HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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im 14 female and im bi, i have a gf. but im starting to like a boy is that cheating tho? (link)
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you liking him doesnt make you cheating...as long as your not going out with him or sharing the same emotions together then its cool.
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I would like some advice, if its weird or not:
Since ive been about 16 I have been getting these really strong feelings, about how I really want to become a mom. I mean is that weird, is there something wrong with me? (link)
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Nothings wrong with wanting to be a mom but make sure when you decide that you WILL be a mom any time soon make sure its the RIGHT GUY!that you will spend the rest of you life with and that he will help support your child.So much people regret being a mom because they rushed it.Make sure you think about the consenquences of everything you do and take care man.
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HELP
tomorrow
i have a date type thing with my friends
and like yeahh
i have black slacks [pants]
and black flats [shoes]
WHAT COLOR SHIRT DO I WEAR
without looking weird
like gothish
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try any shade of green or brown
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i am 21 and i still didnt get my period!!! it's really weird can anyone help me out? *stephanie (link)
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you definetly need to see a doctor...to help cure whatever you have before its too late man.
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ok so i feel super stressed im a sophomore and im so worried about college, like im not special enough i have nothhing that sets me apart from others.
also i just feel so worthless and useless like i have no purpose and noone would notice if i dissapear.
i've been thinkin about death too, like how easy it would be just to kill myself, then i quickly come around and realize i dont wanna die.
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ok tell you something...if you say your worthless then you are...NEVER say that your worthless!!God created everyone for a reason you know!You cant kill yourself,its first of all a greaaat sin because youll lose your life and afterlife cuz ull go to hell!!Everyones special in their own way,you just dont know how your special yet.If your so worried about college why not start studying harder?You need to have a goal in life,thats probably your problem...that you have no dreams,if you dont then hell yeah youd wanna die!because life without dreams isnt life.Think of your future man!Think of how successful youll be and how youll be rich and have everything you wanted if you JUST STUDY harder youll reach the top!And about noone recognizing you TO HELL WITH THEM MAN!!They wont help you if you fail high school,they wont make you more successful...well see who gets the last laugh when they fail and you reach the top!They can laugh now,but theyll cry later!And when you go to college youll meet new people that care about you for real.Most of high school students are kids that like rumors and all that shit.Just stick to your education man...its just TWO years,take thme as they come and dont let anything distract you from your studys...have an aim in life.Talk to your mom about how you feel...tell her mom i gotta tell you something,i have been feeling really down lately beacause...blah blah and i even want to end my life sometimes cuza blah blah....God created you for a reason and youll never know what it is if you kill yourself!
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okay so i hang out with a lot of guys. but i cant really help it. i just get along better with guys. girls start too much drama and i hate drama. so some girls at my school think im a whore and are startin rumors that im doin stuff with all the guys i hang out with and that im cheatin on my boyfriend. but thats so not true. these guys are like my brothers. i wouldn't do anything with them. and i would never cheat on my boyfriend! he means the world to me. and he understands that i have a lot of guy friends and he's okay with it. he knows i wouldn't do anything with any of them. but i dont want that kind of rumor about me to spread. i mean. everyone at school knows im not like that. and my boyfriend and all my friends were like dont worry about it, they are just jealous that all the guys talk to you and not them. but idk. what do you think? (link)
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first of all ...yeah girls do start alllooooot of drama!!ITS SO ANNOYIN!!lol^_^ anyway you shouldnt give a damn about what they say...they have no life to start rumors about others,god how bored!Theyre mad cuz they probably like one of the guys you talk to.Stay the way you are and dont stop hangin out with them guys to piss off these girls more.Let hatered and envy eat them up!theyll gain nothing from talking about you but losing energy and theyll waste up so much time thinkin bout how much they hate you when they can be doing better things.SO KEEP AT IT!!
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Every time I want to talk to my friends, I have to go up to them myself and talk to them. They never go to me to talk. None of them!! Whenever I am on AIM, nobody ever IMs me unless I IM them first. Same thing goes with any situation and I am sick and tired of that, because I wish I didn't have to start the conversation all the time.
I do ask them why they don't talk to me first, but then they say, "I am sorry. I'll do it next time" but they never do!!
What's going on and what can I do??
Thanks (link)
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confront them one last time...tell them how you feel.Tell them that if they really like you to treat you the way you treat them and if they dont like you to tell you straight to your face and stop being hippocritical!If you do confront them this last time and they change then thats great for you!if they dont...dont even think about telling them again or even consider talking to them!You wont let your pride and dignity go down like that for people that arent worth it!Why waste your time with people that dont apreciate you when you can find ppl that would love to have a freind like you!
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i have a little situation...my best friend who i've know all my life, shes always been there i really can't remember my life without her in it. and recently we've been working out and trying to get in shape for s.b 07..and anyways i hateee that i'm saying this and thinking this, but like er i sometimes don't wanna go places with her because shes not really like pretty and i hate that i just said that. and i wanna give her a makeover because she could be soo pretty if she only wore cuter clothes for her body did some stuff with her hair, and other stuff. but i don't know what to do. i don't wanna tell her that or anything but i don't know what to do. and i just feel horrible for ever thinking. so ah i don't know what to do! (link)
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omg how can you be so harsh.True freinds accept freinds the way they are,with all their faults and whats good about them.Are looks really everything to you?If so,then your not worthy of this girls freindship.She never did anything bad to you or did anything to hurt you and was alywas there for you riiiite?Then looks shouldnt matter!How would you feel if your freind thought the same about you? uh huh!pretty hurt!And if you do tell her to get a makeover...how will you say it in a way that wont hurt her feelings?come on,any way youll say it will hurt her!And mabey shes happy with the way she looks....if NOT...then you can give her a few ideas on what to do or how to change her looks thats IF shes not happy with her looks,if she is then dont try to change her if you dont want to lose your freind over this nonsence.
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I've recently started seeing a 33 year old male who lives in another town, I am a 36 year old woman. He came to visit and I found that I wanted to have sex more often than he did over the weekend and that he was unable to maintain an erection for very long. The erection would go, then come back and then he was unable to maintain his erection long before ejaculation. He was very attentive in all other areas and maintains he is interested in seeing me more often and is visiting me agin soon. However I'm a little confused as I've not experienced this before and I'm wanting to know if he's as interested in me as he states. How do I approach this without freaking him out? (link)
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you want the truth??Honestly hes just a horny dude lookin for a ticket to having sex.And you are his ticket now...If he was interwsted in you he wouldnt have sex with you more then he trys to get to know you.I think you should confront him and tell him that in order for a relationship to go on...it has to have emotions and love first.
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I'm thinking about changing my wardrobe look.
I normally wear jeans everyday to school
and I wear T-shirts a lot (sporty type and maybe some that are girly)
and a lot of sweatshirts (zip ups and big ones)
and just tennis shoes...
thats my wardrobe for school....
i'm more sporty than girly girl... but thats what i want to change. i kinda want clothes that make me look hot, cute and still affordable
so if you could find some pictures at some stores that are inexpensive and still cute, and girly
that would be AWESOME!
PS: I don't like to wear skirts or leggings... but if you really insist.. thats ok (link)
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ok im pretty sure youll love this giry outfit imma make you...first of all the store is called gojane and you can order by phone or internet!the website is called www.gojane.com and the outfit imma make you is
this top mabey can be cute
http://www.gojane.com/11920.html
with this minni skirt lol i know you dont like skirts but youll love this outfit cuz its sexy and it matches...u can pick the taupe color itll match the most
http://www.gojane.com/17640.html
and these heels will totally make your outfit stand out since it dont have alot of red
http://www.gojane.com/18977.html
thats one outfit i think is adorable...its not going to be slutty dont worry lool
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14/f there is this one guy in my school that i really like and i dont know if he likes me or not. he does try to show off to me alittle but i still dont know. i also like him but then i dont like him. this has been happening ever since 6th grade. i like him then i dont off and on for almost three years now.
does this sound like i really like him or it is just a phase?
I cant take him out of my mind either.
I AM SO CONFUSED. (link)
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what your going through is a very normal stage that happens to almost all girs at your age.Its kind of called desperation,which means you see everyone around you in love with boyfreinds and all and the guy you now "think" you like is the only one there for you to take out your kept in emotions out on.And to prove what im saying is right,you yourself said that sometimes you dont like him and its an on and off thing,meaning that deep inside you know if he liked you,you wouldnt really care as much,you just like him for the sake of LIKING someone.Thats why you sometimes you get over him,you dont really like him,hes just there.This is normal and most girls feel like this at your age.
aah i understand,what i understand is that you do like him but since your not sure if he likes you back you stop liking him and get to another guy.My advice then will be that you should just put your attention on another guy till you find out that this one likes you.
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how do you get herpys (link)
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from giving oral.
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Im kelly 14/f.I found out that i was bi-sexual about 3 months ago.I really don't want to be bi but i just can't help it.I want to know if i should tell my mom i am or just keep it to myself till im older just to be sure im bi? (link)
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yes because your mom will help you out and hear you out and how you feel.Mabey your really not bi and you just misunderstood your feelings,if you tell your mom shell know exactly how you feel.
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alright im fifteen yers old and i had over 900 friends on myspace till today when it was hacked. The only one who knew my password was austin my best friend! would he do something like this? He said he would never, and I belive him but I have a doubt too. Idk whoever hacked it only left me with 12 friends im pissed (link)
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i dont think it was austin for some reason.You know sometimes on myspace when you type in your password and then you click on this link and they ask you to retype your password,well thats a page that is made by some people to get your password and hack your account!!I read it on toms myspace before.Im sure it wasnt austin,hes your best freind.
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I was raised agnostic, which my family is. My dad was raised a conservative catholic, but now is totally against religion and so is my mom. I was always very distant from religion & actually disliked it. Now, being a senior in highschool I've suddenly become interested. How do I go about furthering this interest and finding information about it? My family already doesn't support this and I wouldn't even know what to do if I stepped inside a church. (link)
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i dont really know what religion it is that your looking for but learning about all religions would help you make your decision.Visit my website www.freewebs.com/islamteens/
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Okay, I'm 17/m and have a beautiful girlfriend that I've even promised to merry(sp?). Anyways, I have a friend that I was talking to, 15/f, and we got into a discussion. This discussion was about sex, we were talking and she asked me what I was thinking about. This was kind of weird because she usually can assume what it is. She kept wanting to know and then she asked me to email her my fantasies that I have about her. I hate to say this but I do have fantasies about her as well as my gf and sometimes all three of us. I know most of you think thats sick but were all young and young people do stupid things. Anyways, I'm scared and don't know what to do. Should I give into temptation and reveal my fantasies or keep them to myself? Is this feeling unnatural? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! I'm sooooooo confused!
Thank you.
P.S. Me and my gf are perfectly happy with each other. We never fight, we love each other to death. We've been going out for 1 year. (link)
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oh come ON!!you have a beaaaautiful relationship with your girlfreind and you want to let it ruin that easily?You know,obviously this girl that is your freind that asked you about your fantasies likes you and wants to ruin things for you and your girl cuz she can take that email you were gonna send her and send it to your girl!!you will have lost BOTH this way your freind for revealing your secret and your girlfreind for being unloyal to her.Tell your freind NO.its not that hard.Its ok to have fantasies but keep them to your self if you dont want to end up losing your girlfreind.
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this is weird but what does getting took mean???? cuz lk i no what head means bt whats took? i no its wierd... (link)
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getting took means to get ripped off
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Ok Im a 15 year old male. My sister and mom think Im gay. Imagine your own mother telling you that. I'm def not gay I know me better than everyone else. Even my best fruend austin which knows me the most even more than my family knows im straight, My sister says I think like austin, you guys are always together. However, arent best friends supposed to hang out. This is coming from my own mother, well atleas thats what my sister told me what do I say to them when they say that?????/ I know Im not gay? (link)
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come ON your his best freind!You have to hang out alot!i hang out with my best freinds alot and that dont make me lezbo!You need to first have the talk with your mom.Tell her that calling you gay hurts you deeply and that if she dont stop calling you gay you might turn into one(just say that part to make her stop)and tell her that your her son and that shes not suppoesd to be so mean to you.As for your sister,after your mom has stopped calling you gay,tell your mom to talk to your sister to make her stop too and u tell your sister how you feel.
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14/f 8th grade. Here latley I've been really depressed because almost everyone in my grade has been out with someone and has had a bf or gf. I haven't. And I've been noticing that whenever I watch a movie or something and a couple has a sweet little kiss or something, it just kinda bums me out because i always dream of having a cute, hot, sweet, nice boyfriend and here latley i've been dreaming of that first kiss. and it makes me really depressed. i mean, what if i never meet that one special person to be in high school with, and what if i never find someone that i will marry and have a family with. this all just makes me really depressed. i mean, obviously no one likes me because no one has ever asked me out or anything, well, at least no one i like. haha. anyways, what can i do to get over this? i know that i'm not even in high school yet, but what if i don't ever find anyone?! this is making me soo sad. help!!!!!! thank ya much!!! (link)
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big deal!!You have to toughen up a bit!True love will come when you least expect it!If you rush things now youll end up with a guy that isnt meant to be for you and youll end up breakin and going through heartbreak at such a young age!Your still way too young anyway,at this moment of your life,at your teen ages your personality is still being built which means if you get heartbroken now this can affect your way of thinking in the future.Just toughen up and beilive that everybody has a somebody out there waiting to meet them.You mighta already met him but its just not the time to be with him yet.Wait and youll see that youll have the best guy.
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17/m
I now realize that I would much rather be a girl than a guy. I think it would be really cool to go to prom dressed as a girl. Think people would get pissed or would it be okay. If I do go, any hints about what I should wear? Thanks (link)
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if you want to go dressed as a girl then you better be ready to be talked about BIG TIME.You have to be ready to accept all the shit theyre gonna say about you and all the guys that are gonna pick on you for it.They might even take pics and use it against you.If you have no problem with that and you can stand your ground then...dress as a girl.But why should you dress as a girl?You can wear a suit and look great!
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