well...i always feel like i have to be perfect or better than my friends and im really cunfused should i try ebing different and i figure out wut style to use PLese help SOOON
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category? Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos? xdesireex0 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 9:22 am: I used to feel like that too but you shouldn't have to play some act to just be friends with people...your friends will love you for you and nothing less than that..trust me and take my advice...BE YOURSELF!! like a quote from a movie said...."why are you trying so hard to fit in, when you were born to stand out!"...thats how i look at life sometimes..i used to try and fit in, but once i got loose from that i had more friends than i could imagine...people actually appreciate me, for me! :) so just do me that favor and Be Yourself...i hope i helped!
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Teza answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:47 am: Ehh.. sometimes I feel like that too but then I relize my friends are'nt perfect nether is anyone else.. so I want to try to be better then them. You need to just be yourself!! People love you for who you are. If you want to change and have a new style just make sure its for you && that its something you want to do.. not for anyone else. Anything else you need just drop it in my inbox. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
cookierat123 answered Thursday July 28 2005, 1:35 am: LISTEN TO ME SISTA/BROTHA! you shouldnt have to change for your frineds. look at it this way...would you rather be hated for what you are or be loved for what you arnt? well, i think you should talk to your friends about how you are feeling. tell them that your not going to try anymore. if they are true friends then they will understand. i hope i helpd and feel free to drop something off in the inbox.
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