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hey. my name is christina. cool people call me X. so can you. kelly is my best friend. you can see her column on KELLY ELIZABETH i absolutely love basketball, shopping, and friends. stupid question=stupid answer. go ahead, ask me anything! dont be shy!

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I hear all these stories on how people make themselves pass out. Just out of innocent curiousity, how do you do that? Someone told me that you press a part of your body or something?

i have one thing to say... DON"T DO IT! that game is known as "the pass out game" and it is severly dangerous. i read an article in 17 magazine about a girl and her best friend who played that game at parties and such and then her friend DIED! there have been so many deaths in the US from kids playing that game. i dont know you but all i am asking is that you dont play that dangerous game! :0

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hi "x",
i hope you can help me.
13/f

ive been dating this guy for about a month now and hes the greatest. but sometimes we fight and it sucks because im scared ill loose him. sometimes he seems to favor his frieds over me but i never come before them. its hard to deal with always being on the "back burner". what should i do? should i talk to him about it and tell him how i feel? or should i suck it up? thanks.

hey. i think that you are right to go and talk to him. you should say that if he is going to be your boyfriend, he is going to have to pay a little more attention to you.(but say it in the sweetest way possible) maybe you could get his attention by being interested in the things that he likes. if he plays football, go to one of his games or something. about the fighting business, it depends on how big the fights are and what they are about. if they are about something small then i would just ignore most of it because every relationships had its bumps in the road. if the problems are getting serious then i advise you to tell him how you feel. i hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Anyway, whenever I drive with my parents in the car there always yelling at me, speed up, watch out, your gonna crash. They need to realize that I'm already nervous. All there doing is fueling the flame. They've gotten so nervous they haven't even let me drive for about a month now. Thing is i've never crashed and I know I'm not that bad of a driver. They say they expect me to get my liscence next year. I'll be 16. What do I do?

although i cant drive yet, i hope this helps :)! alrighty, first you should know that your parents are always going to correct what you are doing. tell them that you are not going to drive the car if they keep this up. maybe they are this way because of a bad experience they had with driving when they were younger so try to understand where they are coming from. be honest with them, they will appericate it. hope this helps! ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok so i am 13/f and i know girls can be nasty..
i am on a sports team for school and the first day was today.. its a 7th and 8th grade team and there are 3 other 7th graders that are on it that i am close friends with.. butttt there are about 15 8th graders. half of them are wicked nice and i've known them for a whille. but the other half seem to have a problem with me and my friends. truthfully we never did anything to them! i dont even know most of them and have never talked to them! last year they were jealos of our boyfriends, but im single right now anyways. they talk crap about us during practice and they get my bestfriends ex to call us names. i wanna make it through the seasons w/o any cat fights.

thanks ill rate high*xo

well, it sounds pretty weird that the eighth graders are mean to you for no reason. i think that the best thing to do (even though you may be nervous) would to go up to the mean people and talk it out with them. you may understand where they are coming from. you cant judge a person until you have walked a day in their shoes. go up and ask them why they are holding a grudge on you. say that you only mean good and you just want to go though the season without any enemies. or you could also ask one of your coaches and ask them to keep an eye out for any of the teasing that is going on. if all else fails... just ignore them, what is the worst that they can do without getting into trouble or kicked of the team! hope this helps :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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okay...i started talking to this one guy. he's really cute and nice. i have always thought that he was hott. so i started talking to him and i told my friend that i was starting to like him. so now she started talking to him and she likes him too. she's prettier than me and always gets the guy she wants. she did this last time i liked a guy too. she started talking to him and then he kind of started ignoring me and only paying attention to her. then in school today she told the guy's friend that i liked him. which i dont think is right cause the the friend will tell him and i dont want him to think that im weird cause i just started talking to him like 4 days ago. plus i dont know if the guy still likes his ex girlfriend cause she is always around him. well my friend flirts with him online even though she knows i like him. she goes from guy to guy to guy. and one time even a girl. what should i do about her? i already told her that i really like this kid and that i am mad that she is trying to take him. plus she is probably gonna go out with another kid soon? what should i do about her? and what do i say when the guy i like askes me about what his friend will tell him?



PLEASE I NEED HELP.ILL RATE 5'S
K THANKS IN ADVANCE
LOVE YOU.

hey... is sounds like you are in a sticky situation, though i have seen it before. the best thing to do would to go up to your friend and talk to her. tell her that you dont appricaite what she is doing to you. if she is your real friend then she will understand. you said that she can hook up with any guy, so why cant see find another since you liked your crush first. if she doesnt listen then you should just ask your crush out... whats the worst he can do? hope this helps! :) ♥

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i love x/christina angela noelle heberer what shouldi do??


---meggggannnnn

you should rejoice because x/ christina angela noelle heberer loves megan too!! :)

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My best friend's birthday is this Thursday. I want to get/make her something really creative. She loves rent, wicked, dancing, and singing. What should I do?

Hey, it sounds like your friend really likes broadway and shows. maybe you could seach the internet and find tee-shirts of rent or wicked. you could maybe find the soundtracks to those shows. you could but it in a little gift basket and give it to her. you could also give her flowers with the gift. hope this helps!!


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