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is there any good colleges to get into if you want to be a fashion designer when u get older, i live in ny
F.I.T is in Manhatten, in NYC. It's a GREAT college possibly the best for fashion in the US, and it's very well known. You have to have pretty good grades, but they're not horribly strict. It would be a good place to go.
Okay I was sitting in my IPS class (1st period) when my friend tapes me and tells me to look out the door where I see A. well thats what i call him. So he smiles and I just giggle and wave. Than we ran into each other in the hall. (2nd per.) So he got to pick his seat in home ec and sat behind me and like flirted with me the whole movie and I means hes hilarious and not my normal guy but hes cute. So I just need to know how to get him interested because everyone likes him and stuff. How do i know if I genuenlly like him or if its "lust at first sight".
I'm on the rejection rebound so is that a part of it?
You could be on total rebound mode right now. Get to know him a little better and waite a little longer! Both him and you need to see how you feel. You might truly like him but only time will tell. Your feelings will fade after a little while when your healed up, or they may stay really strong!
im new to getting my period...is it bad if it comes 2 days b4 its suppossed to?
No, in the beginning it's very irregular. You may skip a period, come a week late, have it for only one day. All these things are completely normal in the first year!
At my school one of my classes means being assigned to a show and working on a play. The teachers assign your possisions.
The thing is, this year alot of my friends got really great positions and I got kinda cruddy ones. Not terrible. Just an assistant and a crew member for shows that happen at almost the exact same time...
Makes me feel like my teachers don't really care or notice me and I'm really down about it. Any ideas how I could deal with this feeling?
Don't get down about it! Sometimes people just all have a different thing they're good at. Maybe the friends have more experience? Stick it out and go through with the positions you have, and no matter how small, do them to the best of your ability, and give it your 200%! If the teacher's see your trustworthy, and your a good sport, you might wind up with a good position next time. You could ask friends for tips as well. Try not to fret so much, you'll see your better in places where some of your friends might be weak. Understand that not everyone could have an amazing part, because there's limited positions, and that your teachers could've potentially wanted you, and just not had enough room. Good luck!!!
well i have a bunch of friends that im not that close with but then i have about 4 that are my best friends...and one of them hates the other so its always hanging out with one or the other.. but now theyve gotten to be friends again and i feel like im getting replaced i really am happy there friends but its like now that shes back im gone i just dont kno if i understand and me and one girl were going to hang out and i heard them in the hallway talkgn like i havent told her about it and it was my name and i asked her what it was nad shes like oh im having everyone over do u wanna come.. it just felt like i wasnt needed.. and then theyre going to a football game tonight and we were going to go first and then i asked if she was going with them and she was like yea but u can come too and i ddnt wnat to barge in or anything.. shes calling me about it tonight so well see how this goes... what should i do
Well, don't get yourself discluded! Your not barging, so long as she invites you. If they hated eachother, they probably just feel so glad to be friends again, almost like it's a new friendship! They're probably excited to hang out again so it feels fun and new. After the newness of it all, it'll wear off and you should be back to normal with them. If it continues on, express your feelings ever so slightly, like maybe saying "I love you guys to death, but I feel kinda left out lately" ...and if that's not workable hang out with another best friend for a little while,stay in touch with them, but don't bother to make yourself hang out with them and maybe they'll start to miss you and invite you again.
Hey well im 14 im going to get a car when im 15 and my aunt is gonig to sell her 2.5 TL Acura to me..but tha only problem is its a '98! is this good? its leather and everything and it only has 75,000 miles on it..
A leather interior? When your 15? That's great! Your lucky. It's OK it's a '98 model, your first car shouldn't be anything special, because your a new driver, and just incase you have an accident, you don't want a brand new car to be getting banged up! Your lucky, sounds nice! Leather interiors are very preferable, and shows high quality!
I am covered in bug bites!!
I've just got back from Spain, where I didn't get a single bite, and within two days of being at home I am being eaten alive!! I've got 10 bites already. They're horrible itchy although I'm trying not to scratch them. I've started putting Savlon (anti-septic cream) on them and have changed the sheet on my bed. What else can I do to get rid of them? Where could I be getting all these bites from?!
Summer brings tons of mosquitos out! There's really no getting rid of them, more like putting on bug spray next time you go out. The cream will stop the itching, and by not itching the bite sgo away. Quite simple, no matter how uncomfortable. Whenever you get a bad itch, don't scratch it, eventually, though uncomfortable, the itch wears off. Hopefully where you live, the weather will be getting cooler for fall, and as it does, bugs die out. If you live in a hotter climate, by winter they should be gone.
my dad says that i can not get a straightner because it will ruin my hair and i will have disgusting hair when i get older and its just really bad for my hair. hes like "you can get the same effect by blow drying it" but i know that you cant because he has this picture in his mind of when i blow dried my hair a certain way once and it was SOOOOO puffy and ugly so i just put it up. and thats what hes thinking of! im like "no dad thats not it! my hair looks soo much different and better when its straightend! it is my hair and ill pay for it with my own money" he just gave me a look like he mite consider it. but i dont know, how can i he sure?
Just tell him tons of girls use it, and only hair stylists can really straighten it with blow dryers because they're experienced and know exactly what to do with the brush and all that. Tell him you won't use it everday, and that you'll buy some really good products like shampoos and conditioners that revive hair to keep it in shape. Like use "for damaged hair" products even if it isn't damaged to prevent it from happening. I've been using one for years, and some times it makes hair break a little on the top, but it's hardly noticable, especially for a guy, of all people. For the effect I get, it's totally worth it. There's no way to be sure, just tell him it's important to you, and you feel unfeminine without it. Good Luck!
how long does your hair need to be to start flipping out and does evryones hair flip out when iit gets long or stay straight?
I don't think it's a matter of length, more like hair type. Some people's hair can do it naturally. You can get that look by using a round brush, and a blow dryer, depending on whether or not your hair is that easily shaped. If it's a bit harder to work with, try fooling around with the curling iron and maneuver it in a way that'll give you a flip, not a curl.
well im getting adoggie but idont what to get a maltese or an australian terrier please help
I think both are very cute! I know some people with maltese's and they are very adorable and have very good tempers. But remember, it's a pet you'll probably have for it's lifetime, and it's an important decision you should really think over before deciding. Maybe research some pro's and con's about each, and weigh out the options.
i really REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLLLLLLLLLLY like this boy whos my age but a year younger grade wise. but one of my best friends (a year younger than me so going into his grade) who goes to my school is going out with him! we both met him at the same exact time and stuff. but he doesnt go to our school. any way she know that i like him! like i told her i did and then she was like ME TOO. and that was before they got together. i like him so much but so does she. its soo hard. but im happy for her. i dont want to get over him but i dont want to be soo obsessive. i kno this is SUCH a common question and stuff but like you know. have u ever been in this situation? what did you do?
I've seen some friends in the same mess. I'm sure I've experienced something similar. Best thing to do is keep being happy, you'll have to let her know you still like him, it wouldn't be good to coop up your feelings to your good friend. Just don't flirt with him or try and steal his attention away from her. It wouldn't be a good thing to do as a friend. You ought to just stay good friends with him, and teen relationships are usually really short-lived. It might only feel like they're going to last forever just because your waiting for him. Don't give him up, just hang in there if you really like him. You can't get completely mad at her either, because he had a say in their relationship is well, so it's not all her 'fault', so to speak. Just hang in there and wait your turn. I wish I had some sort of magical answer of getting you guys together quick, but the truth is somebody would have to get really hurt in the process of that, and you wouldn't want it to be you or your friend!
oh em gee im making like a smoothie with pears and strawberries-healthy. do i put vanilla yogurt, milk, wut? HELP FAST! its like in the blender! lol helppp rate 5s for ANYTHING FAST
Smoothies are the type of thing that are just experimental and sometimes you got to wing it. Make sure that you put ice in the blender as well to give it that good substance. I'd throw in a bit of vanilla yogurt, not too much, but just enough to taste and hold off on the milk. Enjoy your snack! Haha, and make sure you keep the top of the blender on.
ok.. i have 3 friends. 2 of my friends hate my other friend because they claim she is lying about them smoking weed when they told me they didnt. The one that claims they are smoking weed is like my best friend. And i got into a huge fight with her because I told her i didnt believe her and I believed the other 2 guys. But shes my best friend and now shes really pissed at me.. i tried talking to her and telling her i wasnt going to believe anyone because i dont care anymore. I just want to settle this. plus the other 2 guys arent helping. They keep IMing her on AIM and calling up her bf. I told them to stop but guys like never listen and they didnt.. what do i do?
Well, if they're treating your best friend that way, you need to stand up for her. Guys before girls! Just ignore them and act pissed and don't talk them again until they stop the immaturity! Tell her regardless of whether the weed thing was truthful, she's still your best friend, and your going to stand up for her through thick and thin. Give her a thoughtful phone call, or go over to her house where no one can intervene, like in school how people will get involved or overhear. Just tell her that you really wanna be there for her, and this is all teenage BS drama and it's bound to pass. Comfort her, and remember, don't go being the guys friends if they're going to be mean to her! Actions speak louder than words, and if you act like a good friend, you won't have to worry about the rest, she'll just know that you're a good friend. Good Luck! And know that all things like this pass sooner or later!
Does anybody know where you can get really nice cute clothes for bigger sized girls, I mean im not fat fat but i am bigger than most girls my age ( 15 ) so if anybody knows any good places to get cute clothes your help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks!!
American Eagle runs pretty big, it has a variety of styles but I know the jeans tend to be bigger. That and Torrid has plus sizes if that's the kind of thing you need. XXI/Forever 21 (it has different names depending on the location) should run up to your size as well. If you need to as well, you can just go to New York and Company and wear woman's sizes. They have pretty stylish stuff, and it's not old people looking. You could definetly pick up a good thing or two! Good Luck! Hope this helps!
so.. theres this guy that i really like.. but he doesn't really like me i don't think..like hes soooo hott and nice and funny and hansom and hilarious and cute and smart and intellegent and kind and caring and genuine and adorable and has dimples and has great muscle tone and big feet and nice hair and nice toe nails.. well anyway as you can see i like this guy a lot but im no stalker.. anways as I was in the tree in his front yard i happened to see him in his room and he had another girl in there.. do you think its his girlfriend or his sister or what. do you think i have a chance with him? im pretty cute and fun..i will RATE HIGH i NEED help!! please :)
Pleaseeee take a deep breath! Don't get too scared! I have no clue whether or not it's his girlfriend or sister. There's no way of knowing, besides asking him if he has a girlfriend. That's a safe question! If he says yes, that'll be that. If he says no, he's not dating you so he has no obligation to you alone. Even if that is a bit hurtful, that's okay, it could be you one day hanging out with him, just as easily! It means he likes to hang out with girls. Don't get too jealous or upset until you know for sure he has a girlfriend. If you need ANY help, I'm here for you, and you should just take it easy, no need to get yourself over stressed!
Does anybody know some really good songs that they like? Im trying to make a list of really good songs But i cant really think of any. If you have any songs, doesnt matter what type or anything like that! Thank you!
OH MY GOSH!!! I am loving this question right now! Try not to lose me here. I hope you don't mind this, but I'm into some country, southern rock, and emo kind of music. So let's see what I can construct here. I'll tell you what sort of moods each song sets as well-- or just detail.
Brass Bed- Josh Gracin (Very romantic... complete love song)
When I think about Leaving - Kenny Chesney (Really awesome meaning, good sort of lesson, catchy tune)
Playing Favorites- The Starting Line (Catchy tune, good vocals)
I Dare You - Shedaisy (Romantic, meaningful, e.t.c.)
Landing in London - Three Doors Down (A little solemn, but it's a good thoughtful car ride song if you know what I mean)
I have Loved You - Jessica Simpson (I know what you're probably thinking... I'm not all that into pop, but it's a good strong song)
Open Road - Bryan Adams (Awesome song from a brand new c.d., Bryan Adams is a classic from the 80's, sang "Heaven" before D.J. Sammy if you know that song. His voice is great, and he never loses that youthful sound to him)
Summer of '69 - Bryan Adams (This song is just a blast, and a classic, being it's one of his older songs, but you can't help but bob your head to this one)
All I Can Do Is Write About It - Lynard Skynard (Amazing southern rock! They sing "Sweet Home Alabama", your bound to know them. This song just tells basically how people are urbanizing everything, and the lyrics really go into the appreciation of everything that's around us. It's moving even if your into cities and stuff. )
Listen to your heart- DHT (Kinda technoish, but it's always on the radio. Fun, fun song.)
She's Every Woman- Garth Brooks (Probably one of the most romantic songs ever done once again, country. I have to say, only country songs really give woman their true worth. And this one does it. I've never seen another singer describe in such a way how they feel for someone. Whether or not your into country, this is a MUST!)
These Days- Rascall Flatts (it's a band not one guy, and this song a lot of people know even if they don't listen to country. A lot of people that listen to it like it, whether or not they like country. It's just amazing. Catchy, and talking about a guy and a girl who used to have something when they were teens and they meet up again.)
One Year, Six Monthes Ago - Yellowcard (Really good song to just reflect on your past about)
He's A Hero- SheDaisy (Tribute to a family member who was a really humble soldier, really amazing)
The Other Little Soldier - Josh Gracin (Really kind of sad, but yet again a tribute to soldiers)
Come Home Soon- Shedaisy (Tribute to all the soldiers out there, and the families fighting to live without the ones they really love)
Good Riddance - Green Day (Classic green day song, their older songs are better)
When I come Around- Green Day (Another classic one, great vocals, really interesting sound)
Making Memories of Us - Keith Urban (Enchanting words of love by a cute guy, ... but this one equals up to She's Every Woman, only I like She's Every Woman's tune better.)
The whole "Two Lefts Don't Make A Right, But Three Do" by Relient K, it's amazing, there's not a song on there I don't like, and that's a first for me!
Help Somebody - VanZants (Country, country, country, ... actually leftovers from the Lynard Skynard band, gone country. Other members from Lynard Skynard died years ago)
Say It Loud- Sanctus Real (Fun song, they're kinda rock)
Ever So Sweet- The Early November (Endearing!)
How Do You Get That Lonely- Blaine Larsen (Sort of phantasmal, but it just questioning why somebody would get to the point where they would kill themselves. It's not morbid in anyway, it's a country song, and he lists a lot of reasons and standpoints why life is better than killing yourself. He has other really good songs too, and he's cute, so check them out! )
These Boots Were Made for Walking - Jessica Simpson (I'm sure you know the song, it's just really really fun!)
I Don't Want to Be - Gavin DeGraw (Talking about just being real)
Beverly Hills- Weezer (Fun stuff.)
Try Brad Paisley, he's got some fun stuff going on there. Try anything by fallout boy, I've heard songs but don't know any specifically well. They have a great, amazing sound. Good Luck on your search for good songs!
i have really big hips well there not huge but thats where i seem to put on weight so how do i slim down healthly im not fat but i would love to loose a couple of pounds but without cutting out food cause i love food too much.lol
To be honest, some sugar is OK. Sugar actually burns really fast in smaller portions, (meaning as long as you don't take it over the top, it's okay). The only thing candy effects harshly is teeth. Chocolate is more fatty. If you can cut chocolate, your doing great! Soda is really not good for you at all. If possible stick to juices, diet soda, and water. Even occasionally soda is OK, but it shouldn't be the higher portion of liquid in your body. 3 or 4 days, or even daily, during your week, depending on your schedule, take a run. Or, if you have a tredmill at home, dedicate a half an hour on school days, and 1 hour on weekends, if you can. Here and there you can alter what you do. But also, try and keep a journal of what you've eaten, not to be all obsessive about anything, just so you know what you ate, because I know sometimes I forget what I eat in one day. And remember, don't take it over the top. Just be smart with what you do, and try not to eat fried food a lot. Fruit is a really good snack for you, if you eat it. It's not bland like vegetables are if you know what I mean. Good Luck!
can anyone tell me how to give a 'love bite' or a 'hikky'? i cant seem to do em and i would really love to be able to give my bf one. so if any1 has any tips etc on what to do and how to do it please help me. thankies xxx
I know how, but it's not one of my pastimes if you know what I mean. You can suck on the back of your palm, and if you do it really hard the skin turns all pink and reddish. It's the same thing for a neck. It's basically just sucking skin... to oblivion. And that's that.
i like this guy. ive liked him before about two years ago. he was i guess you could say one of my biggest middle school crushes.we stopped talking for a while. got new friends. just didnt really talk anymore. im in high school now. we started talking again. of course my feelings came back for him. there are points when we talk that i get the feeling he likes me back. but other times he makes it seem like hes mad at me or im annoying. i told my best friend that i like him. she practically laughed in my face. she said hes ugly and that he only wants a piece of ass. i guess a few people have told me that. about last week we kinda i guess you could say hooked up. made out at his house. he wanted to go farther then making out. and i said no. which he was totally cool with. then just yesturday he admitted to liking me. he said doesnt want a girlfriend now though because of all the bad relationships hes had. which i totally understand. i want to get to know him better before we do anything else. but half of me thinks hes only saying he likes me to get a piece of ass. but the other half just wishes or hopes hes a great guy that i hope he is. what should i do? should i listen to my friends and give up on the kid? or should i go forward to hooking up and getting to know him better?
Don't let your friends decide things for you. But, instead rather, let your trusted friends know that their insight is appreciated. Even if you don't agree, it's valuable information to think about. Don't take advice from friends who could possibly be jealous, or unaccurate with the truth. Sure, you can get to know him better. It just seems like your walking on eggshells at the moment. But, it's good you stood your ground. With the piece of ass thing? Don't let him have a piece of ass. Just keep going on as you are, getting closer, and relearning about eachother. If he gets tired and bored and gives up before you get the chance to go out, you'll know for sure what he really wanted. Be really careful and don't let him tempt you into something you could really regret... if you're not going out or anything, and you went ahead and did something... he'd get bored and leave. Most guys do that. I assume that but I don't know. And I'm sure you aren't annoying him at all, your probably just very self-conscious. I can be the same way sometimes. Like, have you ever had a moment where you thought your hair looked terrible, and everyone around you is saying it looks great? Or maybe you thought a shirt looked bad on you, and everyone else loved it? You yourself perceive things differently than others around you. It's a very different world giving yourself an opinion, over giving someone else an opinion. So, it's good to be careful, but it's doubtful your annoying. I hope I pretty much covered all the many topics you grazed over. Well, good luck! Hope I'm not rambling here.
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ok, well i recently just took a vacation to a beach about 20 hours away. On the last day I found a guy who I REALLY like, and I know he liked me. We hung out until about 1-2 in the morning then I had to go back to my hotel room. The morning after I left without seeing him at all. Now here I am at home and I can't stop thinking about him. Anything I say His name is in my sentace. Are there any ways to get off my mind? I can't go back to the beach because, well, I'm only 14, and he's only 14, so we both can't drive.
If you know his name and where he lives, maybe you can call him? But if you don't have the information for that or the guts to do it I understand. There's no specific way to get someone off your mind, but I find it helps when I open my mind to other guys around me. Even if they don't equal up, it's fun to have eye candy and note the different traits you like about people, even if they're few. I went through something similar to this situation, and that guy always sits with me somewhere in my heart, but there's nothing you can do. Life just sort of goes on, and it's best to just distract yourself when you find yourself thinking of him. Time will really heal your problem. Good Luck!