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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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so was i right? do i live in the 610 because thats my area code? like is the 314 or whatever your area code? i still dont think i get it. sry...i juss felt like typing weird...i wont do it no more =)

anyway...i just wanna know ;; do i live in the 610 because my area code is 610?

Well like I said, that was my guess. I dont know where you live and I dont know your area code. && yes my area code is 314. Honestlly I think you should know it already. Its not that you live in the 610, its probablly used for phone numbers and stuff. Just ask one of your friends about it beacuse I`m not positive.

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what does "hella" mean ?? so many people have been saying it and i would love to know what it means...thanks!

There is a lot of words to explain what it means. Its just another slang word for a lot or really. Like if you say "That's hella cute" it just means its really cute! I personally hate that word though lol. But you can use it for anything though.

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ok i know that ur period is once a mounth but how long is it?????

That depends. Every girl's period is never the same so no one ever knows! It can last 2-7 days.

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ok my boyfriend and I had sex like 4 times. and one time he peeed in my mouth because he said it was kinky - but it just tasted bad. i dont no what to tell him to not do it again. and do you know any places that sell water bras, becdause i`ve always had a thing about runing with this big gahunnas bounceing around ? please help ?

He didnt pee in your mouth he cummed and thats normal for all guys. You simply just dont swollow it but spit it out or just tell him not to do it. Theres no thinking about if you should or shouldnt. If you dont like it tell him you dont so he doesnt do it anymore. && No I dont know where they sell the water bras. Sorry.

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whats it mean when people put like the 612 as where they live or something...lyke me phone numba [da first three didgets] are 610...doez dat mean that i live in tha 610? where do people get dese numbas from?

Ahh I wished you typed normal instead of slang but anyways. I dont know where you live but I`m guessing that its the area code. Like where I live its 314.

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im either really really really really happy or extremely pissed off or depressingly sad. i think i could be bipolar. what does that consist of? what do i do? anything....

One of my friends acually has that. He went to the doctor for it and he got pills. It just means you're happy and then you get mad for no reason and you always have mood changes. The doctor will give you something and its nothing bad. Its normal with a lot of people.

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i have a problem! my crush that ive been crushing on for like forever doesnt have any classes with me this year and me and him are both shy and i havent talked to him all summer and now tomorrow is the 4th day of school and i still havent spoken im just paranoid, i mean i never have time to talk to him because whenever i see him theres like a zillion people around and i know all i should do is talk to him but its weird that i freak out, i think im afraid of rejection, but i dont know..helppp how can i get him to notice me and me to come out and find a way to talk to him and for it not too be too awkward because of all the people and stuff, ahhh i just want to be with this guy so badly but im a scardy-cat and who knows if he even knows my name anymore =[

First of all there is nothing to be scared of! I know that you're shy and all but if you really like this guy and want to be with him then you have to take the chance and talk to him. You'll be glad that you did. When you see him in the hall just be like hey!! and it doesnt matter if there is a lot of people there! You have to grow up out of the shy stage and just be more outgoing. Nothing bad will happen if you talk to him. Theres nothing to be embarrased about. Just go for it! Make the first move.

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Ok this is weird but where do you put a tampon and how do you put it in?

Well you put the tampon in your vagina.. or if it would be easier the second hole. I think when you buy them read the instructions. It will explain everything. Just dont worry about doing it wrong. You'll get it right.

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ok well i got this friend right and wen we go to school he always wants to sit in the front seat and i let him sometimes and im like lets trade of u sit in it once then i will then u then me but he never wants to trade of he just wants to sit there always and it pisses me off so then i dont let him sit but then he whines a lot and complains ..so i unno wat to do about this...

Let him complain. When people do that they usually just want to get their way so dont let him. Let him be pissed of whatever because he doesnt HAVE to sit there! Hes being way immature and even though he is your friend dont take anyones crap. Sorry if I`m being mean or anything its just I had a bad night and honestlly dont ever let anyone do that to you. I mean complaining and whinying will just get annoying so you could eather just talk to him nicely about it.

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Alright it's marching band season for me right now and i flat iron my hair...it tends to get frizzy and poofy by the time i get to school even tho my hair is very straight at home when i touch it up. any tips on how to keep it from waving and making the poofyness dissappear? Could it be the flat iron i'm using? thanks =)

I dont think its the straightener that is causing your hair to get frizzy. I think that you should get John Freeda Frizz ease.. it works good and it wont be frizzy anymore. Blowdry your hair and brush it and keep it smooth and healthy. But the John Freeda stuff does work so try it! Its not expensive!

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What age do you think a girl should be to go to a gyno? Not for birth control, just for health check ups? Thanks!

Around 17 or 18 is the best time.

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i know im 13 but ive been held back and now im starting middle skool. im really nervous. wut if the other kids dont like me, or if i dont fit in. wut if i get my classes mixed up and everyone makes fun of me? all u guys are in middle skool so PLEASE HELP!!!

Aw thats something EVERYONE worries about! I remember when I was going to sixth grade! I was lost and nervous! I`m nervous every year. Dont worry thought. If you are nice, and outgoing people will def. like you and you will make tons of friends! You just need to say hi and talk to them. This is my last year so I`m glad and all the worries I had I just think back and I`m like woah.. I was worrying way to much! Just relax and have fun. Sign up for sports and thats how you will meet even more new people. Good luck babe!

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hi. wuts up with tampons? how long after you start your period should you put them in, age, time of day, shower with them, ANYTHING you want to tell me but please answer those. kk thank you bye

You can use them whenever you get your period. It doesnt matter if its your first time or 15th! The best age to use them is 13 and up. Time of day.. it doesnt matter. Whenever you get it then use it. You can shower with them, swim, do anything you want. Change it every 3 to 4 hours so it doesnt smell or so you wont leak. Its best to start off with little thing ones so you can get used to them. The best brand is Playtxx and Tampax Pearl! They are really comftrable.

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when do u start to put in a tampon? how long after your first period, etc. . .

It doesnt matter! You can use it the first time you get your period. It wont make a difference.

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i just downloaded limewire.. and i kind of know how to use it.. but when i go to "My Library", and play a song, when the song ends.. the whole thing ends.. i can only listen to a song one at a time. i mean like it doesnt play the song over again, and it doesnt play another song. the music just stops, and i have to click on a song to listen to it. i already checked the "Continuous" and "Shuffle" box where the play options are.. but that didnt do anything. how can I listen to songs one after the other(like a playlist) without having to click all the time on a song to hear it

Yeah you have to make a playlist so on everysong right click and then click Add to Playlist. The list will play but after its done it wont replay so you have to click on song number 1 so it can start again. Good luck with it! You'll get used to it.

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Does anyone have any sad slow love songs similar to "All My Life" by KC and JoJo and "Have You Ever?" by Brandy??Please help me I'm going through a bad time right now and it would help me very much! I'll rate 5's thank you!

How to deal-Frankie J
Listen to your heart-DHT
Over and over-Nelly
Going crazy-Natalie
A moment like this-Kelly Clarkson
Let me hold you-Bow Wow ft. Omarion
Omarion-O
We belong together-Mariah Carey
Through the rain-Mariah Carey
Cool-Gwen Stephani
Take my breath away-Jessica Simpson
Let me love you-Mario
Truth is-Fantasia
Whiskey Lullaby- Brad Paisly && Allison Cross
Nothing at all-Allison

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whats a really good .. fast .. free.. music downloader ? i have WinMX and so many of the songs arent able to be dowloaded .. i want a downloader where all the songs are goood to download and it has to be free! please help! a link to a site would also be awesome! i rate 5's.. thanks:)

There are 2 good ones and I had them both. Ares and Limewire! They work really well and its very fast. You can download music videos, songs, movies! It doesnt cause viruses or anything.

http://www.limewire.com/english/content/home.shtml

http://www.download.com/Ares-Galaxy-FasterDownload/3000-2166_4-10424246.html?tag=lst-0-1

I would stay away from Bearshare and Kazaa!

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does anyone know how much money you get paid an hour for working at a job like af & hollister?

Yeah I know. When I was at Hollister I asked 2 guys how much they get paid and it depends on what you do. If you are folding clothes you get paid $5.50 an hour! Its a little. But for others the highest you will get paid is probablly up to 8 dollars!

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Okay im sorry if this is long, but its really importatnt to me. so last year i totally started crushing on this guy, and i had one of my freinds tell him, then all summer we didnt talk or hang out or anything, now im back at school and i dont know how to talk to him, im really shy around him, and just him its weird, but i dont know what i should say to him without it being too awkward cause i want to somehow show him that i totally still like him, but not be too obvious, also my school is having a "backwards" dance where girls ask guys and i really want to ask him but i never can seem to talk to him, like i freak out and i just cant talk to him, i sereiously just shut down and space out, soo please what should i do??

Aww thats so cute! Well you really want to talk to him so you have to take the chance and just go for it. In class or something just say hey!! but dont be like shy.. be outgoing and stuff! Pay attention to him and just find things to talk about and I`m sure you will. Keep flirting and make eye contact with him. And he might even like you too! Just be brave and ask him to that dance. Good luck babe!

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heyy idk how to h/u..can u give me some tips and like what it means pretty much? thankss. and also is it normal for a 13 year old not to have kissed a boy yet?

Hook up? Thats something you dont really want to do. It means going from one guy to another doing sexual things. And the relationship wouldnt last long. And yes its normal that you havent kissed anyone yet. It will be normal when the time is right!

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