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shy?
okay so i really like this guy.
i just met him.
and like everytime i see him in the halls and stuff i WANT to talk to him, but im like speechless.
so now he thinks im shy
aand hes GORGEOUS.
what do i do?
like i really want to seem like the outgoing girl i am around everyone else.
thanks in advance.
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Ohh my gosh! Okay, so yeah we're like going through the SAME problem! haha. Hmm, well I was trying this out and it worked. So probobly everytime you see him, you can't even like THINK OF ANYTHING to talk about right? I know this sounds really really really dorky maybe, but I acctually wrote down or thought of stuff to say. Or questions, but then don't ask too many questions if you can tell he's getting annoyed. If you guys have classes together you could tyr to make it so you have a good chance of talking to him. If you get nervous or something and your speechless and your stomache hurts or something, just breathe in your nose & out your mouth and say something. It could be like, hey whats up? nothing you? oh nothing just really pissed off about my grade in blah blah blah, do you have an A in that class? And so on, but that's like an example haha. I hope I'm not "over doing it" but I was sort of happy because all the girls t my school are totally outgoing but when im around gorgeous guys like that, I know how you feel. haha, I hope that something helped!!!! :]]]
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If your nervous around him. then try to hand out with him with your other friends. In a group situation you can loosen up a little and he'll see the true you!
Hope that helps!
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um being outgoing is really easy but it takes a while to get use to being out going around guys but just act like you are talking to your cousin or dad or some guy that is related to you
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Smile when you see him, it would make you seem friendly rather than shy.
Approach him but don't run up to him like the person below me said you can bring friends if it makes you feel better.
Take a breath before you talk to him, but don't choke!
Joke around and be fun but don't try to hard, just act like he is one of your friends.
Don't act weird and laugh at everything he says.
Be sure to make eye contact, but don't stare forever remember its not a staring contest.
Remember to be nice.
Be yourself you don't want him to think of you as something you aren't.
I hope everything goes well for you!
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Be yourself. As long as you're friendly, things should go fine. Try not to be nervous. Just because you think he's gorgeous, doesn't make him better than you or any other person. He's a human like everyone else. Try talking to him with a group of your friends. You'll probably feel more comfortable talking to him & if things get awkward or the conversation isn't going anywhere, they can help you out. You'll probably be more outgoing with your friends there anyway.
-hope that helped!♥
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