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Dancing, Ditching and everything in between.
Here is the little story that I need advice on.I like him, he likes me. I asked him to the dance and we went together. We danced together a lot and we were really close, so close everyone assumed we were making out, but we werent. Anyway in the middle of a dance some girl comes over and asks him if he will go with her for a second. The girl that asked him was a girl that likes him. She asked him out a bunch of times, but everytime he has said no and told her he likes someone which is me. They went off together and he never came back, which made me really upset and kind of pissed. I told him how I felt the next day and he said he was truly sorry and that his intention wasn't to hurt me and how he wished that it hadn't happened. They didn't do anything, but how should Iknow how he feels. He also told me that I may not believe it now, but he really does love me and he hates that he hurt me.
I don't know what to do/think.
advice?
Thanks.
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First of all. i'm really sorry
but i know how you feel
it sucks!
but i think you should give him another chance
boys are stupid. they screw up!
and he said he loves you and he's truly sorry.
just one more chance
if he really loves you it won't happen again
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i think that you should give him another chance. boys screw up too. he said sorry and he loves you so maybe just this once you should give him a 2nd chance but next time its out the door. good luck
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"hurt me once, shame on you- hurt me twice, shame on me" - in other words, if youre really wanting to give him another chance, DONT let it happen again.
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Sounds as if you were having a good time and this guy blew it for you! He should have had a little more class than he did. You said "they didn't do anything". If you weren't there you don't really know. You must be some what suspecious or you wouldn't have made that statement. He says he didn't intend to hurt you, but he should have thought of that at the moment. Sounds like he might have a little trouble with impulse control. There will always be other females in his life--from girls in highschool..to girls in college..in the workplace etc.
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you have every right to be pissed/upset, because afterall, you guys went together and he just kind of ditched you for someone else. but i don't think you should take this so far. he is obviously very sorry, and really cares about you. everyone makes mistakes sometimes, and although he hurt you, he said he didn't mean to and that he truly is sorry. i would just tell him that the reason your taking it pretty hard is because you care alot about him. then see where it goes from there.
he also seems pretty sincere about this, because its pretty hard, especially for guys, to open up about their feelings. so give this guy some slack.. he really cares about you.
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