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Hi, My name is Bailey. I am 15, and I know that is young, but I think I can offer good advice, or at least try my hardest.


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im 17 male 5'7" weight 130 lb.'s its it ok for my age cause i look realy skinny how can i gain weight i eat a lot fat foods but don't gain weight. can some one give tips.

Sounds like you have a really fast matabalism(sp?), but I know some guy friends of mine who are just like that. Some of the things they did was not necessarily eat fat foods, but eat foods high in protein, and work out wich put a lot of muscle weight on.

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I have a question on MSN i removed the newer version of msn off my computer and then i thought it was all said and done and then someone said hey to me on the older version of msn and I can't find the icon or toolbar for MSN anywhere on my computer. Its not on the add or remove programs list either. Has anyone else had this problem or can someone help me please?

I had the same thing happen to me, the old MSN is automatically installed in your internet browser. So if you open up your internet you see the two MSN men or whatever they are, I am sorry I don't know how to get rid of it, I am trying to figure it out myself, but that is probably where it is located.

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I like this guy... and he likes me. yeah. makes sense. were like... together- but I just like.. LIKE LIKE him, but he's obsessed with me. He likes me more than i like him. is that bad? or.. well. he kinda just wants to get more involved right now more than i do. like... well. im just fine being simply 'together'. he wants to get into all of the LOVE life kind of deal. how do i deal with it?

Sounds like he is looking for the more serious type of relationship and you are not, and you NEED to tell him that. Because if he is starting to like you that much, then it will completely break his heart if he finds out that is not what you are looking for in a relationship. So I think you either need to talk to him a bit, and tell him to slow down, or just take a break if you are not wanting a serious relationship.

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i been with my gf for 2 months and she says she loves me. i told her its not love, we are getting 2 know each other love will deverlope if we meant 4 each other, time will say so. was that right?

You did not specify your age, or any other details so I am just going to go by what you have said. It sounds like you are completely right on what you said. Love is deffinately something that takes time, and so many people just say it without really meaning it. She may think she loves you, but really it may just be that she really likes you and she is just really happy. So I don't think you should discourage her from saying it, but if you do not think it is the appropriate time to say it back, then don't. But, it really sounds like you said the right thing to her. I mean there is no right or wrong there, but it sounds like you know what you are talking about.

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ok i am an athiest i have read many things supportin the exsitence nad nonexstence of god. I was just curious as to why people believe so strongly in a religion or a single god.

I am an athiest as well, but I have really tried to look at religions and see why people believe in them. What I have learned is that it is something to live for. Especially in the after death. Because I am not sure what your views are on death, but for me I believe that there is nothing. We just die, and there is nothing more. That is a scary thought, so I think that people search for something that will happen so their life wasn't a "waste," and that they will either go to a better place, or come back as somthing else, or whatever else.I think that is one of the reasons for belief.

Another is just the fact that it gives you morals, and I guess "rules" to live by. Some people have trouble with making rules for themselves, so when they have something like a religion it is just a set of morals to live by that is set.

Now those are just some things I have kind of come up with, and I am an athiest so those are just some thoughts I have come up with from being around people of different religions and such.

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My friend collects model horses (like the plastic ones, etc). I'm fine with it, but I'm just curious to know what people think about it. What are your opinions?

That is fine...is she emberassed with it? Is that why you are asking?...Well I don't know many people who do collect that, so that is cool that she has a hobby that a lot of people don't have, makes her unique. So that is totally cool.

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ok there used to be this movie on disney channel, i think it was wish upon a star or something ? idk, but anyway,it was about 2 sisters who wished they switched places and they did, etc.
well could someone tell me the name of it, and since its NEVER on tv anymore, can you rent it ?
thanks

You are right it is called "Wish Upon A Star", when I was litte I loved that movie! And it is avaiable to buy and rent.

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I've been known lose my temper easily, usually with me ending up slapping someone in the face. Usually it only happens once a week where I'll just get really angry over something stupid that wouldn’t have mattered the day before. I take my anger out on guys usually (I'm a girl) I'm wondering if I have bi polar (sp?) since I can be totally fine one second and out of control the nest. My mom thinks I need a consular since she thinks I'm "Angry all the time" and "Depressed" but I’m not sure what to think. Any ideas? Btw, I’m 14

It really does not sound like you are bipoalar. It sounds like you may have possible anger issues, or just other pychological things you need to sort through. So you should deffinately seek proffesional help. But really it does not sound like you are bipolar.

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i was just wondering if you can give me any advice on a good place to take a girl out on a first date. which would be better,the movies or the mall. if a movie what one would be the best. if the mall what oculd i do there.

I think going to dinner and then a movie is a good idea. Because it will allow for you guys to get to know eachother, and have fun at the same time!

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well i used to like this guy named *ray and well i wrote him a letter sayin he was cute then my best guy friend went up to him and asked ray if he like me he said:oh yeah i know who she is, shes cute. then later by 2nd semester i had him for 4th pd. we said our occ. "hey" or "wassup" but we never talked to each other.. his best friend would only ask about me. then later i find he has been tryin to hook up with this girl name *dana and now they're boyfriend and g/f, thwy've been goin out for 2 weeks now. does he sound like he ever liked me? or not.? and also i think his younger brother is cute, would it be wrong to hit on his brother? & no, i'm not tryin to make him jealous,when i 1st saw them both i both said they were cute.p.s. im kinda scared that ray might be mad if i start to take a hit on his brother.?

What it sounds like is Ray may have liked you, but he was too shy to approach you about it, so he went out with another girl instead. And it would not be wrong to hit on his younger brother, because Ray didnt make a move on you, so you can move on. If he is a decent person at all he most likely wont get mad about you being with his brother, probably just jealous. So, ya I think you should deffinately go for Ray's litte brother!
Good Luck, and let me know how things go!

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Hey I have to write a research paper and I have no clue what to do it on! Does anyone have any good ideas, like who are some interseting people I could do it on, or something like that... Thanks

-Henry VIII
-Helen Keller
-George Washington
-Abraham Lincoln
-Michae Phelps
-Kobe Bryant

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you have been a really great boyfriend and a relle sweet guy. im relle thankful ur part of my life. but as for our relationship, i need to be completely honest with you. i dont think its going to work out between us and i dont really see our relationship going anywhere. im really sorry, i just feel like we've reached a plateau and this is it. but we've been good friends much longer than we've been boyfriend and girlfriend and i would really like us to still be friends and i know it will be akward at first but i value our friendship and i really dont want us to stop talking and i hope we can stillbe good friends like before we were going out even though thats hard but i care about you a lot and i cant imagine not having you as a friend

Sounds good! good luck!

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ok does anyone know if L'Oreal SUBLIME GLOW Daily Moisturizer Fair Skin Tones makes you look orange? because i dont want people to think im using fake tanner and if i go from white to orange people will know so please give me you best experiences and what things work. (im very pale but i tan easily)

I have never seen a fake tanner actually make someone look like they have a real tan. They look very orange and so yes, I know that product makes you look orange because my friend used it. I would suggest going to a tanning booth, because if you tan very easily then it will be a lot better looking.

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im very lost,i lost my self!what are some ways to become original? some how i just dont feel like i am me...

First of all don't follow the crowds, be what you want and not what other people want. Go to the mall, and find some clothes that YOU like and wear those, it will make you feel better about yourself. Just do things that you know are you...Like just take a day to do stuff you enjoy...
Hope I helped!

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Im working on information about being Anprexic, so people could give me some stuff.. like links, (yes i did good, thanks.)
-What do they usally eat?
- how fast do they usally loose weight?
-whats the down effects?

First of all yes, you do decide to become anorexic...you are not born with it.

Anorexics usually do not eat anything. They starve themselves, and if they do eat food they usually throw it up, so that is bulimia. Which is when someone throws up everythig they eat.

The weight loss veries from person to person. If they are eating absolutely nothing, and not drinking a lot of water, than they will lose weight fast.

Down effects:
-look very pale and sickly
-pass out a lot
-become very frail
-your boday processes slow down
many more...
check out this site...

http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anorexia_signs_symptoms_causes_treatment.htm

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i just want to know what kind of jobs a fourteen year old can get that wont interfear with me school because i want to start saving up a little money for gifts and things that may be important. please help

-babysitting
-mowing lawns
-raking
-shoveling
-house work
-asking neighbors what they need
-grocery stores

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ahh what do i do??

Hun, dump him, if that is all he cares about then send him packing...what a jackass...

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hey well i was wondering what all u alls views were on teens (well 14 yr olds) making out? is it to young, or not? and what about not going all the way like sex but..just a little ways? i just need to know what other peoples views are on this! please please please i'll rate high!! xo thanks

Well, everything really depends on the morals, religion, and beliefs of the person. Me personally think making out is ok at 14. I mean if you are making out with your boyfriend like the second day you are going out, and constantly, than i think that is a little out of hand...

Well some people actually consider not going all the way but "fooling around," still sex. It really depends on the person. Personally I think that if you have to question weather or not you want to do it, and you dont feel 100% confident than dont do it, it is not worth it...

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okay, well my friend got fingered for the first time the other day and now she's been worrying about it. she think's that she is pregnant but i'm telling her that she can't be because it's totally impossible because she didn't have sex or anything. and she hasn't gotten her period and she's 2weeks late. i told her that i think it's because she doesn't have a regular period, because she hasn't had it for over 2years and normally that's when it starts getting regular. her boyfriend only fingered her, she didn't do anything to him so i'm really not sure what to tell her except that she isn't pregnant. what do you guys think?

PS. when she got fingered after she bled alittle, and i told her that maybe he scratched her or something because you never know.

There is no way a girl can get pregnant from getting fingered, unless he had his cum on his finger, which I am guessing wasnt the case. And she is a teenager, and periods are at an awkward stage so sometimes they dont exactly follow schedlue. And the bleeding is normal, so she shouldn't worry about it.

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okay this probably wont make sense but ill try. I can never get a bf at my school ive only had one bf that actually went to school with me and he was really the only true one i had. Its like guys dont like me at school but guys outside of school are always hittin on me nd stuff.. mainly older guys it annoys me cuz i really want a guy inside skool i like some but they only see me as a friend. whats wrong? i dont think im like hideous or anything im actually pretty cute from wut im told so whats wrong?

From what it sounds like by older guys hitting on you, you sound like you are probably pretty mature looking, and if that is the case maybe they are nervous to ask you out because they think you might be more experienced than they are. I think that if you want to date a guy from your school, you need to build up confidence and hang out with them, and if you find a guy you want to date, flirt with him, and ask him out, instead of him asking you, because most of the time guys are just to shy to ask a girl out, so they just never will. And they like the girl to make the first move.
Good Luck!

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