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born and raised in chi-town.(a.k.a.- chicago- for the slow kids)Last time i checked, i was a girl.and i have 10 piercings- 9 of which i did myself.(all but my eyebrow). fun stuff.
advice
Okay well this dosent really go under Fitness, But i didnt know where else to put it.. here goes..
I have a "mole / birthmark" on my nose, its like where a piercing would be, and im really self consious about it. It's really noticaable but not really big but its normal sized. When People Say things about i i just laugh it off but i HATE it there. Is there anything That Can Hide it, and am i unlucky for having it? Pleae help me out. thanks so much
you're definetely not unlucky for having one. just about everyone has one somewhere on their body. thats what beauty marks are- just smaller. id say dont even worry about trying to hide it. a regular doctor can freeze it off for a minimal fee. and it's pretty much pain-free, since your skin will be numb. hope i helped.
spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Heyy,
i love you sing. Its my passion. And im good at it ,too. But My Family dosent relaly support me because i am afraid to sing infront of them, like i would if i was by myself. They have never heard my real voice before. I want to do singing as my occupation, but i dont know if i will make it because im so afraid to sing. I have a great voice, and i want to show it. Do you know anyway i can not be so afraid to sing out anymore? THANKS SO MUCH xoox
i used to be the EXACT same way. id start off turning on the radio in the car all the time and purposely tuning in to stations that were playing a song i knew the words to, and id just start humming it, then by second nature- you'll just start to want to sing it. dont let the oppurtunity to belt it out slip by. soon enough- you'll be singin to them all the time. you just gotta break outta your shell a little bit. and if youre really awesome- dont be afraid to let them know how awesome you are. show them what its all about. lol. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Hay guys, okay so i have a t-mobile cell phone and i pay as i go. Anyway this started a month i think ago and this guy keeps calling me, hes called me atleast 6-5-7 times and ofcourse i dont pick it up. I just let it ring and sometimes he will leave a voicemail but i didn't set it up yet so i cant check it. I put his number in google along with the area code and i know his name,address etc.. well he lives in a so called "bad" area in my town. Im really scared now, my parents are worried too! Do you guys know how to block a phone number from your cell phone? Or should i go to the police? I rate too
i definetely dont think its necessary to go to the police right away. at least not until sumthin serious happens. i cant tell you exactly how to block a number from being able to call your phone- but i know that it IS possible. i have a samsung from cingular, so you'd have to ask your own carrier. but i think the only logical thing to do would be to get a new number. that would solve all your problems. hope i helped. good luck. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
My hair is curly/wavy/frizzy. But blowdrying then straightening takes FOREVER. So I was wondering, is there anything out there, like in salons, where they put stuff in your hair so it will stay straight for a while? Like I heard about japanese straightening but thats like major...is there anything else? i rate!
i know i might not be a big help- but did you ever think about getting a heavy-duty straightener?- my momma bought me mine for christmas- it comes with a detangling plate, and a touch-up plate, and it has a steamer built into it, to lock your style in place. if youre interested, i can give you the name and ask where she bought it from. i believe she sed they run anywhere from 60 to 80 dollars, but they are AWESOME! spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Here is the little story that I need advice on.I like him, he likes me. I asked him to the dance and we went together. We danced together a lot and we were really close, so close everyone assumed we were making out, but we werent. Anyway in the middle of a dance some girl comes over and asks him if he will go with her for a second. The girl that asked him was a girl that likes him. She asked him out a bunch of times, but everytime he has said no and told her he likes someone which is me. They went off together and he never came back, which made me really upset and kind of pissed. I told him how I felt the next day and he said he was truly sorry and that his intention wasn't to hurt me and how he wished that it hadn't happened. They didn't do anything, but how should Iknow how he feels. He also told me that I may not believe it now, but he really does love me and he hates that he hurt me.
I don't know what to do/think.
advice?
Thanks.
"hurt me once, shame on you- hurt me twice, shame on me" - in other words, if youre really wanting to give him another chance, DONT let it happen again.
I just got out of a breakup after a year and a half with my boyfriend that I am absolutely in love with but it just cant work out. I'm 17. Any ideas of getting over him?!?!
it might send out negative vibes, but make a list of all the ways he wronged you, or mistreated you, or even just the things about him that annoy you. review the list while getting ready in the morning, and before you go to bed.
Today I'm going over to my friends house and I'm doing her hair for a dance. She always wants me to straighten her hair because I do it right lol.
Anyways, her hair is thick and wavy and it stays straight for about an hour or so.
My question: What tips can you give me so her hair can stay straight. I really don't have time to go out and buy products, so I need tips.
Thanks so much and I rate with feedback. :]
i have an expensive straightener with a steamer attatched to it. it's really nifty- but im guessing you dont have one. steaming the hair first locks the style in place, so i'd say to spritz her hair with a little water first, and dont hold the straightener too close to the hair the first time you run then straightener down it, then you can go ahead and finish the rest. once youre done, spray a paddle bruch with hairspray and brush her hair straight. hope i helped.
spitfire9631@yahoo.com
hey i like this guy and hes my best friend too and i wrote him a nice letter. in the letter it siad what things made me mad at him is that a bad thing to put in the letter because all my friends read it and they said you shouldn't put the things that makes you mad about him and i don't want to rewrite the whole thing aigan its very laid out tho what should i do?
-Thanks
thats a litle crazy. you're more than likely gonna turn him away from you. i'd say, as much as your hand will prolly cramp up, you need to write it over and leave out the 'mad' parts. it'll save you a lot of drama. hope i helped.
spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Well, I just got an acoustic guitar for Christmas, and it came with a book but I can't figure it out. I also tried looking online, but I can't find anything that's easy and that fits what I need to know. I need to know basicly the very, very basics. Like how to hold it, which string are supposed to be where and how they are supposed to sound, and other stuff along those lines. Can you help?
try ultimateguitar.com they've got alot of tabs and stuff- but you can prolly find basic stuff on there, too. good luck, and be sure to name a song after me when you get big! lol.
so my periods been really weird latley. i had it in december, but i dont think iv had it since then. im kinda worried because my boyfriend and i mess around are both of our "areas" whave been near eachother but we have never actually had sex. I am also very underweight though. I know that being underweight can mess up your period. So i was wondering if its most likley my weight or if theres a chance im pregnant? thank you! (i rate high!)
theres a few different things that can make you miss one or two. but id say dont be too worried that youre pregnant- it's almost impossible that you are if youve never had sex. try taking a pregnancy test just in case though- if you havent had it in a month. if the results look good, then try to start eating right, and if all else fails after that- then id say go see an ob/gyn. hope i helped.
14/f I like this guy...alot and we're friends. We see each other and talk a lot but my question is if I should tell him or not because from past experiences when someone found out i liked them they stopped talking to me...I'm just starting to be friends again with one of my best friends from two years ago so I dont want this to happen again what should i do?
I rate high
thanks
id say as much as it hurts, to just wait it out, til he makes the first move- he might not be like every other guy- but you shouldnt risk it. hope i helped. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
I was planning on hosting a hockey pool party at my appartment but decided to cancel because it got back to me from one of my friends in the pool that two of the people in our pool had been backstabbing me and saying some really mean things about me behind my back. One of the things was that I was a flirt and deserved to be raped, or something mean like that. My friend wouldnt lie to me, so I confronted one of the guys that was saying this about me. I went into the restaurant he works in as a cook. I confronted him, first by saying, "I'm Cancelling My Hockey Pool Party". He wanted to know why, and then I said "because I'm tired of all the backstabbing". I also glared at him when I said this. Well this is how he reacted. Immediately after I said i was tired of all the backstabbing, he lost eye contact me eye, and turned his back to me. So my question is, is this a sign that he is guilty? I also told him what I heard he had been saying about me, and he never said that it wasnt true, but he did pin it all on the other friend of mine.
i dont understand the question. if youre asking if it seems like hes guilty- then thats sumthin i really cant tell you. you'd have to determine that by thinkin about what his body language was when you talked to him. hope i helped. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Well, I don't mean to sound conceited but a lot of people come up to me and say they like me, but it's always these guy's friends that like me. Is there something wrong with me that the guy who likes me can't come up to me and say it himself? Why is it always their friends?
i hate to say it, cuz its gonna sound REAL bogus, but if a guy cant work himself up enough to tell you he's feelin it, then he really must not be too into you. i could prolly be wrong- but im just takin this from experience. spitfire9631@yahoo.com
Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap?
cover them in vaseline, and put socks, or gloves over them while you sleep. this can work for your hands or feet, and it really works. hope i helped.
I'm 13 and I'm not sure who to be. Sometimes I feel like cuddling with my stuffed animals like a little kid, but sometimes I want to have a boyfriend and be a teenager. Is this really stupid or what? I'm not sure which I am...
no, theres nothing wrong with you, at all! everybody has moments like that. my boyfriend and i have been together almost 10 months, and i still have moments where i just wanna put my hair in pigtails, and jump on the bed. as a matter of fact, i stayed at a hotel last week and i encouraged my cousins and friends to jump on the bed with me. FUN STUFF! everyone's a little kid at heart. and theres NOTHING wrong with that at all, hon. xoxo, mikelly4039
I am almost 15 years old.My boyfriend is 16 turning 17.I dont get along with either of my parents. Is it normal to want to have a child at this age? I talked to my boyfriend about it he doesnt help to much. He has told me he would do anything i want because he loves me so much. I told him i think i would want to wait till i am 16 at least. At the moment i dont no i feel like i want to take hold of the responsibilty now.Ill Rate High. Please help me extra ideas etc would be help full thank you.
i went through the same thing youre goin through. i know that hating ur parents really sucks- i got kicked out of my house last spring- pretty much just because my dad didnt want me anymore. but let me tell you- as much as you hate your parents rite now- you will miss them SOOOOOO much once youre away from them long enough. i PROMISE you i know what im talking about. and honestly- i think its completely normal to want to have a baby. i went through that stage. and for real- i think its more of an insecurity issue than anything- dont take that the wrong way- i just believe it is. and hon- if ur boyfriend is tellin you that he's pretty much willing to get you pregnant because he 'loves you so much'- then i think its time you knock some common sense into him. there is no way that him getting you pregnant at 15, or even 16- is guna show his love for you. trust me- it will do nothing but mess up EVERY part of your future. you can get the kind of responsibility you want from many diffrent sources. - you shuld try getting a job, or better yet, babysitting. i think you could learn alot about this decision you need to make- and i hope you make the right choice. xoxo, mikelly4039
Mmkay.. I heard this song over the summer that would be perfect for my jazz routine. But the problem is, I don't know the name of it or who sings it. It's something like "..Girls, rock your boys.."? or something like that. Sorry to be so vague! It sounded like an 80s song or something.
Anyone who can give me the name / artist will earn a 5. :)
i was kinda thinkin it was a song by beck. ". . .girls rock your boys, and the boys rock their girls. . . "- or sumthin of the sort. could be wrong- but thought id give you another option if quiet riot wasnt the band tht made the song u were lookn for.
Hey All!
Homecoming is a way away, but I am currious. I have never gone to a dance before. My boyfriend and I are going to most of the dances at both of our schools this year, because it is his senior year. I already have a dress for Prom. and it is floor length. I wore it in a wedding.
So, is homecoming like prom at all? Do you get an almost to the floor dress? a knee length? what? What are good colors?
Is it a huge deal? How much should one spend on a homecoming dress.
What about shoes?
its in September or October. (I cannot remember!)
thanks so much in advance.
I'll rate and leave feedback!
-SLeK-
omigosh- homecoming is so much fun!- there is no reason anyone- in ANY grade shouldnt go. it was a blast at my old school, and i know it will be at yours. 1.) homecoming is nothing like prom. its a semi-formal occasion- while prom is an altogether formal occasion. which means that 2.) your dress length is up to you. i saw a couple girls there with prom-like dresses- but i think they went a bit overboard compared to everyone else. 3.) for last year's homecoming- i got an uneven dress, (hot pink- halter- VERY glittery)
I really like this guy and he doesnt even know i exist even though i am friends with alot! and i mean alot of his friends, and it seems weird he hasnt met me yet...i know alot about him because my friends talk about him ALOT and so is started liking him and i guess he'll never like me, and i dont want to go out with anyone else because i want him and no1 else...i am like shy aroudn guys i like alot and even if i was aroudn him with my freinds i'd be nervous to saay 1 word to him...so months ago i started cutting and you probably will say "dont cut its bad" or shit like that but i cant stop and i dont really want to because it gets alot of stress and anger out and i REALLY like him and I CANT STOP CUTTING and no i am not going to tell someone like my parents my mom already treats me like a fucking 10 year old and would be so disapointed and shit...and i dont cut that bad so i dont really need a shrink/psychologist or what ever...
signed
Unloved confused cutter
first off- if this kid knows anything about you, and likes you the way you seem to like him- just by hearing about him- and he hasnt made an attempt to meet you yet, then he's a jerk. second- you've NEVER met this kid- how can you say that he's the only person you want to date?!- all you know about him is what your friends tell him- so trust me- when and if y'all met- there's no way you'd hook up the second you saw each other. for all you know- youre friends could be lying about everything theyve ever sed about him. not sayin theyd do that- but still. next, why would you cut yourself over someone you once again, DONT KNOW?! i will admit- i used to cut- i think at least half of all teenagers have at one point- but no offense- i dont think theyve ever done it over sumthing this outrageous!- im really not trying to be bogus when i say this- but it sounds like this is a ploy for attention. im really not trying to be mean- im just trying to help - which is what you asked for. if you need any more- feel free to ask. *~aim~* mikelly4039
How much do contacts cost? thx
depends on which contacts youre talking about. if you mean prescription lenses- then go to lenscrafters.com, and you shuld be able to get a price. if youre talking about lenses that arent prescription- just meant to change your eyecolor for a day- then theyre 10 dollars a lens at beauty supply stores, and some stores in the mall. hope i helped. *~aim~* mikelly4039