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Q: Hey, i have a problem. I have this friend and she has a Boy Friend i really want to spend more time with her but she always is talking about him or with him. I HATE IT. i really hope you can help me with this problem, thanks.
Amy =(

let her know how you feel about it but be nice and serious cuz sometimes ppl can get the wrong impression but say you know i dont see much of you anymore and i miss hangin with you. and plan to go to the mall or pool or something.

Q: HELLO I WAS CLEANING MY 1 YEAR OLD SON'S EAR AND ACCIDENTLY STUCK IT TO DEEP AND SLIGHT BLEEDING OCCURED. WHAT CAN HAPPEN TO HIS EAR AS A RESULT OF WHAT I DID.

ask him if it hurts and if he complains that is a sign to most defintly take him to the dr. i would take him no matter what... call ask a nurse or the hospital ask what they think of it.

Q: hey. im 14. alright um....okay i've been going out with this guy for almost a month. 1 month on monday. but the thing is we hardly no each other because he asked me out the first day we met. i feel really stupid asking you this but im not sure what to do. because we can talk like really fine and tell each other everything on the internet but in person its just like...dont touch me stay away. and we are all like...nervous or something. its stupid and i hate it. im thinking about dumping him until i get to know him better but i dont want him hurt and i dont want to break up w/ him cuz i really like him. please help me!

ok well i would talk to him see how he feels about going out being that you to just started to go out the 1st day you to met... but maybe you are emberassed of him? i dont know if that is even the case but maybe you feel as if you cant be your self in person but on the internet you could easily cover up what you said. just relax when you are around him... and if that is really hard to do then its time to call a break up.. maybe it wont be a "official break up" just take a break then hang out and maybe knowing you arent officially going out could help then go back out if hanging out went well. i've gone out with a guy i met that night but we didnt last very long it was about a month and a half.. but good luck.. any more help just talk to me!

Q: Im on the market for searching for a car. iv'e gotten a few ideas from friends ect. but im not quite sure what to get. im looking for one from about 96-2001 anything in that range. Also i want it to be a truck of some sort... any ideas?

you could go for the truck looking kind of car. make sure you get the right color for those kind of vehicles. I think guys look better in trucks personally but it really does depend on the kind of car really but choose what you like not just what your friends like cuz remember whos driving it?

Q: i found our my friend has been smoking weed. idk what to tel. i know it's ok to try it but now shes spending her money one it?

my best.. my x best friend does that stuff she points out to me that she wont keep doing it same like wize w/just plane smokin and ect. but never does i tried talkin to her and she constantly lied... i figured if she cared about me like she said she did she would stop but that never happaned... you best speak up

Q: Ok so i have this friend ( jeff) who i just like as a friend and only as a friend and its likewise with him. but anyways
In my dream i see me and him dating, and looks like we are really really happy. And it looks like me and him are like celebrating like our anniversity and all that. well half way thur the dinner or w/e this girl name Kathy pops up and shes all over jeff....and jeff keeps pushing her away and then i get tired of watching so i'm all Biotch move he's my man. and then all of sudden me and her are fighting over him in a mid ring, and jeff is just sitting there watching. and just about before he comes in to stop the fight i wake up.

someone told me that if you dream mud its a bad thing.

can you help me figure out the meaning of the dream.

well you could go to this one dream site and type your dream out and see what it means but you could also give Jeff a chance... you may never know what could happan

Q: My family adopted an adult cat, one year old, "Henry", to be friends with our lonely other one year old cat, "William". Both the cats are males. We've had Henry for three weeks, and he remains deathly afraid of everything. He braely eats, and hides under the bed. William visits him, and tries to play but Henry will not play, and runs away. We all have to keep incredibly quiet around the house, because loud noises scare the bejezus out of him. I want to make Henry feel more at home. What can I do?

Ask someone who is more into cats. Im not much of a cat person. But my cat is kind of distant herself. When another animal came into the house she really kept her distant. But maybe "henry" is much of a playful cat. I know cats do like dark spots such as under the bed. Just pet and play with him and he should eventually warm up. Is that like any better?

Q: umm when u shave *down there* lol yah do u shave all of it or what..what r u suppose to do??

Its your choice all the way

Q: Okay I will try to keep this short.

I have a friend lets call her lana, well I met lana at camp one time and we sorta became friends because we were not liked that well and so I mean I thought she was a great friend and all that and not about 2 years lata to me hse is like SO boring and just like a fly that I can't get ot go away. she constitaly calls me and she became friends with my "So Called Friends" and they are always making up lies to lana about me and well lana is sorta someone that will beleive that you can walk upside down if you tell her that. and so she beleive all these friends say about me and I don't know how to tell I don't want to be friedns with her anymore because I just can't stand her. I mean she isn;t that pretty and that doen't matter but she follows me around and acts like a lost dog. she says her mother likes me because I'm the only firned that hasn't been mean to her. I'm a nice person and I just canpt find the guts to tell her that she drives me batty! I have a really good friend and lana gets SO upset that i spend more time with her and I that I don't like her that well. I like her but I just don't like..;... HELP ME!!! I don't know what to do!

signed,
to nice of friend

keep your distance

Q: I'm in a pickle. I love listening to Y94, but yet, i HATE THE RAP! they just play the same rap songs over and over. what should i do?

My best advice would be to listening to a diff. station or burn a CD with all the songs you like on it. And listen to that and go back to y-94 and see if new music is playing. Or call in and request songs! thats the best i can help with you on that.

Q: DO you clean around your house? and how small is your house?

Its mostly my momma that does it all.. its mom all the way baby! but im sure by the time we move to our house it will be changed around. ill have a bigger room so .. thats defintly gunna change. My house right now is about decent sized but the our new house will be big.. or so i am told

Q: I love my dog and i walk him all the time my brother is complaining that its his dog and our parents are always yelling at him because he doesnt take enough responsibility by walking the dog.. but i just like to do it.. what do i do to keep him from yelling at me and getting him from getting trouble?

Well maybe you could take turns? every other day like a routine... or maybe you could walk the dog in the morning and he could do so at night.. just dont make a selfish act buy taking complete control over the dog.

Q: What would you if someone from your immediate family(as in your mother, father, brother...)hurt you in a way that is unforgivable?

Well What i would do is tell someone someone that is really easy to talk to because that always makes things easier to talk to them about. Maybe like a close relative or a close friend. If you are thinking that what hurt you is in a way your fault its not its there fault and they shouldnt have the right to hurt you. Noone should at all have the right hurt you what so ever. Tell me what you think write back to me *trix*

Q: how many animals do you exactly have? do they all live with you?

I have a cat and a guinea pig and horse in NJ everyone of them live with me except the horse obviuslly and i am going to get a dog as soon as we move to our new house

Q: Are you a good cooker? do you cook for you bf?

Haha im a good cooker? depends what i am cooking.. i need help with my lil cookers such as kaleigh and katie but no i dont cook for my boyfriend maybe when i master that area i will

Q: Where do you live to shop?

gadzooks JC Pennys i love that place and wal-mart its cheap but cute.. trust me i get compliments from my shirts from wal-mart and people dont know its from there and ask where'd i get it and i say wal-mart and they cant believe it.. but yeah gadzooks JC Pennys and wal-mart are my main area!

Q: HOW DO YOU KNOW YOUR IN LOVE?I understand you say you love nate/nathan but how do you know for a fact?

You know your in love cuz you have the tingly feeling in your stomach everytime your around him.. and you got the butterflies. and you cant wait for the time he picks the phone up to call you and you just wnat to talk to him! and you think of him alot. Thats love. He will always be on your mind if your in love. You know when you are in love. You will know for sure when loves strikes!!

Q: What music are you into?

Pop rap a lil rock.. it varies

Q: This isnt a question or anything of that sort .. but you dont no me but u are such a help with answering these questions i just want to say thank you soo much for the ppl that you help.. even you dont no them and i will take your advise if ever need be!!

thanks :)

Q: what do you use for your eyes? for like makeup my friend showed me a picture of you while i was staying at her house and i finally got your sn and i saw this and i was just wondering..

I use diff. things depends what i am doing really and what i am wearing.. now its pink this and pink that! i like pink! im a gurlie gurl compared to what i used to be! sometimes i put white eyeliner on top of my eyes and glitter on top of it.. its look cool. sometimes its just a light color that matches my shirt!! *trix*

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"