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Nope, nothing wrong with that at all. Shave if you feel comfortable, but if not, then don't. They won't care, they just want you to be comfortable, since these meetings can sometimes be a little bit awkward :] goodluck.

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My date is wearing a white tux and my dress is blue. We're coordinating our outfits. I went to the florists a couple days ago and I was trying to order a boutonniere but none of their flowers were blueish at all. So instead, the florist suggested that I just go with white carnations for the boutonniere but I'm afraid it won't stand out against his white tux. I can call them back and change the types of flower I want but I'm not sure if I should because the other colors they have are yellow and red and pink and such but I don't think it would match. What should I do?

ask if they have any black AND white ones. That way, it would stand out and look good :] if not, you can always order from somewhere else!

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How do you make a website?(from making web pages to putting on the web)

www.freewebs.com

they let you make a free website with many options and pages. Very easy to use and, obviously, free :]

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I need a really nice or cool picture for an art thing I'm doing at school. I'm in grade 12

It can be a picture of anything at all but I just can't seem to find a really nice picture/ photo that I can draw. I don't want to copy it exactly but i want to do something similar for inspiration.

Links to any pictures would be good.

thanks.
xoxo

Darn it's already been said :[ well yes, deviant art is one of the best places to go. Type in any word in their search engine and amazing art will pop up :] I reccommend usin their "Shop" search engine, so you get the nice paintings and photos instead of a bunch of ammature ones. Goodluck.

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im 15 im gay i really really like a guy and weve become real close he says he likes me alot as well
i want to be with him im a bit worried what people will think if they find out it is normal if youre gay?

It's perfectly normal! It doesn't matter at all what anyone else thinks. If you like him and he likes you, go for it! It sounds like you two can/have really hit it off :] goodluck!!!

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About 3 months ago i died my hair blonde but it turned out which an aweful gingery orange tinge to it, it is natural a mousy blonde. People use to say how nice my hair was now its just aweful.
I was thinking of dieing back to my natural colour maybe slightly darker to a light brown but im really worried if i dont like it i will be stuck with it because i cant die it again, my hair is in quite bad condition. Also im worried it might look really dull. AS the summer is coming up i thought that the gingery colour may come through is that possible? or the brown die would make it even more gingery?

Ha ha, ok first I want to randomly point out that in the "be the first to answer these" column, it just says "about three months ago I died" x]

Ok, They sell this stuff at walmart and ((I think)) Hot topic, that's called "strip shampoo" or something like that. You shower with it and it strips the dye right out of your hair! If this doesn't work, just let the color fade. I know it may be a drag, but if you die it back to your normal color, it'll damage it even more. Goodluck! :]

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Ok so I've been with my boyfriend for a year on May 12th. I'm really in love with him! But I dunno what to get him. It's been the same way with his birthday and christmas. But I feel like since it's a year it's BIG!! So what should I get him? Any help?

:] well, whatever it is, make sure it comes from the heart. You want him to think "oh she's the best girlfriend ever" [which he probably already thinks ha ha] for my boyfriend, since he plays the guitar, I got him a silver guitar pick with his name engraved in it :D he loved it. Look at what your guy likes and i'm sure you'll think of something!

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ok so i went to a dance and i was dancing with guy who i didnt know but he went to my school. and we danced and like he felt me up and fingered me and ws like olding me and holding my hands and just like SOOO amazing

Definitely add him :] you 2 could become really tight

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In the book The Diary Of Anne Frank, they are living with the Van Daans, and Mr.Dussel right??

I was looking up Anne Frank on the internet, and there was a website about her house, and well her history and stuff.

On there it said that the other people that came to live with them were the Van Pels' and Fritz Pfeffer.

Whats up with that?? Is this a con website or something?? heres the link in case you want to check it out.

http://www.annefrank.org/content.asp?PID=249&LID=2

Thanks:)

In the book, they changed the names around and stuff. Their REAL names were the Van Pels' and Fritz Pfeffer :]

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i live in arkansas, and we have A TON OF WIND! We've been having quite a lot latley. And I take an hour to fix my hair the way that I like it, and then with all the wind it gets ruined. is there anyway i can keep it from getting messed up? would hairspray work? i would use hair spray, but i dont want my hair to get stiff adn everything. i have short thin layers, and im growing my hair out again, so, whenever i have thick layers...will it still curl and everything like it does now?

thanks for everyones help!

:] I live in arkansas too lol yeah, I would definitely suggest something like Rave hairspray. Mousse, hairspray, pomade. Any of those should work :]

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My wife is at least 50 pounds overweight. She has tried numerous diets. Although some of them work, she invariably gains the weight right back. Whenever I mention that she is overweight, we get in a big fight. I would like her to lose weight for her health (she's 42 years old) and also to make her more attractive. Advice please.

Well, no woman likes to be told she's puttin' on a few pounds. Usually, we already know it, but sometimes we're just in denial. I suggest you both workout together! That way it will be more like an active date then a workout. If you do this, I think you should take her to play tennis [or some other sport] with you, so you two won't be locked up in some stuffy workout room. Get some sunshine, go on walks, and if you have any dogs, take them on walks with you! It'll strengthen your relationship and you'll both stay healthy and live longer! :] goodluck!

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okay so im graduating from middle school this year and i really want an AMAZING party :) i havent even asked my mom yet but shes gonna wanna know what my plans for the party are. i really hope she says yes and im expecting 20-30 people that are gonna be invited. i want something fun to do and i wanna do something like a water ballon fight or spray those silly string things but those are small things and want to do something else to do...i have decoration and food covered but what i need are the activties for 14 year olds to do...i no it sounds young but still we like to have fun :)

Sounds like fun :] I'd deffinitely suggest some outside activities, especially if there are gonna be guys there. You could start out with maybe some basketball or touch football and then maybe have you and a couple friends throw a suprise water gun attack on the rest of the members.Just make sure you tell them to bring clothes they don't care to get messy ;] then you could go back in and watch a movie or something and the girls could stay for a sleepover while the guys go home. Just remember not to overplan it! These things have a way of working themselves out :] Goodluck!

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what are some good photo editing softwares that i can download that wont give my computer viruses or anything

i mean a software that contains a lot. & is easy to work

Well, I use GIMP a lot to edit my photos :] It does everything Photoshop does and you can convert photoshop brushes into GIMP brushes too! Here's where you can download it:

http://www.gimp.org/downloads/

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Hi. I've beeen tryng to find the lyrics to an old Christmas song. The name of the song is Grandma's Killer Fruit Cake. Does anyone know the lyrics to this song?

well, I looked everywhere for the lyrics, but I couldn't find them :[ I DID, however, find the video:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6bl38Usa4Ig

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my bf and i have been going out for about 5 months
and recently i started giving him handjobs and when his penis gets hard its curved quite a bit
hes a bit insecure about it is that normal?

It's completely normal :] it just means he's enjoying it very much. All teenage boys do that.

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so I'm kinda "lower" on the popularity totum pole I guess you could say,,,and like im going out wit this guy who is a bit above me, like we r friends and all but theres always those akward silence moments on our dates and i dont no what to say, so whats a good thing to talk about on a date?

Well, try to think of some topics to bring up before hand, so you'll have some basics done. Talk about anything! Remember, this guy asked you out because he likes you and wants to get to know you better, so some great convo starters would just be typiccal questions about music, sports, school, whatever. If he says something that you like or agree with, start talking about it. Also, what I like to do, is when you hit those awkward silent moments, say something like "Ha ha we ran out of things to talk about" or something. It's good to laugh at it, because it will kind of break the ice and loosen you up a bit. Make an inside joke about the silent moments so when you have one, you can laugh and say "Ah! talk! we ran out of things to talk about again!" Ha ha I love doing that, and it always works! Goodluck! :]

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Ok well last weekend was mine and my boyfriends 6th month anniversary and he got me some pretty expensive stuff!!! I'm a little low on cash right now so I kinda went el'cheapo and now I feel really bad! ;[ we have a 3 day week of school this week and I was going to ask him to go c a movie but my question is should I pay?? He's kinda "old fashioned" where the boy pays for everything and I just wanna make it up to him. Sooo plz help me!?!?!?!?! :]

F/13

I suggest you bring the money, just in case. Offer to pay, but if he just INSISTS on paying, split the cost, so you both pay half :] goodluck!

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this guy and i are pretty close
like pretttttty close=]
and we both like each other and always want to hang out outside of school
but theres like nothing i can think of thats fun to do except go see a movie which we have like a billion times and we cant really talk
whats something fun we can do together?? (in public, not at each others houses, and that doesnt cost too much money.

(neither of us can drive each other yet, so wed haev to meet at the place or have our parents drive us)

anything is appreciated!!!

Well, me and my boyfriend walk around the mall, and just take walks together. We go into different stores and just play with the stuff and then move onto the next :] We also meet up in parks and stuff a lot and we take our dogs for a walk together :] goodluck!

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I've been eating really well for the past couple of weeks, and even though I've been exercising a lot I haven't lost any weight! I'm not overweight, so it doesn't bother me that much, and I feel healthy. The problem is, I'm always hungry! I'm not eating as much as I used to, but I'm still eating enough, I'm really not cutting calories by very much at all. If I'm this hungry shouldn't I be losing weight? and also, what could this be, I'm not growing, i'm not pregnant.

any insight, or suggestions on how I stop this stall in my weight loss, because I should be losing weight considering my diet and exercise regimen.

You need to balance out your exercise and dieting. If you exercise more than you eat, your metabolism will get higher, causing you to burn the calories and fat quicker, meaning you'll get hungry more often, and much easier. Whenever you get these waves of hunger, try drinking water or eating some veggies or fruits :] goodluck!

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I'm all out of hairstyles. I have curly/wavy brown medium length hair with side bangs. Every morning I either A) Leave my hair down curly with bangs clipped up or B) Straighten it & leave it down and clip the bangs up

WHAT ELSE CAN I DO WITH MY HAIRR?
No I can't braid or anything speacil.

My hair looks like this, but shorter with side bangs.
http://www.yaffawigsoutlet.com/images/164WAVY%2010-6-8%20002_edited.jpg

HELP ME ! :D

Well, you have GORGEOUS hair, first of all :] i'm jealous lol. Anyway, There are many hairstlyes out there that would look great! You could do a half ponytail, by gathering the top layer of your hair in a pony tail. You could do a messy bun, or clip your bangs to the back of your hair. Here ya go, this has a lot of hairstyles :]

http://www.latest-hairstyles.com/

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