about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

Okay, I do one thing wrong and where does it get me? IN A HOLE. WHERE NONE OF MY FRIENDS LIKE ME! I have 1 friend now. Her name is Ellie. See, I did one mistake to Sabrina. Now she is mad at me. Then all of her best friends which happen to be mine too hate me. (Sabrina, Amanda, Bella, Monica, Rosalie, and Samantha) What can I do to get my friends to like me again?

Tell them that it was all your fault. You made a mistake, admit to that. But maybe this isn't the first time that you've done it and they just got sick of it. I'm sure it'll be ok
Lizzy

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how do i stop people from calling me gay...i dont do anything gay....im not gay....for goodness sake i like a girl...(im a boy duh...) wut should i do....i dont want to be called that anymore....

Get with a girl. Don't just use a girl, ask out the girl that you like, and if she says no, then it will at least be less humiliating then being called gay. Make your relationship public
Lizzy

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Do you know of any exercises which can be done to tone your thighs which can easily be done a home?

A step works good. Use it slowly though, don't just run up and down it. Put some dictionaries under the step to make it higher and harder

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is this a good poem?

i made it up:

once there was a boy
he lived by the shore
he played with a toy
man, he was a bore!

That's cute. It doesn't say a lot though, you could turn it into a limerik.
Awesome Job
Lizzy

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When I click on my inbox, it says I have new questions, but then the number goes away. Does anybody know why?

I don't really know. It does that to mine to. I think they are trying to change the settings to it

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any have ideas for new poems?

Yeah, write about the thing that keeps you up at night. Write about the thing that makes you wanna gag but has some sort of story behind it. Do some free lance writing (write without thinking about it) I hope this helps!
Lizzy

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this time im going to bleed
i need to finish this deed
all this pain i kept inside
it will no longer hide
all this pain you put me through
now i say I HATE YOU
u tried to do the best for me
but why cant you see
im failing classes
i doubt any im passin
ive hurted for so long
i cant be strong
for this is my last
now ive passed....

That poem rocks. It says a lot of things about life. Good Job!
Lizzy

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I just saw my ex-crush a few days ago. I felt really bad, because I was SOOOOOOOOO in love with him. I liked him A LOT last year, and halfway through the year. I sort of acted like a total jerk towards him. I tried to talk to him all year, and he wouldn't talk to me. Can I still have hope, and ask for forgiveness?!?
Lily

duh! of course you can. Can i tell you something about junior high, people don't exactly pin things on you for over a week, unless you told him something that can affect the way that he thinks forever. Tell him that it was all your fault, even if it wasn't and that you would hate to lose a friend like that and you haven't stopped thinking about the terrible thing you did, even if it wasn't terrible. LYLAS
Lizzy

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when i met my partner things were great, we had sex as new lovers do, then i got pregnant with our daughter, and after the birth i gained some weight, our sex life flopped and it was about once a month if i was lucky, anyway weve now split up and ive tried my vibrator for pleasure, can you tell me if the gushing of fluid i experienced is normal i thought it was wee but it was a different fluid from that, i know women orgasm but ive never known this, can anyone help, also i didnt have pain when this happened it was pleasurable
thanks

You have a daughter now, right? Straighten up your priorities, think about your daughter before your partners. I think that it is important to raise her because when a mother is sexually active with someone other then her mother's husband or her father, she knows. Think about that and good luck. Anyway, you'll find the right guy, even if you weigh six hundred pounds.
Lizzy

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My 2 best guy friends are going away to college this summer. There is an age distance between both of us. I really have become close to both of them recently. I don't want to lose them, see one is going off to college somewhere around 20-35 miles away from here and the other is 3 and a half hours. I never want to lose them, how do I keep from being upset, and continue the friendship?

You can still be in touch very well with them. Apparently you are good with the computer, so use e-mail or IM; also, Grahmmbell did invent the phone over a century ago (hint hint) Good Luck with them
Lizzy

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I know 69 mans something gross but what? I've aske dmy friends and they are like you don't know?? BUt then they only know its something gross too. What is it?

The nine goes into the six, figure it out. The six and nine holes are heads

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Did you see where my sanity went? I need to catch it and sacrivice it to the Gods of Randomness.

I have not seen your sanity anywhere. If i find it i will tell you

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I like a boy. Jackson. He is cute. He likes me, too. I want to make something for him. WHAT? A friendship braclet?????????????? HELP!!!!!!!!


~~~~~~Crazy over Him

not a friendship bracelet. Don't give him anything that is for keepsake but give him your friendship. Take him out to a really nice place, whatever. Good luck hon!
Lizzy and Elle

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I am 12 and I would like to start babysitting. I have a neighbor who has a 6 year old granddaughter and I occasionally baby sit her for an hour or so. I'd like to have more clients (you could call them), but i don't want to have strangers calling me everything friday night. Any ideas?

If you want to start babysitting, you probably will babysit a lot of strangers, but it is not like they will be mass murderers or anything. Ask you mother to ask other mothers with young children to refer you. I hope everything works out for you.
Good Luck
Lizzy and Elle

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At school, there is always someone who makes fun of me.. Because of how I dress and how I act, and just because I like a certains tyle of music.
This kid always says you're a freak, and whyd o you ahve black nails, and one kid said that I should dress like this, because its cool, not hwo I dress, and I was liek whys hould it matter how I dress... sheesh, and he just kept saying it and syaing it.. and I dont have a question, Im sorry.. unless you guys wanna know, i cana dd some things.. Just im me or e-mail me!

If people won't talk to you because of the way you dress, they obviously aren't the type of people who you want to be friends with anyway. Someone will end up having a lot in common with you and talk to you.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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at my school dance i was dancing with this guy named sean he is really nice then we started to freak dance. i knw that is worng but i think he likes me also does he?

Well if he was freak dancing with you i think he just might like you. Just let him come to you, hard to get sounds good for this situation
Lizzy

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Ok, here it goes....

There is this kid, I dont know his name, and I know barely anythign about him, but to me he seems like a really nice person on how he acts with other people, and he is realllly cute, and they just switched our classes around because its half of the year,a nd he ended up in my class!! And Im so happy, but I mean I dont know him, and I dont think he will talk to me... I just dont know what to expect from him...
I just felt like letting it all out...

Have any comments?

I think you should just talk to him. I'm sure he will not mind and guys like girls with enough confidence to talk to them, whether you think he will talk to you or not. Remember, if he doesn't, it's his loss.
Lizzy

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how do you ask a guy out if you are a shy girl when it comes to asking guys out (or friends out)

Shy is a turn on for some guys. If you are shy, that is what some guys want, it gives people this mysterious thing. If a guy likes you, he'll like you for you and maybe for being shy. Hope this helps
Lizzy

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HAPPY VALENTINES DAY EVERYONE!

Thanks, you too!
Lizzy

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lizzy, why do sooooo many people think ecause your a goth(dresses in black, likes the music means you worship the devil??!! you said it yourself in one of the answers.i mean,i told my friend im Pagan,Gypsy,Wiccan,whatever you want to call it, and she flpped out, saying my soul was taken over by the devil.and since im a goth, she wont hang out with me anymore.why do religious people think like that??!!? grrrr!!!

Number one, goth does not have anything to do with style or music. As a matter of fact,it is a religion, or whatever wanna call it. It's not religious people who think that, it is everybody. To tell the truth, i really don't think you are gothic if you don't know the true meaning of it. Your friend is just probably trying to impress somebody by hanging out with blonde cheerleaders or whatever, she'll get over it and you will be better off without someone who can't exept you for who you want to be.
Good Luck
Lizzy

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