answered Thursday July 28 2005, 8:19 pm:
Hey, you think you love her and you barly talk to her?! maybe before you decide that you should get to know her. I would just start calling and just say that you are calling to say Hi! and if she likes you then she will want to talk to you! just go from there!!

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workingmom answered Wednesday July 27 2005, 5:32 pm:
Find out where she hangs out, a pool or a gym or the library or whatever, and accidentally bump into her. When you see, just make conversation like you like her as a friend and then you cut it off, saying you have to go but you'd like to talk with her further and ask for her phone or her sn or something. And then you can converse like you want to be friends only at first. You know, send her jokes, that sort of thing, don't be too pushy or needy. If she doesn't seem to respond too well, check with one of her girlfriends and see if she likes you. But only do that if things don't click. Be patient, because girls seem to like boys who aren't too needy. Good luck! Wait until you are dating before you admit that you were seeking her out.

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rockmyadvice answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 8:21 pm:
get her sn at the next baseball game...or ask her brother for it

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cheeze4shelly answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 3:12 pm:
you could always ask her brother for her sn or wat till you play baseball and ask her then.:)

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K2204 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 3:10 pm:
WELL, you dont have to tell her right away. you could scedual a meeting ,with a group of people, meet at a local bowling alley, or mall or movie theater. then ask her for her screen name and talk to her online or ask her for her house or cell number, and give her yours to if she wants to chat. then hang out in a group for that a few times, then maybe the two of you can grab a bite to eat, or go bowling or to a movie or the mall or something.

Girls like myself, also get nervous and feel awquard. so being in a group, with some of her friends would be good too. maybe you and her brother and some of your guys' friends, then her and some of her friends.

I dont know if this is an option, but maybe you could tell her brother? and ask him for help?


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babygirl17 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 2:34 pm:
well...Just because you live an hour or soo away.. doesnt mean you cant go out or whatever... But... as far as telling her... You are kind of friends with her brother.. Why dont you call and get her s/n from her brother... and then tell her through Iming... When I was your age i thought telling people I liked them was much easier through iming them.. Thats the best advice I can give you... And if you cant do that... then you will have to call her. It wont be awkward if you guys have talked before to know that you have soo much in common.... Call and strike up a convo with her... and then... tell her how you feel about her.. and then maybe... she will have the same feelings for you...

Hope This Helped... Good Luck

~**~**~**~**~**~**~**Jackie~**~**~**~**~**~**~**~

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karenR answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 2:02 pm:
Are you friends with her brother? You could call him and get her Sn if that would be less awkward.

If you see her you could give her your Sn. Or give it to the brother to pass along.

If all else fails you will just have to give her a call. Tell her that you would like to be friends exchange Sn's and see what the future holds. It will only be awkward for a couple of minutes. :)

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shumatedude7 answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 1:25 pm:
ok dude heres what you do you call her anyway with questions that dont pertain to anything about relationships like homwork or something and let it progress from there and eventually ask her out to do things liek a movie or mall surprise her wiht things for birthdays or valentines day special occasions good luck
david

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Tiggerluv4lyf answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 1:12 pm:
you should send her a letter but end it with from your secrect admior. And in the letter ask her what her screen name form aim. Have like a friend of yours come to baseball that day and give the letter to her so it wont be soo obvious. And have your firend be the secrect messanger, and make sure it is someone who you can trust! And then after a while, tell her who you are and express your feelings to her!

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Teza answered Tuesday July 26 2005, 1:10 pm:
Calling her wouldnt be really akward.. If you talk to her brother ask him if he has her screen name and if you called just ask for her screen name. You dont always have to call her just maybe that one time. If she giggles a lot when she talks to you then it means she has a crush on you so Im just letting you know. Just call her!! If you're a hottie trust me she will want you even more && your personality seems good so she might really like you too! <3

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