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okay. this is serously complicated so if u understand it well then awsum!! okay so theres this one boy and four girls are totally in love with him. four of these girls are my bffs. one of them is his GIRLFRIEND!! but every1s trying 2 break them up so they can have him. this guy is not hot and has no personality. also, hes serously dumb. how do i convince my friends 2 get ovr him and move on?
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First, ask them WHY they like that boy. If they answer, cute: tell him, "Uh, no he's not. And looks shouldn't matter THAT much." If they say anything about his personality, like he's sweet or funny, tell them, "No he's not. Because_____________________ and he's totally dumb!" Fill in the blanks with reasons. Also point out that it's totally wrong to try to break people up. It's really bad. Ask them how they would feel if they were in a relationship with this guy and someone tried to break them up.
You have to get it to their heads for yourself. It won't really change their feelings, but it might change their minds into trying to get over him.
For the guy problem you have, smile at him friendly. Talk to him. Laugh at his jokes. Simple things like that could to a nice friendship.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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first off they shouldnt try to force someone to break up. maybe you should point out to your friends no matter how unappealing this guy is to you that the bottom line is if he wanted one of them then he would be with one of them. if he wanted them then he would break up with his girlfriend on his own. and even if they did break up it doesnt mean he would choose one of them to go out with. i hope they dont consider his gf a friends because if so thats pretty bad and catty ontheir side.
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This is typical competitiveness and nothing more. How gross and boring to fight over a guy no one really wants in the end. Just stay out of it and find something better to do or some more mature friends. I would not want to be around them when I actually found a guy I did like.
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