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okay, well, tomorrow is my last day of summer break. i have to stay at home all day by myself. i have a computer, tv, drums, 2 guitars, keyboard, stereo, ipod, and thats about all i have to keep myself entertained. any ideas of how i can spend my last day??!!

ps i live out in the country so i can go to friends houses....i cant drive yet.

gosh if i had all that stuff & the fun i would have lol. Well you shouldnt spend your last day of summer at home. Maybe call somefriends & tell them to come pick you up. Or have a bunch of friends over & throw a little party. Like have them bring some food & snacks.

i hope this helps
kim:)

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hi =]
okayyy so i'm 5'7 probably and i weigh 107 pounds but i want to get down to 100 before school starts and don't give me some big speech about how it's not good to loose weight because i'm doing it but alright so... i don't eat that much every now and then and i just drink a lot of water and i work out like...45 minutes every day and i started all this about a week ago so does anyone have any advice on how to lose it fast? i want to be down to 104 by sunday please and thank you =]

Im going to give you a speech anyways. I dont think you realize how much underweight you are. Yea your right losing weight for you is not healthy for you. Your going to be one of those girl with eatting disorders. Someone 5foot7in. Should way around 135pounds. You need to see your family doctor && a diettitian.

If you continue you to do this to your body your going to have alot of problems in the future.

sorry if this isnt what you want to hear but your going to have to except the truth.
Kim:)

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I love my schedule this year, but my english class is just horrible. The teacher only gave an A to one person last year, and it was a 90%. All of my friends have said she's extremely hard, and she even told us today that she is tough. This isn't an AP or honors class either. There are 3 other english classes that I could be in. I might fill out a schedule-change form to get a different teacher. If they don't let me change teachers, what do I do??

teachers give you the grade by what you deserve. Having a harder english can be a challenge for you. Switching your schedule so you can have the easier way out would be cheating in a way. I would wait a little while & see if it gets any better for you. I say in about a month if your grade is horrible then switch. But dont put as the reason to get out "the teacher is to hard" put the reason as the "class is to hard." You shouldnt swtich because of the teacher because they wont do it.

hope this helps.
kim:)

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do guys like it better when you like shave tha sides of your vegina and leave a pubic hair strip down the middle, or shave it all?

Honeslty no one can answer this with an exact answer. Why because it depends on the guy that you are with && who you are letting see you down their. And it shouldnt depend what the guy likes you should do what you want to do with it.


hope this helps
kim:)

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What does one do to be conceited?

Someone who talks about themselves all the time. How good they are & think they are better looking then everyone else & or just better in genereal.

hope this helps
kim:)

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well I do know the whole "always use a condom" thing, but every now and then its just not there right? SO I was wondering if you keep up with your birth control taking it the right time every day and you dont use a condom what are the chances of gettin pregnant?

Theres always a chance that you could get pregnant. But not uses a condom will give you a better chance of getting a disease.


this is from a website because i know nothing about the pill.


---The birth control pill is the most effective way to prevent a pregnancy. It is 98% effective, which means the chances of becoming pregnant are very very slim if you take them properly (THE BIG IF). However, there is still that 2% that do become pregnant, but it is unlikely. As far as the symptoms you've been having, maybe it could be the pill causing them. I remember when I was on the pill I had a lot of nausia and fatigue. If you are really concerned about it, I would go see your family physician.


hope this helps
kim:)

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whats the difference between your hymen stretching and your cherry popping?

When you have sex your hymen breaks && your cherry pops. Its just another eay to say that you lost your virginty unkess it was popped another way. when you have sex your vagina is being strecthed.

hope this helps
kim:)

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is there a better way to put an image off the computer onto a shirt than ironing it on?

Ironning an imgaes onto your shirt is a good way && its probly your only way. I havent heard of any other way. You can draw it on your shirt. but who wants to do that?


hope this helps
kim:)

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hey
i'm in need advice of my penis
i'm 17
how to increse the size of my penis as it only 5.3" inches long
and i feel that it does not produce much sperms just only like once a week
and only get erected 2 to 3 time per day is this normal or need anything to do
but i need advice to abt incresing the size o my penis
i hpe this ? willbe answered effeciently
thanx

There is no way that you Can increase the size of your penis && be save at the same time. If it bothers you that much or you are worried to then you should go to your family doctor && get some information.


http://members.optusnet.com.au/austbua/penis.htm


hope this helps
kim:)

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I need step by step help with my make up, with everything from foundation, to eyeliner to eyeshadow, blush....everything! Please help! thank you so much

Foundation - First you need to find a brand. Then when you find a brand you need to find you skin tone. Sometimes in front of the foundation they will have a little clear card with colored spots on them. This will help determine your skin tone.

Eyeliner - use either black or brown eyeliner. Use the twist up eyeliner not the wooden stick thing. You will apply the eyeliner right above your bottom lashes. You can apply it above the top lashes but i couldnt tell you how to do that because i dont apply it there.

eyeshadow - it kindof depends on your eye color. but i would deff. just stick to natural color like your browns & tans.

Thats all i wear so i hope this much works
kim:)

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My mom, acts like she was a perfect teenager. She always says how she was skinnier then me, or how she was prettier then me. & how she was just ever so popular. Now don't get me wrong, i know i'm up in that crowd, & im pretty & i only weigh like 90 pounds, & im 14. soo.. this isnt where im going with this. what my problem is, is its kinda hurting my feelings. cuz like, i dont like hearing that. like, idno. im just not. & i dno..has anyones parents ever done that to them? like saying there not responsible, like they were when theywere younger &stuff? what did u do about it? or what should i do about it?
kthnxxss.

Gosh yes. Alot of parents say that to their kids. Your mom wants you to have the same life she lived. She wants you to be perfect. She wants you to be something noone is. Noone in this entire world is perfect. You should explaain to her that you dont want that perfect life && that you want to be you! tell her that you hate when she tells you that your not responsible enough & you don't have that perfect body.

The most you can do is either sit down & talk to your mother or you can write her a letter explaining wht you feel about this.

Hope this helps
kim:)

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this guy asked me out about two days ago and he hasnt hung out with me since and he spent the night with his ex and a couple of his freinds the night he asked me out.
hes really nice
but do you think he accually likes me?
or is just trying to make his ex mad..
PLEASE HELP ME

he asked you out then went & spent the night with friends & his ex. Ask him if he is going to spend time & hang out with you. From what you said he did i would say he is bad news.

hope this helps
KIm;)

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whats an .asf file?

A Microsoft file and data stream format for multimedia data including audio, video, still images, and other data types

kim:)

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I just figured out my sister does sex with small teddy bear. She uses the nose to pretend it's a dick and she does it. Is this normal? Can I help her stop if it's harmful. Help!

How old is your sister? Sex with a teddy bear yes very different & all the teddy bears i own have a bump as a nose lol. its not harmful. If she around 13 tell her what masturbation is. Its more normal then practicing with teddy bears.


hope this helps
kim:)

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Where is a good place to buy punkish earrings online?

I've tryed Claire's, PacSun, Hot Topic, and Journeys.

Thanks! =]

Ebay

i found the page you can look:

http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?sofocus=bs&sbrftog=1&from=R10&catref=C6&satitle=punk+earrings&sacat=281%26catref%3DC6&sargn=-1%26saslc%3D2&sadis=200&fpos=04011&ftrt=1&ftrv=1&saprclo=&saprchi=&fsop=1%26fsoo%3D1&coaction=compare&copagenum=1&coentrypage=search

Hope this helps.
kim:)

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i have blskc heads on the side of my nose that arent noticable but how can i get rid of them? what are some good blackhead treatments that work?

I GOT THIS FROM A WEBSITE: sounds like itll work pretty darn well.


http://www.cosmeticscop.com/learn/article.asp?PAGETYPE=ART&REFER=SKIN&ID=71


REMOVING BLACKHEADS: This isn't a pretty topic, but it is a fact of life and human nature that just leaving a blemish or blackhead alone is almost impossible. Fortunately, gently removing a blackhead or blemish with light-handed squeezing can actually help the skin. Removing the stuff inside a blackhead or especially a pimple relieves the pressure and reduces further damage. Yes, squeezing can be detrimental to the skin, but how you squeeze determines whether you inflict harm. If you oversqueeze, pinch, scrape the skin with your nails, or press too hard, you are absolutely doing more damage than good. Gentle is the key word and, when done right, squeezing with minimal pressure is the best, if not only, way to clean out a blackhead or blemish.

How not to over-squeeze? Although I never recommend steaming the face (heat can cause spider veins to surface and create irritation), a tepid to slightly warm compress over the face can help soften the blackhead or blemish, making removal easier. First, wash your face with a water-soluble cleanser. Pat the skin dry, then place a slightly warm, wet cloth over your face for about 10 to 15 minutes. Once that's done, pat the skin dry again, then using a tissue over each finger to keep you from slipping and tearing the skin, apply even, soft pressure to the sides of the blemish area, gently pressing down and then up around the lesion. Do this once or twice only. If nothing happens, that means the blemish cannot be removed, and continuing will bruise the skin, risk making the infection or lesion worse, and cause scarring. Again, only use gentle pressure, protect your skin by using tissue around your fingers, and do not over-squeeze





kim:)

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My friend really likes this one guy, but I talked to his friend about it and he told me that his friend really didn't like her that much. She REALLY really likes him, and I don't want her to get hurt. Should I tell her?

yes you should tell her. It will hurt her but its better then letting her to continue to have feelings for this guy. If you dont tell her she will continue to gain feelings for him & then if she finds out later on the she will be even more hurt.


hope this helps
kim:)

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i know this is really random, but what are push-up bras?? sorry, i just need to know

Its a bra that has 2 wire bars on the bottom of the cups & padding that give push that breats up.

kim:)

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how do you get a guy to notice you??...there's this guy i really like but i dont really know when guys like me or like me back...guys just dont come up to me and ask me out... so how do i get this guy to like realize i exist..and how do i know a guy likes me.. and how do i start an relationship..please help...thanks

love &&hearts

You can easily let him know you exist. Talk to him be his friend && hang out with him. When a guy likes you he will usually flirt with you. or just up & tells you. You have to get to know the guy before you can start a relationship first. You need to start a friendship. Let him know you like him. he doesnt have to be the one to make the first move.

if you have anymore questions leave on in my inbox.
kim:)

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I have a couple scars from deep cuts and they're really embarrassing and gross. I was wondering if anyone knew any products that fade scars or any ways that I could disguise/hide/get rid of them. I would really appreciate any advice. Thanks so much.

You can try using Cocoa butter lotion. & they have mederma scar care. You can also go to any drug store Or any place that has a pharmacy & ask to speak to a pharmacist & he can recommend a certain product.


hope this helps
kim:)

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