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Hi my name is Diamond. There's this boy that i've went with for seven months and we broke up like 2 weeks ago. He still says he loves me but this other girl who comes to me sayin that he tells her that he loves her. But he tells me thats not true. I want to go back with him but this girl is sprung over him and i donno what to do or if he wants me back or if he wants her! I know it's confusing, so what do i do?
~Diamond (link)
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Well this may be weird but ask him again and say to go and tell her that it is not true. So you would be able to find out which one is lying. If he really likes you then I think it would be ok to go back out with him as long as you know he wouldn't be cheating on you. That girl might be obsessed with him and doesn't want him to go out with you so she is telling you lies but you never know, she might be telling the truth. So I say watch whats going on and I hope everything goes well for you!
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Okay so I like this guy "H" and we're not all that close but we talk and are partly in the same social group . So , I smoke and he thinks it's gross . so I'm quiting . Anyways , he's been going about saying smoking kills everytime he sees me ... so I slap him on the shoulder playfully and say shushhh ! and smile and then he smiles and we talk . And today my friend "S" asked me to come to his vollyball game and H is on the team so he was practicing and he walked by and looked at me and smiled and I smiled , and it was EXACTLY like the slow motion moments in the movies !Plus I think H is just saying this to get me to talk to him .
Although , I asked him out like 1 and 1/2 months ago and he said "No , I'm sorry , I'm 13 and I don't need a girlfriend I'm fine by myself"
So ... I don't really see us going anywhere ... but if he liked me enough he might want to try it out [hes never had a girlfriend before]
So basiclly I'm just confused !
Answers by morning or the 30th would be highly apreciated and rated accordingly ! =]
I just need to know !
Oh yes , I also think S likes me ? but he flirts with EVERYONE ! so I dunno but he asked me to his vollyball games everytime and wants to walk me home just to get me to come . Plus he's really sweet to me . But he's like that with a lot of people ?
So I'm thinking because I'm usually one of the guys and easy to talk to , I might just be aprochable ?
Give me some opinions ?
PLEASE ?!?!
I AM DESPRATE !
thnxxxxx !
I will rate if you give good advice !
xoxo (link)
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First S, Do you think he likes you? Well I can't really tell you if he does. He may like you you might be approachable and easy to talk to and he may be a big flirt. So you never know, everyone is different.
As for H, you should talk to him more and be nice to him. He might like you too so you can have a chance with him. Only he likes you and wants to be with you. 13 is a young age to have a relationship (I am 13 too) so he might think that it is but just talk to him and if the subject comes up then ask him about it. I hope everything goes well for you!
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Let me start off by saying that I have wonderfull boyfrind.I am currently 17 and I am a girl.Michael, he is my soul mate.My mother doesnt like him. She has valid reasons but I love him nad he treats my with respect and loves me. I dont belive that theres nothing that he wouldnt do for me.
I am currently in Virginia. I moved here in August. he is in Virginia. Our plan is for him to come get me on my 18th birthday and for us to get married. I wont be able to see him until next Novenber. I miss him terrribly.
What should I do? I mean my mother would freak if she found out that I was with him again and I cant talk to him on the house phone and I am like the only one in the universe that doesnt have a cell phone.So, should I stay with him and move or should I stay here, in VA?
urs truly
Confuzzeled? (link)
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My opinion is that you should stay home. Your mom has her reasons not to like him but your mom isn't perfect and can't make your choices but at least listen to her. 18 years old and gonna get married? That is just too much. So your ready to be comitted for the rest of your life, move out, take your own responsibility and try to have a happy life? Are you sure you are ready for that? I'm not saying that you couldn't do it I'm just asking if you are ready for all of it. And also I suggest you tell your mom about him too even if she would freak out. I can't make your decisions and no one else can for you either. I hope everything goes well for you though!
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there's this boy that i really like but i dont think he likes me because he doesnt want to talk to me but i think because he knows i like him he looks at me sometimes when we're at lunch and we walk pass so wat do u think is happening plz help (link)
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You can never tell for sure that a guy likes you. If he doesn't want to talk to you then try to be his friend. And if that doesn't work out and you tried everything you could then just forget him, he obviously is noticing what a cool girl you are and he isn't worth liking. There are plenty more guys in the world. I hope everything goes well for you!
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okay so i really like this guy.
i just met him.
and like everytime i see him in the halls and stuff i WANT to talk to him, but im like speechless.
so now he thinks im shy
aand hes GORGEOUS.
what do i do?
like i really want to seem like the outgoing girl i am around everyone else.
thanks in advance. (link)
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Smile when you see him, it would make you seem friendly rather than shy.
Approach him but don't run up to him like the person below me said you can bring friends if it makes you feel better.
Take a breath before you talk to him, but don't choke!
Joke around and be fun but don't try to hard, just act like he is one of your friends.
Don't act weird and laugh at everything he says.
Be sure to make eye contact, but don't stare forever remember its not a staring contest.
Remember to be nice.
Be yourself you don't want him to think of you as something you aren't.
I hope everything goes well for you!
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how do you get over someone? i knw its a simple question but how? thanks in advance x (link)
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Well just do something than think about them, hobbies, sports, hanging out with friends. Doing something else that will take up your time. Slowly it will start dying off. Get some friends over and watch a movie. Also doing something with yourself like getting and new hair cut or new clothes can make you think more about than a guy, read a book, open your mind and think that if he deserved you, they would be with you, throw a party! Call you friends, go shopping! There are millions of things you can do to get your mind off of them. Hope everything goes well for you!
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hey well i am not that fat but i waigh 135 lbs but i look like i way 90 or something around there and well i need help i am trying ot drink lots of water to loose weight but yeah and i dont want my parents to know yet and when i got to school all my friends and everything r skinny and i feel bad cuz soemthime they talk abotu weight and stuff so i just act like i dont hear them and they ask me how much i weigh and i say i dont know so plzzzzzzzzz help me!!!!!! (link)
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Its doesn't matter how much you weigh even if you do have a skinny figure. But it is good to stay healthy. Its good that you drink water and be sure to eat good food. Excercising is another thing which helps alot on losing weight. But remember don't stress to much about your weight and make sure to stay healthy, I hope everything goes well for you.
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Hey, well all the boys want to kiss me but i have kissed boys beofore but i am afraid and if they do kiss em most guys say i am a really good kisser the last guy i kissed but i am afraid i am nto anymore and if i kiss a boy they will spread around school that i am a bad kisser help me plz!!!!!!!! (link)
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If it is gonna bring in alot of drama then I suggest you don't kiss them. If you are gonna think you are a bad kisser and even if you are it doesn't matter, just don't kiss them. But it is not my buisness to tell you what to do so do what you think is right and I hope everything works out for you!
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I was outside cleaning the writing off of my car windows and I had my car door opened so I didn't have to keep bending down to pick up the cleaner since I messed my knee and ankle up running. Well I live in an apartment, and there were plenty of parking spaces close to my building, but I was parked down ways a bit in open parking (instead of in covered parking like I usually do) so I didn't get in anyone's way if they wanted to park close. So, my bitch neighbor decides she isn't going to park in convered parking, instead she pulls up in the parking spot next to my car. I was standing on the opposite side of my car and she WAITS FOR ME to walk around my car to close my door so she could get out of hers, EVEN THOUGH she saw that I had a knee brace and ankle brace on and that I was limping around. She had PLENTY of room to get out of her damn car. Then, she glared at me and rolled her eyes when I shut my door. The only reason she did it was because I turned her in for parking in MY covered parking space which I pay extra for.
Was that rude or am I overreacting? (link)
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She was obviously being rude in my opinion. Just try not to deal with her, you can't change a person unless they want to change and if she is over reacting about you turning her in for parking in your spot which you pay for then she isn't worth your time.
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The guy I like says he has the same feelings about me. He tells me he loves me & all of that. Funny thing is he does not want a relationship. He always talks to me, is concerned with what I'm doing, basically anything a bf would do, but since I live in CA & he lives in Washington, he does not want one, yet his feelings are the same. What would you guys do?? Any advice?? (link)
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Well he probably doesn't want a relationship because you guys live to far away from each other and he doesn't want a long distance relationship. Even if you guys live far away from each other he was your boyfriend, you don't know what he is doing. He could be out with another girl. I'm not saying this will happen, he might be totally different than what I just explained. So I would just wait a little and see what happens. But I hope everything goes well for you.
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ok so im in 7th grade and ive only had 3 bf mi entire life. how do i make guys like me and how do i ask guys out and not be rejected (link)
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You can't really make guys like you. But to find a good boyfriend I would say be yourself. If you are just living as someone you aren't then he isn't really liking you.
Also be nice and kind to guys and other people around you so that guys will see that you are a nice person.
Take care of yourself like hygeine and make your hair nice and dress nice but not like a big show off, showing off there body and most guys think that is really disgusting. Unless they are forward boys who only stare at a girls body.
But this is just advice on how to help yourself which might draw a guy to like you, and hopefully and good guy. But I hope everything goes well for you.
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I have to find out when, from where, where to, and why my ancestors came to America. Are there any good websites where I can look up even one of these things if I know some of the last names? thanks so much (link)
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You should try google and see what comes up. Usually they will show you some good sites.
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i need a lot of money and how can i get it within a week? uh and legally lol btw im 13/f (link)
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Well you can sell some old things like clothes, shoes, ect. And you also can do babysitting, taking care of peoples dogs or cats. Wash cars or do some chores around the house like washing dishes. You can talk to your neighbors about the babysitting or about the animals. But I hope you find a way to make some money.
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hi im allie and in 17. ok so this summer i stayed with my cousin for about a month or two. and during that time she hooked me up with her boy friends best friend so hey what could be better. he was really cute, shy at first, but then just amazing. we clicked and it worked. we really liked each other. well at least thats what i thought. well we had a fun time and when it was time for me to leave he told me he would call me or message me or something. ( just to key you in im not one of those nieve girls who falls into puppy love and let guys do whatever and are all clingy and everything) well turns out he never did so when i went back down there liek 3 months later, we hung out and once again we clicked and had a great time. but then i went back a month later and he came over to my cousins house one night and i was all excited to see him. turns out it was an akward night for me. he was flirting with my cousin!! and she of course was just ignoring it and talkin with him like usual but i just kinda stood there. i tried to have a convo with him but he was just interested in talking to her. i was honeslty crushed. i realllly like him. im going back for xmas break and i really wanna see him but idk if he wants to see me. like we'll hang out but i kinda want more than that. i REALLY like him. what do i do? (link)
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Well no one can actually tell if they for sure like you. Talk to your cousin, she might clue you in on whats going on if its her boyfriends best friend. Maybe when he see's you when you come out and he likes you but when you leave things change but then you come back and it goes back to him liking you. I'm not saying thats what he is doing, Its just things that happen to people. But I would say talk to your cousin would be best. But I hope everything goes well for you.
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I recently tried out for a Soccer team and its a club. So theres girls there who are from all over the state. Well the team I made is pretty good. I only know 1 person on that team and she's from the same city as me. We're pretty good friends but not like best friends or anything. During soccer though, we hang out a lot. Well our first practice was on sunday and I noticed that my friend (we will call her Emily) knew a lot of the girls there. So she was talking to them and I though "oh, ok so she knows them." so I let her talk to them thinking that she will come and talk to me soon. Nope! boy was i wrong. She was always hanging out with them and I felt really alone. I know your probably telling me to talk to other girls there but they know all of each other. It seems like i'm the only on on my team who doesn't have a friend.
I dont know what to do! we do alot of parter things and i'm always the last one who has to raise my hand and say "who doesn't have a partner?" and i'm stuck with the person who doesn't get her friend as a partner. all i'm saying is that it really makes me sad that my friend wont be around me anymore and that when I try to be nice to these girls and get them to be my friend, they already have a friend and wont include me in their group.
Also, some of these girls are pretty popular so they have tons of friends. lets just say i'm not the sociable type and not outgoing. So it would be pretty weird if this shy girl (me) went up to these really energetic outgoing girls and talked to them.
What shall I do? please and thnx (link)
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Well if you want to be their friend then, well, thats what you are gonna have to do. Go up and talk to them. I am also shy and also not very outgoing but I made my friends when I came to my new school and without me going up and doing something about it I wouldn't have any friends. If you talk to them and they just ignore you or give you that weird look theres nothing much you can do but be nice to them and have as much fun as you can in soccer. You still have your friend from the same city. Talk to her about it and have her introduce you to her friends. I hope everything goes well for you!
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i cannot stand my friend. she is mean to me. although sometimes she is nice. but i cannot endure anymore. i feel like we're a rollercoaster, switching between mean and nice. i will not elaborate on the reasons why. does anyone know how how i can stop being friends with someone? i think its easier to break up in a relationship but how do you do it with friendship? i have no idea. okay i do not want to talk things over with my friend because she is hard to deal with and that would not work. i do not want to stop talking to her completely. if there is anything i can say or whatever i can do to tell her i dont want to be friends with her anymore in a nice way? (link)
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Thats how me and my friend was like not to long ago. We have been friends forever and then we were acting mean then nice to each other like in your case. You just need to talk to her and tell her whats bothering you because if you just ditch her and she would be like what did I do? So you should explain it to her and ask her if she would be a nicer friend and you both would work on it. Think about it, is she the only one being mean? Or are you too? If so you both have something to work on if she accepts it. Give her a chance and talk about it and hopefully you guys might do better in your friendship.
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I don't know..thsi boy is my friend but he never aknowledges me.
My best friend and I always walk together everywhere but when we come to the same path and see him, and says Hi to my best friend and trys to tlak to her and just completely ignores me or act as if I'm nto there.
I hope you guys don't suggest that maybe he has a crush on my best friend because he doesn't they're friends too but atleast he could even say hi when me meet is enough for me but he doesn't even do it and it kinda makes me feel bad.
Does he like me or maybe he's just realyl stupid and really does forget? Or maybe it's something else? (link)
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Well this one is kinda hard to tell. He might just be a jerk and ignore you or might by a slight chance like you but I really can't say. Do you want to get his attention? What I suggest you do is ask him like what is your name again or something like that and if he doesn't answer and you are for sure he heard you then he is ignoring you. Say something to him and maybe he will start talking to you.
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Ok im 14/m, I moved to Hudson Quebec yesterday. I guess I like it. But if I want I can move home to Fredericton any time I want. Ok there is a Girl I like there and she likes me and we talked about me maybe moving back. And she said "Dont move back just for me, you wanted to move, you wanted to meet new people" and she is blaiming herself for me wanting to move back. What do I do? I no she likes me, but do I move back and make her mad, or do I stay? (link)
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If you did move back I don't think she would be mad. I think she would probably be pretty happy. Stay if you want to. You wanted to move there so you should stay there, for at least awhile and see if you like it or if you want to move back. And you don't need to move back for a girl. I assume you still have contact to her so she is letting you have your time. You can move back when you want and if you just don't like it there.
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well this will be long im sorry but its love okay? ok so i've been going out with this AMAZING guy for the past two months (2 month anniversary on 8th August) and we really love each other...he's really tall and sweet with curly brown hair...ohhh, i could go on n on i'm so in love with him =) but dats not da problem
You see, my normally perfect friends absolutely DETEST him... and its wrecking my life... but let me explain the whole story okay.
in the sixth grade (we're in the ninth now) my bf, say john, was very very popular and was like one of the biggest jocks around school and was considered really really cool and dated all these popular girls. Then he had a stroke (i know i know, so young, i cried for hours after i heard this it was so sad...) and was admitted to a hospital, fighting for his life. The doctor performing the surgery went all oversmart and tried to experiment on an eleven year old kid and messed about with the equipment and even though he recovered the messing about left him paralysed in the right side for a couple of months...he's fine now of course except he has a slightly deeper voice but back then when he came back to school everyone just began ignoring him...you knnow, the way those popular people generally act...and it was like suddenly they didn't even know him anymore and he sort of became, well, NOT popular. They talk to him of course but only with a sorta pity and the girls treat him like dirt (only the popular ones he dated). And all the people who were jealous of him when he was popular are really mean to him nowadays...so anyway I joined the school last year and he's had a crush on me since last year and we've had a complete fairytale story... until now of course...my friends (only some, the really close ones are okay) are being total bitches and dissing him and no matter how brave i am (i stood up to a group of twenty all alone!) and how much i tell them he's nice they wont listen...all they care about is his popularity and i'm beginning to hate EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM for it. And i'm the type who'll die for her love and stuff but its just so sad...i mean am I the only person with a heart in this school? or should I break up with him to please my friends? Please dont give one line advice...you understand i'm gonna need a lot of it...i really cant stand it anymore... help, please!
oh and did i mention that i'm totally in love with him and he sort of cannt go to sleep without hearing my voice (likewise) and i think i'd die if i cant tbe with him...but then i'm dying this way too... HELP!!! (link)
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You don't need to break up with him, there would be no reason but to please your so called friends. You should just find some friends that wouldn't act like losers. Lots of people are mean in this world and you can't stop them unless they have a heart. Forget about them if they want to make fun of him. You don't need friends like that. Find some friends that might actually be your friends. You can't say out of the school they are all mean. There has to be at least one person who can be your friend and not make fun of your boyfriend.
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so my Xs are at my school(3) and 2 of them hate me. But the other is nice (Caleb) And like I like him but I'm fake dating this kid Ray Ray and like I like him 2 but I dont think he likes me!!!!! I dont know who 2 chose!!!!
Ray Ray has given me 4 hickeys and caleb broke my heart!!!!! Ray Ray is my friend but so is caleb what do I do???????
HELP!!!!!
Sondra ; ) (link)
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Caleb or Ray Ray? So Caleb is nice, but what if he breaks your heart again what are you gonna do? Ray Ray you are fake going out with but you don't think he likes you. Just talk to them and get to know them a little better. Maybe one is great and the other changed your mind. Or maybe neither of them are the right one. There are plenty of guys in the world, there may be someone standing right in front of you who might be Mr. Perfect and you don't even know it. You could talk to other guys and get to know them and maybe fall for one of them. Well whatever you chose, I hope everything works out for you.
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