My friend really likes this one guy, but I talked to his friend about it and he told me that his friend really didn't like her that much. She REALLY really likes him, and I don't want her to get hurt. Should I tell her?
caramella answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 5:03 am: I think you should talk to your freinds boyfreind and get to the point.Tell him,look do you really like my freind or not,if you dont then just frikin tell me and stop getting her hopes up that you like her.If he tells you,then you should tell your freind.But her boyfreinds freind that you talked to could be lying to get them to break up so he can go for your freind,so you never know untill youve heard from her boyfreind himself.Its better of your freind hearing from you then HIM.Itll hurt alot more if he told her. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
ifonlytheskywasgreen answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 2:49 am: The one thing that you should never do is get involved in your friends love lives. It never ends up good. Best advice is to let them actually talk and meet, and have them figure it out for themselves. Plus, he could have just told his friend he didn't like her much cause he was afraid to. If he gets to know her, he may like her. So encourage your friend to talk to him, get to know him, and have her find out for herself. [ ifonlytheskywasgreen's advice column | Ask ifonlytheskywasgreen A Question ]
HeavensAngel01 answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 2:39 am: well don't talk to his friend talk to him wun on wun and if he likes her then they live happily ever after and if he does'nt tell her the truth first be like so and so umm....the guy is'nt for yu because if he was the guy for yu he wud like yuu but he is'nt intrested meaning he ain't worth it and missing out on a great girl like yuu..and that will make her feel better atleast.. [ HeavensAngel01's advice column | Ask HeavensAngel01 A Question ]
babiigirl answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 2:04 am: yes you should tell her. It will hurt her but its better then letting her to continue to have feelings for this guy. If you dont tell her she will continue to gain feelings for him & then if she finds out later on the she will be even more hurt.
lilteacup answered Tuesday August 15 2006, 1:50 am: Definitely!
Think of a couple different scenarios...the guy she likes may tell her and end up completely crushing her.
If you don't tell her...she will keep having false hopes.
Someone else may tell her and tell her in a harsh way.
Coming from a friend, I think is best. Because you care enough for her not to want to hurt her, so you will tell her in a gentle way. Also, then you will be a pillar for her when she does feel bad about it.
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