about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

13/F Is using vibrators unhealthy? And is it gross at my age to be using them? Because i really feel like im doing something wrong or something like that...please help...thanks!

Its not unhealthy. Its normal! Dont think that you are weird or something because its a common thing for a lot of girls. Dont worry babe.

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13/F i want to get a dildoe but i dont want ANYONE to know so how, is my question...i really liek them that might sound gross but idk...please help

You have to be older to purchase one. You can get them at Spencers. Go with a cousin or something.

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what is some information on the flower scene in alice in wonderland?

Huh? Information.. give more details.

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I'm 16, I have green eyes, and medium brown hair (long) with purple highlights. I really wanna start wearing make-up, something not heavy, and NO EYELINERS. Can you please give me some tips and colors (brands would be cool too) that would go well with my face?

Thank you sooo much!!

If you have fear skin then I dont think you need to use any foundation or powder. Add some eyeshadow but dont get any dramatic color, && then use mascara. Thats all you need if you just want to start out with little make-up. If you want you could use lipgloss. I have Maybeline,Revlon && Covergirl make up. They all work good. But for mascara I have Lancome and that is the best ever.

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OK the first day of school is coming up and I know exactly what I am going to wear. The problem is what to do with my hiar imm 11/f and i have medium dark dirty blonde hair. I have no idea how to style it for the first day of school i am wearing a light wash denim mini a white cami with one of those pink swetaers that ties under your ribs any ideas for hair tips??

If you leave it wavy then that would look really cute. Add some lipgloss and eyeshadow and you'll look gorgeous!

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HEY TEZA ITS TAY! I LUV YOU SO MUCH AND I MISS YEW SO! HIT ME UP ON THE ADVICE COLOUMN! tay_michele_3!! I LUV YOU!

Hey Tay!! I havent seen you all summer! I miss you tons && I hope to see you toon! Love ya bunches !! I'll add you as a favorite columnist.

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well...i always feel like i have to be perfect or better than my friends and im really cunfused should i try ebing different and i figure out wut style to use PLese help SOOON

Ehh.. sometimes I feel like that too but then I relize my friends are'nt perfect nether is anyone else.. so I want to try to be better then them. You need to just be yourself!! People love you for who you are. If you want to change and have a new style just make sure its for you && that its something you want to do.. not for anyone else. Anything else you need just drop it in my inbox.

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ok (smiles)i just told my boyfriend that i loved him and he said it back. but now i cant sleep, i dont care if im hungry, and i smile constantly. plus i get this tickle feeling inside of me. i mean....this is the only guy who i have loved and he has loved me back so i dont know how this is soposed to feel. i will rate 5's to who ever answers this bc i feel so good!

Aww..thats exactly how I felt! My ex told me over the phone lol and I went blank. I was speachless. But it does feel good and its just nice. But aww! I'm glad you feel good and hope everything works out in the future!

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i have a lot of questions regarding sex, relationships, and everything in between.. but some questions are too personal to ask.. is there any columnist who has an AIM screen name who can answer my questions.. i'll feel really weird asking them but i have no one here to help me and there's a lot on my mind and i would really appreciate the help..

thanx♥

Aww dont feel weird or anything. Even if you post them on here only couple people would know who you are because they are level 2 && 3 mods! But the rest of us dont. You can IM me anytime. X0X tEzA

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16/m i just gave a girl sex and i have a girlfriend i want to tell her i cheated on her so bad but i just cant...do u have any sugestions on wut 2 say 2 her should i just come out n say i wanna bang her n then bang her n then tell her the truth? helpp!!

Yes tell your girlfriend. It would kill her but she needs to hear it from you then from anyone else.

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13/F Ok so my dad has this like "body pad" thing that has like vibrators on it from the neck to the feet! and when people arent home i use it...like for a long time...at least a half an hour! well my question is, is that normal for me to want to do that stuff...? i feel awkward after it like i did something wrong...is that normal? please help!O and i always have like discharge crap come out..is that normal? Thanks

Yes its normal.

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who sings the song you and me??

Life House.

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what does it mean when a guy asks you if your lose or tight

If a guy asks you if you're lose is if your vagina is lose__like it doesnt hurt when you get fingered or when you have sex but try not to say that you're loose b/c that also sounds kind of slutty....and tight__is when it hurts when a guy fingers you or when he tries to have sex with you ....I'd say I'm not loose but I'm also not really tight! That'll be perfect! Hope I helped! ex_Oh

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are saltine crackers and pretzals really healthy for you?? or are they just as bad as chips?

No they actually are a lot better for you! Trust me...I eat them all the time! Well used to before my diet lol!

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13/F ok well i havent gone that far with a guy and your my age and i wanted to know how far you've gone..not to be nosey...but like how far do you think(by this age) i should be at? thanks..

I have'nt gone very far! Just kissing /making out! Boys dont like sluts yet they also dont liek prude girls! At your age I'd stick with just making out....tease boys...thats what its all about...if they dump you b/c they didnt get nething out of it...who cares...they're not worth it but dont do something that you will regret later is all I have to stay! You're hott you're cool and just be you! You'll have more friends and less worries if you dont start being sexually active at 13!! Just be you sweety! Who cares bout every1 else! Good luck! I hope I helped ya!

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okay well; my boyfriend is.. over 8 inches. he's 17 and i'm 15. (.. he just turned 17) he was my first and we've only had sex twice.. (after over 6 months of dating.) and the first time wasn't so painful i guess.. but the second was a bitch. i'm not loose enough for him.. and he's not even going rough at all.. he's just way too big for me that the second time i had to make him stop. any help on this? i really want to pleasure him and myself.. but it just hurts really badly every time.

Awww sweety its ok!..its just your 2nd time. If you 2 have sex more often...it wont hurt as bad or as much.....&& ask him to finger you before you 2 have sex so he can loosen you up! But I'm sure everything will be fine! Dont worry too much! Good luck!!

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13/f i just had sex the other nite w. a guy idk @ all!! now my vagina hurtss sooo baddd!! is this normal?! its been like 5 days n he didnt use a condom n im getting morning sickness and my stomach has been hurting! please answer this soon!!

Uh oh! I don't know how to tell you this but you might be pregnant....maybe its just false alarm but you should really take a pregnancy test! You should've thought twice about what you were doing and NEVER EVER have sex with out a condom! always use a condom ALWAYS!!!!! It hurts b/c it was ur first time....n it also hurts b/c you are ONLY 13 && your body is not used to that type of activity! Hon you need to talk to him and take a pregnancy test...soon! Give it 1 more week and then you shud know whats up! Good luck and I hope you learned your lesson!

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Im 13/F and i think im a lesbian...i like making out with girls..well i have like idk 5 or 6 times...well i want to again! i see hott guys and sometimes they turn me on but i see a girl and im like woww! So am i a lesbo? and if so how do i tell my family and friends! one more question..i think i might like my best friend...more than a friend..when we were hugging goodbye i didnt want to let her go and i wanted to kiss her...idk what to do! Please help!

You're def. a lesbian! But there is nothing wrong with that! I adivse you not to tell your friends or your family YET.....I would wait just a lil bit more and see how you react towards girls and guys and then you'll know for sure and if you cant tell your parents yet then tell your friends....&& if they dont like it well they were never your friends in the 1st place....family might be harder but they're your family....they would never abandon you! Babe I think you'll be just fine! Good luck sweety!

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i want to measure my breasts. like to see what my size is. so how do you figure it out ?

Wow there's really no way of measuring your breasts....what I would do if I was in your shoes is I'd go && shop for bras and try like all sizes on!! Its the only way to really find out.

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hey!
i'm on a diet where i'm really watching what i eat, and not eating junk food or anything any more! but it's 9:35 at night..and i'm hungry! what can i have that won't cause me to gain weight? we don't have alot.. but suggestions would be soo helpful!

Salads, any fruits. Ceral also wont make you gain weight.

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