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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza


advice

ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem?

I dont think its a problem at least you will get to see her. Just talk to her about it and explain why you cant see her as much. Just call her and talk over online and that will be fine.

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school's starting soon and i have no friends there. i usually follow this group around b/c i have nobody else to. they never talk to me ever. nobody does. i'm like an outcast with no friends. i try talking & they talk back, but then it just doesn't work out. i've tried everything, i can't make friends. i make friends real easily outside school b/c i'm outgoing, but in school, i try being outgoing and everyone blocks me out. i can't move to a new school. i don't know what to do. please help i need friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Making friends will take some time. I mean you have to get to know everyone first. There is one thing you need to do though.. JUST BE YOURSELF. As all of us say that we're right. If people dont like you because of who you are then that is just really lame.. anyways. The best way to get to know people and make friends is sign up for clubs && sports at your school. A lot of people do them and you will be talking to people there like crazy. Dont just go so you can make friends but have fun with it and be outgoing and friendly and everyone will like you. Good luck!

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whats masterbating mean...? n how do you do it?

Uhm.. its basicly pleasuring yourself.. and I dont know if you are a girl or boy so its different.. For girls they can finger them selves and guys can just play with their penis's I guess.

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hey im really bored and me and my friend are hanging out tomorrow.. and we dont know what to do.. we want to do something fun and exciting but not normal u know?? do you have any ideasss..?? pleaseee help

That depends on where you live. You could go to Six Flags because thats always fun. Invite people to your house to hang out. Go cosmic bowling,movies.. what ever you dont normally do.

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why do they call it a "g-string" and what are all the kinds of "_-strings" and what do they mean?

They are kinda like thongs and its a g-string because its basiclly a srting..

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whats the difference between a g string and a thong ..

G-string is just like a string on the back of the undies. And thong it has a little bit more on the back.

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14/f
I have a very good friend lets call "steve" and i have liked more than a friend for a while now..he's 18 and i'm 14 and i really really wanna take this friendship to another level..we both flirt with each other and we've kissed each other before to..but the thing is..is that he has a girlfriend and i don't know what should i do..should i tell him how i feel or just leave it be?

Yea you should tell him.. but he has a girlfriend. He is cheating on her and thats just mean. If you ever went out with him you never know if he would do the same thing to you. Just tell him how you feel. I think the age difference is kinda gonna be a big deal in the future. Its illegal. He is too old but you cant help who you like. Just see what happens and good luck!

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ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f

I`m afraid that that is the exact sign! You are still so young and you're going to have SOOO many b/f's and I think its bout that time now! So good luck!

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whats an appropriate age to get a thong.. im thirteen.. is that too young?? also.. are thongs more comfortable than regular underwear??

I think that thongs are more comfortable than underwear and I'd say like 14 is the appropriate age. But 13 isnt too young.

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Me and my close friend which is a girl were watching cruel intensions and it made us really horny, we both wanted to practise so we would be good when it came to us losing our viginity to a boy. So we practised positions and tongue kissing in our bikinis, and now all i can think about is being masturbating partners with her again.
I took 2 tests which both said i was i bi but cant figure this out.
f,16
p.s i never had feelings for a girl before it happened.

lol I dont think that you're bi I just think that you're really horny! All you need is a guy && you'll be set to go!

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hey,, well my brother has a friend,, his friend is 17 and im 13, joe, his friend and me a pretty tight, and stuff,, i really like Joe but idk if he likes me, and even when his g/f is there, hell look at me alot..his g/f is also 13..but shes ugly and he doesnt like her that much,, so, like, what should i do??

He def. likes you && you should def. make a move on him! Do it! He'll love it!

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Ok my cousin and i are really good friends but in the past two years iv e developed a crush for him.. i dotn know what to do should i tell him and is it normal to like your cousin(im a 13 year old girl)

If hes family then I dont think its normal but you also cant help your feelings. I suggest that you hang out with him less and try to become friends or go out with other guys. That would be best! b/c if you && your cousin ever do anything thats insest...and thats not good and to be honest with you I doubt that he'll feel the same way you do! Good luck

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What are some really easy ways to make money besides babysitting?

If you are old enough McDONALDS! lol Im serious!

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what are some other cute places to shop besides abercrombie, hollister, american eagle......etc.

Charlotte Russe, Forever 21, Buckle, Pac sun, Bebe, Express.

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i just got this red bump on my vagina. it doesnt hurt or anything but it has been there for about a week? what is it?

Razorburn!

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I just got my braces a few days ago and I was wondering if I could make out with another boy with braces? Would that make the wires attach to each other? HELP MEEE!

Yes you can still make out with boys && the wires wont attach to each other. Actually a lot of boys think that braces are sexxy...so dont be too self-conscious or anything! Dont worry too much!

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I want to do something fun and exciting on a date wiht my bf. somethin that will really be fun. any ideas

Well besides movies && dinner you shud try out cosmic bowling or go to an aracade or something. Thats usually a lot of fun! Six flags would be a great idea too!

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hey does anyone know what lmao stand for?

Laugh my ass off! Grr I`m late at this question but I wanted to answer it.

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what foods are filling that you don't have to eat a lot of and will keep you full for a while and are good for you?

Bannana's. My mom always tells me not to eath them because they will make me full.

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okay. wel i went out w/ this guy (btw. im 14/f) and he dumped me,n we both have new bf's/gf's and yeah well he treats his new gf better than he treated me...im jelous..i love my bf.he treats me like effing gold.but ive just been thinking about it lately..what's the deal w/ that..my ex? thnx ♥

Im not really sure what could be up with your ex.. I`m not trying to be rude but maybe he just has more feelings towards her. Or he just changed? Dont worry about it. Since your boyfriend treats you like gold thats all that matters. Dont let the situation with your ex get in the way. Its over bwtween you guys so just tell yourself he wasnt really worth it and you are glad that you are with your boyfriend right now.

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