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Image and video hosting by TinyPic" align=left hspace=10> hey my name is karen and i live in miami florida... im 17 and go to miami killian senior high.. anything you need help with ask me!! im great at answering questions about friends, cleaning, and relationships.

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Many people have been saying that proactiv works to clear up acne but proactiv is from the infomercial, and I'm really scared to try it. Do they have it available in stores? About how much will it cost?

a dermatologist! they give u a perscription n c wuts best for clearing ^ ur acne. it might cost a little more then proactiv but if u want ur acne gone going to a dermatologist is almosy certain that ill go away. hope i helpd!

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i love my friends and bein the person i am its the only thing i have, i dont have much family and what i do have.. well thats a whole different thing.. i feel like im never good enough. i feel like im bein push away fromt hose i use to b close to but the ones i am still close to says its just me.. i dont know why im always like this, im think im about to turn physco ova here. i know its not rly a question but.. yeah.sorrie.

i think that u think that ur friendz want u 2 b sumthing ur not. i think u should tlk to them n try making urself a little more interesting like i dk give sumthing a change. also i think that u might b tlking to them n hanging out eith them alot n there like not really happy to c u cuz their used ot u already alwayz being there.

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how do u get a background on ur advice column?? ive seen alot of pages with a colored background and i waz wondering how u can get one! PLZ ANSWER!!! :)

near the color schemez therez a link to a website that has the color codes... i dont think that u can get a backround with stuff on it.

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Where's a good place to get good Midis at?! I'm have absolutely no luck!

http://www.freshmidis.com/ this is probally a website that might help.

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k soo ..i kissed my best friend and i want to do it again but he gut a girll who is older than him ..but i dont like her that much..but still..its funn..and i think i like him..do i keep doing it?

if itz fun then go ahead jus remember that his girfriend is older than u n therez a risk. hope i helpd.

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u cant alwayz get wut u want... i kno that suks... but like shez ur friend u shouldnt get in the middle of anything, even if she says itz okay it might jus b cuz ur hur friend n it might hurt her. dont pass the feelingz around it makes it worse.

cool it workd out for u. lol. thats awsome. i dk if i helpd bu i hoped i did!

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My best friend never approves of my "sexual activities" with my boyfriend! Lately, I just wont tell her because I hate how she overreacts but shes my best friend and I cant keep secrets from her!! I feel terrible! Now that I've had sex, I want to tell her but definitly dont know how. She'll get so mad at me.. Should I tell her? What should I say?

i think u should b honest wif hur... if she gets mad jus say ur best friendz n therez no way ur gunna keep anything a secret.

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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do

16/f

i think u should think of the consequences b4 u do anything, of coarse just make sure ur making the right decision.

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Yeh but he cheated on her most of the timesz .. and couple timesz wif me .. he told my other best friend.. that hes just using her for a gf .. buh iono if thats true

i dont remember ur question if u can send it to me again with wut u put for this question.

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okay first of all i dont think im fat at all and i like the way my body looks. however im very health conscious and eat healthy food most of the time. i count calories too. if i didnt eat the daily number calories i think is efficient ill go eat until its exactly the number i want it to be, because i don't want to become too thin. i think about food a lot. i never thought i was fat and i know im not and i love my body. im a cheerleader (a flyer) so i try to remain small. oh yeah and i love cooking and food overall, mostly healthy food. i mean ill choose a grilled chicken sandwich over a big mac you know? could this possibly be anorexia?

i dont think itz anorexia but i looked it ^ on the internet n here the definitons that came ^ for anorexia: http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=anorexia wut i think iz ur jus watch ur weight n thats really good so keep it ^.

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Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!

i think u did the right thing... if anybody takes advantage of u itz not good to keep on letting them take advantage. it can lead ^ to abuse etc. i kno it soundz weird right now but i think u really did the right thing.

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i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee

x0xO MayA x0xx

u cant alwayz get wut u want... i kno that suks... but like shez ur friend u shouldnt get in the middle of anything, even if she says itz okay it might jus b cuz ur hur friend n it might hurt her. dont pass the feelingz around it makes it worse.

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i really want to make out but i dont know how and then wheni wit a guy i feel like if i make out with him he is goin to think i suck enev if its my frist time idk what to do i dont know how to do it what should i do ?? i dont want to feel stupid when i doing it???=(

please help?!!

my first kiss... even though i wantd 2 really bad... i kno this might sound stupid... well... it wuz in 5th grade so this guy asks me to makeout with him n im like okay then we just did. i dk... i think u should jus wait for the right tyme.

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okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!

yea tell him how u feel. but also ova tyme ull get over him... i kno it hurtz right now but over tyme emotionz heal.

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I didn't know wut to put this under so i put it under love life .. buh im gettin my belly button pierced august 11th and im 14 and im still gunna get it cuz like my best friend is in poland . and she comesz bak aug 7th and her b-day is aug 8th and then were gunna go shooppin on august 9th and shes gunna sleep over on the 10th and on the 11th were gettin our belly button's pierced .. im reely scared .. kan someone tell me if it hurtZ?

they put stuff on it to numb it... if it hurtz itll hurt alot less with that stuff than without... i reallly dk... but im pretty sure it wont hurt that much. hope i helpd.

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ok well i really really and i mean really like this boy.. we have like a connection and crap but he loves this other chick and it really hurts and i mean him and i flirt all the time and crap and i think i am starting to love him but i don't want to ruin anything with him and that girl cause they have a history but i really don't know what to do cause i am soo confused and like yeah idk!! and i just am soo confused and i ahh am going insane! But i def think he is better off with me cause that girl won't treat him right at all!!

sighned... HELP ME I DONT' HAVE MUCH TIME! :0

u should let them b. they have history n a good relationship n even though u LOVE him there's no need to break him ^ wif sum1 that miyt b good for him. lyk eventually u miyt get a chance but 4 riyt now he has a girlfriend. u suldnt seperate two ppl from sumthing good.

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Just recently I went on vacay to see my moms friend that she had made recently on a college course. So we went down to see her friend and her family b/c my mom wanted to introduce me. So of course she has a son a year older than me and I'm head over heels, you dig? So anyway we had an awsome time almost everything in the world tells me he liked me back, so I gave him my home # and my sn. We live miles and miles apart and i just left a couple weeks ago. He hasnt called or been online and I've been missing him so much. I'm starting to wonder if this is a sign if he doesn't like me at all... or i d k. But I can't go ahead and call him b/c I dont want to look desperate if he wanted to talk he would have called or went online. But hes a great guy I'd never give up liking him so... at this point idk what to do b/c i d k if i will even get to see him ne time soon... and I just cant take it ne more... its more than i can handle.

since u cant take it call him... he might b busy or just shy. after u call him thats the way u find out if he really likes u. i think u should ask him. being strait forward is a way to get away from the pain, the stuff that u cant handle.

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i bought a thong but it's really uncomfortable! Do you have to get used to them? any tips?

yea a good way to get used to them is to sleep in one... if that doesnt work then ova tyme ud eventually get used 2 em. thongz rnt thingz that ud never get used 2 n u jus cant wear em cuz there alwayz gunna b uncomfortable.

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i like this guy so much ever since october 30th 2002 and like its been abt 2 years now .. and i dont know wut to do . i went out wif him 6times before .. buh hes wif one of my friends now . buh like were more like enemy's now . i mean im her friend and i want her to be happy buh i dont think she wants that for me cuz i cut myself and like she does too . but at least she's happy i mean i told * dan * how i feel and still . he still sayz i love paulina and shyt ! and i hate it i mean .. wow i kryed so much over him iono wut to do anymore !!


plzz help me !!


xOXo maYa xOXox

i know u hate it n everything but shez ur friend n the guy likes her alot i think u jus hav 2 let it b. get a guy of ur own.

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HeY ! well im 14 and i weigh 86pOunDz or sumfin liek that .. buh i know its around 80 is that good enuff? im scared that if its not .. then something mite happen . buh u know i eat ALOT !! i just dont gain weight .. and im reeely skinny ;) hehe .. soo yehhh heLp?

xOxox maya xOXx

i dk if ur 14 n u weigh that, u miyt b a little under weight n thats bad but eating more iz good jus make sure itz not too much then ull just get a belly.

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