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Ok I have a really small plain room and it gets veeeery messy. the amount of space when its CLEAN to walk in is even smaller than a walk-in closet! And I can't move out any of the furniture because they're all nailed into the wall! What can I do to make it less messy and make it look nicer? It's so, well, PLAIN and I'm not even allowed to paint it. I like lava lamps and miniature desk water fountains and things like that if it helps!!!! thanx a lot, I will rate high for anyone who gives a reasonable answer (link)
Wow. Uhh... I'm assuming you are a pack-rat, no offense, so you will have to let stuff go. If not, you need storage containers. It's easy enough to make them go w/ a color theme in your room. With the walls, Ask your parents if you can tack up some material along the bend where the ceiling and the wall meet. If you do it right, your room will look bigger. In any case, look through your stuff and get rid of things you probably won't ever use or need again.


i am redoing my room. the walls are white, and the rug is light-blue, which i cant change. does anyone have any ideas on what colors/theme i should use. i'm 14 if it helps. (link)
If I were you, I would use blues to bring out the carpet. Nothing Much, just painting the ceiling a little darker blue. Also, You can get an entirely different look by adding drapes of material on any windows. It sound like you want a new look, so you could always go for a theme or move around furniture. Maybe from different rooms.
Good luck!


I have had it with relationships that I have,mainly cause I hadn't trusted God in the past. I have now returned to God and said I was tired of my dating service and I'll try Yours. I would like a husband who will look after me, as well as me looking after him. And You're going to have to practically set him in my lap. Well, along came this guy Peter and WOW! I have never felt or met anyone like him. Anyway, one day I desided to call him Sunshine as he really brightened up a cloudy day. I was working and he sat behind me and one day I dropped my glasses on the floor, he picked them up and said "I'm here to look after you!" Well, several other things have happened also that included his nickname I gfave him, as if they were signs from God saying he's the one! So I believe he is. What do you think? (link)
It sounds like 'Sunshine' is really a nice guy. I can't say whether or not he is the one, but I know I would want to find out more about him. If God didn't give you a spouse, he will have certainly given you a good experience. I think you should take it slow and find out what he's like. I'm glad he came into your life!


Ok. Me and my friends are working on a movie and we only have 3 people including me. We each have a lot of parts. Should we get more people? O yah? Do you think making a movie and sending it to Hollywood would make people like have a career in acting like the famous people? Can you give me some tips? (link)
Yes. You need more people if you want to catch the interest of ANYONE. But that's not the way to get attention. It's always useful, if you're looking for open casting calls, to do a search on the net.


I need links to websites where you can shop online.
If they ship internationally then that's fantastic but if not, post them anyway.

I'm in the middle of making a list of online stores to make things quicker for myself and other people and I need more sites.
Any sites you can think off, you don't have to check where they ship, I do all that.

They can be
Accesories (Purses, jewelery, etc), Clothing, Shoes, Plus Sizes (yes, plus sizes has it's own category but only because someone requested it) and beauty products (including hair cair, make-up, etc)

My current link count issss:
Accesories: 11
Clothing: 68
Plus Sizes: 6
Shoes: 9
Beauty Products: 11 (link)
ebay.com is great. You can buy Anything there, but the catch is, it's an auction. You have to outbid someone on something before you can get the item. I just got an awesome guitar for 10 bucks. Usually they are hundreds of dollars.


I recently recieved a goldfish from a friend. It's orange mostly, with clear fints, some black patches, and a blue stripe next to the fin. I THINK it's girl but i'm not sure lol. What should i name it? And is there anything imparticular i should know to help me keep a goldfish content and healthy?

Thanks,
Panda (link)
ALWAYS use purified water and let it sit out a day before putting the goldfish in. This gets oxygen in the water. Also, if the fish gets a haze around it and dies, your bowl is contaminated. You can get something at Wal-Mart for that. It's called Ick or Un-Ick or something like that. Never put too much food in the bowl, or the fish WILL gorge itself. Hope I helped.


this is stupid but i'll give 5's. if you want to get motovated to do something like work out everyday or practice for a sport everyday does anyone have any ways that they get motovated for something like that? thanks in advanced (link)
I like to reward myself with a special something after I do... whatever. Like take a bubble bath or eat out. Promise yourself you will only enjoy it if you have done whatever you did. Your guilty concsience will not let you enjoy it as much if you don't do it. Plus, after a while, sports make you feel good. That's only if you let them.


Hey you guys seem to have really good taste in movies. I was wondering if you'd give me any recomendations. Anything that deals with
psychology, drug use or a movie that makes you think. I've seen Thirteen and Spun so anything else would be great. Thanks alot.
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I like thinking movies too. I suggest THE MATRIX and all that follow after.


When I got a divorce from my husband, I had $57 to live on and ever since that time I have been struggling to get out of debt. I was left with a lot of health bills and everytime I try to get out of debt (already have had debt consolidation and filed bankruptcy. I was not able to pay for the debt consolidation as when the time came due to pay my rent and other current bills that was due. Also I have lost jobs because the place closed and/or shipped my job overseas. When ever I can I try to work extra hours. I am now working at a job that I am working over time on for main job and also for doing artwork for my job doing murals for the breakroom. I sometimes go in at 9am and don't get home until after 12am. Also I can't keep up with this because of my health issues as well. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
I know you're gonna hate this, but you need to pray and just have faith that everything will work out. It will eventually. I don't know about debt, but I understand the divorce situation because my parents divorced when I was almost five. Just know that there are people out there who care and are willing to help. I'm so sorry I couldn't help more.


for those of you that have gotten them where and how much? thanks!
♥BLAiR (link)
I prefer a hobo bag or a messenger bag, but you can find stuff on ebags.com
Hope I helped you!


ok well i am known but i want like guys to look to (lol) and like i am not sayin im ugly i just want a way to get to a guy cuz i want a guy who is gonna want me not like the last guy i had he didn't even care!!!!! and i also wanna be like everyone knows and i was ike that last year but itz a whole new year with whole new ppl ne tips/advice?

signed
just wanting little help (link)
Make friends with the guys first. Then, if they like you, they will ask you out. Talk to them to make sure you like them and you share common interests or it will not last very long.







I belong to an apartment complex pool,where there are like no kids my age, they are mostly around 9. I'm 13 so there arent many hotties with bodies laying around. But there is this one guy, he looks about a year or two older than me (which is fine cuz i dont usually date guys my age). Its kinda hard to explain a stare i guess lol. But he always looks and me and smiles when i look back at him. I'm kinda of shy and i think he is shy too. There was about a million chances to talk to each other, but no one took them. I'm pretty sure i like him, you know that "he is all i think about and i cant wait to see him"bit.I've been trying to strike up the nerve to talk to him, but i just cant do it. It seems weird going up to a complete stranger and talking to them. What would i say?And..*sigh* i just got back together with my on and off again boyfriend who is crazy for me. I broke his heart twice already, if i do really like this guy too, i dont know if i could stand breaking his heart again. We've been really good friends while we havent been together, i cant stand to loose him.
I need help, guys or girls point of view, do you think he likes me? should i go for it?Im not an amature in the dating department, im more mature all the kids my age, i just need help getting started.

Thanks, i rate 5's.

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All you have to do is find a common interest with this guy. I mean, if he didn't actually like you that way, you would at least gain a bud. You don't have to go steady with everyone you date. You can be with someone for a while just to see what they're like, but that does not mean anything.
As for your boyfriend, he will understand if you just tell him this. Treat him like a friend, and if he leaves and doesn't come back, he's not good enough for you.


Is 13 old enough to have a boyfriend...not like pair off and go out on an actual date or anything...but to really like a boy and have a first kiss or sumthin...it's not like I want to, but when I see kids in my grade kissing and holding hands and stuff and I'm just curious to whether it's right or if it's silly or if it's age-appropriate...? (link)
I think that you don't need to rush things. Hold on to boy FRIENDs while you can. It won't be long before every boy you get close to asks you out, and it's REALLY annoying. You are the best judge of your life, though.


OMG! I don't have any friends anymore all the guys at my school hate me and my "friends" don't even talk to me. No one talks to me. and no i'm not a "loser". I had "friends" but they keep discludeing me! HELP?! (link)
It seems like you have done something to them and you need to apologise before they will ever trust you again. If they don't listen, you should find some better friends. Don't let yourselves get separated. You don't know what you've got 'till it's gone.


i just need help (link)
Pray so that God can help you solve your problems because I don't know what they are. He is a better solution than a website any day.


I'm 15 and not allowed to wear thongs!
I HATE MY MOTHER, help! (link)
I'm not sure what you're asking. But I will give you this: I know you will hate me for saying it, but you should get to know your mother. Why do you think you hate her? She probably just wants to help you. My parents divorced when I was six, and I have never had a fight with my mom, even though I can only spend a little time with her. Maybe you should spend a little time away from her to blow off some steam, and you will realize how much you miss her. She was your age once.


i am just really hard on myself for not being exactly how i wanna be. i want to be more popular, and a beauty. everyone tells me i am beutiful and i know i am (not to be conceited) but i wish people at school could see it. (or atleast the popular people cuz geeks have crushes on me). just what are some tips to boost my confidence and be everything i wanna be! help! (link)
I know about this problem. I'll tell you this: Most popular people are shallow. No offense. They are ignoring you. On purpose, am I right? Do you really want to be with them? I'm not telling you to be mean to them, but don't buy your way to popularity like they do. Don't think they're cool from what they do to other people. It sounds like you are the kind of person who would feel like a fake if she got into the popular world. Ask yourself: What is popularity?
Having lots of friends? Being "cool"? That's about all there is to it. And even those are a paper wall. I suspect that you have a good, strong circle of friends. Stick with them.

Also, maybe the 'popular ppl' are AFRAID of your beauty. They think that if you become popular, you will threaten their social status. Just a thought.

Sorry it was so long!


Well theres this hot guy i like at school but i'm for sure he doesnt like me back. I really like him, and i think he only considers me as a friend instead of what i want him to feel. He's nice, but what should i do? i really wanna go out and stuff but i'm not so sure he wants to?? help! I rate! (link)
I'm glad you asked me. Let me give it to you straight. Guys are dumb. Don't play any games (aka "I really want to see this movie but I don't have anyone to go with") with him, because he won't get it. I know it's not traditional, but YOU will probably ask HIM out before HE asks YOU out. Don't worry about it. If you ask him out to do something fun, he'll like it. Maybe, if he didn't like you before, he'll like you then because he sees YOU. And going out does not always mean FOREVER. Just have one date and see how both of you feel.


Ok, I just started a diet and it's just a regular diet: Lowfat, lowsugar, smaller portions, watching what I'm eating and exercise. Well ever since I started the diet and I haven't really been hungry. And others times when I am hungry and eat, I feel like throwing up. And usually after going to the gym (just a 30 min. cardio workout), I really feel like I'm going to puke, even if I haven't eaten anything. What is wrong with me?!?! (link)
It is normal to feel like puking after a hard, long workout. Don't worry about that one. But I don't know much about the other problem. Don't stuff your face when you're really hungry. Just concentrate. Are you craving something? A lot of the time when people are 'hungry', they need protein. Try nuts, meat, or peanut butter. It also helps to eat carbohydrates. drink lots of water.


Hello,I'm an over weight girl 13 years old, and I really would like to go out with a guy at my summer camp. But since I'm fat they only see that, and not the true me. I mean I've lost about six teen lbs total this summer. There are girls two - three times my size.... Does any one have a clue how to attract a guy to me, like flirting ideas, or just to get them to notice me???? Please I need tons of help for this????? (link)
Don't worry about how fat you are, just eat healthy and don't be a couch potato! That's all it takes.
About this guy. Don't flirt with him to the point of creepiness, just start by talking to him. You may find common interests.




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