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Q: i think i might have breast cancer. there is a lump in my breast and i don't know how to tell my parents or my boyfriend. i dont want to go to the doctor until i am for sure that i might have it. I don't know what to do! please help me!!!
tell ure rentz and see a doctor asap. cuz if you are treated early then it can be treated and cured easily than if u would wait then it gets worse.

Q: I have a business plan to do and I'm opening a nail salon. Should I name it "Paint" or "Tips and Toes"? thanx for your input
Tips and Toes sounds kool. And good luck with opening ure own nail salon. :)

Q: 14/F. I have to get orthodonic braces in a few weeks and I have a few questions about them. I will rate. Do they hurt? What will happen if I chew gum with them? What color bands would look good with brown hair and brown eyes? Thanks.
itz not that bad when they put it on you but the beginning when they tighten it thats when it will feel achy and sore. and itz not good to chew gum when you have braces but it depends on the braces cuz my best friend had a great orthodontist and she chewed gum all the time and it never broke. and I think that u should choose ure bands by ure favorite color,school color,holiday,season and watever looks or seems kool to u.

Q: how can i stop excess sweating under my arms? Everyday when i go to school, i always have huge wet circles under my arms by first period. I usually have to wear sweatshirts or something thicker than a regular t;shirt or long sleeve shirt.Every deodorant or anti-perspirant I use it doesn't work at all!!! Please help me!?








I think that u need to see a doctor and u probably will get a prescription on deodorant

Q: Is there anyway to get rid of acne and blackheads fast or at least to get less of it?? PLEASE TELL ME!! I'm 13 and a girl
Proactive works great and try the concealer compact by neurogena which covers and heals acne. Now, I'm currently ussing L'oreal pure zone and it works pretty well. Or u can go to a dermotologist.

Q: 14/m there is this girl who i kinda like. the problem is that she is out of my league. she is in all honors classes and im only in honors math and we're not in the same class. there is also this other guy that likes her (a friend of mine) and he has a better chance at going out with her than me cuz they are closer than she is with me. how can i get close to girls, so i'll have a better chance with them than other guys?
Start talking to her and try to be friends wit her. Good Luck!!! :)

Q: erm...ok, I'm 13/f/ca, and next year I'm going to be a freshman in Highschool, I'm wanting for hopfully some...encouraging words. I"ve heard this kid saying I'll trashcan me cuz then he'll be a seinor. Do Seniors really make your Freshman year a living hell? how bad is it really? I need the truth really, cuz some people say you're never trashcaned in highschool, and others say Seniors are made to make Freshmans lives year a living hell.

pleaaaaaase help!!

signed,
Paranoid
my opinion is that U REALLY NEED TO STAY CALM AND JUST DON'T PANIC. Good luck.

Q: i used to go out with this guy. he wasnt exactly a loser but some ppl thought he was. so i got really insecure about it and stupidly dumped him. this happened about 4 weeks ago. lately i have started to regret dumping him and i miss him so much!! should i tell him this?
YES!!!! remember u shouldn't care wat other people think. just follow ure heart.

Q: im 14/f i have a LOT of blackheads all over my nose and they won't go away does anyone know how to get rid of them?? because i have a formal coming up and my pores are pretty big so a lot of people notice the blackness of my nose everyday!!!!
please dont delete this!!!!!
try Neutrogena clear pore cleanser/mask or use nose strips

Q: Me and my boyfriend have had sex, and the last time we did he said that there felt like there was a little ball-like object as he tried to go in. and i felt there and it felt like a bump or something like that inside of my vagina, im worried about it because its never been there before,. what could it be?
Go see a doctor asap cuz it sounds like a sign of cancer.....

Q: There is this guy that I'm really interested in and I think he's into me too. we have only one class together at school and we never hang out when we aren't at school and he doesnt have my s/n email or number...should I give it to him? or should i wait til he asks for it (he is kinda shy)

is he the guy for me?

please help !
yea, give it to him. also, when there is a project or assignment u can talk to him about that and try bein friends wit him first. itz just a suggestion......

Q: ok there are two girls... there is this one kind of a teensy bit cute girl at my school who likes me...but every1 thinks she is butt ugly.
there is also this hot girl who everyone thinks is ugly but i think she is rly nice and cute. i liked her in 5th grade but she didnt like me.
who should i like???
my opinion is that u compare what u like and don't like about the two girls and ure answer will come up. But just follow ure heart. But i'd say give the teensy bit cute girl a chance cuz she might have a good personality and maybe later on da future in she'll become prettier u neva kno.

Q: i like this guy,but i dont know if he likes me.I mean i really really like him.What should i do?
there are many different things u can do. just keep talking to him and try to be friends with him then if u become close to him then u can tell him. Or u could just take a risk and just tell him. So the answer he can give u is a yes or a no and remember the worst he can say is no. its like flipping a coin. so just follow to ure heart and good luck.

Q: Ok, I have blue-ish eyes with green around my pupil. I have tan skin. School is starting soon and I wanna make my eyes stand out. Like when I'm walking down the hall, I want people to turn around and be like "Who's that girl". What kinds of colors of eye makeup such as eye shadow, mascara, and eyeliner should I use. I'm going into the 8th grade also. Please help! Thanks
U could go to the makeup stands such as nordstrom or the stila or sephora stores and they will recommend something and put it on u.

Q: Does black really match with anything?
yes,it especially looks good with pink.

Q: I'm starting back at school and need to pick up some lip gloss. Can you think of any good brands of light pink lip gloss?
Go to the mall and go to the makeup counters cuz there are a lot of great choices. some of the good ones are Stila,chanel and mac. u can also buy revlon,maybelline,avon,almay at other places.

Q: OK I really need help. I am trying to find great deals on jeans, but i want them to be a little lose and not so tight. Where is a good place to find jeans like that?!?

~*Jersey gal*~
Go to anchor blue,forever21,old navy,express or buy Levi jeans.

Q: latley i have been doing a lot of different things to my hair, ive spiked it and been using colored gel, but im always getting looks from people, i dont know if they are good or bad, i love my hair being this way but i dono if i feel comfortable with everyone lookin at me, wut should i do, i have red and blue colored hair and ive been gettin mroe and more creative latley. what should i do?
If u love ure hair the way u style it then u shouldn't care what other people think. and remember its a good thing to have ure own unique style or to stand out.

Q: ok here is the deal, i need to go school shopping but i don't know where to go! i live in miami and im 15! does anybody know a good stoRe?
If ure allowed to order stuff online, i'd recommend u to go to gojane.com or rampage.com

Q: I have a big freckle on my fore head, and it makes me look ugy. Is their any way to get ride of it or make it not as noticeble? Please help!!!
use coverup or concealer. it usually works. u can also see a dermertologist so they can help u with ure feckle.

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"Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, no second chances, you just have to live life to the fullest. laugh as much as you can, spend all your money, tell someone what they mean to you, tell someone off, speak out, dance in the pouring rain, hold someones hand, comfort a friend, pig out, fall asleep watching the sun come up, stay up late, be a flirt, smile till your face hurts, dont be afraid to take chances or fall in love...& most of all live in the moment cause when you look back someday knowing you have no regrets it's gonna be what makes you smile."


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