hi im allie and in 17. ok so this summer i stayed with my cousin for about a month or two. and during that time she hooked me up with her boy friends best friend so hey what could be better. he was really cute, shy at first, but then just amazing. we clicked and it worked. we really liked each other. well at least thats what i thought. well we had a fun time and when it was time for me to leave he told me he would call me or message me or something. ( just to key you in im not one of those nieve girls who falls into puppy love and let guys do whatever and are all clingy and everything) well turns out he never did so when i went back down there liek 3 months later, we hung out and once again we clicked and had a great time. but then i went back a month later and he came over to my cousins house one night and i was all excited to see him. turns out it was an akward night for me. he was flirting with my cousin!! and she of course was just ignoring it and talkin with him like usual but i just kinda stood there. i tried to have a convo with him but he was just interested in talking to her. i was honeslty crushed. i realllly like him. im going back for xmas break and i really wanna see him but idk if he wants to see me. like we'll hang out but i kinda want more than that. i REALLY like him. what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? falalalakimmy answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 7:16 am: Wow, tough sitch. I would just say to talk to him. tell him how you feel about flirting with his best friends girl. Text him if easier. Then talk on the phone. But this is hard he showed that he was really into you at first, then ingored you?? Id say hes showing some mixed signals. So i owuld say hang out with him on christmas break and see what he does. If hes a jerk again, well id say there are more fishies in the sea. But if you guys click again, talk to him and ask him if he feels the connection. Hope i helped
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kiran answered Wednesday November 28 2007, 12:52 am: Well no one can actually tell if they for sure like you. Talk to your cousin, she might clue you in on whats going on if its her boyfriends best friend. Maybe when he see's you when you come out and he likes you but when you leave things change but then you come back and it goes back to him liking you. I'm not saying thats what he is doing, Its just things that happen to people. But I would say talk to your cousin would be best. But I hope everything goes well for you. [ kiran's advice column | Ask kiran A Question ]
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