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Q: I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now
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you should wait if you made a promise.
you might think that you really love him, but if you have sex with him, he'll probably change and your relationship will never be the same. that usually happens to a girl when she gives up her virginity to her boyfriend.
if he truly loves you as much as you love him, he wont push you or force you into it. he should respect you, and if you end up marrying him, you'll be so glad that you waited.
and a girl's first time hurts like crazyy
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Q: ok im sry to bother you but i was just wondering if u think that this guy likes me....here's hints that he gives off
1. stares then smiles...when i walk away...my friends see it
2. runs into me on purpose so he can get me to look at him
3. uses my book whenever he can get it
4. tells my friends he would love to make out/w.e else with him
5. one day he told me on the internet that he would date me
If he said he would date me, why hasn't he yet?
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well, he probably does like you. I'm not sure why he hasnt asked you out yet, but maybe he's just waiting for the right time. maybe he's like really busy at home working on something important, or maybe he thinks that you would reject him.
I think that the best thing to do right now is to just wait and see. and if he's still not asking you out, just confront him and he'll probably give you a good reason
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Q: their is this guy i have liekd for a really long time. hes alsome. the other day i ended up going to his house an we ended up making out and it got around to everybody at school an he didnt dis agree with it. then liek a week later he called me and was liek do you want to come over an help me with my project and when i got their he wgoes im not in them odd to do this. so when ended up making out. an he goes i tohught you didnt like me. and i was liek i dont know mabey i do. then i was liek i tohught you didnt liek me either. and he goes i take wut i can get? and i was liek what does that mean an then in a really cute voice he goes .. baby ur so blonde. wut does i take what i can get mean?
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oooo he's mean
he's a player and he doesnt like you
if you make out with him all the time, he's gonna think you're easy
forget him becuz he's not worth it
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Q: ok well im 18/f , and my b/f got me pregnant , lik 3 months ago, b4 he broke up wit me. today he punched me in the stomach , nd in my face. and i dnt kno wut to do?? plz help me. how do i kno if he killed my baby?
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woww.. that's harsh
you should try takin a pregnancy test a couple of times to see if you're still pregnant. and if it says you are, and you still want to make sure, then try going to a doctor and do a test on it.
you should also definately press charges against your ex. he is sooooooo inconsiderate and rude for hitting you like that. he had no right at all, and he should be sent to prison for harming you and your baby.
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Q: I i got the dancing game i wanted (DDR). I cant stop playing it. My mom says i acn lose a lot of weight playing it. Is losing a lot of weight good or bad? I need help.
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it depends on how much weight you lose. if you were skinny to start with, and you lose a lot of weight, then that would be really bad because you'll look too skinny. if you werent really skinny in the beginning, then losing a lot of weight would be good..
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Q: my skin sucks ass. its been about a year and a half with ance. My dermatologist hasnt made a single difference! not alloud 2 go on birth controll pills. and my dermatologist wont let me go on accutain!!!!! HHEEELLLPPPP.
P.S. my days are so much harder with acne..everyone around me has perfect skin...and if u say "it will go away soon.. or in a few years" ill kill u!! lol.
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i use proactiv, n it's helped. it doesnt work for everyone though. you could also try chemical peels or things like that, but they're like really expensive. just to tell you, clean & clear does NOT work at all. dont buy any acne medication from there.
you could also try buying anti-acne pills. they sell them at drugstores, like target. they're like 20 bucks, but i'm not sure if they work.
there was this guy in tai wan like a couple of years ago. he was 19, n he had alotta acne. he suffered from acne for YEARS. he killed himself.
that guy was a dumbass, whatever you go, dont kill yourself
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Q: I was invited to a black tie event for the first time my escort is wearing black and white so what should i wear im 5'5 132 pounds should i go with a short dress or long one please help.
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if you're self concious about your legs or thighs, like if you think they look fat or large, then you should try wearing a long black dress. If you feel like you'll look really nice and sexy in a short black dress, then go wear that.
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Q: I got a ab lounger about a month ago and I was wondering if there is anyone that has had theres for awhile and could give me tips and things on using it. Did it work for you?
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i have itt. but i dont really use it. it says that if you work out on it for 30 mins everyday for 30 days, you will see a lot of improvement on your stomach. I dont use it a lot cuz I never really have time for it, and cuz I dont think it will help as much as other exercise/fitness equipment. if you try different positions on the ab lounger, it'll probably help you out more. it should come with a tape showing you all the positions you should try out, and the tape will tell you a lot of info on how to use the equipment and tips on getting a hotter body.
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Q: i have a big butt and i kinda get made fun of my people and i wish my butt wasn't that big cuz its really noticably big and its hard to get certain kinds of pants. what exercises can i do to make my butt smaller? suggestions would be great thx
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i guess that you can get a smaller butt by losing weight. i think maybe if you ride a bike or somethin it'll help you cuz then your calfs, and thighs will lose all the extra fat, and so will your butt.
i dont think you should be embarrassed that you have a big butt because most women in south america have surgery to make their butts bigger. and havent you ever heard of the song, "i like big butts" by sir mixalot? big butts and big boobs are very attractive if the rest of your body is small and skinny. but if that's not the case, then.. riding on a bike and toning your butt will help you the best.
if you have cable, there's a fitness channel, like 70-90, not sure which channel, but it;'ll probably help you out with your problem a bunch.
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Q: dear advicenators,
explain me the reason for wearing skimpy clothes, baring those parts which u should't and acting slutty. i mean showing bellybutton cleavage etc. which definately arouses male testesterone and due to which lots rape molestation etc occurs. so isn't it like u girls are initiators for this malady. please explain me this funda(thing).
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it makes you feel better about yourself. you have a nice body, and you just want to show it off. when a guy looks at you up and down, you know they want you. when a girl looks at you up and down, you know that she's just jealous, or she could be a lesbian. it makes you feel attractive, beautiful, admired, and loved. even tho people are just judging you by your appearance and not your inner beauty, if you think that you look pretty, you'll feel pretty, and you'll be pretty
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Q: im 14 and my penis is quite small im a bit worried will it get bigger? Doe sit matter that much to girls?
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it probably will get bigger because you're still young. most girls your age have small boobs that are starting to get bigger, sooo guys your age can also have small penises that are starting to get bigger. if you reach the age of 18, and you penis is still small, there are pills and things that you can take to enlarge it.
and imma answer your question with one of mine, would you prefer a girl with big boobs, or small ones?
so YES, girls do care about the size of a guy's penis, unless the girl really loves you and doesnt care if it's big or not.
i dont think you should care about the size of your penis now. it's not like you're planning to have sex soon, right? just keep your pants on in public or in front of someone for now and wait for it to get bigger
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Q: my belly button is infected.. how do i uninfect it?
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ohh this is awesome, i have a belly button ring too, i just got it like last month. i think mine is infected too. the best way to disinfect it is to go get it chcked out by your doctor or piercer. saline solution really works. just pour 50 mL of saline solution into a small glass cup(i used a shot glass, lol) n bend your body forward, cup the glass over your belly button, lay down, n leave it there for like 10 to 15 minutes. thats the same as cleaning with bacteria soap, but I think it's easier. it's a better way too
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Q: this one boy who likes me but i don't like him. he is constantly abusing me by hitting me and squeezing my arm really tight. he and his sister are very stockish and i need to get away what should i do?! he won't stop following me. i've asked my crush to talk to him but he's too scared. what should i do?!
signed,
running from a stocker
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first you should just ignore him n show him no signs of interest. that'll show him you dont like him and maybe he'll back off. if that doesnt work, then you should definately confront him. just tell him you dont like him the way he likes you. if he still acts the way he is, then start yelling at him or talk with him more until he gets the point.
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Q: ok well im bulimic..im trying to deal with my problem but i haven't been doing it for that long but like everytime i stick my fingers down my throat it like feels like i scratch something in the same spot everytime and then it starts bleeding..is that the reason its bleeding?
xO thanks
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it never bled when I used to make myself vomit. i think that you should cut your fingernails so it wont hurt that much to touch your throat, and it might also be bleeding if you constantly touch your throat. i think if you cut your fingernails, wait a few days, then it'll stop bleeding when you touch it.
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Q: Can the guy or girl get any type of STDs from fingering?
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no, unless something from their body gets transmitted into your body. you could only get stds from fingerin if the guy has an open wound on his finger, like a cut or something. then the blood from his finger will go into your body, and it will infect you. you could also prevent that by wearing latex gloves. soooooo, it's not really possible to get infected by doin that
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Q: How can you get rid of split ends without cutting each one of them off? Also, how can you prevent them? Thanks.
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just take really good care of your hair. i used to be split end free until I started straightening it. hair doctors all around the world say that the best way to cure it is to trim your hair. but since you dont want to cut it, you should try using certain shampoos that help restore your hair.
http://www.ehow.com/how_6177_prevent-split-ends.html
that site will give you a lot of tips on how to prevent split ends
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Q: hey
i'm redoing my room and my mom wants me to pick a theme soon. I have no idea on a theme. I'm 13 female and a complete girly girl. do you have any suggestions?
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the theme for you could be legally blond, or total flirt, or just a lot of fluffy things. they're all the same. the best place for you is limited too. they have alotta colorful room designs.
https://www.limitedtoo.com/
go to too rooms n check it out. i'm sure you'll find somethin that fits you there.
you could also buy decor and accessories for your room in stores like claires, afaze, and rave girl
oh and ya, I really do know a lot about style
lol.. dont worry, i'm not THAT conceited.
hope I helped
- Christinaaaaaaaa
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Q: ok what are some good stores that have cheap semi-formal dresses? ive got a dance coming up and i cant find anyting! thanks!
i rate 5s for every answer that doesnt piss me off
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big department stores, like sears, macy's, and century 21. never go to jcpenny's cuz there's definately no style there
i know it's a real estate company cuz i bought my house from there. it's also a department store. I life in nyc, n there's a big department store called century 21 and it's near cityhall and a really good highschool. also, forever 21 is not a department store. I guess you could also buy your dresses from there
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Q: LOL, me and my friend are going "clubbin'" this weekend and on friday were gonna go shopping for it. Were like 16 yrs old and going to a place where people 16 and older are allowed. We have absolutely NO IDEA what to wear or what other people wear to go "clubbin'" what should we wear and what stores can we find them in?
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it depends on the type of party you're goin to; ghetto or not ghetto, lol.
if you're goin to a ghetto party wit all the gangstas, then you should wear very little(i.e. mini skirt w/ tight t-shirt or tank and hot boots wit heels) the brands that fit this the most are rocawear, baby phat, lady enyc, ackedemics, ecko red and maybe j.lo. they sell these brands at macy's, d.e.m.o, and maybe other stores but i'm not sure.
if you're goin to a non ghetto party, then you should still wear a tight shirt or tank, along wit tight jeans or a short skirt. best stores for this are pacsun, yrb, ambercrombie, and hollister
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Q: ok well im a white female and i was thinking about getting my hair relaxed. my hair a a little wavy but not that bad its just some what thick if i dont straighten it. i was wondering 1 if anyone would or wouldnt recoment it and 2 wat to expect like how straight it would be/stay and wat i would have to do to get it straight. the lady at the hair salon told me my hair should be permanently straight
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i've had my hair permanently straightened twice at a salon. it's kind of bad for your hair because it damages it and you get a lotta split ends(if you straighten it often), but it's so much better than frizzy hair. to get it permanently straightened, you have to go to a hair salon and get a japanese straight perm. the process takes like 5 to 7 hours, and it's like 250 dollars(depends on the salon). your hair should be straight for 6 months to 1 year. some salons are really cheap, but the perm is poor. some salons rip you off and then you get frizzy hair again in a month or so. carefully choose your hair salon...
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bio
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hii, I'm Christina, 14, and I'm from Queens, NYC. I live near a huge mall, which is great becuz i lovee shopping. If anyone ever decides to visit nyc, let me know cuz i can tell you where the hottest places to go shopping are.
Music is a HUGE part in my life, I especially like rap and r&b. and TI's pretty hot too..
I lovee this site, and i go on it whenever i can. i cant say that i always give great advice, but atleast i try :)
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: New York Cityy Age: 14 AIM: Member Since: January 6, 2005 Answers: 365 Last Update: November 23, 2007 Visitors: 25724
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