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wait, he HATES me????
i went to camp with this guy and i slowely fell in love with him. i liked him for three years and now we rarely talk anymore. im not sure if i like him in a crush way, i like him more as a brother. but the other day his brother told me that he hates me because i talk to him too much. i really want to be friends with him, and now i just dont know what to do. i miss us talking. i dont want to go up to him and start randomly talking, i'd look like an idiot.what should i do???
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well, if i were you... i wouldn't even sweat it. i'd stop trying to talk to him. seriously. like if you guys see eachother or you run into him somehow... dont even talk to him. let him come to you. and you never know.. his brother could be lieing. never trust the he-said-she-said kinda stuff. i mean.. there's always the option of going up to him and asking him if it's true.. but i'd actually wait for him to say hi or something to you and if he asks why you didnt say anything to him first, THATS when you say.. "well...." and explain everything that you heard. i mean the best option is to ask him first off... but no one ever wants to do that and i know first hand that it sucks.. so just wait for him to come to you.
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well if i was u, i would go up to him and ask him why he doesnt like you anymore. jus slowly go up to him and talk about stuff.
good luck
kimberly
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I think you should cool off for a minute, and give yourself some space to think about what you really feel for this guy, and what his friendship means to you. I also don't think that you should listen to what other people say about this guy; i know his brother said he hates you (which, to be honest, i doubt), but you can't be sure until you hear it from HIM instead of his little brother. Write him a note if you can't talk to him, and then you'll see HIS reaction rather than something his brother said to you. Good luck x
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