Question Posted Saturday February 18 2006, 12:35 pm
I just got out of a breakup after a year and a half with my boyfriend that I am absolutely in love with but it just cant work out. I'm 17. Any ideas of getting over him?!?!
musicdiva238 answered Saturday February 18 2006, 5:57 pm: well breaking up is never easy. my advice for you is to take it each day at a time. learn to let urself love again and do something for yourself like go shopping or cook.know that when you think of him it doesnt nessisarily mean you love him again maybe your just remembering something good. i wish u the best.good luck!! [ musicdiva238's advice column | Ask musicdiva238 A Question ]
clearlypink428 answered Saturday February 18 2006, 5:35 pm: it might send out negative vibes, but make a list of all the ways he wronged you, or mistreated you, or even just the things about him that annoy you. review the list while getting ready in the morning, and before you go to bed. [ clearlypink428's advice column | Ask clearlypink428 A Question ]
DoesHeCare answered Saturday February 18 2006, 5:33 pm: Well, don't avoid him. Think of him as just some ordinary person.
But seriously, think happy thoughts. If you ever find yourself thinking of what you had with him or something along those lines, think of other things. Like some other guy, like some really hott celebrity or and new guy that you feel attracted to. If you can't just have some song, that will not get you thinking of him, in your head all the time. It works for me.
xomegaroni answered Saturday February 18 2006, 3:07 pm: i'd say to go out & meet new people. if you truly juss wanna get over him, i wouldn't talk to him er anything. that doesn't mean totally blow him off but don't be friendly & flirty. that could probably make things worse. try new people, make new friends, etc etc. you said you're in love with him but if you're sure it can't work out then you don't want to get hurt even worse, ya know?? you might want to talk to him about this so he knows you juss aren't being his friend cause you're ex's but because you still have feelings for him. he'll probably be able to help you.
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