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sunday i wanna do like a quick make over.
any ideas. more like hair ideas. maybe get my eyebrows done ect.... new bras/underwear. ect.
advice?
- Manicure & pedicure
- Exfoliate skin
- Buy new makeup & experiment with new colors
- Experiment with your hair (if you wear it down all the time, put it up. if you wear it up, let it down & straighten it.)
- Pluck your eyebrows or get them waxed
- Go bra & pantie shopping.
- Add/buy more accessories to your outfits.
- Go through your closet and put together something new.
- Wear something you don't normally wear or too self conscious to wear (replace tennis shoes with some cute heels & jeans with a cute skirt.)
Is it normal to look at porn alot? Cause I just think it's GROSS. The reason i'm asking this is because like 80 percent of the people's houses I go to (like family friends or family, not really my friends)when I use their computer, and I type in "www" in the search bar, like 20 porn sites pop up. I mean in like the list that drops down when you click that arrow. I'm not snooping, it just happens. Then say i'm going on advicenators.. as soon as i type in "www.a" like 50 more pop up starting with A!! It's really strange to think my adult family that like is married watches porn! My question is, is it not normal for people that age to look at it, or am I just over overreacting?
Actually, it's very normal for married couples to look at porn. Sometimes things get boring in the bedroom & they may rely on porn to spice things up. Now, it can turn into a problem if one spouse does not agree with porn & the other spouse is looking at it behind their back. Or if there's too much money & time spent looking at it. But you can't really judge from your position since you don't know much about the situation. (Ex: Maybe the computer is shared, maybe there was a computer virus, how often their history is deleted etc.) To answer your question - people of all ages will look at porn. Believe it or not, there are 70 year olds who still look at it. (I saw it last night when my boyfriend & I were renting some.) You're not overreacting, you just didn't know. For some people, porn may be gross, but others..it's educational. The addiction & amount spent looking at it..is another story.
so basically i straigten and blowdry my hair everyday. i use garnier fruitis the one for damaged hair. it used to work for like the first 2 months and my hair was like split end free and was healthy but now it stopped working. what are some shampoos and conditioners i can use so my hair can be much healthier and can grow faster?
I am the person who has dyed their hair for years, blowdrys it, & straightens it about 5 times a week. Anddd the person who has gone through every shampoo & conditioner that never works after a short period of time. But I finally found the shampoo & conditioner that does an AMAZING job to damaged hair & KEEPS doing it's job months later. Right now I use Dumb Blonde by BEDHEAD - specifically for blondes with damaged/colored hair. Bedhead is a bit on the expensive side, but worth it considering the size & how well they work. The bottles are huge (25 oz as opposed to the average 8-14oz bottles that are $3-$6+.) So in the end, the price is decent for what you're getting. Each shampoo & conditioner bottle is about $25 if you get it at any salon/store that carries it. If you go to the Toni & Guy salon (Bedhead products are sold by TIGI), they're $32. But right now, they're selling shampoo AND conditioner together for $19.99 TOTAL. So this is the time to go get some if you want to save about $30. I don't think there is any shampoo/conditioner/or product that can make your hair grow faster. But you'll definitely notice a change in how healthy your hair will become after you use that brand. For softer hair, apply SUNSILK Anti-Poof 24/7 Creme ($3.99 or less at any drug store) in your hair after you shower & before blowdrying/styling. :)
okay, first off i am 15. the guy i like is 19. we really get along greatly, we talk on the phone for hours and never run out of things to say. we even finish each other's sentences sometimes. a lot of people have been saying he just "wants some" but, mostly everyone knows i'm not that way, including him. i really like him but i dont want to be called a whore for dating him considering everyone says college boys only want one thing. another thing i worry about is my parents. what they would think if i told them. please help me. :(
It's very well possible that he's not after one thing. You know this guy better than me, your friends or anyone from the outside - so you shouldn't worry about what everyone else thinks. Your decision is your own. Four years isn't too much of a big difference, but atleast people are concerned & are just looking out for you. To play it on the safe side, continue to date this guy, but don't put out at all. If he sticks around, he's clearly interested in YOU & respects you. But if for some reason, things become shady & he no longer wants to date, it's pretty obvious he was only around for sex. As far as your parents go - it's best to discuss it with them before they find out on their own. If they don't approve the two of you dating, they can press charges against him since he's over 18 & you're a minor.
i wanna purchase a corvette coupe 2007 but i want it used because i don't really have the money for a new one. how much would a used one be?
Well, my friend got a 2001 for $19,000 which is cheap for it's year & condition. I could only imagine a 2007 being a lot more expensive. But the best thing to do is find a car website & search used cars. (ex: cars.com)
i am 14/f
my cheeks (on my face) are really red. Not just where my cheek bones are but all over. they are kind of dry but not all that much. what going on? is there any lotion or makeup that will cover it up? thanks!
For dry skin - use any Avon lotion. You won't know an amazing lotion until you use their brand.
For the redness - I am the same way & I use a liquid foundation (Loreal Ideal Balance) & a little bit of loose powder to cover mine. :)
Yesterday I let my boyfriend feel me up while we were making out, we don't want sex, I mean we're 15. But we want to have a little fun, does anyone have any cute things I can do just to excite him and have a little fun? You know, like nibbling on his ear, tickling him, letting his hand up my shirt. Thanks so much!
That's great you're not jumping right into sex. It's good to know you have a good head on your shoulders. :) To answer your question - you can give him a full body massage, kiss down his stomach, kiss his neck/ear & play with his hair. :)
does walmart have good bras. like ones that do both push up and are padded? like i have one bra and it says that im a 30 A and i got it from walmart but not its like a little too small and i want one that does some serous push up and is padded so my boobs look bigger. i might go later tonight..thats why.
thanksss. !
Actually, I was there last night trying to find a cheap bra (because I'm on a budget & it was an emergency) & yes they do have quite a few cute padded & push up bras. Most are about $10-$12. I have a few other bras from there & they last pretty good as long as you don't throw them in the dryer. :)
I'm a girl, and it had been at least 4 weeks since I last had sex. But for some reason I started this horrible itching in my vagina and especially on the lips of my vagina and skin around my clitoris. I don't know what it is, I've never had this problem before. I had sex yesterday with the same guy I lost it to (he's the only one I'm sexually active with) but the itching started a few days ago. He says that he doesn't have any STD's. What is it?
It's possible it's a yeast infection. But if the itching has lasted more than a few days, it's best if you go to the doctor as soon as possible.
well i'm 16/F
& i';ve never had sex before,
but i've tried to wear tampons before,
but i have a small... afijdfajd you know.
does that mean sex will hurt way worse for me?
Not necessarily. When you start wearing tampons, you're not always going to be able to insert the tampon properly. So it will seem like it's "small" and not even a tampon can fit inside, but the truth is..it will. You just need to make sure you practice inserting the tampon at the right angle. I'd start off by using Tampax Pearl Light or Regular tampons. They're pretty slender & are a lot more comfortable using. If you can feel any pain, you're not putting it in "correctly" - because you should never feel any discomfort. Eventually, you won't feel them at all. All I can suggest is practice. When your time to start having sex comes - just because you've been wearing tampons, doesn't necessarily mean it's not going to hurt. Any foreplay beforehand will usually determine your pain level. Hope that helps! :)
So its almost my sweet sixteen && i have no idea what i want to do for it. I havent had a bday party kinda thing in over 5 years. I wana do something fun && cool but most of my friends would just wana drink for my bday && stuff like that..
Any ideas on what to do!?
I suggest picking a group of 4 or 5 girls (more or less) & go to the spa for a day. Get manis & pedis, go out to a nice place for lunch, & have them come back to your place for a little get together. Maybe your mom can make you girls some virgin margaritas (margaritas with no alcohol). You don't need to spend a lot on your birthday like these pathetic Sweet 16 shows. Being a fun & mature person is learning to make the best out of what you got & having fun regardless of the amount of money that's involved. Have fun! :)
P.S. Depending on where you live, manis & pedis (together) can be as low as $35. I mean, I live in an area where everything is priced a lot higher than most cities - & THAT'S the cheapest here. So I'm sure you can find manis & pedis under $130 unless you live in Beverly Hills or something. There will be somewhere close that pays a lot less - you're probably just looking at the expensive places.
i am looking for black eyeliner that does not smear, or wear off duirn ghte day i currently use one by sephora but im looking for one that wont smear or smudge (ps i dont want to spend more than 7 bucks on eyeliner i know that it wouldnt the best, but yeah) haha thanks
(ps if anyone has used the covergirl whipped foundation how is it?)
thank you
I use CoverGirl Perfect Blend (black pencil) & although it's not a "smudge-proof" eyeliner, it does it's job. Today, I read in a magazine that applying a little bit of vaseline over the eyeliner will hold the color & stop it from smearing. :)
Any reccomendations for a phone plan for two people, fairly low monthly cost, a good amount of minutes, and good night and weekend stuff. Dose'nt matter what network, just please tell me the features of the program. (what kinda mobile to mobile it's got, when nights start, ect)
I don't know exactly what you are looking for. All I can suggest is visiting each network's website for the best plan & features best for you. All the information should be there:
http://www.cricket.com (if in your area)
http://www.altell.com
http://www.verizon.com
http://www.tmobile.com
http://www.cingular.com
I was with Cingular for a year & I've had more problems with them than I can count. I probably called them about 3-4 times a month about some bill or major problem with the service. I know quite a few other people who experienced the same bad service. I had to cut my contract short because they were that horrible - so I don't suggest going witht hem. But I've heard good things about Verizon.
okay i have one question. How can pornstars have so much sex and not seem to get diseases or pregnant?
Most (if not all of them) are tested constantly. But there's always a chance where an STD won't show up until 6 months later. So..although their test may be negative now, they could be spreading the disease & not having it show up until later. I watched Tyra Banks not too long ago & an 18 year old porn star had filmed over 80 movies & she had caught an STI/STD. As far as prengancy, I'm sure they take their birth control religiously & make trips to get the morning after pill quite often. STDS & pregnancy are not unheard of in the porn industry. You just don't hear about them that much.
2 ethiopian sisters came to my school. Someone managed to take them out of their home and get them to a safer place. They don't know english. Only 'Hi'.
And there's this group of black girls who keep attacking them I guess. They fought with them.. for basically.. no reason.
These two girls didn't do anything! Should I go to the office and tell them that they need a security person watching out for them?
I don't know what to do.. but I don't want people physically hurting them. I mean ... words won't hurt if you don't understand.
If you feel their safety is at risk & they can't see it (merely because they don't speak English), YES do the girls a favor & report it to a teacher or principal. That kind of crap should not be tolerated at all.
how much on adverage does it cost to get your hair color stripped at a salon?
I've had mine done @ Toni & Guy & it was about $30. So I'd say anywhere from $25-$40 on average.
how can you determin what size of a tampon should you get?
It's my first time and I only have enough money to buy one box..what if it's too small or big?
I'd recommend the Tampax Pearl variety pack - that have a variety of tampon sizes from light to heavy in one box. They're the most comfortable & convenient in my opinion. Right now, you might not be able to know which size is best for you. But eventually, you'll get the adjust of what size you need & when. Stick with the slimmer ones for now, but all sizes should fit if you are inserting them correctly.
i hate it and how can i look better to make guys like me i have acne but ive been using face wash everyday and i hate when people walk up to me and say get pro active and laugh well my acne is not that but i think im pretty sometimes but i was going out with a hott guy but idk i need help to get a bf because i really want one and i want to be popular how do you get to be popular im trying to like tell people that you dont have to be perfect to be popular but how do you????
Honestly, this isn't Mean Girls. This is the real world & once you're out of high school, you'll mature & realize there are other priorities than worrying about what other people think about you. Appearance isn't everything. Looks may get you to the door, but they might not always hold the relationship. The truth is: you don't need to LOOK good to make a guy like you. A nice guy will look past your appearance & flaws & will like you for who you are as a person. As corny & cliche as it sounds, it's very well true. Any guy who likes you soley based on looks is not worth dating to begin with. Don't bring the wrong attention & the wrong guys to yourself by using your looks to get what you want. If you want a boyfriend, be flirty & be yourself. There's nothing hotter than someone who is confident & who doesn't care what anyone else thinks about them. Hold your head up high when people make fun of you, start paying attention to the things you love about yourself (physically or personality), & go after those boys instead of waiting for them to come to you. Just be yourself & people will like you - making it easier to make new friends.
hey there,
does anyone know what i can do to my hair to make it less staticy? like is there a special product i should use on it?
if it helps its straight and like relaxed? idk i usually run it through the straightner. but ahh i need something good for my hair. cuz if i dont add anything its like really frizzy and staticy and if i do its greasy! so i need helP!!
also what would you say is the best self tanner? or anything that will bring life to my face?
thank you!
To make your hair less static: Run a fabric softener sheet through your hair. (Yes, the ones that you throw in the dryer to make your clothes smell good.) Problem solved, no joke.
For less frizzy hair: Apply SUNSILK Anti-Proof 24/7 Creme ($3.99 @ any grocery store, drugstore, Walmart, Target) after you shower & before you dry/style your hair. After you have straightened your hair, your hair should be soft. But for extra soft hair, you can also use S-FACTOR Dream Drops ($30 @ Toni & Guy hair salon or any salon that carries S-Factor).
I'm not sure of any good self tanners, but they shouldn't be used on your face. Results may not turn out like you want, so instead..just stick to a bronzer when it comes to your face. I use a bronzer by Rimmell (very affordable, about $3-$4 at any drugstore.) Don't overdo it; apply lightly to your T-zone (cheeks, nose & forehead) & it should definitely bring life to your face. :)
I'm a sophomore who is "seeing" a senior... is it a bad idea for us to go out? Since the school year is winding down I'm a little concerned about him going to college, even though we still have like 2 more months + summer. He's going to school about 3-4 hours away, BTW. I'm worried that we won't have time for each other, that it will be difficult to have a long distance relationship, and that he will want to go out with other college girls instead of me once he gets there! PLEASE only answer if you have HAD this experience, and tell me how it worked out. Thanks!
I know you want people who have experienced this situation themselves. Althought I haven't personally dealt with something like this, I know people who have. I think in order for a relationship to last after it goes long distance, it needs to be pretty strong & serious beforehand. I believe any relationship can work as long as there's communication, trust & honesty. But I also believe you need to see & spend time with that person for anything to last. If you can't trust the person & the relationship isn't somewhat serious already, it's probably not worth dealing with - atleast not at your age. You don't want to be 3-4 miles away worrying about whether or not he's cheating with other girls. You're at the age where you're going to be going through guys left and right - or maybe not. But you shouldn't make any big commitments until you're ready to. If it's something you're willing to work out, go for it. From my point of view, I think you should have fun & date guys who are closer to you.