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"There's no other love like the love for a brother. There's no other love like the love from a brother." A lot has changed since I was in High-school and first created my column - almost 8 years ago!!!! I now have two gorgeous Boys who mean the World to me; Brody, who is 3 and a half years old, and Brayden, who will be a year in November. I live my life for these two Boys. They make every second worth it. xxoo ♥ ♥

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i write poetry and i want it published in a book like a book with other peoples poems too.... but i dont want to send it online.. so where could i go?

You could try sending it in the mail to Chicken Soup For The Teenage Soul. That would be awesome to have some of your poetry in there, because it's a good selling book.
♥ Krissy

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I was wondering how do you put apic on your advice page? Also how do you put your info? Thanks in advance!

You go to "Profile Settings" on the left hand of your screen. Then go down to "Upload a picture of you", then to "browse". Look for your picture you want and upload it. To put info on your page, just go down to where it says "Describe yourself or your column or whatever else you want the world to know" and write what you want about yourself in there!
♥ Krissy

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i heard about people being level 2s and 3s and stuff and i was wondering how do you become a level?

Just go here, it tells you everything you need to know. http://advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11
♥ Krissy

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Yea I have another question for u... How do I tell Him.... cause I would probably be way too scared to tell him in person (plus hes kinda shy.. hes the type of person that u have to go up and start talking to him or else he wont come up to u) and on the phone I think I would kill the convo... and yea if I would write to him that would probably be stupid huh? But yea I dont know what to tell him with out making my self feel or look like a complete idiot!

~!~ Live Strong~!~

Writing him a letter or e-mailing him won't make you look like a complete idiot at all. Your shy and so is he, I'm sure he won't think your an idiot for that. Just write him a note asking if he would like to go out with you, because you really like him. If you don't think thats a good idea because your really think you'll look like an idiot, do it the old fashion way; get one of your friends to ask him for you. Tell me how it goes!
♥ Krissy

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i was j/w what 143 means... i used to kno but i forgot

143 = I love you.
♥ Krissy

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i know you can get rid of a rating you got if you delete the question, how do you do that?
thanks =)

Just go to "Edit Question" on the left side of your screen. Click on the question you'd like to Edit. Then just highlight it all and take it out. And there, you just deleted your question =)
♥ Krissy

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I HATE MY MOMS BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Every one thinks hes soooooooooo nice but theres just something about him i dont like hes hespanic but my boyfriend is hespanic so im not against hespanics and he was my moms teenage love. I just dont get it i hate him and i told my mom but shes like o shut up u never do anything for me. And that really hurt me. Im crying every night and i cant live with my dad cuz he is always traveling and i feel like dieing. She doesnt get it and my mom was always nice to me but now since she has been dating this guy. She is totally agaisnt me. Its not fair. He claims to "care" for me and my brother but i dont think its true. He thinks that my mom is going to marry him and she said it isnt true but i dont trust her. PLEASE HELP!!! I will rate 5

I think you should talk to your mom about this all. Your her daughter and she should listen to what you have to say. Tell her that you don't think this guy is right for her and that you think she changed because of him. You just need to have a heart to heart talk with your mother. Just let everything out that you've been meaning to tell her. I'm sure she'll understand and be there for you. Maybe she'll even try to shape things up. I'm not saying she's going to leave the guy she's with, because she probably won't. Even though, you'll always be her daughter and I think daughters should come before boyfriends.
♥ Krissy

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my sisters planned a surprise party for my mom's birthday because she is turning 50! my sisters said i could bring a boy to it if i wanted. i really want to, but how would i ask him if he wanted to go?

Just be like, "Hey, my mom's having a little birthday get together and I was wondering if you wanted to come. If not it's okay, but I'd be happy if you came so I'd have someone to hangout with"
♥ Krissy

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Im 13 years old and all my friends have boyfriends. I dont and Ive never had my first kiss. I mean i saw a ten year old making out at school. Thats just wrong. But i had a boyfriend and it was my friend. Well i saw him for one day i said yes then i didnt hear from him in like a month so i guess he broke up....Ok well any advice and dont say ur day will come.

Your first kiss is suppose to be the kiss you won't forget. It's going to be your first kiss so you want it to be with someone special. Don't go kiss someone just so you can say you've been kissed. Let it be the right guy.
♥ Krissy

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okay this guy "Bob" and I dated for 2 and 1/2 years...I dont know if i love him and i know thats dumb since we dated so long but i like him so much. We broke up on October 8th...He says he only likes me as a friend now..and I like him a ton still. I like other boys..but everytime i go out with them i end up dumping them because i still like "Bob"...he still has a picture of me beside his bed and stuff..And we talk sometimes (but only online cause hes so shy that he never talks to alot of people in school or at another place) I dont act depressed all the time but before i go to bed almost every night i always end up thinking about him and it gets me to the point where i want to cry. Hes a mommys boy like his mom told him he could hold hands with me or do anything else..so for the first few months we didnt cause we didnt want his mom finding out...But I know his mom hates me cause she calls me annyoing and stuff (she doesnt know i know all of this)And my best friend thinks "Bobs" mom doesnt want him to date me cause im not good enough for him or something....I absolutly hate his mom now because she always tells "bobs" cousin that im annoying and i talk way to much and his cousin always tells me..and i still like bob alot...and sometimes i get the feeling he likes me too but im not sure and everytime i ask him he just says were friends...help x0x_coNfused

That's really immature what "Bobs" mom is doing. She's talking about you? That's just stupid. I'd totally forget about everything she said about you, because she obviously doesn't care about other peoples feelings. As for "Bob" I think you love the guy. All you do is think about him non-stop it seems and you always find yourself crying about him at night, that's love. There's no way you can go out with someone for 2 1/2 years and get over them that fast, especially when you only broke up in October. If you really like this guy and you think he's worth fighting for, fight for him. It sounds like "Bobs" a really shy guy and he probably wouldn't even tell you if he still had feelings for you. I think you should let everything out on the phone to him and tell him how much you love and care about him. Maybe ask him to the movies one time or some place to hangout, then maybe something could start up again!
♥ Krissy

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14/f Ok well I like this guy and I wanna tell him I like him but I dont wanna sound stupid and want him to think Im weird... we are friends i guess we talk on the phone sometimes but not that often I have 2 classes with him and lunch but I dont talk to him at all at school... but when i do talk on the phone with him he makes me smile so much! I kinda wanna write him a note but I dont know if that would be a stupid thing to do...how did u tell a guy u liked them... Im not sure if I should even tell him... and If I should I dont know what to say... but another thing I know he doesnt like me cause he told me who he liked and that he was gonna ask her out(yea she has everything I want)... so yea does that mean I shouldnt even bother... I am confused I just have liked him for like ever... what Should I do... and if I should tell him... what should I say... I am lost and confused?!?!

~!~Live Strong~!~

You should tell him. Don't question yourself about telling him or not, because I know if you don't tell him you'll regret it. Just because he likes someone else, doesn't mean you shouldn't bother. You could try to get him to like you as more then a friend. Try talking to him at school by starting up a conversation or start talking to him more on the phone. You could even get his screen name and take it from there. By being super friendly and nice he could start falling for you. Anything is possible, but never give up on the guy you like.
♥ Krissy

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So Im really starting to develop a thing for a friend of mine, but it gets even worse than that. Im 18m shes 15f its not a huge difference but still. She also has a boyfriend putting me in an even tougher situation. Im also pretty sure she doesnt even think of me in anykind of romantic sense, even if she didnt have a bf. I really dont know what kind of advice to even ask for mostly im jsut venting and seeing what kind of comments/advice im gonna get.

That's not a huge age difference at all. Even though you think she doesn't like you, she could. You never know. Some people are just to shy to tell others they have feelings for her. I think you should just keep being there for her and such, so she'll always have you to lean on. Maybe if you keep being the sweet guy you are, she'll fall for her. Even though, don't try to break her and her boyfriend up. Just like her be happy for now and let her keep you as a friend.
♥ Krissy

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ok so there is this guy and we used 2 be like bestest best frendz!! like we told each other everything and called each other everyday and when i wuz like scared er sumpin i would call him and he would tell me everything would be ok but over summer brake we didnt hang out once and he didnt call me at all but when we went bak 2 skool he started talkinn 2 me and jokein around with me again n stuff but then he met these other kids and started 2 hang with them and toatally forgot about me i want 2 get over him but i cant i cry over him sumtimes because i miss are frendship and im tierd of crying over him i dont think he is werth it but i cant stop!!! plz plz help me
sighned ~~**upset\confused**~~

I know how you feel. This guy sounds nice, but also mean. He's nice for being there for you and everything. But then he doesn't call or hangout with you in the summer, then trys to be your friend once school starts? He doesn't sound like that good of a friend if he does that, friends are suppose to stick by eachothers sides. Maybe you could try talking to him about this and telling how you feel. About how you used to be so close and now you guys don't talk anymore. If he keeps on blowing you off, he's not a good friend in the first place. There's a lot of guys out there that would be worth your time. You just have to keep looking, you'll find him, don't worry.
♥ Krissy

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my friend wants to get extentions.. how do i tell her that uhm.. no.

Tell her that you don't think extentions will look good on her. Your her friend and she should take the things you say to her serously. On the other hand, she could really want to get extention and they might even look good on her. Tell her how you feel about them though, then let her decide herself if she should get them or not.
♥ Krissy

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I am so in love with this boy.. that i have been lets say more than friends with.. ne wayz... I'm so confused now.. I don't know what to do I don't know if I SHOULD GO FOR HIM OR WHAT.. I really like him and he likes me well i would hope so.. becasue he kisses me and we act like a couple but i dont wanna be turned down if i ask him out what should I do help!! plz ill rate 5's

It sounds like he likes you, just ask him out. I'm sure he'll probably say yes. I mean you guys act like a couple. There must be something there. Just ask him hun, I'm sure everything will go great.
♥ Krissy

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Alright i was talking to the guy that I have kind of been more than friends with and his girlfriend called him while i was on the phone with him... when we were doing stuff together he didnt have a girlfriend... but ne wayz he came over to the other line and i asked him who is was and he said it was his girlfriend.. i asked him if he wanted me to let him go and he said no. he told his girlfriend he was busy and then he told me that he was talking to me ne wayz. well anywayz i really like him but i dont want his girlfriend to get hurt should i back off until they break up or what... plus doesnt he seem like he likes me???/ im confused please help......

If you don't think he likes you, maybe you should back off for awhile. You don't want his girlfriend hating on your over nothing. I'm not saying stop talking to him forever. Maybe just call him once in awhile to catch up on things.
♥ Krissy

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i feel so lonley without a boyfriend. i miss having some one here to always talk to and stuff, is that wrong?

There's nothing wrong with you feeling lonley because you don't have a boyfriend. Sometimes I miss having a boyfriend, but other times I like it. Your not so "tied" down. But I just miss having someone to hug and talk to. You can always talk to your friends though, thats what friends are for, their always there to listen.
♥ Krissy

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i have this friend beth and shes makign all of these bad choices liek havin sex and doin drugs.. how do I help her?

You have to talk to your friend and tell her what your feeling. Telling her that your scared for her and care about her could help. If she doesn't understand what your trying to say and doesn't care what your saying, she needs to learn the hard way. Let her make mistakes in life, she can only learn from them. But you still have to be by her side and keep being the great friend your being.
♥ Krissy

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ok i like the scruncy hair look !!! but i havent found a scrunching gel that i really like !! do u have any suggestions??? thanx

Aussie is great, that is what I used to get the scruncy look. Make sure it's wet when you do your hair. Maybe you could try using moose, it works great for me. Then once you get it looking the way you want, spray some gel in it.
♥ Krissy

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how do i change my music on my advice column??? im a blonde so if you can ..can you write it out step by step !!! lol thanx

The music that you have in your advice column, you probably had to put a code to get it on your page. So, just take the code out from your page. All you do is go to "Profile Settings" and it should be in there.
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