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Try google and put hair cuts and styles. Mabe you could go to a hair dressers then have magazines with different styles that would look good on you.

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My guy friend and his girlfriend broke up, and he still likes her alot. She likes him still too but she doesnt want to get hurt and they will be going to different schools. My guy friend asked me to help him get through this because I'm the only one he can trust. I want to help him in any way I can because I want to be close with him. What should I say to him to make him feel better? Thank you so much!

It may seem bad but you cant really interfer! because its between them two. Mabe just be supportive and drop a few nice comments in about him when you talk to his girlfriend, well ex.

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okay well in exactly a week im getting a mole reoved form my cheek adn im so anxious to get it done like i cant think of anything else to do... anybody haev any ideas how to take my mind off of it for a little bit? thank you!!

Just totally forget about it. Its because your scared but dont worry if you have fun and go out you will totally forget about it.

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my friend wants to have sex with this guy and she was too shy so i had to talk to the guy for her. and after a while he started hitting on ME and asked me to one of his parties i thought i might havefun but i thought about my friend. i now kinda want to go but ill feel really bad for my friend and she might never talk to me again. please help me

Never betray a friend. If she liked him first like her have him. Say no to him. Never fall out with your friend over a guy.

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i have begged and begged but mom will not let me get my tongue peirced! she says im too young to make that kind of choice.im 13! one of my family members got it done when she was 11 and my mom approves of it! i really want this done but i dont know were to go that will let u with out your parents permission and one of my friends said to do it my self which i thought about but then another friend said that if you hit the wrong spot it can kill but still this is a choice.what should i do?

13 is really a young age to get your tongue periced! But if you really want it done you might have to wait till your a little older, because if your mum is saying no it usually doesnt work if your begging her time and time again. Try acting a little more responsible and then she might see that you can handle it.

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I got an allergic reaction from copper on my stomach from a jeans button. So it got really itchy. Now the itching has gone away. But now I have discoloration on the spot and I'm pretty sure it's from dry skin. So is there any good lotions that you would reccomend for extremely dry skin?

Try looking in your local chemists. They will have some medicated creams or tablets to help your skin go back to normal.

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im a very good catholic. i really feel bad if i do so much as say oh my god. anyway. i have been sort of mastribating lately. when i get horny sometimes i use a fake penis to 'have sex'. is this sinning because i wanna know if i should stop doing this. please please please help

In different faiths it might be seen as wrong. Catholics dont really agree with masterbating. If you feel bad just stop! take action and find other things to fill up your day.

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im fat {mostly in the winter}. ive tried crunches and deits and all i do is feel more hungary. at one time i was 131lb, i was good with that, now im 164lb then 159lb then 165lb. it keeps fluctulating. i want to be 131!!! please help me!!!

Lots of girls feel bad about them selves. If you really want to feel good about your self just eat health and do some sports you enjoy have a active life. Cut out the junk food or burgers and choose a salad or pasta.

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at my school we need to wear uniforms, with mine i waer the sweatery thing, and latly its been getting really warm out, well i dont like to take my sweater off cause im kinda fat and i look really bad in the uniform. but the problem is since its been hot iv been sweating {even though i wear dedorant} and its smelling bad. im afriad i smell bad!! all my friends say i dont but still, my mom refuses to wash 2x a week. what should i do?

Dont call your self fat! thats a proper put down. You should be confortable to wear what ever you want just take your jumper of or get a really baggy top that is part of your uniform so then people wont think your fat. But i bet your not! lots of girls feel low about them selves dont worry. Mabe take some dedorant to school. Or get a new one.

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i am so upset righyt now. i told my friend some really personal things about my life. she promised she wouldnt tell anyone. it was mostly about this guy that i liked a lot. a real lot. we were firghtin the ohter day and she told him all my personal things and now she wants me to forgive her. i dont think i should because she doesnt deserve it. it was really personal and it wasnt his business. what should i do?

You shouldn't forgive you no matter what you have fallen out about she should have never told him your secrets. And if you do make friends with her say that you can never trust her again with your secrets then she will see that what she did was wrong no matter what you were arguing about.

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Hi my girlfriend recently told me she was pregnant and that the baby was concieved before we met i love this girl and was looking for any advice on not being the biological father and also looking after a small child any input from people who have experienced this and been through it would be very helpful thankyou in advance.

If you love her that much you should be willing to bring the baby up as if its your own. Just stand by her and you should be fine. Dont worry aslong as the baby gets care and lots of love nothing can go wrong.

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can a doctor or whatever tell if u have already had sex? i mean how can they tell? cuz your hymen can be broken lots of ways other then sex.... and if they can tell otherwise.. then how can they tell?????????????

They can always tell if your having any problems, down below. There is a difference from having sex and your layer of skin breaking because of different things for example horse riding. If you are having problems down there and she wants see it then if your layer of skin broke then you can just because of horse riding if you havent had sex.

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my entire forehead is acne scars, what can i get for cheap that will get rid of them? and does anyone know cheap face washes or anything to prevent acne without drying out my face really bad?
thanks!

Try some local chemists! they usually have something to make scars faid.

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I had to be outside today, and I used SPF 50 sunblock but I still got a bad tan. Any way to get rid of it?I don't look Loli-chan-like anymore!

Just try using a cooling after cream. That will make it look alot better. You can really get rid of it just try staying out of the sun for short periods of time.

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Any tricks 2 clean food stains on clothes?

Warm soapy water. And then put it in the wash with stain remover which you can get a local shops.

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any on know how i can keep my shoulder length hair of my face

Try google and search hair tips and styles. They will have some different ideas. Go to your hair dressers and see what they say.

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How do you know when you're in love?
What does it feel like?
What will the 2 people feel bout eachother?

You know when your in love because who ever your in love with you cant stop thinking about them, you feel a bit werid when there near you you can become shy and loss of words.
It feels great and all loving! What will they feel love! if they feel the same way.

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How bad is it that I hate my husband's parents and they hate me? Will this ruin my marriage?

Nope it should do. Lost of familys hate the other side. I hate my aunties boyfriend hes a jerk but it hasnt affect anything to do with my family even though he comes on holiday with us. Its your choice who you choose if you love him and he loves you thats all that matters.

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well my best guy friend (friend with benifits) has his birtday coming up and i really want to get him something but i have no idea what to get him.i really care about him and want to get him something very special but i dont know what.Any ideas?

Why not try some video games. Boys love stuff like that they cant get enough of it. Have a good time.

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Okay I have this black pigment skin I guess you would call it. Where like some parts of your skin are darker than others. Like around my mouth its dark. Does anyone know how to get rid of it? I hate it.

Most of the time there isnt anything you can do. Try going to the doctors.

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