well i have a boyfriend that i love wiht all my heart. but i have a problem. i like two other guys. one of the guys is my best friend's boyfriend. he likes me too but i have a b/f and hes dating my friend. the other guy is my boyfriend's x-best friend. they can't stand each other now. but my boyfriend is kind of being a butt hole too. i don't really know what to do. i know this isnt really a clear question but i need advice on what to do with all these guys. please!!! just do your best to answer my question. it could be difficult.
thanks!
can you imagine how will it be to be without your boyfriend??...that can really answer some of your questions maybe you don't want anything serios or you guys just missed that spark , make him understand that he might be loosing you so he'll do what he has done to get your heart...i know sounds weird but hope it works =)
Diane
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I really need help because I'm starting to get extremely scared.
13/f
Well two nights ago when I got out of the shower I noticed my right breast was really darkish blotchy brown around the nipple but there was like a circle of white around the nipple seperating the two. Also the nipple kind of looks swollen. My left breast looks fine and I thought if I ignored it, it would go away but it looks like its getting worse.
Please tell me if you know what is wrong. I'm too embaressed to tell someone but if I need to I will.
P.S. I tried researching but I couldn't find anything.
go check it as soon as posible =) and try not to worry a lot about the issue you can make things worse by over thinking =)
Diane
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore....
nothing weird about it i had my 1st bf at 16 lol and i wastn ugly at that time or anything guys are soo inmature and not all of them wants commitment don't worry you'll have one soon trust me just stop thinking about it a lot! its not big deal you'll have one but stop worrying about it =)
diane
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My sister was watching the Lizzie McGuire movie last night, and I saw like 5 minutes of it and couldn't help but notice that her necklace/choker (the silver one with the heart and the cute clasp) was adorable!!
Where can you get one like it?
claires , icing or avon lol i have the one from claires and its soo pretty but my friend has one from avon that instead of being the silver heart the heart its simulating a diamond heart lol its cute
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My little sister has bubble gum in her hair! How do I get it out? Help...soap and water doesn't work...
ice helps but better cut it off
diane
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Hi everyone,
I was wondering, how long does it take for your stomache to shrink from not eating??
Thanks for any help, guys!
from not eating you'll have not good results...the best and fastest way ive known its to start eating small portions , remember be healthy :P
Diane
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what does it mean when a girl gets her "cherry popped" ?
loosing virginity
diane
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At what age should you first go to a gynecologist or what age did you first go? and for those of you who only live with a dad how do you tell him you need to go there?
from what i been told you should go with a gynecologist when you are sexually active, or when your 22 something like that i've heard ...and about the father thing...i will better go with an aunt or an older familiar that your close to =) that helps
Diane
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Ok i havnt heard from my man in a couple hours and the chick keeps texting me telling me to stay aways from him. She makes up a lot of lie. She told him i got rid of the neckles he gave me on the 23 of this month. And that made me really mad. So i told her to stop. But i think the only reason that she is trying to break us up is because she wants some dick. She is one of those girls who use every guy then drops them. When me and my man talk he tells me how much he hates her and how nasty she is. But when i talk to her she tells me he talks crap behind my back!! So i dont kno who to beleive! Plz help me
P.S. He gave me a neckles for christmas wat does that mean??
if he says shes tooo anoying ...why does she still have contact with him??when someone bothers you you do all things posible so this person wont have contact with you ...tell him to stop talking to her if she is really that anoying
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i've heard that if you sleep on a satin pillow, in the morning your hair will be straighter, non-frizzy, and your hair won't mess up from the night before. is this true? thanks!
it works but your hair wont turn out perfect lol but it helps =)
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I'l try and make it as short as possible.
I have a best friend and we always fall for the same guys at exactly the same time. It gets anoyin because we cant make a move on a guy because we dont want to hurt each others feelings.
About a month ago my friend fell for a guy and secretly i did too but she found out and i told her that i would move on again and find someone else. So i moved on and found a guy and we began to get on really well. We both flirted alot and we began to get really close. Then my best friend tells me she has fallen for exactly the same guy and she tells him how she feels. We continue flirting but then she takes him to the cinema. they are about to go out and she doesnt understand how much she is hurting me inside because she always talks about how close they are and i makes me cringe inside and i do not know how to tell her to stop talking about him and i really secretly do not want her to go out with him! this is selfish but its just how i feel and i really do not know what to do!! Please help xxx
so selfish from your friend :S you move on so she can have her guy and now she wants yours :S
talk to her !! thats not what a good friend would do also, your guy has to decide between the two of you :s its so ackward he's dating both of you
Diane
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I want to get my boyfriend a new wallet. He loves the kinds with like the chain thingy..
Does anyone know where I can get one that is black leather and I can get our names put into it?
One with a chain would be cool, but if you know about one without a chain, thats fine too..
Thanks.
chain thingy @ hot topic lol then get to a place where they engrabed them mmmm maybe a printer? hope it was helpful
Diane
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I don't know what category this would go in, so forgive me if it's in the wrong category.
Let's call my friend Jane.
And let's call her boyfriend John.
Okay, well, Jane and John, who were in 11th grade at the time, decided to have sex one day and Jane ended up pregnant. It just so happens, I liked John a lot, but I knew that Jane loved him with all her heart. Now Jane is talking about how hard it is being a mother of a 5-month-old and stuff. It's sort of making me jealous.
I'm just afraid that I'm going to go have sex with some guy I don't even like to have a baby and see what it's like.
So, my question is, Is there any way I can see how hard it is being a teen mother without actually having to go through the pregnancy? Like, not like one of those psycho baby doll things people do in middle school, but like, staying with someone who has a newborn baby or something to convince me I don't want a baby? Or should I just have a baby and get it over with?
Thanks in advance!
yeah babysit for jane's baby and you'll know what she's talking about i have a single mother aunt one day i spent the night at her house to help her with the baby and it was really anoying baby woke up like every 2 hours :S and wont stop crying..also the most important thing to me about being a teen mother ..is that you have to drop off school its so dificult and then how will you pay for all the baby stuff? another thing its that most of the teen mothers broke up with the baby's father because they where inmature at the time they had their baby and its sooooooooooo difficult for teen moms to get a partner for life :S not all the guys want to have a girlfriend with a baby :s also everything most be done during the right time teen moms don't get to enjoy most of the good parts of being young =) ..you are your only responsability ,, go to parties , get a career , enjoy with friends, hang out . when your young you have the world for yourself i know it sounds stupid but you can do things that when your 30 with kids you won't do ..enjoy your youth =)
Diane
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i have naturally wavy hair, and i want my hair to be straight permed. i know that it will eventually grow out and my hair will be wavy again.. but i don't care. i just want to test it out. the thing is, i hear it's really expensive. just how expensive is it? what if i get it done at a cheap chinatown hair salon? thanks
i really don't recommend straight permed :s it damages your hair alot! ...i also have wavy hair and i prefer using a ceramic ion-laser iron i thing its called a hair relaxer or things that help you to straight it and protects it from heat =) what i just did was to cut my hair so i will have light hair , i mean take most of the volume of your hair =) so it wont take to long to dry and straight it =) and if you wanna take caare of it more you can do that of the volume and get some extensions (NOTE: i prefer clip on natural hair xtensions)cause the ones that are attached to your hair really damages your hair and the extensions damage so easily and the clip extensions last more =) ...so thats what i do less volume, spray to make it easier to iron, extensions so you wont have to iron your whoooole hair just so it looks good =) hope you get the idea lol
Diane
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My sister has been trying so hard to impress everyone lately. She isn't even herself anymore, and she hasn't been for almost 2 years (she's 14). She spends days on myspace, facebook, and aim. She's become a typical fake teenaged girl who says "like" and "hilarious" every other word.
How do I deal with her?
shes just becomming a teenager XD
diane
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I always look at the bad side of things. So basically that makes me sad or worried all the time. How can I become more optimistic and see the good side of things? =]
i know this sounds kinda stupid! but i used to be just like you ...and then a lot of things happend to me this year...one of my best friends died, burned with other friend ....i have a new friend this year who was born with no fingers on one hand...another friend died he was ran over by a car...and i knew about this kid that goes to my campus that had an accident and has no legs and uses protesis :S... i got to do the social service this year and really makes me see the good side of the things cause there's a lot of people worst than what you think, you might think all the bad things happend to yoou but ever just for being able to be alive you should be thankful , and also you make your own destiny so you fix it up any way you want! the simple fact that you have a house its a lot consider your self priviledge
well you might think this doesnt help but when something like all that happen near to you you lear to see the good side..at least it help me in some way
hope you work on your pessimism :P take care hope i helpede
Diane
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two questions.
16. first serious relationship. ive been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. sometimes it feels like im just sooo in love and he's the one for me and everything and i cant be without him. but at other times it feels like theres no spark and were just friends and im ready for something new, but at the same time i dont want him with anyone else but me. whats up with that?
and also. we dont do anything! all we ever do is chill at his house watchin tv and makin out. im all for just chillin sometimes but every time? no. the problem is he doesnt want to do anything! theres nothing to do in this town except skate, bowl, movies, shop, and eat. its too cold to go to the go cart track or anything [summer stuff]. obviously were not shopping, neither of us want to skate, he claims he doesnt bowl and isnt interested, and theres no movies out and when there is he says he has no money even though i do and offered to pay cuz i wanna get outta the house but then he says he feels weird about me payin because he should be payin for me, same with goin to eat and he never wants to eat what i eat anyway. im up for like longhorn, apple bees, locos, chilis.. that stuff. "fancy" stuff according to him cuz all he eats is like burger king and yeah... ahh!
i totally understan what your going trhough and its not like mine refuses to go out to dinner movies and stuff but its because of the money and he prefers staying in the house and watch tv altough you really love him and enjoy being with him you get bored of doing the same stuff but not of him =) ...so we try to go to parties or things like that things that dont require too much money and you can spend a good time like in a coffe shop =)or outdoor activities tell him you want to get out more that you dont wanna spend the whole relationship just chillin ...and if he has a car it's easier to go to places that dont require too much money like i don't know to a park or something but get out of the house ! because by watchin' tv you'll be just talking about the thing your seeing in tv not really talking about interesting stuff ..and when you feel that of no sparks and stuff its normal..because when you have the whole rutine that always hang out at his house you'll be thinking like you could be having more fun with someone else. but obviously when he does something nice for you or go out with him to the movies or something the sparks comes again, its only because life and relationships need excitement so sometims it doesnt mean you don't want to be his girlfriend anymore=)
Diane
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ok sorry this is kinda long
14/m
alright well the other day i was talking to my girlfriend and she told me that she was going out of town for a few days this week, and she didn't kno why. the next day she asked her parents why they were going, and they said to look at houses because they might be moving to that city, so now she's not talking to her parents and stuff....
well, we've been together for a while now, and i don't know what to do...i think about her all the time and i absolutely love her, but i know it's not going to be able to work out when she lives on the other side of the state! so what do i do if she is moving...? should i just end it there or should i stay with her until she moves? i really don't know what i should do...
some of the people that i know that go through the same ur going through stay with relatives =) maybe if her parents are close to their family they'll really see that she doesn't want to move because of other reasons than just you because parents might think that 14 year old love isnt really love and surely youll find someone new ...but if she really explains them that beside you as a reason for stying i don't know school friends etc..she can live with an aunt or something i had friends who had done that
hope i helped =)
Diane
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But i kno he wont lisen to me.. Its like ne nvr does.. I just want her to leave us alone. And when im talkin to him, she'll call and he'll tell her he'll call her latr. And it pisses me off really bad. You give very good advice. I now kno if i need anything ill come to u
anothr thing you can do its make him choose between the two of you althought thats kinda mean but when he notice you get sooooooo mad that you won't even talk to him or something he'll something about it
Diane
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well Theres This Guy we went out like in term 1 or 2 in this year and i liked him then stoped then i saw him again nd we talked and im not sure if i like him but his the player type he gets a girl and dumps her in a month so i know i shouldnt tell him cause he wont care but if i do end up liking him what should i do ??
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that kind of guys always bring problems my advice is to get away from him just be friends and when he really shows you he wants something serious give him the chance but it will take some time xD hope i helped
Diane
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