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1st period.
There are these really mean girls in my first people. I just started a new school last Wednesday and they were spitting stuff at me and calling me ugly and stuff. [btw i know i'm not ugly]. Anyways, they were being super nasty to me and I just kind of ignored it.
Another girl came in the next day, but she wasn't new, she was just absent the day before. I made friends with her and she told me they were being like that because I was sitting by a girl they hated, Tori. So, the next day I sit away from Tori and they are okay with me.
But now, it seems like they are planning something, or something like that. I was passing notes with the new friend [who's friends with them], and they asked her "is she scared of us?" and stuff and my new friend said "no, she just doesnt want yall treating her badly."
now, they wrote a note to me saying OHH YOU ARE SO AWESOME stuff like that.
so now i'm really scared, because my new "friend" wants me to hang out with her, but i'm afraid they are gonig to do something because they seem SOO fake.
so, two questions.
1. if they keep being mean to me, how do i handle it?
2. does it seem like they are doing something? or are trying to be nice?
please help, cuz i'm kinda scared.
thanks :\
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Just stay away from them, make friends who aren't involved with any of them, and talk to a trusted teacher or guidance counselor if they spit anymore.
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Damn. these girls sound really evil.
New schools are always hard (I should know, I've moved 6 times), but there's got to be someone to hang with. Once you get someone to accept you, everyone kind of just lets you settle into the hierarchy.
If they're being evil a week from now, just start ignoring them again. find other friends.
And it does seem like they're okay, but don't trust anyone just yet. be careful, and don't do anything risky for a little bit.
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they might be trying to be friends with you because you made friends with someone else they're friends with. the group of girls probably just thought "hey look your sitting next to tori. grr. you bad person, we hate you." but then when you met the other girl, they probably were like "oh. never mind".
i think you probably shouldn't hang out with them outside of school untill you know them better, to save yourself from embarrasment if they DO try and pull something. you never know if they're fake or not until you get to know them better.
try hanging out with other people. perhaps you can find 'nicer' friends and find your group or whatever you wanna call it. that might try and help you handle these situations better.
hope i helped.
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Girls can be such bitches and it's hard to understand what we're all thinking. You know well enough not to trust those girls and be friends with them. Your new friend seems nice and just hang out with her. The reason that they hated you in the first place is really pathetic & so immature. If they keep being mean to you, ignore it like you have been. They know you're not scared of them and you have nothing to be scared about in the first place. I can't tell if they're actually planning something or not, but from the information that you gave us, it doesn't really seem like they would actually physically hurt you for a stupid reason like that. Just keep your eyes open and don't trust them.
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Okay, first you're going to do NOTHING to them, involving them in any way shape or form, got it?
Don't hang out with them. Make up an excuse and if they start to be nasty again, just go STRAIGHT to the counslor or the principle and tell them everything they have been doing (add in a few tears...haha it works) and them they have nothing to go against you because you did nothing, right? haha, good luck and just stay away from these girls because they sound like trouble
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