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Q: her eyes are swollen, she cannot see
she feels like three, in that poem bout misty
shes just and expensive joke
no more no less then speed or coke
she had been kidnapped by her ex
because he was jealous and wanted sex
oh dear god he's back again
I beg please let this end
now the time has come
for him to run
for this is my last scar
do me a favor
don’t let your relationships go this far....

Hmm its intense but gives good advice so its pretty good if you ask me-trix

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Q: Does any one think they can help me All though my school carrer i agve like girls but i can never get one to go out with me how is the best way to ask one out and also know if i like them for the right reasons

By liking them for there personality and not there looks-trix

Q: me n my boyfriend talk on the phone...a lot! It's not like he doesn't want to talk to me because he is the one who calls me (most of the time) but i mean we are talking 24/7!! He has even passed up going to the movies to talk to me cause he said he would be bored without me and without someone to hold on to. My problem is, I think we talk a little bit to much on the phone! i mean i stay up til around 3:00am talking to him then he has to go to work, and sometimes on his way to work we talk on his cell phone. I think i am not getting enough sleep, but i really love talking to him and he does too! what should i do???? (if it helps in 14/f n hes 15 august 10th

Well just tell him you've lost alot of sleep lately from talking but dont be rude when you say it just say ill call you tomorrow when im done doing a few things tell him you'll call him and if that doesnt work... he may be a little bit to clingy-trix

Q: Okay well heres the thing...I have a crush on this boy..and one night before i realized i had a crush on him me him my friend sabrina and michael were all hangin out in my house partyin...well he was reall drunk and he would like touch my ass as he was walkin by or lay on me and hold my hand and juss different stuff and at the end of the night we were sittin there n everybody was outside and he went to kiss me and i moved away because i knew he was drunk and i didnt want him to do it because i was scared he was juss doin it cuz he was drunk well the next day we acted like completely different like we didnt talk at all and we didnt bring it up and we still havent and his cousin said that that night he came home and he was tellin him all about me and that he likes me alot but im not sure whether to beleive him or not and i dont kno whether to try to get with him and ask him out because what if he was juss drunk and thats y he was doin it and if he says no it will make things awkward between us ya kno?? what should i do im real confused ???

Talk to him about that night and maybe he feels awkward around you because you turned the whole kiss down and that made him feel majorily emberassed but i would ask him out if the talk goes well-trix

Q: I am 14 and I am a female. I like thins guy and we r friends and we talk on the internet. But lately he has been acting strange like he is ery uncomfortable around me. Its not like he is being shy and he likes me, he is more like nervous or annoyed. Anyway, he likes this girl who already has a boyfriend. The girl and her boyfriend like eachother alot. He said he would ask her out if they broke up. Its just i dont want him to like her bc i like him and it makes me mad that she can have every guy in the universe. so what i am trying to ask is, what can i do to make him like me and not her w/o acting like a bitch ??? thanx!

Well technically you cant make someone like you other then by being yourself and keeping a smile on and be funny and cute all at the same time.. we all wish we could make the man currently of our dreams ours but thats all we can do but what you could do is maybe tell him how you feel-trix

Q: What do I do if this kid (lets call him peanut) asked me out so much last year. He would say "I love you" all the time to me and he would always ask me to the dances and when I said no he just wouldn't take a hint. We were kind of friends I guess but Peanut just doesn't understand that I don't like him like that.

Now this year, in the beginning of the year, Peanut would still say how he loves me and stuff and then all of a sudden he started saying how we were just friends and Im like "whatever" now I like him much better but he sometimes seems upset because I feel awkward around him when he says hi (in a shy tone) I dont like Peanut and I wont go out with him but i guess I still consider him my friend.

Does anyone know what I should do?
I feel awkward around Peanut.
Thanks a lot.

Maybe you should talk to mr.peanut about your mixed feelings you got going on between you to and set things straight-trix

Q: Okay well there is this girl Regina and a while ago before i met her me and her bf Ben was reallie close friends and i told him taht i dunt tink u two are going to last and then ben told her now and me and ben havent talked for two months or so and now regina is gunna tell tyler something and tyler said he would never break up with me and all:-\and yea he tells me he loves me with everything and I reallie dont think he will believe her but regina told me I was a horriable person and that I backstabbed her by saying that and that is before I evening knew her so what do you think I should do?Should I keep trying to call my boyfriend and get to him before she gets to him and start a story or what.Im reallie confused and need help!Please help me!Thanxs!
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Well does Regina know that you said this before you knew her? just tell her you obvuisly didnt know what you were talking about and as for you and your bf go i dont think you have to worry about it just tell him whats going on and what she is going to do and tell ben the same-trix

Q: I just asked a question and it didnt show up! How come and how do I get to see what I asked again so I can post it again?

They have to approve of the questions so they take awhile to show up on here-trix

Q: Okay. So there's this guy at my college, we've known each other for a few years already from high school. A few weeks back, we had a bit of a disagreement that wound up with us not talking to each other for a full week. The thing was, I wasn't even really mad at him initially, until he split from our one class together before I could say a word to him. Now, We've been friends for a few years and we get along really well, but tears were shed over this madness. I don't remember having such hurt feelings since... well, that's another long story. But it was a long time ago. Anyhow, another guy friend of mine and I had a two week period of not talking to each other, and it didn't bother me. Yes, we had a bit of a disagreement, but his ceased attention didn't affect me at all.

My question is, what does this mean about my feelings for the first guy? I know NOTHING about relationships. Please help!

Maybe you were just more scarred of loosing a really good friend and when it happaned the 2nd time you were thinking in your head that it already happaned once before and everything turned out fine so in your head your thinking everything will be fine and just like the last time you'll wind up good friends again-trix

Q: my dad has this training school where he has this assistant. he is my age and quite to looker. ~_' hehe... anyway. we have gotten close and he calls me his little sister and i call him my big brother. but a part of me wants more than a brother sister relationship. he also goes against all i've ever dreamed of in a guy. :) i feel confused. i mean, i have a boyfriend too. but when i'm with my boyfriend... i'm always thinking of him. my dad's assistant, my big brother. what should i do to take away this confusedness?

Well maybe you could call it quits with your bf and talk to this guy about things and then see what happans between you to and you will also come to relize that maybe you really miss your bf and you may want him back in your life-trix

Q: ok well him and i were going out with eachother for about a year then i broke up with him and he is going out with my bestfriend and i told him i still really really liked him but he said he already knew and stuff like that....

Well talk to your best friend about it all and then bring them both together and talk about it if your really comfortable with it-trix

Q: I like this guy... sorry, I'm so unoriginal, who I see at a club once a week. I was at a party a couple of weeks back, and he was there and heard me having an argument with one of my friends. I self-injure quite a lot and am trying to stop - and he definitely heard references to that.
Today, he pulled my friend aside and asked if I was okay, if there was anything wrong, and my friend told him that I liked him and about my self-injury problem. I don't really have any issues with him knowing, I'm pretty open about it, but I'm worried about him going out with me because he feels sorry for me as he basically made a comment to this effect.
However, he's really making an effort to be friendly to me, but I know this is only because he feels sorry for me and I can't stand it. Do you think I should talk to him about it? Ideas would be much appreciated. Thanks.

Well i do think you should talk to him about it and say the last thing you want is for anybody to feel sorry for you you just want him to like you for who you are not what you do and because he feels sorry for you-trix

Q: i am 14 and was dating this guy who was 16, well me and him were really close and did quite a bit of stuff together. its been about 5 months since i saw him and since we broke-up.. but i still love him soo much. at the end of our relationship, his best friend told me he cheated on me. i e-mailed him and i guess his girlfriend reads his mail cause she e-mailed me back, i talked to her through instant messaging and told her all about me and brian. she said that he told her that all we did was talk and told her NOTHING happened between us. he got really mad at me because i told his girlfriend and he only talks to me once in a while. he moved to about an hour away and wants me and my best friend to go see him. i love him soo much still and i don't know what to do! how do i get over him and should i go see him? Please e-mail me your responces at Azjess123@aol.com because i'm on my friends sn here. thank you for your answers!!

Well i wouldnt go and do it because he hurt you and his x ( or still maybe his girlfriend) already and once a cheater... prolly always a cheater.. thats not neccisarilly always true... but given its probably the truth maybe you guys could go up there and dont mess around though-trix

Q: Why do you think you're not hot? How many times must you be told to believe it?

Alot-trix

Q: What is with the topics? Every time I go to the "Advice Topics" page it takes me there and I choose a topic and all the questions are all mixed. I can't tell which is new or not. I know that they are being mixed because some are REALLY old. I don't like it because I'm going to that topic because it has new questions and I want to answer the new questions not the old ones. It's even the same on the "View Questions" page. I really would rather to have it back the normal way. Am I the only one that this happening too? please tell me if I'm not because then I will go to the admin.

Please answer.

No it happans to me too but thats why i just go to give advice and i look at the date and times of when they were posted and thats how i can tell-trix

Q: I was recently diagnosed with a bakers cyst. Am I allowed to exercise with it?

I'd call your dr. about that-trix

Q: What's the worst that could happen if I dont see a doctor about an ingrown toenail?

You could go into surgery like 2 of my friends had that done they did complain about the pain -trix

Q: I play basketball and volleyball and i have a blisted on the bottom of my left foot. ANy suggestion on how to get it away...fast?

well you could pop it-trix

Q: My g/f that i love tried to kill herself. I love her so much and she wont talk 2 me about why she did it. She wont talk 2 me at all about it some one pleese help me what should i do

Get help fast tell her family members or something-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"