Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love?
definitely. a lot of people don't think it's probable, but it's definitely possible. you're never too young to be in love, just too young to be able to deal with the consequences.
best of luck
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Hi Guys, Last week I broke up with my girl friend. We enjoyed sex a lot and I have become habitual to sex. Now the first need for me is to find out a girl who are more interested in romance/sex. How can I do it. Please suggest.
don't do that, the girl is gonna wanna deck you for using her. just so you know.
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i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me?
because they're dumb and believe the stereotypes that the cheerleaders are easy. that, and the cheerleaders are constantly in front of the student body, so the guys have no choice but to notice them. best advice: get involved. you'll meet tons of new people and then more guys'll notice ya! best of luck chica
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well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?
umm.... which ever one you like more, go for it... but be sure his friend wasn't using you as a hook up i suppose. it'll all work out and you'll end up with the one you're supposed to be with, just follow your heart and make it less complicated.
best of luck
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im 13-f i have a bf and i luv him its just we've been going out since summer and i know i shouldn't have done this but i've gone really far with him but my friend likes me soooooooooooo much and i sorta like him to. the thing is he has a gf but he said he'll break up with her for me! but i dont want him to because i dont want to break up with my bf. i cant decide who i like better but i've known my bf for 2 years now and i went out with him in 6th grade and in 7th but now since im in 8th grade i sort of want a knew bf because i've known him so long........im really confused about what to do....help please! thnx
follow your heart... it knows best! if you like your friend more, go for it, but know that his current gf will be heartbroken that he left her for someone else.
best of luck
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So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.
But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.
He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our best to stay friends and avoid awkwardness, and forcing people to choose sides.
So I'm still around him all the time, and every time I see him or talk to him, I'm just reminded of all the reasons I fell in love with him and everything that I've lost. It just sends me spiralling into sadness all over again.
But he's helped me so much with so many things. He brightens my day, and he's a genuinely good person. I don't blame him at all for what happened. I can't bear to lose him completely, but how else can I get these thoughts and feelings out of my head?!
they'll leave of their own accord, it's just going to take time. maybe you'll find a guy that's even better for you. afterall, if he wasn't the one for you and you still thought he was perfect, imagine how amazing it's going to be when you find the one that really is forever. best of luck chica, it's just gonna take a while
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i met this guy the otehr nioght and we totally clicked. we're really into each other. only one problem i look older than i am so he though i was 19 and he looks younger than he is so i thought he was 18. turns out i'm 15 and hes 23. hes really cute and nice and funny and i know people are thinking omg hes a prev but the thing is i never fall for anyone. i havent met a erson in ages whose even made me look twice but i keep having all these dreams about him and i get butterflies everytime i think of him. it feels like this is the one time i could be happy and i feel like the only thing about me thats acutially 15 is my age the rest of me is older. what do i do?
keep him as a friend i guess... i mean, EIGHT YEAR AGE DIFFERENCE! it's not exactly legal if y'all choose to do anything. it seems like you're mature for your age, so i'd try maybe a few years age difference to try and find a more mature guy... eight years is just too much. best of luck
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hey okay so i have a question. okay so i met this guy a couple of weeks ago. i was a bit drunk, he was a little drunk, and we ended up hooking up- only made out. i said to him at the time, okay so is this going to be a random hook up or are you actually going to call me and he said no im going to call you i really am. so skip some a week later he calls me and says he do you want to hang out. of course i did but i couldnt. so yah. so we have been talking and stuff but im worried he is just looking for a hook up.. and that isnt wat im looking for. we are hanging out next weekend and just watching scary movies and stuff- should i just wait till then to figure it out...? he is just so hard to read i cant tell!
i'd wait til then to figure it out... or you could always ask him again, when he isn't tipsy.
best of luck
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im friends with all these guys and when im around them they always tickle me but sometimes it isnt in the right spot like either right under my breasts or where my hips are...i told them 2 stop and they listened and all but when i was with this one guy lets call him bob. well i was talking to bob and we were talking about sex and i felt really comfortable with him but then next thing i know we're at his house and we start making out.... i dont have a bf so it dosnt matter but at first we were in his car and then we went to the family room and sat on the couch i told him that i like him and he said u only like me and im like yea and he said well i love you i stoped talking and i was sorta scared but then i kissed him and said i love you too. i took his hand and asked him where his room was but when we were walking we were kissing and all but when we made it too his room my pants were already off and his shirt was off but right when he was gonna turn the doorknob we found his friends and i ran in the family room bob came back out and he said he really didnt know they were there and i said ok but now all my guy friends look at me different because they have seen my ass and shit bc i was wearing a thong and when im around them they always ask me dosnt it hurt and sometimes they mean with the thong or sex
i need to know how to make them shut up!!!
HELP!
THANX
tell them that they better have enjoyed the view while they saw it because they're definitely not gonna be seeing it again.
they're just bitter because they're not fortunate enough to be getting any. it'll all blow over soon. in the mean time, have fun with the guy who loves you, that's awesome!
best of luck.
p.s. maybe he can help get them to shush
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Well there's this guy,Ben and I used to like him and I dont anymore but I still get jealous when he talks about his girl or when he hangs all over my sister Joanna who he totally likes and its so easy to tell that. But my sister never liked him,plus she is two years older then him so I thought she would never go for him. Also Ban is Jerrys best friend and Jerry is Joannas ex-fiance, they still like each other and still talk as friends and I dont know why they arent together but thats not what this is about. Joanna told me she would never go for Ben because she knew it would hurt Jerry. But last night I went to the fair with Joanna, Ben, Tephy(who is really good friends with both Ben and Joanna and is Jerrys sister) and her boyfriend Ashton. And Joanna and Ben went off alone A LOT and they were acting wierd around each other and were holding hands which wasnt too wierd because Ben does that all the time with her and Tephy, but it was different this time. I talked to Tephy about it and she thinks something is going on too so I know its not just me. What I need help with is how to talk to Joanna about this bothering me and how I think its wrong. Plz somebody help me. By the Way,I am a 16 year old girl,my sister is 17, and Ben is 15.
hmmm... are ya sure you don't still like him?
if you do, it'd make the conversation with your sister so much easier.
if not, then try telling her that you think it'd be a really uncomfortable situation because the lives of you, ben, her, and jerry are so intertwined, and if anything negative were to happen it would affect everyone.
best of luck
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do?
i'd say no if i were you, you're obviously not willing to get past his appearance, no matter how "sweet & nice" he is... don't worry about it tho... if he's as nice as you say he is, he'll get over it... but please, when you think a guy is sweet and nice, don't base your opinions of him on his appearance, how would you like it if that happened to you?
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13/F. A guy told me I had a hairy upper lip, and that I should shave it, but if I shave it, the hair is gonna grow darker, and make look like a man. My mom says I am too young to have a laser hair removal, and that I should have it when I am 18. This makes me soo mad! IDK WHAT TO DO! Please help!
waxing's an option, try to tweeze the dark ones i guess...
best of luck
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Hi...ok...Me and this guy started liking each other cuz he's good friends with my friend's b/f(if u get that)but anywayz...I usually go for the wigger type of guys but he's not even close to that.He skateboards.Anywayz...he writes me notes at school all the time and we walk to class together all the time and everybody thinks were goin out.Hes everything a girl could ask for...nice,sweet,funny.Hes SO sweet to me.He writes me sweet stuff that almost makes me cry and he is very funny.He will say anything to get me to laugh.But..theres a problem...I'am not happy.I dont know why I'am not but I'am not.I REALLY do like him and want to be with him but I'am just not happy.Do u have any idea why I wouldnt be?Its weird.Write back ASAP!
don't worry about the usual "type" that you go for, there's no reason to date based on them, after all, they do eventually disappear and it's basically one big type of guys in the world.
maybe you're unhappiness has nothing to do with him, or maybe you're kinda upset that it's not official... it truly sounds like you like him sooo much, so i'd try making it officially dating, and see how it goes from there, maybe you're just worried subconsciously or something
best of luck
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Ok hi my name is ashlee and im 13 years old. Anyways I really would like to wear makeup and stuff like that but i have a little acne. Its going away now because I just started using my acne medication right. Bad on my part I know. Wouldnt it look bad if there was like little bumps in the makeup though? What is the best foundation or powder that wont cause you to break out? Also, I've noticed alot of people having Coach bags and Gucci bags and dont they cost alot of money? Is there like some place where they dont cost alot that I dont know about? Thanks. Also I would like an honest opinion. I will rate high if I feel that you have tried.
alrighty, the best kinds to use are the ones that are oil free, it'll say it on 'em... and i know sometimes it seems like it'll look weird to have a few bumps, but it does take away redness, so it doesn't look too weird. just blend lots!
as for the bags... there's a good chance they're not real... or that they were birthday presents
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i'm a freshmen in HS, i have this huge crush on this sophmore. He's not in any of my classes but i see him in the hallways alot. My friends think i should ask him, but i shy and wouldnt know what to say. what should i do? please help!
go for it! the worst that could happen is that he'll say no... in which case, he's not in any of your classes, so it wouldn't be totally awkward... don't worry about the grade thing, everyone knows grade levels don't matter as much in hs
best of luck
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i really like my best friend hes really nice oh yea im a 13-f and he is 13-m hes like 4months younger than me but the thing is i like him so much and when we are alone we snuggle and stuff but i have a bf and when my bf found out from someone that we are doing this then my bf punched him! i slapped my bf across the face and i went to my best friend i told him how i felt but he just looked at me like i was a freak! but now when i talk to him and we snuggle we are a little more closer!! im sorta happy but i got really mad bc my EXbf now punched him and whenever i walk by my ex he either says sorry and he wants me back and he would be all touchy feely but i dont know if i should ask my best friend out? bc i dont think he really wants to have a gf but we were talking about this and he said he didnt exactly feel the same way i do but he told one of my close guy friends that he didnt know about that he likes me alot but wants to ask me out but dosnt know if i still like him
how can i show him that i still like him alot?!?!?
signed,
CONFUSED
give it a lil time, if ya get even closer, go for it, what's the worst that could happen? whatever you answered to that, it doesn't matter, because the best that could happen is you two could fall for each other and be together and be really happy. i bet the best wins.
best of luck
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ok, my really good friend cuts herself and she takes pills that she don't know what are. She only does it for attention...but EVERYBODY tells her to stop. The only way she is going to stop is if somebody tells someone....I want to tell but I don't want everybody to be like "ohhhh, Tia Told. She's a tattletale.." but I want to tell..I KNOW it's the RIGHT thing to do...she's going to wind up killing herself...WHAT SHOULD I DO???
COUNSELING! now! tell someone, please! have it be anonymous. send a note, an email, carrier pigeon, anything.
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i've been getting my period since april 04 and i got it on the 24th for april may june july and august. i didnt get it september but octor 2nd. now its november 5th and i still didnt get it. this is really messed up! what do i do because i dont know when to expect it and i'm sick of wearing dark jeans all the time. thx-very self conscious
it normally takes a few years to get a period to be regular. you can wear other colors, just wear a pad so no leaks or anything....
best of luck
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Well, yesterday my best friend Rachael came over, and my crush Paul came over too. We all sat around watching movies and then Rachael goes, I'm in the mood to make-out with somebody, so she makes out with Paul 2 times!!! I was sitting right there too! She knows I like him and she just did it right there I got so pissed, and shes like dude jess your a stalker so she walked into the kitchen and they were holding hands n like his hands were on her hips as she was looken at me sayen "don't look jess" so i was like wtf whatever so i sat there with the mute on the tv cuz i didn't know how to react, they walk in and then i jus got so pissed i had to call my BESTEST FRIEND courtney and when i did, she had her phone off so i had no one to talk to. i was sitten on the computer talken to some people and then rachael stands up.. and walks into the dining room with her pants unbuttoned and i was like oh my god and she went to the bathroom i then flippen out on paul and when they left rachael said bye jess n i shut the door on her. you'd be mad too right? or do u think im just overreacting?
o dear god, i think if my friend had done that to me there woulda been a cat fight. you had good reason to be mad. sheesh. what a horrible friend. i actually don't see why you put up with it for all that time. why not kick her out sooner? bah! she's a bad friend, bad!
best of luck
p.s. make sure you don't let this screw things up with other friends
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im 14/m and i am in love with this girl. she used to like me a lot and then she said over a few days she started having mixed feelings. she had liked me like a week after she started going out with my friend and she dumped him but didnt say why or something like that. i told her she was beautiful and that i love her. we have mostly similar common interests. we have made out and stuff and we were very close. at homecoming during the last slow song i asked her out..she she doesnt know and the next day she said she doesnt like me anymore..that was like a month ago and now she likes this sophomore who i think is using her. she told me one of the reasons she didnt like me anymore was she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend..i saw the guy she likes today and i was thinking WTF!?! you can picture him but not me....i know more about her than anyone and i am in love with her. i think about her all day and i found out on halloween night that she had snuck out with the guy and went to a park and made out for a few hours and on monday he gave her a bunch of hickeys and made out and everything and it keeps running through my head...ever since homecoming i have been depressed and i just wish she liked me still, my friends tell me she will but i dont believe them, i always thought that a guy who treats a girl like gold and devotes all of his time to her and everything was exactly what a girl wants..sorry this has been so long...answer and ill tell you the rest if you want to hear..if you do say yes in the beginning of your answer AND PLEASE HELP ME I AM SO CONFUSED..I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO
you sound like an amazing guy. the best thing you can do is to be there for her. if the things she's doing with the soph get out of hand, tell her you're worried about her. but if you're too intrusive into her life she'll just think you're a busybody. so just be there for her if she needs to talk to someone. maybe she just needs a fling because she's afraid of getting into something deep with you.
when things with the soph come crashing down, it's a lot better to be the friends that's there in the end to lean on than to be the guy she used to like but drifted away from because she felt like he was pushing her too much into a relationship.
best of luck
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