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My names Amanda im 17 years old! I live in a real small town--bracey,va. i live in an even smaller neighborhood type thing so its just me and my friends. Im single but im basically in LOVE with one of my best friends, yeahh that sucks. Ive been through it all..bad relationships, asshole boyfriends, backstabbing best friends you've been friends with all your life, alotttt of stuff. I can't exactly explain me in a paragraph but i can promise if you ask me anything i will do everything i can get give you the answer or the best advice that im capable of.
E-mail: mandyyx33@hotmail.com
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Age: 15
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well im inlove w/ this boi named ( lets kall him jimmy ) well i was talkin to (lets kall him tim) well me nd tim were talkin nd he said he liked m,e so then i he asked like if i liked jimmy still nd i told him the truth i loved him w/ all my heart .. nd well he was all like well i think tim is using you for sex nd he told me why nd they didnt make any sense nd im confused bout whether or not to beleive him .. is jimmy using me HELP

Signed
CONFUSED ONE (link)
Tim is just saying that so you'll stop liking jimmy and start liking him. Im sure jimmy isnt using you but the only way to find out is to ask him yourself! good luck! =]


hi does anyone know a good quote i could put in my profile about : me and these girls became friends and i wanna have a quote about how happy i am that we became friends then under it put there initials! please help! (link)
go to... www.hellz-angelz.cjb.net they have a bunch of friend quotes there!


i dunno what to do..i've liked this guy..(lets call him mike) .. and ive liked him for about 2 months now but its been like really on the dL .. cuz my best friend marissa is like in love with him..and ive been trieing to make her happy and ive been trieing to hook them up but he just doesn't like her..but todays my berthday and he told me liked me a lil but he never told me cuz of marissa and he knew i woldnt do that ot my friend..but i LOVE him..i dont wanan upset my friend..but then agian..i just wanna do something for myseelf for once..please help me =/ (link)
Tell him!....Marissa will be mad but your not gonna b her puppy for the rest of her life!she'll get over it and shes gonna have to face the fact that he likes you and you like him and he doesnt like her!!..so if i was you id tell him and talk to her about it just b like ok look i know you might get mad at me but i cant keep this on the DL for any longer i like mike! its not that hard you guys can talk it out and if shes really your friend she'd understand!good luck!


I have a pretty hard life, it's not easy in this town. I always have alot on my mind, but since last year I've been counting on beer to clear my mind...I wanted to know why a little alcohol makes me think about nothing...even when I'm not drunk? (link)
because it takes ur mind off of things..and u think that since ur drinking everything is gonna be better...


Do you ever feel like breaking down.. DO you ever feel out out place.. ANd somehow you just don't fit in and no one understands me... I've been kiked... hurt.. well I'm just like him.. and the rest of the song.. and sometimes i just wanna curl up and give up! the kids at my school are so mean to me. And a lot of my friends think they're to "cool" to hang out with me. I've been pushed down and kids kicked me and I've been in 5 fights with a bunch of kids and always get beet up picked on. And i don't belong.. I think i should just run away. no one would miss me. I'm just a loser in the way! I just wish i was a little cooler and people would be nicer to me. like the other day i was over my "friends" house and him and his neighbors made fun of me and 1 kid punched me so i fell and then they threw things at me. I've broken down.. ok and I'm young and hopeless and going no where fast is what they say.And the girls... forget about it... i mean the only reason most them don't like me is becuse the cool kids don't like me. I mean I'm not ugly..but you get my point. And some kids just pretend to be friends with me and then stab me in the beack like it's a game. And my gf just played me. Well you kinda get my idea of my life. that's not the details though. It's a lot worse. Well is there anything i can do? Or should i run away becuase no one would miss me!


Signed,
A loser!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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aww! im so sorrie...first of all even tho u are offended make it look like u arent and ignore them wen they say mean shit eventualli they'll get the point you dont care and they'll stop! i mean there a buncha loserz! stand up for urself! think positvily and not negativily..(not the worlds greatest speller here)..if u need sum more advice leave one n my inbox! and remember theyre big ass losers for doin sumthin so mean like that!



What age would you let your Child date?? What would you allow them to do with Him or Her? (link)
id say atleast 13 my first bf was at 11 n i thought it was a major mistake as far as letting them do sumthin i would say nothin past makin out until their atlest 15-16


hi am 17 senior in h.s i was planning on going to college and everything. i was dating a guy who 25 and we broke up 3 weeks ago about one week ago i found out i was 5weeks pregant should i tell him?? how can i tell him?? (link)
yes you should deffinitaly tell him. Call him up and tell him you two need to talk face to face. When your together just come out with it its better to tell the straight truth instead of beating around the bush...good luck and if u need nemore help you can leave one in my inbox! =]


ok so theres this boy thats like 4'7 or sumthing in 7th grade and im like 5'7 in the same grade....(i just turned 13) and he supposedly likes me, but is too shy to tell me cuz he thinks...i dunno wut he thinks! anyways, hes so cute(like a little baby) and i have this thing that when i find out that ppl like me, i feel like i like them too, even if i dont...i wanna go out with him, but at the same time, i dont.... i dont wanna be going out with a guy so much shorter than me cuz i wont b able to kiss him and hug him and sutff...sorry this question is so long, but i need advice....thanx mucho (link)
go for it anyway!! i did that...no1 cares about the height difference because if you really like him it wouldnt matter!!..i still kissed my bf and hugged him even tho he was almost a foot shorter then me who cares what everyone thinks all that matters is you two!


hi i just got my first period two days ago and since then ive had like 40 bottles of water but only one salad, im just not hungry at all! is it normal
thanks (link)
yeah its totally normal...i was like that at first wen i got my first period


whats that song by nelly and tim mcgraw??? (link)
over and over....

Cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
And I can't keep
Picturing you with him
And it hurts so bad
Yeah, cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
I replay it
Over and over again
And I can't take it
I can't shake it, no

I can't wait to see you
Wanna see if you still got that
Look in your eye
That one you had for me
Before we said our goodbyes
And it's a shame that we
Gotta spend our time
Being mad about the same things
Over and over again
About the same thing
Over and over again

Oh but I think she's leaving on
And she's leaving here
And I don't know what else to do
(Can't go on not loving you)

Cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
And I can't keep
Picturing you with him
And it hurts so bad
Yeah, cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
I replay it
Over and over again
And I can't take it
I can't shake it, no

I remember the day you left
I remember the last breath
You took right in front of me
When you said that you would leave
I was too damn stubborn to try to stop you
Or say anything
But I see clearly now
And this choice I made keeps
Playing in my head
Over and over again
It play in my head
Over and over again

Oh but I think she's leaving on
And she's leaving here
And I don't know what else to do
(Can't go on not loving you)

Cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
And I can't keep
Picturing you with him
And it hurts so bad
Yeah, cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
I replay it
Over and over again
And I can't take it
I can't shake it, no

Now that I realize
That I'm going down
From all this pain you
Put me through
Everytime I close my eyes
I like it down
Oh, I can't go on not loving you

Cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
And I can't keep
Picturing you with him
And it hurts so bad
Yeah, cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
I replay it
Over and over again
And I can't take it
I can't shake it, no

Cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
And I can't keep
Picturing you with him
And it hurts so bad
Yeah, cause it's all in my head
I think about it
Over and over again
I replay it
Over and over again
And I can't take it
I can't shake it, no







hey .. my boyfriend is in the hospital rite now .. hes in intensive care .. he got into a car accident and now has a fractured skull, bleeding in the brain. the doctors have him in a drug induced coma right now..and they dont predict him to wake up for a few months, and then they will run the tests on his brain .. they are currently waiting for the swelling to go down on his brain. surgery was going to take place, but they decided to just wait for the swelling to heal on its own .. they dont expect him to wake up for several months now..but my question to you, is .. that im realllllyyy scared ... do yu think he'll be okay? hes in one of the best hospitals in jersey but still .. i need some truth..thnx .. anything yu say ill give yu a 5 .. (link)
that happened to my uncle!! and hes totally fine just keep praying i guess thats what everyone did in my community and hes alive! his case was more worst..but just pray and hope and im sure he'll be ok!


i don't know if i'm "normal" i'm 5'8" and 140lbs...I'm a size 7. I think i'm HUGE your thoughts??? (link)
wow ur not huge at all! ur actualli pretty small


Ok. So im 13-m and i guess im pretty good lookin..all the girls say im hott. But the other night i asked out this one girl that i co-starred with in my play. she said "no". I really like her! I could get alot of girls but the one that i actually like..doesnt like me! She told my friend that she felt bad..but i dont think she did. Why did she turn me down and should i like another girl?! (link)
maybe she doesnt wanna go out with someone that every gurl likes...she make think then that your paying attention to all the other girls..give it some time and stop showin interest in other girls and only pay attention to her...good luck!


Ok! Well I have to go to the doctor tuesday with my mom to get birth control. Im just really stressing out about the papsmear. I shave down there and Im not sure whether or not I want my mom in the room when they do that. They also have to ask you if your sexually active and I really dont want my mom knowing all that either! Any info, advice, etc.? (link)
you dont have to have your mom in the room! just say your not comfortable with your mom in the room and when they ask you if your sexually active tell them, but say you would rather your mom not know! and to keep it on the DL (downlow) they would listen and if they tell her then you should find a new doc.


should I be proud of what i am? (link)
yes! you should every1 is unique in their own way. dont care what others think of you! your you not what everybody wants you to be.


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...and he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..and i said "no" then he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl" and i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..and i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he wont listen to that...and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...and he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...im suppose to go to the movies see him later today w/ one of our best friends..who goes to my school..who used lived down the street from him...so can u help me? -thx in advance *i rate* (link)
im not saying he does...but do u think maybe he might like you...i mean hes asking for your opinion he can ask anyone! and he seems to want to know your ideas...but im not sure so dnt hold me to this...wen ur at the movies just b like whos the girl you like? be simple and straight forward


ok well me and my boyfriend really love each other and like he made out wit anotha gurl once cuz he waz drunk so im like ok ill forgive u then couple monthz later he kissez my best friend!! but no thatz not it! there waz a dance and we had fun 2gether and after the dance i found out he made out wit her! he waznt drunk this time!! so we broke up and now i fogive him cus i really love him and no i juss found out he f*$# another gurl and she had all these hicky and i juzz found out it waz him who gave her the hicky...wat should i do now? we havent broke up yet, should i still be with him and give him annother chance or should i break up with him? (link)
if you keep forgiving him hes going to think he can keep doing it..dump his @ss just to show him your not gonna take it...


there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long (link)
hi! ok i have the same problem it suxs bein tall sumtimes but sum ways its an advantage..but..u could talk to him more..n then tell him u like him...if he liked u tha height wouldnt matter...but basically find out wut kind of girls he likes n then try to b like that like c wut u have in common wit girls he likeS! DONT change ur self for a guy...n sry if i was no help i tryed...but good luck!!


my best friend is always singing this song and she really wants to put it on her tripod but she doesnt no what its called. its goes "Hey ya"..... "hey yaaaaa" "hey ya" "hey yaaaa"
thanx (link)
hey ya by outkast




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