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i dont know what to do.
well i used to like this guy named *ray and well i wrote him a letter sayin he was cute then my best guy friend went up to him and asked ray if he like me he said:oh yeah i know who she is, shes cute. then later by 2nd semester i had him for 4th pd. we said our occ. "hey" or "wassup" but we never talked to each other.. his best friend would only ask about me. then later i find he has been tryin to hook up with this girl name *dana and now they're boyfriend and g/f, thwy've been goin out for 2 weeks now. does he sound like he ever liked me? or not.? and also i think his younger brother is cute, would it be wrong to hit on his brother? & no, i'm not tryin to make him jealous,when i 1st saw them both i both said they were cute.p.s. im <i>kinda</i> scared that ray might be mad if i start to take a hit on his brother.?
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Why should you care what Ray thinks? Obviously he doesn't care that much for you, or he wouldn't gone out with the other girl. Or he would have at least spoken to you directly. If you really want to go out with his brother, go ahead and try for it. Ray shouldn't really have anything to say about it.
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He probably did like you to begin with but if you wait too long to act on it, feelings tend to fizzle out and die. So it just sounds to me like that's what happened.
There's nothing wrong with going for his brother if you really want to. I doubt he'll be angry since you two never went out to begin with. He's got another girlfriend now anyway so I'm sure he's over it.
If it bothers you too much, you could always talk to him or a friend of his to find out what he would think about it.
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i think you should go how you feel. he might've liked you but he obviously likes this girl dana & i guess you shouldn't get involved with that. are you really friends with him?? if not then you can hang out with his brother & what not. if you are friends with them then juss tell him how you feel about his brother. i doubt he'd be mad if he has a gf & all don't you think?? so talk to him about it er if not juss go with how you feel. its your decision & you know what you feel like doing.
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What it sounds like is Ray may have liked you, but he was too shy to approach you about it, so he went out with another girl instead. And it would not be wrong to hit on his younger brother, because Ray didnt make a move on you, so you can move on. If he is a decent person at all he most likely wont get mad about you being with his brother, probably just jealous. So, ya I think you should deffinately go for Ray's litte brother!
Good Luck, and let me know how things go!
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So basically your question(s) are: 1.Did it ever seem like "ray" liked me? 2. Would it be wrong to hit on his younger brother?
Im not for sure, but if you never really talked and he never got to know you. He may not of liked you. If he thought you were cute and you guys at least made a conversation there is chance he might of.
Now for you liking his younger brother... Depends on how old. If he is like 1 or 2 years younger its not that bad. But if he is like 3-4 years younger ehh i wouldnt. If your scared he will get mad. Maybe ask him. Be like Hey ray, I know this sounds kinda akward ,but if i kind of thought your brother was cute and had a crush on him would that be allright with you? and if he says no than that solves your fears and if he says yes than dont do it.. But if you truely like this guy (rays younger brother) and ray dosent aprove. Than its either loseing a friendship or gaining a crush? Depends which one means more to you..
Sorry if i didnt say what you were completely looking for.. it took awhile to think about this. i read the question like 4 times to understand it =D
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Well maybe he did like you but I really don't know. I think it would be kind of wrong to go and hit on his brother because he might think you are trying to make him jelous but really it's your decision. But yeah then also he never really said he liked you he may have thought you were cute and also maybe he didn't know you liked him he could of thought you only thought he was cute or somthng like that.
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