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Hi...ok...Me and this guy started liking each other cuz he's good friends with my friend's b/f(if u get that)but anywayz...I usually go for the wigger type of guys but he's not even close to that.He skateboards.Anywayz...he writes me notes at school all the time and we walk to class together all the time and everybody thinks were goin out.Hes everything a girl could ask for...nice,sweet,funny.Hes SO sweet to me.He writes me sweet stuff that almost makes me cry and he is very funny.He will say anything to get me to laugh.But..theres a problem...I'am not happy.I dont know why I'am not but I'am not.I REALLY do like him and want to be with him but I'am just not happy.Do u have any idea why I wouldnt be?Its weird.Write back ASAP!
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don't worry about the usual "type" that you go for, there's no reason to date based on them, after all, they do eventually disappear and it's basically one big type of guys in the world.
maybe you're unhappiness has nothing to do with him, or maybe you're kinda upset that it's not official... it truly sounds like you like him sooo much, so i'd try making it officially dating, and see how it goes from there, maybe you're just worried subconsciously or something
best of luck
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Hi Sweetie,
God that sucks... having the sweetest guy ever have the cutest crush on you ever and not being able to be happy with him...
Well there's sooo many reasons you couldn't be happy with him. It could have to do with your pasT relatioship(s)... or just someone you liked a lot... maybe you're not over something or someone. Or it could be that you just see him as a friend.
Usually (well in the stories I've witnessed and been told... and occasional slightly similar situations I've been through) the guy ends up heart broken and later on the guy moves on and then the girl starts developing feelings for that guy... who's now just her best friend... Well it probably won't happen to you but either way you could make a small effort to see if there might be hidden feelings you could find ahead of time (before its too late).
Maybe you can hang out with him once... just the two of you... and talk (REALLY talk... have a deep conversation) and... try to see if you could see him as anything rather than a friend. Don't push yourself either... you don't want to lead him on or anything.
Well I do wish you the best wishes. Both you and this guy (...who sounds reallly cute and sweet which makes him CUTER ...) Remember that if this guy really likes you he too just wants you to be happy. Even if its with some other guy... I do wish you find happiess. ~Blessed Be...
(if I didn't quite answer your question or you'd like to add something or ask something else feel free to leave me another message here or email me at cath@iamwasted.com ~Blessed Be...)
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well are you not happy just in general? or are you just not happy with him? because if you're not happy with yourself and everything around you then your "boyfreidn" may make things either worse or better.. worse by giving you more stress or something else to wory about (making you more miserable).. OR be a joyous thing that turns your life around. if that's the case then it's up to you to decide which would be the end result.. i don't know teh guy and you so i can't really help you pick which outcome would happen.. BUT if you are just not happy with HIM in that sense then it's ok.. you might have some maybe commitment issues or you're just not ready for a boyfreind right now.. wait things out and see how it turns out. if you get happier with him maybe then give it a shot. if not then its best to just stay friends.
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