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ok .. sorry if this is confusing but i am lydia(14 yrs. old) and my sister(15 yrs. old) is brittany. there is this guy name jason(13 yrs. old). Well last summer i was goin out with josh(14 yrs. old) (jasons friend) and jason liked my sister. When me and josh broke up, jason started liking me. Jason has liked me for like 4 months. But then a couple of weeks ago, he started liking my sister again. I think i like him and last night i asked him if he liked my sister and he said yea. Then later on last night, i was like "jason, i like you." then said i was just kiddin. About 10 minutes later, he asked me was i serious about liking him and i said "why, do you want me to like you or something?" and he tped "no comment". I didnt know what he meant. Should i take that as a yes he wants me to like him, or a no? whenever i say no comment i mean yes. So i dont know what to think. someone please help me!!! ohh yea, and last night jason asked me if i still liked josh and i said yes so i think he got a little mad.
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I am not sure, I got what you were trying to ask, but if you ask him face to face and you see his expression..it can tell you a lot more then what he said on-line by the "no comment" thing. On my theory it sounds like he is shy to amitt it and jealous and annoyed that you said you liked Josh.
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When i wash my hair the day after it gets really greesy! any ideas what i can do to make it not ask greesy or not at all?
thanks a bunch
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try switching shampoo's I get it as well..so I switched to shampoo's and all. Sorry I know it wasnt the best.
OK, well there is this guy who i really really like and he has a gf. I really like him and i want him and his recent gf to break up really bad. Should i tell him i like him or just wait to see what happens?
I think you should wait to see what happens and then tell him. Sorry I know it wasnt the best.
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i got my period for the first time about 1 year, and 8 months ago. I haven't had it very many times since. i get it like every 2 or 3 months? i heard that body weight has something to do with it and some sites tell me that im "emaciated" and stuff like that, but i eat, have a fast matabolism, and im active. do you think this is why my period is irregular? ps im like 5'6 and 105, i think. thankss
Hey, Dont worry. Your just starting to start out. Your body is still getting used to it. Lots of girls periods are irregular its prefectly normal. It's just the way you are! You're fine. The first few years, are a lil hastle because your body is adjusting to the change as your body comes from being a baby...to a young child..to a pre-teen...to a teenage...to a young adult..to a mature adult...then when you hit 50 or 60 it all ends. It's fine. Don't worry so much about it. If you feel uncomfrontable then ask an older female friend or relative, or go see a doctor.
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I'm a fifteen year old female. I used to go out with this kid, Jake. He and I always had fun, but I thought he cheated on me, so I broke up with him. He told me he didn't, but I didn't believe him. I finally asked the girl I though he cheated with, and she was really surprised that I would think that. So I was wrong, and I was really mean to him. I got an email from him saying sorry for making me think that, and that he still really liked me. I feel like such a jerk, and I still really like him too! What should I do?
I say give him a 2nd chance if he asks u back out and also be careful on the siginals.
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My best friend since 5th grade (we're Jr. now) recently started dating this girl. Well, we live next door to each other and she was over at his house this morning. I was in my backyard and they were in his. I over heard her tell him that she doesn't want him hanging out with me anymore. I didn't hear what he said back. Should I ask him about it or wait until he brings it up?
sounds like this girl as some issues she has to starighten out, and also sounds like some jealously as well is accuring..i think u should talk to him about what you heard...if he was a good BFF then he wouldnt ruin your friendship that has gone on for 6 years just bc of his gf said so
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How old do you think you should be when you lose your virginity?
whenever you are ready, but i have to disagree with those who said "15-17" you should do it in your early 20's or so...you dont want to get pregent by a broken condom...and having to drop out of school to support the child and have your b.f. leave u..and have your rents mad at you
sorry buts its true
Me and this guy were fuxkin and he put "it" in me and it hurt too bad so he took "it" out .. am i a virgin or not?
sorry your not anymore
if you have fake boobs,fake nose,died hair does that mean your fake??? because people have been saying i look fake??????? but you have to be that way whn your a porn star right?!??! help!
my theory of being a fake person...is whats in the inside..what is not what shows on the outside...a fake person would be a person who lies and a person who isnt there for when theyre friends need a shoulder to cry on.
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ok...all my friends have their boyfriends and all this stuff and they always want 2 do something with them and it makes me really upset to see them all have someone they like except me. Everytime they ask me to do something with all of them i will say mmm.... im not sure! and they will get mad at me...
how can i tell them so they wont get mad at me??
Just tell them the truth
Sorry, but the best thing to do is to tell the truth. If they get mad over the truth they aren't that real of friends.
okay so i am and only child and im am the total opposite of spoiled! if ne thing im way over protected! my parents are really tight! and they wont let me do n e thing! im 14 and im goin out with this boy but i dont kno how to tell my parents.. i mean they kno that i like this boy and he likes me but how can i get them to let me go out with him? or like just atleast hang out with himout of school? i get good grades and im honest with them and they trust me and i deserve to b able to have more privalages! how can i just explain to them that everyone has a boyfriends when your my age and that most of them are allowed to go out on a date with them?
I am not sure what to tell you, but all I can say is that your not the only one. I am the youngest of 3 girls and I am not allowed to date till I am 16, which is a year away for me. I know its hard for parents to let there kids to grow up specially if your the only child (such like you) or your the youngest (such like me). Maybe you can try acting as if your really close friends or whatever, for me I have been to the movies before with guys like 3 times. Once it was 2 of my closest friends and me..and then once it was one of best friends (who was a girl) n then one of the guys I went with the 1st time. My parents allowed it since there was 3 of us and they didnt aspect anything...(yet we only went as friends) so try maybe a movie thing? like 3, 4 or 5 ppl?
Sorry it wasn't much help but its the best I could give.
We recentley got rid of my beloved pet, Mac. He was a yellow lab, 6months old and like 154 pounds. i loved hime so much and whenever i think about him or ee pics of him i start to cry. How can i get over this?
I can feel your pain...before I was born my mom had a dog and she got really sick to the point that when I was 7 she had to be put to sleep, I remember sitting on the kitchen floor with my dog and my mom crying, knowing when I come home from school that day that she won't be there for me to play with. Eventually I learned to move on, we had gotten another dog which I didn't like much so we got rid of him..then had gotten another dog a month l8r....I love that dog and she is great till this day she is almost 10 years old and I see she'll be gone in a year and 2..3 years l8r after getting her we got another dog...now that we have 2...the youngest one we have...somewhat reminds me of the one that was put to sleep when I was 7..she fun, adorable and cute..I know I'll be in tears when she is gone as well, I try not remember, but I know its hard to lose a pet you love. So I suggest talking to your parents and getting a new animal. It doesn't have to be a dog it can be a cat or a bird. I hope I helped, if you need anything you can just drop one in, I'm open to anything.
is there anyway you can dely your period but in a healthy way? cuz im goin on a trip next weekend and my period is planned to come around then! how can i cope with this?
I agree with fabolouzxkay8 there is no way to delay your period in a healthy way. There are pills but I think it's to late to do it now. As what she said keep reminding yourself that there have been other girls who have gotten their period when they were on vaca..for me example..as much as I hated it when I was in Florida last year (this exact date actually) I had mine, yeahh it was hell, but I didn't let it ruin my vacation away from home. Try to pretend it's not there and that you don't have it at all. (just don't forget to wear a pad or a tampon...that part u have to remember!! lol) and just have a good time
I hope you have a good time
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Is there any way that you can have a pretty background on a xanga site without having to pay? I know there is a way, but i just don't know how to do it! Thanks!
yeah, i have it just go to google or whatever and look for one u like, save it go and upload it onto your xanga. its as that! All you really need to do is go to your Private Xanga page. Click on Look and Feel then I think it is on the bottom or somewhere near there it says "Add a Background Image and Music to your site" (I think). Type in your URL of your background or picture into the "Background Image" section.
whats your xanga name?
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DO FORGET TO SAVE YOUR CHANGES!! lol
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Heyy. Well when I was 10 I guess you could have called what I had a boyfriend, but ever since I came to middle school no one has liked me. Ive liked alot of guys but they never seem to like me back, except at the beggining of 6th grade. Supposedly, after I liked this guy he liked me back, but he asked me out through his friend (a girl) and I kind of realized that if I told her I still liked him that she would tell everyone. Because she's like that. So I told her I didnt, and I found out this year from my other friend that she over-heard them talking and that he was asking me out! Now I feel kind of left out, because at my school, if you've gone out with one person, or if someone likes you and everyone knows about it, your kind of in the relationship phonebook-ish thing.. without the phone number part lol. And now after all of the guys ive liked I really dont think i have a chance with anyone! One of the guys ive liked ive barely even said a word to and its amazingly weird around him now. The other one im kinda friends with but others i dunno.. its just really difficult. All of my friends are hooking up and everything and i havent even had a real relationship. Can you please give me advice!! Any kind of advice would really really help.
thanks!
ps. im 12/f
ok i can see what your going threw...your in middle school you have your whole life to have a boyfriend..so just next it little by little..just because your friend have bf's or whatever doesn't mean you need one! i know it wasn't the best advice...but its also the the most true advice
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Is it normal for girls to have there period for 2 days.
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Yeah it is completely normal, especially if you're just starting. So don't worry about it!
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Hey im 14 and i have never had a boyfriend(i kno it is pathetic but thats the way it is). Well there is this boY at school that i really like. We talk sometimes but not much. I wanna tell him how i fell but i dont kno if i should and if i shold then how would i tell him.If i do tell him i dont want him to feel weird around me if he dosent like me back. PLEASEE HELP ME IF YOU CAN!
ok im 14 almost 15 as of next month, i never had a boyfriend either so it is NOT pathetic! I told my friend that I liked him and he was happy that I told him, we don't act weird or anything around each other..I may seem a little afaird when I talk to him or when I'll see him tomorrow maybe..But just act like yourself and tell him, maybe in a small note or a little poem or have a friend tell him. Good luck
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I know that this doesnt go under the category of sex but anyways, I just measured and found that my rib size is 33 inches, I looked in my puberty book and it only goes to 30-31 inches(it says that 30-31 inches is 36), so what would 33 inches be. If it helps, I am a AA cup
im not sure..ask an older female or a lady who works in the bra dept? lol sry i know i wasnt much help
my friends stepdad molested her last night and i dont no what to do. i no i NEED to be there for her. and her mom said that if they cant find another house to buy they are moving over an hour away. which means i will probably never see her again. she is like my best friend. someone please help me. it has just hit me that i might not ever talk to her again. someone please help. i have been crying a lot...
ok 1- calm down
2- talk to her on-line and on the phone
3- my friend moved about 45 minutes away and i really cant see her much i just saw her for the 1st time last month since the last day of school.
figure a game plan where you guys can see each other on the weekends maybe go to the others every other weekend and stay all 3 days or something ...like drive there on friday after school n do hw in the car or such n come back home on sundays.
you just gotta think possitive on how u guys can see each other..one of my 2 friends who moved out of state n i are 8 hours away and i found out Hershey, PA is our half point where there is 4 hours and 35 mins to there both ways, so next time we could meet there instead of drivin 8 hours to see the other person....
JUST THINK POSITIVE!
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I have Microsoft Works Word Processor, and I was wondering how to double space my writing? Thanks so much.
I have it too. umm..not sure yet...just hit the TAB button next to the Q and enter at the same time and it double spaces i think. you may have to hit it twice after your done writing. I havent conquered Microsoft Works yet so I'm not sure, if you find out please tell! lol