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My names Casey. I'm a crazy cat lady who's obsessed about books and doesn't wear matching socks. I enjoy all kinds of tea and sometimes I believe in as many as six impossible things before breakfast.

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Where did you get your background desing it's nice.

www.starlightmks.com

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~how do you get your limewire playlist onto your itunes playlist
~how do you put songs in yor itunes to your ipod ~how do you put songs from limewire to your ipod

--list all the steps pleaz

hmm. to add limewire songs unto your itunes try clicking on "file" and then "add file to library" and then look for Limewire on your computer. and click okay and BAM. not sure if those steps will work, but its worth a shot.

to put songs from itunes to your ipod,you should just plug your ipod to your computer and it should automatically do it. or if you have the older version, go to your ipod picture and click on 'import library'.

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hi can someone please tell me how to make the hearts on myspace....i think its something like &;hearts or something?



or & + hearts + ;

minus the "+"'s.

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would it be rude if i broke up with someone in a letter?

it wouldn't be rude..it would just be like saying that you don't have the guts to do it in person.
trust me, if your going to break up with a guy or girl, do it in person.

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Is 5'0" average height for a 16 year (almost 17) old girl? I was 4'10" when I was 11 years old. I'm now taller than my mom by about an inch.

I'm just so tired of getting practically tackled in the hallways at school because literally, no one sees me.

oh my god, i would LOVE to be your height.

i'm 5'4, but i still wish i was shorter..haha you probably want to slap me right now for saying that, but..

5' is a little below average height, but there's nothing wrong with it. honestly, most guys go for short girls anyway, so your lucky.

but if you're really that sick of having people walking all over you, try wearing heals so you'll seem taller.

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i want a new sn.
something with like

-criss
-riss
-riss
-xx
-xox
-love
-broken hearted


doesnt have to have it all. i just want a cute one.

like my friends name.. she tied it into cupcake. it was really cute

xBrokenxHearted

crissXriss

xloveXriss

Rissxxox

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ok so on some peoples myspace i see that they have there commetns in a scroll box. how do they do that? like whats the code and where do i put it?

www.pimpwebpage.com

it has lots of codes for you myspace.
the scrolling comments code should be there too

and you put it in your "who i'd like to meet" section

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i have a crush on this guy and hew is leading me on majorly
sep teh problem is
he has a girlfriend
what should i do?
because it is so annoying when he leads me on and it makes me like him even more each day

well thats easy.

try to stay away from him.
find someone new.

he's obviously a jerk if he is 'leading you on' when he has a girlfriend. you don't a guy who does that, trust me.

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okay well . i know that im pretty, alot of people tell me that i am pretty. but i just cant like myself. i always negative about myself. i feel like im not good enough for anyone. i dont know what to do. im alwatys depressed. i mean, i have alot of friends and all, but i dont know. life just isnt going great now. what should i do.

try writing in a journal. it helps.
what i tried when i felt down, was that i listed all the people i know that love me, all of my talents that i have, and what i'm good at (which is basically the same thing). i found those tips in my school assignment book (yeah, i actually got bored enough to read them). but, i still found it pretty useful. i looked at myself differently after (in a positive way).

hope i helped.

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does anyone know a myspace tracker that actually works (preferrably have had experience with) so you know who has visited your account?

thanks so much

myspace trakers don't exsist. trust me on that one.
any advertisment that says "OMG CLICK ME MYSPACE TRACKER THAT ACTUALLY WORKS!!" doesnt' work.
its most likely hackers trying to get into your account by making you re-post it.

so in all, there is no tracker. sorry.

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Hey, i've been listening to my current songs on my ipod for a while now.. and i would like to get new songs
here are my styles and what songs I have (a few)

syles- hip-hop, pop, R&B, jazz, and a little bit of rock

songs I already have-
any Christina aguilera songs
gimme that- chris brown
juliet- lmnt
temperature- sean paul
sos- rihanna
if we were a movie- hannah montana
where is the love- black eyed peas
dance dance- Fall out boy
u and dat- ?
its going down- yung joc
riding- chamillionaire
?- all american rejects

soo yeah... if you could name a few songs and artists that would be great!

hmm. you might like
Unwritten by Natasha Benningfeild.

thats the only song that came to mind..

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k. so there's this boy i have liked since the very first day i laid eyes on him (the first day of school this year) well him, me, and another girl (who is friends with both of us) were passing notes in class.
well after the bell rang to leave that class he lays a note on my desk.
i open it and it says "do you want to go out with me?" i kinda freaked...(im really shy) and i handed it to that girl and said it was from him.
What do i do? because i really like him...and i think he was asking me out.
i want him to know but i don't want to be straight forward cause like i said, i am really shy.
any advice at all?
*& yes...i know what i did was wrong.*
=(

you can probably talk to him about that note.
be like, "hey, did u really mean what you wrote in that note?". and if he says yes. then tell him that you think you like him. but if he says no, well, there's way better guys out there.

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I have noticed a lot of people ask questions about weight loss. Would anyone like to form a support group/challenge? I am captain of one right now and as a group we lost 103 lbs. last week. It would be strictly based on healthy diet and exercise. So let me know!

yes. i would love to do this weight loss thing.

please respond. :)

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so last i was talking online to my friend "bob" and he was like hey call "jack" he wants to talk to you..i like jack..or i did...aand but i told him i was too tired to push buttons my phone and hes like well he really wants to talk to you. so to get the point i called bob's cell phone instead of jack because i thought bob was lying to me. so i called and bob answered and he handed the phone to jack but jack threw it back at bob..?? i don't really get why he did that? does he not like m that much that he doesn't want to talk to me? i've only known him a week a two and don't talk to him that much. and i don't thik hes really that shy...any thoughts on why he did this cause now i feel like crap not wanting to be talked to.

well, bob probably was trying to get jack to talk to you. but jack was too nervous to call you himself. so when you called bob, he just handed the phone to jack. but jack might've gotten scared/froze up so he handed it back to bob.
i'm thinking jack might like you. but don't take my word for it yet.

hope i helped :)

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There are these really mean girls in my first people. I just started a new school last Wednesday and they were spitting stuff at me and calling me ugly and stuff. [btw i know i'm not ugly]. Anyways, they were being super nasty to me and I just kind of ignored it.
Another girl came in the next day, but she wasn't new, she was just absent the day before. I made friends with her and she told me they were being like that because I was sitting by a girl they hated, Tori. So, the next day I sit away from Tori and they are okay with me.
But now, it seems like they are planning something, or something like that. I was passing notes with the new friend [who's friends with them], and they asked her "is she scared of us?" and stuff and my new friend said "no, she just doesnt want yall treating her badly."
now, they wrote a note to me saying OHH YOU ARE SO AWESOME stuff like that.
so now i'm really scared, because my new "friend" wants me to hang out with her, but i'm afraid they are gonig to do something because they seem SOO fake.

so, two questions.
1. if they keep being mean to me, how do i handle it?
2. does it seem like they are doing something? or are trying to be nice?

please help, cuz i'm kinda scared.
thanks :\

they might be trying to be friends with you because you made friends with someone else they're friends with. the group of girls probably just thought "hey look your sitting next to tori. grr. you bad person, we hate you." but then when you met the other girl, they probably were like "oh. never mind".

i think you probably shouldn't hang out with them outside of school untill you know them better, to save yourself from embarrasment if they DO try and pull something. you never know if they're fake or not until you get to know them better.

try hanging out with other people. perhaps you can find 'nicer' friends and find your group or whatever you wanna call it. that might try and help you handle these situations better.

hope i helped.

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Okay, this can get confusing. I'm 14/f and I have 3 gay guy friends. Let's call them Bob, Fred, and Joe. Bob and Fred are both in 9th grade with me and Joe is in 10th grade. Bob and I have been bff since ever. I met Fred and Joe at the end of last year and I'm good friends with both of them. Bob, I love that kid to death and i would never ditch him for another person.

Well, so my problem is that I stopped riding the bus inthe morning and had my dad drop me off in the morning. Then I found out that Joe gets there early too so I just hung out with him in the mornings. Well, there are these two girls, let's call them Tina and Kay? [I was really good friends with them last year but I hate them right now and I'm trying to pull away from them right now--long story] Well, one day Tina was like "Where' Bob?" --In the morning--And I went idk. And then she asks why I didn't know since we rode the same bus. And I told her "I'm not riding the bus anymore. My dad's dropping me off plus I get to talk to Joe"

Let me explain Joe and my situation. We're both in IB Prep and we're both going to be IB sutdents soon [yes, I know we're neerrdds] IB kids..it's like a cult and people out of IB can't be in the cult. Almost all the time anyway. So, Joe and I are usually really busy to tlak on the phone or IM, we don't have any classes together. And so we have on lunch and in the mornings to talk. So one reason I get there early is to talk to Joe and finish hw.

Well, Tina and Kay keeps on telling me "You switched gay guys on Bob!!" And making me look bad. But I really am not. I just want to talk with him like I would with any other people. Also they're saying that because I went to one party with Joe and his friends. ONE!!! They say that in front of Bob too. So I'm like wtf!! But I really am not. I love Bob to death and Joe can never replace Bob. And so one day I asked Kay "Give me 5 reasons and 5 people that says I'm switching gay guys." and she lists 4 people..including herself and Tina and some girl that has no relation to this "problem" and some other person.. And she never gave me the reason b/c I went off on how the other girl doesn't count because she doesn't know crap about this situation blah blah blah.

So my question is how t=do I get it through these girls' heads that I'm NOT switching gay guys? I mean they think that I can have only one gay friend and only the firends I had last year. They don't get that because I make new friends doesn't mean I'm going to ditch bob!!

okay first, yeah, these people really need to stfu. these people honestly shouldn't care, and they're just trying to get Bob mad at you. i would just ignore Tina and Kay for the most part. i would try hanging out with bob AND joe at the same time. so it won't seem like your trying to replace them or whatever.
but bob, should probably already get the fact that your not trying to replace him.

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My dad has always been the same. He's always happy one minute and angry the next. Ever since I can remember he's "spanked" me as hard as he could. He's always argued with my mom. He's always treated me unfairly. Always blamed things on me. When I was about 10 or 11, my parents got divorced. It didn't really affect me all that much. I was actually kind of happy. I mean, I thought my parents arguing would stop. I thought all those times were my dad would yell at my mom and push her up against the wall would stop. Of course I was wrong. It's been almost 6 years now, since they first got a divorce and my dad's remarried and my mom has a pretty steady boyfriend. My dad's always working. When he's not working his regular shift, he's working over time. One thing that always seemed to bug me about him is the way he always yells at me...but not just that he does it. Its that no matter how much its not my fault and how much it's my brother's fault, he always blames it on me. He favors my brother. The other night my dad came over to pick me up and take me to his house because it was his weekend to take me and my brother. I got packed and went out in the car and put my stuff in the trunk. My dad was going to let my brother go to the skate park and I was angry because when ever I ask to do anything he always tells me no. And I was telling him how I felt about that. He told me not to talk to him like that and I was afraid he was going to slap me or something like that so I got out of the car and told him I wasn't coming to his house and got my clothes out of the trunk and went back in to my house. At that point, he wasn't even trying to get me to come to his house, he didn't care. My mom told him to come in and talk to me so he did. I told him how he made me feel and he still didn't even try to convince me to go to his house. I told him to get out of my house but he wouldn't. My mom told me to go to my room and settle down. I heard my mom talking to my brother and so I thought he was gone, so I came out. My dad was still there. The next thing I know, my dad tells me this is all my arugment is all my fault and he has my mom up against the wall held by her sweatshirt. He finally leaves and my mom has a bruise on her neck...so she finally decides she should call the cops because it's not the first time it's happened. Now my dad might get arrested. I don't know how I should react to that. I feel like crap. It's all my fault. My brother's going to hate me. So is my stepmother. I'm afraid of what's going to happen to me if my dad gets locked in jail and how he'll react when he gets out. Over all, I'm just scared. Scared of everything that might happen. I have no clue what to do.

its not your fault. your dad needs to be in jail. if he doesn't sooner or later, he might do something WAY worse. if your stepmorther begins to hate you, she really needs to rethink this. and if your brother begins to hate you for this too, he shouldn't. i don't think he would if that happened. he should understand about what was going on. that he was abusing your mother, and sooner or later, he might've started abusing you, or him.

i would try starting a journal. write down your thoughts and feelings for when you go through this, it can help. also, try going to a therapist or a counslor to help you threw this.

hope i helped :)

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Briefly.

Okay...this sounds kind of strange but I am afriad to sleep! I am verrrry paranoid of things and that has been proven. BUT its affecting me so bad that its ruining my daily life! I cant sleep simply because I am believe there is a paranormal/supernatural spirit in my home that will hurt me. I tried taking perscript. drugs but it only makes me more tired and I also have looked up things online but I cant find anything to help me. I will be making an appt. to see a psychiatrist but until then what do I do?

if your convinced there's something in your room, i would go down to a catholic church or something and get holy water to bless your room.
i found that i felt wayy safer after, cuz i felt like god was protecting me.
also, maybe you can try going to bed earlier, so you won't be up so late trying to fall asleep. cuz then, you would at least fall asleep a few hours earlier and get a little more sleep.

hope i helped.

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15/f. ok i like one of my guy friends, so normally i am with him. a lot of people think i like him (which i do), but i don't like to admit it because i don't want to risk ruining our friendship. but thats not the point of this question. the point is a lot of girls keep asking him who he likes. and he tends to avoid the answer by saying who he used to like but that he doesn't like them anymore. and then when they say so who do you like now he doesn't answer. but i always feel uncomfortable when they ask him this because i'm always sitting there next to him.

also he is the kind of guy that a lot of girls like because he is so nice, funny, and easy to talk to. and a lot of girls tell him that they like him and he just says that he doesn't feel the same way about them. So i'm so afraid to tell him how i feel because i don't want to be just another girl that likes him. plus i don't want to lose our friendship.

so my questions are:
1) do you think he might be avoiding telling them who he likes because it might be me and i'm always there?
2) should i tell him that i like him and risk our friendship even though A LOT of other girls like him too?

thanks =]

hm. this is a sticky situation.
i would think it would be easier to ask him who he likes when other people aren't around. be like "how come you never answer those people when they ask you who you like?" and see what happens. if your not comfortable(sp) with telling him, wait until you think your willing and gain up the courage to risk that

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Okay. So, I have never actually purchased anything from iTunes. My boyfriend bought me a $25 iTunes Music Card today...

Do you have to spend all $25 at once?
Or can you just spend say $10 and the rest later?

Thanks.

once you get an account on your itunes store (on the itunes) and you add your cod number onto the thing it asks you for, you should be able to buy some songs. and then if you want to save it for later, you can.
so yeah, you can spend some and save the rest later.

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