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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.

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Ok i'm 13 and i still kinda have baby cheeks...(not very extreme baby cheeks but they're still anoying) lol Is there any way you can reduce the size of them? I know your supposed to grow into them or something like that, but is there any way to get rid of them?
Thnx~

sorry to break it to you, but unless you want plastic surgery- theres really nothing you can do.

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i hvae one of those huge whitehead pimples on my cheek, and is it easier to put make-up on it if i pop it, or if i let it stay big? and what can i do to make it go away faster? i don't need any products, just should i pop it or wash it or leave it alone?

pop it, and put peroxide on it IMMEDIATELY after you pop it. it should be fine in the morning.

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my g/f gets angry sometimes about little dumb things like what movie we go see and she gets real angry and abusive.she likes to throw things and hit me but i dont hit her back i just hold her until she cools off.but it gets tiring and sometimes it hurts.but i dont want to break up with her because i love her.what should i do?

sweetie, thats just as bad as a guy acting like that with his girlfriend. theres nothing right about that, at all. no matter how much you love her- let her know exactly how you feel, and let her know if she doesnt stop it, youre done. and end things if she's not willing to compromise. because its not fair to you. hope i helped.

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Hey, this is classicbetty. I just dyed my hair and it came out way darker than expected. I know it'll fade soon, but I was wondering if any of you knew about how long that would take? Thanks!

if it's darker than you wanted- use a clarifying shampoo, and wash it about 2 or 3 times. it should turn out just the way you wanted by then.

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Does anyone know what Johanna from the Real World is using on her hair in one of the episodes. It curls her hair but it has 3 circular rolls?

it's actually a waver.crimps and waves look a lot diffrent.ceramic ones are the best.hope i helped.

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What are some good quiz sites? Please not quizella.

WILL RATE.

omigosh- i am so glad you asked! tickle.com has got THE best quizzes. i reccommend it to anyone and everyone!

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August 5th will be my one year anniversary im so excited.. well i wanted to get him something and my mom gave me an idea but i wanted to know if people thhought it was corny or stupid.. well there is this store place near my house kinda called Build A Bear.. and i was going to make him a Monkey cause its his favorite animal and this i was going to get a San Antonio Spurs shirt or something and put it on it cause thats his favorite basketball team.. well i wanted to know does that sound childish and stupid.. or does it sound okay.. i just dont want to feel stupid givin it to him.. By the way he's 15 almost 16 and im 16 almost 17.. thanks in advance an if you think its stupid and childish give me some ideas on what to get him THANKS!!

i dont think it's stupid, or childish, but i do think that because youre older than him- he MIGHT think that youre making fun of him by getting him a bear. no offense, in any way- because i think its a great idea- but guys dont really go for bears. im thinking you should buy him some curve cologne. i know it sounds too boring- but for real- it's the best cologne out there, and if this boy thinks anything about the way he smells- he will now. curve is awesome. i bought my ex a curve set, it had after shave, cologne, body wash, and a travel-size cologne for $28 at walgreens. and it was decent size. it was probably worth about $60. it was definetely a good deal.hope i helped.

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i really like my boyfriend a whole lot. i mean hes great. but alot of people think hes immature and i never really noticed it before but now i do. we're both 13 if that helps. now i know girls mature faster then guys but.iono what to do. i need some help.thx in advance :)

alot of my homeboys are like that. there's really nothing YOU can do- it's out of your control.but what you can do is think long and hard about it. if it's something that bothers you, or makes u feel unnattracted to him in any way- then bring it up to him. subtly, of course.because many guys who are immature dont think anything of it. if he's not willing to act even just a little more grown-up, at least around you- then break it off. but never worry about what other people think about him. it's not them he's going out with. it's you. hope i helped.

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im 13/f .. my friend whos 16 has a girlfriend that is 18.. she is cool... i want to go out sometime like to eat or whatever wit her cuz we are friends... but i feel odd callin her.. i sent her 2 txt messages and now i feel like im bein a bother... she told his mom juss to tell me to stop sendnin a lot of messga. to her.... wut should i do?

i cant say that i understand why you sent them to her in the first place- but you cant do anything really. just, next time you see her- let her know what your intentions were:that you just wanted to meet with her.no biggie.

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ok this is a dif. guy but i was wondering the same thing. I read all the answers of the last guy and i'm confused-some people say weird-some people say cute

i need to know this too pleez cause me and my gf are going to the movies 2 weeks from now!!!!!!!!

do it if u respect her.

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Ok i've bin out with this boy 12 times I really love him and he told me that he wanted kids with me and that he loves me but recently his ex got jealous i bbroke up with him because me and his ex had an argument this caursed all my other mates to fall out with me now he's going back out with his other ex and has recently started being nasty to me I still really love him and can't stop thinking about him also i'm going out with someone else and he's threatened to beat them up if they don't dump me he thinks he can have as many people as he likes but just won't get off my case when I try so the question I want to ask is if you were me what would you do about this boy??? thankyou if you help i'll rate you high if not I won't rate you at all

i understand that a guy saying he wants kids with you can mean the world to a girl- but this guy sounds like he was just sweet talking ya, dear. i know it sounds bogus, but its true. also- you obviously felt like you were in love. but i think you were wrong. a person can only fall in love with one person.so, obviously what you guys had wasnt true love. im not saying you dont love him- because i love many people- but im only IN love with one person.thats the way i look at it.and chica, if he's bein nastty to ya- he more than likely doesnt care about you like you deserve to be cared about. forget about him, hon- he's a jerk and a half. hope i helped. much love and good luck.

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a few months ago, i was rejected by this guy. now i like his friend. i wanna ask him out, but would i look desperate if i did?

definetetly not. that is a huge stereotype. i went out with my ex's best friend- and believe it or not- the both of them were actually kewl with it. guys arent like girls, sad to say. they dont get easily emotionally attatched.hope i helped.

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Advice needed ASAP!!!!!!!!!
I have recently moved to a smaller place and was not able to take my dog(pitbull)with me so she is now staying with a relative. They also have a dog(pitbullX) which my dog has socialised with for most of her life and they have gotten along fine UNTIL today............ I went for a visit (which I do on A daily basis) and next thing I know they are FIGHTING!!!!! and i dont mean play fighting. There was alot of blood and alot of tears (from me)... and now I am wondering WHAT TO DO???? My relatives aren't happy IM NOT HAPPY and certainly I feel the dogs wouldn't be very happy.I am thinking of buying a muzzle????? but am just not sure.. Does any1 think now that she has had the 'taste for blood' that she will be a vicious dog??? She is usually a lovely dog (until 2day) and now I am having trust issues. My last option will be to put her down :( as I will not be moving for a while... Any advice would be helpful as atm they are tied up and THEY ARE NOT HAPPY. (Oh and the dogs arent SERIOUSLY injured in case you wondering just lots of little cuts and scratches which are being tended to)

i think getting the two dogs away from each other as soon as possible would solve alot of the problem. id say try and find another loving relative willing to hold on to the dog for a while.hope i helped.

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Girls: Do you think it would be cute for a guy to ask before kissing a girl? Would you find that cute or weird?

its happened plenty of times to me before. i think it's adorable- and shows that a guy has respect for you and your limits.

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I dont know why but my nipples hurt soooooooo bad! when ever i touch them [[not meaning to like if i bump it]] I didnt ever have my period yet in my life and i dont have boobs yet. What could this be? im worried.

it's more than likely that ur period isnt too far away. i'd say- dont worry about it- unless is lasts for more than 2 weeks or so- then for sure- something's wrong. dont mean to scare you- but i hope i helped.

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HELP ME! I WILL RATE 5s FOR ANYONE WHO TRYS TO HELP! i am going out with this guy that i really like and i kinda like this other guy to and he likes me and idk what to do cause i like the guy i am going out with and i dont want us to break up! what is a better choice. THANKS SO MUCH

sounds drastic- but who do u think you could see yourself marrying?- there really shuld only be one choice- and if you cant decide- then as cliche` as it sounds- neither of them are for you. hope i wasnt too bogus.

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hey umm lol me and my best friend has been friends since 5th grade..and now were going into 8th..we live very close where we can walk to each others houses..well my parents are very stritct when it comes to drinking and stuff..well i usally went to her house atleast5 times a week..well when i stayed a night one night we drank and got drunk..well any ways...her dad found out and called and told my dad..and no i cant go over there at all! and were BEST friends..i mean i stayed a night with her once this summer..just bc it was my b-day..and i cant go over there at all..ive tried telling them EVERYTHING that i wount do it again..what can i do to make them realize i wont drink again????


I RATE TOP

every time i did it- i got away with it.BAD idea to do it with parentals around.but even still- i was never in your position- because i knew if i had come home drunk- my dad more than likely would just yell at me- and that would be it. anywho- parents are parents. they dont forget about things too easily. i think at this point- if u try and convince them too much- they'll think that for some odd reason- you're desperate to go over there right away. and then they'll jump to conclusions and think its because you wanna get drunk again. im thinking all you can do is wait it out. let it go for a month or two and bring it up casually after the long wait. sorry- but i hope i helped.

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The guy i like is always lookin at me. does he like me back or am i jus paranoid?

cant really say for sure. it's hard to tell just from what you told me. i think it all depends on HOW he looks at you. get bak to me on this one if you still want my advice.

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I've always had long nails but they've always been shaped roundly but now I changed my mind and want them to be more square.
Loads of people have told me that if you want your nails square it's better to have acrylic nails then your real nails.
Is that true?

i dont realy think it matters. rounder nails look better short, and square nails look better long. what you decide to do is completely up to you. hope i helped. lamewithakause@yahoo.com

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okay, i have this problem.. adimting i need help. and after what happened last night, i really need to ask for help. so i was at the mall with 2 of my friends, my mom, and my sister. well my mom called the the B word, and i go w/e and walked off. then she came up and hit me with a rather heavey bag, and i just turned around and pushed her. i had NO idea what was going on. like .. i didnt relize what i did. and i was supposed to go to a party that night with those 2 friends. my mom took them home, and me back to my house and grounded me for the day. she also took away my cell phone, and she had taken away my AIM last weekend.
i dont know what to do with my self, i dont know what has gotten into me.. it just feels everything is happening. and i cant controll anything, also i suck at asking for help.
can any one help me on here?
13/f

let her know that you were ust trying to look good in front of your friends - regardless of whether its true or not- it almost always works- and be nyce! good luck.

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