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I like this guy... sorry, I'm so unoriginal, who I see at a club once a week. I was at a party a couple of weeks back, and he was there and heard me having an argument with one of my friends. I self-injure quite a lot and am trying to stop - and he definitely heard references to that.
Today, he pulled my friend aside and asked if I was okay, if there was anything wrong, and my friend told him that I liked him and about my self-injury problem. I don't really have any issues with him knowing, I'm pretty open about it, but I'm worried about him going out with me because he feels sorry for me as he basically made a comment to this effect.
However, he's really making an effort to be friendly to me, but I know this is only because he feels sorry for me and I can't stand it. Do you think I should talk to him about it? Ideas would be much appreciated. Thanks.
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Well i do think you should talk to him about it and say the last thing you want is for anybody to feel sorry for you you just want him to like you for who you are not what you do and because he feels sorry for you-trix
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I think you need to be sure of what this guy knows before you talk to him about it. And then i think you should tell him how you feel; perhaps you are just feeling paranoid and he really does like you. But don't go off on one or get angry at him, because you may be loosing a true friend. Good luck x
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