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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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ok theres this boy i dated for about 8 months then we stopped talking for 2 years thne we started talking again and and then he tells me he likes me and cares about me then goes and gets a g/f and stops talking to me and tells my bestfriend that he doesnt want to talk to me what do u think i should do

move on!! i mean u don wanna friend like tht..he seems like an ass!! i mena u dun have 2 be mean but i wouldnt try 2 have a relationship w. him

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Ok, so I'm thinking about getting some plain t-shirts that are colored and getting clothes paint to right on them, but I dunno where to get some shirts (for cheap) and what to right! does anyone have some suggestions?

u can get them at michaels and u can write anything! holiday themes, ur bf/gf's name, pictures of flowers or somethin, phrases, anything u like!!

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Hi im 14 yrs. old and well.. sum1 please help me. i have a boyfriend and we've been goin out for awhile. I tried so hard to get him. I finally have him..well this summer i met this boy steven. his step-brother Erik goes to where i live but Steven lives 2hrs. away and comes to where i live every weekend. Well Steven likes me a lot and i like him a lot too. He's my type..but i really like kyle ( my boyfriend)..and i dont no if i should give steven a chance? or not dump kyle? Im so confused and strssed and dont no what to di!Some one please help..thankyou

make a list of both of their good qualities n see if any of them outrule the other persons..n whoever has more u prly like more! but just follow ur heart..its normally right ;)

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I like this guy he is my best friend too..i have told him i liked him before and he told me he liked me too..then a few days after that he told this guy he never liked me like that ..then i asked him about it and he said he likes me for a rly good friend..what should i do..

hes abviously not interested so instead of wastin ur time...just go look4 someone else! keep him as a friend n move on! gl

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I'm always getting really horny, how do i stop myself? like...I've been horny for like 20 minutes, how can I stop? is there A food i should eat? or think about something?

um..think about somethin nasty. sumthn tht bothers u haha

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ok...i know i just asked a question but stay with me here...im mean this ones been bugging me...im a low budget and i have a couple of old shirts ( some plain some with stuff) what are some cute DyI ideas that can give my tee's and new look!?! without spending a FOURTUNE!! haha!! thanks much!!!its really helpful!!

XoXo Lexi

go 2 michaels n get sum shirt paint n customize them!! haha maybe put cool phrases on them or something...n if u have a bf make 1 w. his name :D or u culd put like flowers or something. make some for the holidays! me n my friend made some for st. pattys day last year n wore them to school! it was fun!! gl

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im going out with this chik but its only been for almost 2 weeks now, she just got grounded for a long time and we wont be able to hang out, should i dump her,she cant talk on phone or internet either

you can see her in school when it starts back up? but if u like her n u break it off jus bc shes grounded then its gunna be ahrd 2 get her back bc shes gunna think u dumpd her so u wont be tied down. so it depends if u want a relationship wen shes not grounded anymore

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I love to be unique when it comes to hair,make-up,and clothes..hahah especially clothes but i need some cute unique back to school make-up ideas i could do to go with my look? ideas with cool shadows,lipglosses,ect? it would be very greatly appreciated!!

P.S-and funkyhair ideas too!! ILL TRY ANYTHING!!!

XoXo Lexi

for make up..try doinl ike 2 tone eyeshadows! like 1/2 of it purple n the other 1/2 blue (random colors!) or some colored mascerra. like if u have blue eyes u culd try blue mascerra! if thts a bit much 4 u u culd do it regularly but do fun colors like pink n blue n stuff...or make it match ur outfit! umm...for hair you could put some temp. dies in it n do lil twists or w.e haha idk i normally have mine down or 1/2 up..lol mine is kinda plain hahaha but idk. maybe braid alot of it in lil braids n put temp. dye on the braids n put it all up in a messy bun? mess around n have fun w. it! hope i helped

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well there is this grl i like and i have been liken her for a loong time and she nos i think and every now and then so says she think im cute but i dont no if she likes me and i dont relly want to tell her face to face bc the whole school will find out in like a sec. and we flrit a lot to she makes me follow her around and i dont no wat to do rite now plz help

tell her on the phone or online!! n ask her 2 keep it private! if she likes u then ask he rout n if she doesnt then move on! gl

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i have always had really short hair. it's been a dream of mine to grow it out, but right when it's a little past my shoulders, i always chicken out and cut it again! i think it's because there is no good styles for shoulderlength hair, but i still really want to grow it out. is there a product/way to grow it out more quickly so it can be long?

maybe theres a product im not sure...but when u chicken out n get it cut...dont get alot off. get a trim! wen u cut off ur dead ends (a trim!!) it stimulates ur hair nerves n ur hair grows alot faster for like 2-3 weeks. hope this helps

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I have really thick hair, its always frizzy, doesnt matter what i do.when i come out of the pool its terrible! how can i get it thinner?

wen u get ur hair cut..ask her 2 thin it. theres sum tool they can use to make it thinner n i guess she can keep thinning it until u say stop! haha they use it on my mom. also chemicals likeperms n sutff (straight perms 2) make ur hair thinner. hope i helped..

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ok this weekend i got my hair cut and i went by myself this time when usually i go with my mom. well my hair person is a guy. and idk who to tell ive only told 1 person and they said i should tell my mom but im so scared. well neways he was talkin bout my tan lin efrom my bikini and then he started lookin at it and he pulled my shirt down and by bra out so he could see my whole boob and i tried to pull his hand away but he grabbed my hand and pulled my shirt down even more. i dint knwo wut to do cuz hes a big buff guy and i was scared to do nething. we were the only ones in there so i couldnt do nething. then he kept grabbin my boobs and he unzipped his pants and told me to look and i told him that i didnt want to and he still did. then after he grabbed my chin and kiss me on the lips like 5 times. and hes like tell me u would do me if u were older.. (im 15 hes 32)and i tried to turn away again and he grabbed my chin and said look at me in a mean controlin voice. i felt so uncomfortable and idk who to tell. idk if u would call that molestation or wut. and its horrible bc i cry all the time now, its been 2 days since it happend. and everytime i wash my hair i remember it and i start to cry bc i was gettin my hair done when this happend. im so scared to tell my parents. what should i do????
plz help me im so scared

hun thts sexual harassment! u need 2 tell ur mom ok dont be scares you did NOTHING WRONG! n if you dont tell some one who can help, he might do this to another unlucky girl. it might go even further next time..like rape maybe? turst me hun, tell ur parents. n 1 other thing, dont go back 2 tht hairstylest!! im sry tht hpnd 2 u!

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how do u get crabs? and how can u tell if u ahve them?

im not sure but u can look it up on google or something

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my hair sucks. it's really thin and fine. i can blowdry it and it looks pretty and straight, then it turns wavy and frizzy. if i hairspray it, it makes it wavy too. if i straighten it, it sometimes stays but it looks reallllllly thin. my ? is: is there something that can make my hair thicker? is there something that can make it stay with out messing it up?

p.s i'm on a budget. it can't be that expensive.

theres some shampoos out there that make ur hair grow thicker...but i forget the name!! im pretty sure it starts with an N..n i kno it works bc my dad n stepmom use it n theyr hair got alot thicker!! if u cant find any of those shampoos u could try 2 put some moose in ur hair before u blowdry it n blowcry it with ur head upside down so when ur done it isnt like matted 2 ur head! haha gl hun

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ok wen i am in mi room i lyk pu t a stripping gshow on in mi room by myself. and wen i am at school or sumpin i am really she an dall mi friends think i am a goodie too-shoes. how can i make mi friends not think i am a goodie too shoes???
help!!!!!! ill rate u a 5 just 4 helpong me

umm for them 2 not think ur a goodie goodie u gotta be willin 2 get in trouble lol..idk mouth off to the meanest teacher,dont do ur HW or sometihn (dont keep tht up for very long..u don wanna fail), change ur image mayb? if ur always wearin pink colared shirts n bows in ur hair..dont. try sum diff. clothes like tight jeans n wear ur hair down or somethin. but dont try 2 b somethin ur not...u can be different n still be urself...but dont take it 2 far. newayz good luck hun!

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i am 14 years old and i have had this porn in my room and and my grandma found it and showed it to my dad. my dad confronted me about it, but we didn't finish talking about. now that i've have a while to think about it, i really want to lie!! it's so embarrasing that he knows about it!! he might not think of me the same way again and i really don't want to be uncomfortable around him. what should i say?

dont lie! parents hate when their kids lie..and they wont be able to trust you very much anymore. just be honest and handle it like an adult. yeha ull get a lecture...but it was your choice 2 have it. sry hun but theres not an easy solution to everything!

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me and my brother fight 24/7...my parents hate it...i just cant stand anything he does...hes 12 im 14...he acts arite when its jsut me n him...but around his friends or when im around my friends and we include him he acts s0o0 freakin immature..i talked ot him about it and he was like ur right im sry ill stop...aand so far he has...but today he was all whiney...like everything i sed hed whine n giv me attiude..and i talk to him about a lotta stuff like he knows im not a virgin if i hav a bf etc..stuff my rents dont even kno!! and he blackmails me everytime we get in a fight...O IMA TELL MOM U HAD SEX ALREADY...*ya it was def. a mistake ...peer preshure i wuld NEVER do it again..* 5 mins of plesure is DEF. not worth worryin about pregnancy..newayz..ya whenever we get into a fight he always tells...is ther ne thing i can say to him to make him b more mature??? i hav stuff on him that i culd tell my mom but thats s00o childish!! help..

jus b like "ok..im ur sister n i trusted you w. information tht i cant turn to anyone else about n i told you tht like i was tlkn 2 an adult n i was hoping you could b there for me n accept tht" n hopefully thtll gett hrough ot him...jus tell him he shouldnt betray ur trust like tht n hopefully it wrks!

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My boyfriend and I have been together for months and we've decided to take our relationship to the next level by having sex.

I'm hesitant, though, because friends have told me that it hurts. I understand quite a bit about sex for my age. I know that if he goes slow at first, it won't hurt quite as much. But I still feel scared.

What should I do?

put in a tampon 2 pop ur cherry so it wont hurt!! lol bc i think it only hurts bc he would pop ur cherry but if u do it forst then it should be fine! n if it still hurts tell him it does n yall can figure out wut 2 do

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After a guy fingers you does he lick his finger?

i guess they can if they want...sounds kinda gross tho haha but thts just my opinion

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My boyfriend told me that, when you have sex your first time, there's no way to get pregnant.

I can't remember -exactly- how he explained it but it has to do with a certain thing, that cannot be penetrated by sperm, coating the male organ. And this -only- happens when a girl has sex the first time.

Is that true? Or is it equally possible to get pregnant when you have sex for the first time?

lol thats not true @ all. you can get pregnant anytime u have sex...well as long as ur not like 5 haha. but no hes very badly mistaken haha

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