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well Theres This Guy we went out like in term 1 or 2 in this year and i liked him then stoped then i saw him again nd we talked and im not sure if i like him but his the player type he gets a girl and dumps her in a month so i know i shouldnt tell him cause he wont care but if i do end up liking him what should i do ??
[xOo] (link)
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why waste time on some one like that. being the player type isnt something for him to be proud of and in a way it sounds like he has alittle power trip going on so dont buy into it. he needs to grow up. you need to focus on someone better.
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i like this guy, but hes two years older and he has a girlfriend...should i just give up? (link)
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i dont think you should give up but just put your feelings on hold until him and his girlfriend break up. maybe just put him on the back burner of your mind. girlfriends come and go. maybe you should try being friends with him dont bring up that you like him when he has a girlfriend though because that can make it worse. if you are already friends then thats a start. theres nothing wrong with an age diffrence just dont let him take advantage of you.
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Ok i cant stand my family. they make me want to kill myself. First off. my little brother of 11 years old, is a selfish little brat, who crys and crys about everything. and if he doesnt get his way he flips out. my sister of 15 is always pointing out the bad things about me, she is always yelling at me, and always makeing me feel like crap. My older brother of 17 is always beating on everything and needs to take anger mangament classes. My mom is always telling me, how i should feel about things, and yells at me for things i dont even do. Please tell me, what do i do? (link)
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it sounds like you and your family are under alot of stress. dont let it take you down maybe you should have a one on one talk with your mom. she might be just as upset as you are. your brother is only 11 and thats how little kids are. maybe you can try focusing on the good things no matter how small they are about them. you might want to confront your sister nicely about how what she says make you feel. you could also no matter what start calmly speaking your mind in a calm manner about how this stuff makes you feel. dont say you wannaa kill your self go alittle deeper then that. i hope you seriously dont mean that by the way its not worth it. if your being abused by these people im not saying you are but it happens tell a counselor at school. im not sure how old you are but it doesnt matter you have as much rights as a human as anyone else and you have a voice. dont bottle up emotion instead start calmy telling people how you feel about things. you might even change how they are that way. just speak your mind in a positive way if you cant get through to them then thats their own problem
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I just got a Steelers jersey for Christmas. Unfortunately their last game is on this Sunday coming. I can still wear the jersey right? Like to school and stuff even though their season is over? I know a lot of you will say, "who cares what you wear?" But, I just want to make sure that other people are doing it too. Because, Steelers aren't that big where I live.
Thanks! =] (link)
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if you like the jersey where it i see people whereing stuff like that all the time. you really shouldnt care if others are wearing the samething to because when it come to theirselves i guarantee they dont care about what you think about them.
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Okay.. I know this is gonna sound awkward.
I had sex with Ashley.
And I feel really bad about it now because I don't want to tell Laura but if I don't tell her it's gonna be on my conscience all the time until I tell her what happened.
Is there any way I can tell Laura what I did with Ashley without making her hate me? And I don't want to do it face to face because that would be really weird.
HELP!!
I know I shouldn't have done it but she asked me to and I thought maybe it was really gonna bring me and her together. I dunno. I'm stupid.
So.. HELP ME PLEASE!!!
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do you go out with laura can you please give me more information on your relationship with laura and ashley
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okayy.. so i just recently broke up with my boyfriend who i dated for 10 months. & he was my first love and i broke up with him because i fell out of love with him. & during our relationship it took a long time for us to actually do things. we didnt kiss until we had dates for 3 months, but we never went all the way. well now i have a new boyfriend. & he is great. but i feel like he is hinting that he wants to have sex. & we havent even gone out for a month. && with his last girlfriend he talked about how he wanted to have sex but she didnt. & i dont know it seems like thats all he wants. a couple of days ago i was at his house & we were hanging out watching tv & he kept pulling up my shirt & everything. & this kid is big not fat but big. he is 6ft & 200 lbs. but hes muscular & i am like 5ft & 90 lbs. so he can pick me up easily.& so he picks me up & sets me on top of him.. in a provocative way & he kept like touching me in the \"places\" & doing sexual motion i guess you would say =p well he started to kiss me & well then we were making out & he was half way on top of me. & then all of a sudden he un-did my pants & started to finger me. & in my head i was just thinking what the hell am i doing. but then i thought about how lucky i was to be with this guy & how much i liked him so i didnt stop him. i dont know i felt horrible afterwards like i was some kind of slut && my friend would think i was a slut if i told them this. i dont know i dont think i was ready for it. i dont know what to do. i dont want to lose this guy because i have liked him for so long & its a miracle he actually likes me back because he is one of the most gorgeous guys in my school but i havent been with him long enough to where i can talk to him about it & feel comfortable. i dont know pleasee i need advice on what to do? i dont care if you guys call me stupid or anything i just need some help. (link)
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this might sound harsh but your not that lucky to be with him. he seem like a creep and what he did was a form of sexual assault because he didnt get your consent first and in a way he used his size against. there are other guys out there and yes it does seem like hes after one thing and you are under no obligation to give him it. you dont owe him a thing and from what he did he doesnt respect you. if you cant talk to him then that should be redflag this guys not right for you. and if he treats women like that hes not right for that many others either. hes making you feel negative. so break away from it there are plenty or other guys and its just school. why is it a miracle that he likes you dont place yourself as inferior to him. he doesnt sound all that great to me.
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waht should i do everybody hates me because im ugly how can i make me pretter so i can have more friends (link)
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ok i doubt your ugly and if people are actually saying that then i think there ugly inside which will shine through on the outside.you say everybody thinks that but im sure you havent met everybody for everybody to think that. but im going to tell youve got to love your self not in a conceded way more like self confidence. ignore these people. who are they dislocate them from your life. surround yourself with things that are positive. why would you want to befriends with people who say thoose kind of things. your probably not the only one. i personally wouldnt associate with anyone who said things like that.looks should have nothing to do with friendship and these people who make you feel that way dont deserve you or anyone else as a friend.beauty is objective. stop thinking negatively.
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ok so im in 7th grade, and everyone has a boyfriend, it seems like, besides me. I try being outgoing and stuff, but it doesnt work. I already tried asking like 5 billion guys out and they all said no. I know im not supposed to change and stuff, but i dont want to end up 20 and only have 1 boyfriend in my whole life. Can you help me?
PS.. Me and my friend share this account, so not all posts are gonna bve from me (link)
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its only the seventh grade believe after you get through highschool things change. not having a bf doesnt mean you wont eventually and its not a big deal. but you should just ask out guys it seems desperate and you could end up with a real jerk. you should be with a guy just to have a boyfriend you should be selective and wait for some one you really like. the right person will come along. but the more you focus on not having one then longer you wont have one because thats the vibe your sending out so thats what youll attract. and if the wrong guys sees that you really want one they could take advantage of you and use it against you because you could get so caught up in wanting a boyfriend that you dont see whats really important. and you shouldnt have to change the right person will like you for who you and come around eventually.
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okay. this is serously complicated so if u understand it well then awsum!! okay so theres this one boy and four girls are totally in love with him. four of these girls are my bffs. one of them is his GIRLFRIEND!! but every1s trying 2 break them up so they can have him. this guy is not hot and has no personality. also, hes serously dumb. how do i convince my friends 2 get ovr him and move on? (link)
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first off they shouldnt try to force someone to break up. maybe you should point out to your friends no matter how unappealing this guy is to you that the bottom line is if he wanted one of them then he would be with one of them. if he wanted them then he would break up with his girlfriend on his own. and even if they did break up it doesnt mean he would choose one of them to go out with. i hope they dont consider his gf a friends because if so thats pretty bad and catty ontheir side.
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hey, starting in the afternoon today my boobs became very tender. they hurt so much. is it from my boobs growing? or what is it? (link)
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either your boobs are growing or its just about period time.
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Is it normal for a 12.5 year old in 7th grade that is 5'0 to weigh 104 pounds? P.S. This is not about me, this is actually about my sister because I'm concerned about her. She might not seem overweight, but she looks kind of chubby in the stomach area and such. If so, what are some excercises to lose this babyfat? Thanks! (link)
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its normal. she hasnt even matured or hit puberty yet. give her a few years.
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Okay, this is what is up. I was in a relationship with a 46 year old man...I am 20. Is that weird? I can not get him out of my head. We were dating, according to him, this summer, but broke up around September. He occassionally calls and asks if he can see me, etc. and I would really like to, but I don't know...How do I get this man I love out of my head, because right now a relationship is not possible?
Thanks for your answers in advance.
Jenn (link)
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this is an edit- if hes not then why is he calling you. talk to him more.
theres nothing wrong with loving some one of a diffrent age. you cant help who your attracted to and you shouldnt have to. why is a relationship not possible? if you love him you should embrace him not push him away.
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why do guys think lesbian action is so hot? why do they get turned on when girls touch each other and stuff? yet im a girl and i think its gross when guys touch each other/makeout.. i dont get it (link)
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i think its a matter of opinion i personally dont care either way. but i have known other females to get turned on when to guy are touching eachother. i think because for some people who are straight its like watching porno a straight guy isnt attract to another male so watching to female that hes attracted to doing stuff gives him more of a sexual rush then watch a guy and a girl. same thing with some straight women. not everyone feels this way but some do. oh well every ones diffrent.
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STORY: The two players are Elaine and her mother. Elaine was always skinny. Elaine's mother told Elaine; I am really worried when we go to the birthday party that if someone told you that you got so thin, that you read into it and think that they never thought you were thin; Elaine says; Well doesn't it mean that? And her mother said; No, you would just hear it that way.You were always thin. Elaine told her friends the story and they said; what your mom is saying is that you were always thin, and everyone who knows you from past and present knows you are thin, but it just means they noticed you got thinner; MY QUESTION: DO YOU AGREE WITH ELAINEs FRIENDS? (link)
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ok heres whats really going on. these people havnt seen elain in awhile so their image of elain has probably been distorted so when they see you tthrough their eyes elain probably look thinner to them because they havent seen elain. that like some saying someones hair looks redder did that persons hair get redder probably not but the person who said that probably didnt have a crystal clear memory of that person. doesnt necessarily mean elain has or hasnt just means thats their perception of elain which probably isnt all that up to date
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soo usually i go to bed around 1-3 am, then wake up between 7-7:30 for school. would it be ok to leave a tampon in during the night? i for sure always wake up in the mornings, and i put new ones in right before i go to sleep. (link)
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i've had a period for years and ive always put a tampon in when i go to sleep. as long as you have blood flowing its ok.
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he is talking to this other girl saying she is sooo hotttt and crap and he is flirting with her i need help what should i do dump him (link)
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if hes tellig some other girl that she so hott and flirting with her then he doesnt care about you and if he makes you feel negative then not right for you. so yes dump him because it should be a no brainer on his part. when your going out with someone then you should befocused on that person. this guy is some immature boy who hasnt grown into his hormones. let him go.
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can you make a smoothie with the only fruit being strawberries? (It is the only fruit right now in my kitchen and Im CRAVING a smoothie of some kind.) what else do I put in the blender? Ice? Milk? (link)
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yes you can make a onefruit smoothie. how to make a smoothie can vary on the person. when i do it i mix the fruit ice and vanilla yogurt or yogurt with the smae flavoring of the fruit and blend
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Whats the different between lust and love? How do you know if youre just "lusting" someone? (link)
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this is an edit
i never really meant to specify that you were directing it towards you nor did i say you liked anyone one i was using you as a substitute for the person thats how i talk. and if there was a direct definition i guess you could look it up in the dictionary. no person can give you a direct definition because everyones diffrent. when you know oh im sorry when the person knows then the person know and there is no qquestioning thats just it.
when you have to ask or question wheter your lusting or loving thats usually a red flag that your lusting.if it was love it would just click in and you would know and you wouldnt have to ask. so when you dont have to ask the question is it lust or love then its usually love.
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okay i've never had sex before and don't plan on it for a long time. my boyfriend & i of 7 months will make out n do stuff like that naked. he'll ejaculate on like my thigh but not my vagina, is there anyway from that that i could get pregnant? can you get pregnant from a guy not going into you, like if it touches my region is there a chance of me geting pregnant or something? please help! thankss a bunchh xox. (link)
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this is an edit
you can still get pregnat if sperm isnt ejaculate in your vagina because if it gets into you fluid thats leading up to your vagina ive got news for you those fish can swim. so becareful.
if a guys seman(ejacuation) comes in contact with your vagina in any way then yes there is a chance that youll get pregnant the littlest drop of it could get you pregnant.
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ok well my friend asked me what an orgasim i. I mean i know but i just dont know how to answer her. what should i say to her? ((how should i explain it?))
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an orgAsm is the climax to sex and masturbation.
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